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Bought a land and built a nice house, only remaining ceiling and tiles.... Expanded my shop... And having good health by mercy of God

Omo na to sharply buy land at that place ooo... School Hostel loading... I am so happy for this news...


MY vision 2024 by the grace of God

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Oyo Town is blessed... I am omo Igbo ooo 042

My Hate for Niger state is beyond comparison, the state would have wrecked my life but thank God I ran away, I am praying for my uncles to receive sense and run too.
The economy of the state is poor. No security and business is wasting of time and effort

Hmm I will soon write my own

You want to go and learn yahoo abi, don't argue because you will soon meet friends that we teach you

What is BBF, how can federal government of Nigeria been promotion blue film, immorality and unclothedness?
Abeg I just came back from church.....

audububa:
stop giving people the wrong impression I'm from maitumbi and I'm alive..

You are alive because you are one of them....

This is the same Snelling Maitumbi my uncle wanted to find shop for me to do business, that ghetto place that is always the epicenter of crime and fighting...
Thank God I took decision to far away Oyo.....
North no longer safe......

Maitumbi is very dangerous area....

My problem is why yoruba palm oil always smelling while cooking?

Chai iiiiiii

IPOB egbu go ya oooooo

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:


We can see the real illiterate person here between you and Northerners.
See English sef Lagos and Ibadan 'are' not 'is'
You start a sentence with capital letter not small letter. Shey you grab?
A good write-up is also expected to be well punctuated.
Proper nouns should be started with capital letters too. Ibadan,New Yolk and Ibo not ibadan,new yolk and ibo It irritates me to note that I share Nigeria with stark illiterates like you who also doubled as tribalistic bigots.


You are just an illiterate,dear. I don't need to argue with an illiterate.Don't thank me for the lectures.

Chai Oluseyi come carry ur illiterate brother, one Omo Igbo has just crushed him here.......
I saw one Afonjas who wrote "Sup for rent" I was like which Sup? Not knowing they meant Shop for rent....

Badonasty:


All northern states except Niger and fct

But minna is cheap now, abi which Niger are you talking about?

Very bad

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Richy4:
@ OP I wish I got something tangible to say to ease your pain... I can see that you wrote this from the heart.....I wish Nigeria is ripe enough as a country to handle those suffering from substance abuse.....

Anyone who can read between the lines would know that you were proud of his smartness and his sense of business acumen ... but it is unfortunate that this whole thing is happening... I have never been close and personal with an alcoholic... but do u think that he was trying to suppress something... Pains due to family shabby treatment, loss of friend, Business or something.... I have heard of intervention...maybe you guys should try it...

It might sound oyiboish.. but it might work ( that's a way by which real friends of the said person comes to his house wrote something nice about the person... how the person has helped them in the past...His past positive impact... and how his present situation is affecting you as friends and family ...) If u wanna do it, then I suggest you look for those that your dad respects... Those he held with high esteem..10 people is enought. ...You his kids should also write an emotional stuffs on how you missed your dad and you want him back... no negative things or confrontation on intervention..always things from the heart ..do it on the day he is sober.. Good luck man

Hmm, I wish words could solve his problem, I am a guy but I possess a wife character, despite have younger siblings, at my age of 24, I do wash his clothes each time I am washing, just to see him neat, because he hardly even care about his neatness.

In of what you said, despite that Nigeria is not rosy to anyone again, I can't ing him having any past experiences that could have pushed him into alcoholic, it is not a new thing, I have always known my Dad as a drunkard. The only difference now is that he has become more violent than ever...

All the little money he makes automatically goes for drinks and cigarettes.

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Abcruz:
I understand how you feel. His problem is not a closed case, if you will constantly pray for him. If JESUS could make Paul have a change of heart, HE is capable of making your father have a change of mind.

But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”--Matthew 19:26

Thanks, I will continue praying for him, maybe devil saw that he have good future and want to end him with alcohol.
Anything he do, always earned him huge money but alcohol always takes everything back almost instantly....

