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So you want to impregnate her and leave her when she is 6 months gone as punishment? Do some people think at all?

If you generalise that women are senseless, does that include your mother and all females on your household?




quote author=justosee post=102923029]Women are truly senseless. They celebrate their mother's day every month but you hardly see a man coming on social media to cry.
Father's Day was a day meant to celebrate fathers but they always end up making it all about themselves.[/quote]

Tope Alabi has been in and out of scandals lately. She needs to cool down and be careful. After the oniduro saga, there's another video of her French kissing her husband. Fine, it's her husband but she shouldn't have done that in the public and yes I know she's human but some things are better not done in public. She needs her advisers to caution her o. The video irritated me when I watched it sha. May God be her guide.

Thought I was the only one that noticed o

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What achievements sir? We still drill boreholes with our monies to get water, we still buy generator and fuel every day for electricity,security is still a major challenge. Those are basic amenities that make life easy. Majority still don't have them Mr President

If truly he made this statement, why didn't he say it when he was campaigning for 2nd term?

The way some men or guys think sometimes amazes me. So nobody should marry single mothers abi? Fact remains that some single mothers are far better than some of your so called single ladies. Another fact is that not all single mothers are wretched and plan to inherit their spouse's properties, some single mothers are even richer than the men they want to remarry. So deal with issues generally and not based on particular cases that you know that ended badly. Some end really great and well.
Now to the issue of adoption, I don't see anything wrong in adopting her child, there's nothing binding in law that the man should be financially responsible for the child neither is the woman asking for that. She might want a change of name for different reasons. If they want to travel out of the country as a family for example, the child having a different surname will pose a problem and to avoid criticism or the child feeling out of place when they all grow up. Another point is that the man and his family are not even interested in the child so what's the point keeping their name?
Let us stop stigmatizing single mothers, no woman wishes to be in that situation. There are single fathers too who remarry, I'm sure they never planned for their lives to be that way. A lot of men/women are victims of horrible relationships and marriages with pretenders, they would have been deep into the relationship/marriage before discovering they made a grave mistake. You that you are judging today, you never know what will befall you maritally which will not be your fault. Even pastors divorce and remarry. STOP THE STIGMATISATION ESP. TOWARDS WOMEN!

Sorry about the situation but honestly you were not smart about it. Couldn't you have just told him the thing started after the delivery of your kids and you both will find out the problem together. It's not Every thing you tell men because they blame you for everything and see themselves as saints or the perfect ones. Thank God you have 3 children from your pregnancy, God was really merciful to you. I hope you learn not to tell your spouse everything. A lady told her husband to be during their nonsense confession time that she did abortion 12times before marriage and till today he spites her with it even though he also told the lady he had slept with a married woman before and she never used it against him. Please ladies be smart. Treat situations depending on the circumstance, I'm not advising you to marry under false pretence e.g a lady who doesn't have a womb or.knows she can't bear kids pls don't deceive the man o

Don't mind her, I don't know your status but I know if you are very rich, have a good job, look good etc she will be over ready. She is just taking her time to pick the best out of the numerous toasters. Hope she won't later have to pray on mountains before getting a husband or true love.....You can stick around her if your claim of loving her is true

Thanks to everyone for the responses. I don't have reasons to lie. I don't intend to relocate to the US. I have a good job here in Nigeria. The first time I went to the US, the officer at Abu Dhabi where we had our layover asked me of my ex hbands where about and I said I didn't know. He then confirmed to me that he got in on so so so date. I dont know if he recorded my statement of not knowing his whereabout. As at that time he had not overstayed so we were allowed in. The 2nd time I travelled, he had overstayed and I went to the US and came back after 3 weeks. If I wanted to remain in the US, I wouldn't have come back the 2nd time. Me not reporting me is ignorance, I didn't know it could affect me and my child's renewal in any way. I pray for God's mercy. I was just a victim of a bad marriage. A marriage I entered with good intent not knowing the other party had ulterior motive. Thanks once again everyone.

My husband and I got a family tourist visa with our child and he absconded to the US thereafter leaving us in Nigeria. I traveled to the USA twice with the same visa and came back. The 1st time I went with my baby and the 2nd time, I went alone. However the visa has expired I tried renewing me and my son''s visa using the drop box but I was asked to come for an interview. What are my chances of getting the visa? My ex-hubby doesn't us anymore and I don't know what he has been up to over there. What likely questions will I be asked at the interview?

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