Chubhie:

Your pops is basically showing symptoms of a root cause. Start working on the root cause if you care enough

Root cause? Like what, spiritual realm?

I always pray for him, my next plan is to tell my pastor, mum visited many men of God and the stories are always channeled in such that they will end up putting more fear in the issue... And last last give you large bill to do one thing or the other.

Originalsly:


Bro... you need to understand what it really means to be addicted. Your dad is an alcoholic period. He has to make that decision to get off alcohol... or he has to be locked up. Some people are talking detox.... which is pretty much the same as making him sober ...which he is at times...then what? He must drink... drinks come first... before food or family... if he has to choose to spend his last N5K to buy food for your younger siblings or they will stave to death.... or to buy alcohol... he will buy alcohol.... sense or nonsense... that is the nature of an addiction. After alcohol... comes cigarettes... that's another addiction... so the family is maybe now #3 on his list of most important. What can you do?...not much.
I do understand the threats of violence and abuse. On that you have to challenge him...especially if you are grown.... physically tough enough for him to have doubts if he can manhandle you. Threats do work. You already hung a threat over his head on if he harms your mom. Hang another.... if he continues to harass them ... you will have no choice than to do what you have to do.... even if it means getting your street urchin friends to do the needful. Let him figure what that means. You wouldn't want to wait until he kills your mom to take action. Threats do put them in check.
My former co worker was an alcoholic.... drinks before coming to work... drinks again before starting... by evening he is high..... despite having undergone several alcoholics counselling programmes.... despite having open heart surgery and told to keep off alcohol. He told me I can't understand what it means to be an alcoholic. His life came to a sudden end.... heart attack.

Thanks Bros, but very unfortunate, I have done all this before, to the extent of locking my Dad in one room at about 1am, he said none of us will sleep that night, all this things happened this December - January.
You can't imagine ur dad telling you, ur mum and siblings to leave house for him at 2 am. To where, you can't imagine him shouting on top of his voice and that dead hour... Several time mum left our house to her dad's place, at her age...
We don't even ask him to provide for the family but to stop violent.

I don't think there are about 5 people like him in Nigeria with this kind of character.
You can't imagine my dad stoning my mum and everyone, and funny it will be, if you asked him what is the issue believe me he will start telling you stories of what happened 5 years ago. He will tell you how the did not bring food on time, how they did not do this or that....
The worst is that, he can't even buy common fish for soup but we eat daily from whatever mom cooked.
People said we should remove our heart from him and allow him to live his life.

BUT my dad is still young and healthy to be lost in the cold hand of alcoholism.

The only lessons I learned from his condition is to hate alcohol with great ion....

Thanks for your contributions.

sisisioge:
In the spirit of the festive, just acknowledge that your dad's case is almost past redemption. Simply try to manage him until the bubble burst...it will soon burst I hope not in your faces.

I baba Friday. He was a small earner but a big drinker. He met his waterloo on the highway one cold night when he was drunk, as usual. Well, Iya Friday got her peace...children Fridays got theirs too. It is well...AAA sef can't help him.

God forbid, my Dad will not die because, despite his condition I still loved him dearly and pray for him daily. By the grace of God, he will be healed and become a good testimony....

Why are you wicked?

Shibaraba:
You my friend are a very stupid son and you all probably pushed him to the alcohol you complain about. For if you can come here to rant about him to total strangers imagine what the man must have heard. You dare threaten your dad. You kolo?.
Dude probably worked his whole youth for you guys and when una don tax am finish una come dey say he dey drink. Why he no go drink when thinking of his losses coupled with una nagging no go comot for him head.

Tales like this makes me wanna shenk my children. As in after my suffering and hustles one of them go come dey talk say he go lash me.

Behave boy. Talk to old man. If he wan drink follow am go there. He will reduce it. Be his pal. And his innermost painment will be revealed to you.

Bro, even on his youthful age he drinks but not violent as it is now, besides we never done anything that might have pushed him into alcoholism.

Hello everyone,
I am the first son of my family. My Dad is addicted to Drinks and cigarettes.
Not that he drinks is the problem, but he becomes violent and talks almost non-stop each time he is drunk..
Any money that came to his way will never solve any of his problem, he don't even buy food and eat for himself, and he will come home and eats 3 times daily. My poor Mum is the only person providing for the family. And the worst is that he never let her have peace of mind.

My Dad used to be rich before he married my mum, he owns car then (first in our village). When tv was still not everywhere, he was the first then to owns those things.

He grow up in Lagos despite not educated but he loved us then when we are still growing up, only this alcoholism that soiled his character.
Every money he made from Lagos, as soon as he arrived home, all we be spent on alcoholic.

It has gotten worst, as a first son, I have to pay money to the village town crier to announce to them to stop selling drinks to him, he is now looking so perl due to too much alcohol and smoke.

Several time we left home for him at night whenever he became violent.
I have called family people and they are almost tired of his issue.
Any time he drunk, he became violent and can use any weapons that he see.

I have been praying for him, because it seems not ordinary, he is blessed in making money.

I when we are small, my Dad made enough money then that would have built a good duplex, but if not for my mom through farm work, the building would have not been completed.

I have told him that I will act madly any day he beat my Mom.
My mother is staying because of us her children..

I loved my Dad so much, I have talked to him, petted him and buy gift sometimes for him but he always go back to drink.
Any time he is not drunk, you will hardly know he is violent.

Pls help me before it goes out of hand.
I wish I have established, I would have taken my mum with me atleast for some times.
But I was just settled for apprenticeship and have not start up business..
My Dad's character was the reason I left home at 14 for apprenticeship with all the hard labour's, just to stay away from his ugly attitude..
I wish I could explain more the pains my younger siblings are ing through at home.... I weep always when I my dad.
I am not at home right now, but I already knew what my mom and little ones will be ing through.


................ Pls help a brother, tears.......
Mynd44, lalasticlala, pls help

Hmmm, what is all this?
Look at this beautiful damsel, now disabled,

God have mercy on us...

A deo of two Nigerian women fighting dirty in public, each yanking at least one piece of clothing material off the other’s body, is currently trending on social media.
Two other women were captured fighting in the video, but theirs was less dramatic and didn’t involve the ripping off of clothes.
According to popular social media , kayode Ogundmisi, who shared the video on his social media s, the incident occurred in Stratford, London.
“Yoruba Women Gang War escalates in London as 'Omo Ewe' Esabod gang take on 'Omo Aiye' Abike Jagaban in Stratford London street battle on Facebook live,” he wrote.

Watch the video here

The link of the video is in the website

While one of the main fighters lost her top and brassiere and had a good-natured man to thank for blocking her naked chest region from the view of the camera, the other’s top was lifted to reveal her cleavage to the camera. The women, including many others nearby, were heard cursing in Yoruba.
The Police eventually came in to find out what happened, but the fight had already died down by then.

I don't know how to post the video but the link is in the website..
Source : https://www.dailyinfo.ga/2019/03/video-two-edo-women-strip-each-other.html?m=1

Just happening now in Obeagu, a community in Agwu LGA of Enugu state.
A business man by name Fidelis Onyemaechi, popularly known as "Dollars" was nearly lynched by the community for Kidnapping a 9 years old boy for ritual purpose.
He was seriously beaten and paraded unclad.
He was caught in his Lexus SUV by a neighbor who noticed suspicious movements of him and his gangs.
The innocent poor child was blind folded and was taking to an unknown location before the suspect was apprehended.
He confessed that he wanted to use him for ritual.
It took the intervention of the traditional ruler of Obeagu to save his life as the youths are already planning to take justice into their hands..
This are the image we got from the scene.
More details and videos later ..
Source : http://www.dailyinfo.ga/2018/07/graphic-images-of-business-man-nearly.html?m=1

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