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ghostmist:
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may no woman i knw ever consider a man like you

may u marry a strong headed, disobedient, irrational, illogical woman

may your home be a battle field, a ridicule, nd scorn of the whole world

Amen Amen!

All these just because he stated his opinion about how he wants his home to be??

I for one, I grew up with my mum running the domestic affairs. I never saw her complain or ask my dad to come and help her inside the kitchen.

Beans Was The First food I learnt how to cook in my undergraduate days. I had my sis text me the recipe, and I followed it religiously. now, I can rival most women in the kitchen. however, I would still prefer my wife to be handling the domestic affairs without haranguing me for help like as if she's handicapped.

what is it with most girls these days and laziness...


in the early stages of our romance, I may decide to engage in one of these "supposedly" romantic acts, just so she knows that I can very well take care of my self if she starts acting up.

LuvU2:

may no woman i knw ever consider a man like you
may u marry a strong headed, disobedient, irrational, illogical woman
may your home be a battle field, a ridicule, nd scorn of the whole world
Amen Amen!

Yunus2012:


Please reconcile your claim with the fact that in every of those cities , Christians are allowed to their churches. There are many churches as there as christian denominations. Each one is allowed to build his church. For example in Maiduguri where I schooled, there are up to 60 major churches in the capital.

In contrast however, IMO state that is considered to be free has only 1 mosque in the whole of the capital. And its not because the moslems do not want to build mosques. If allowed just the corp posted to the state will do this.

Yet the south Easterners GI to other regions. And want to claim lord there.

you're even lucky that you guys were allowed to build one mosque...


rubbish!

grandlexuz:


That is where compromise plays a big role my brother. Every man is scared of that day when he finally catches his woman with another. It is unthinkable to many men. However when it finally happens it burns down your pride and puts you to the floor..Lol My first marriage ended after I found out the woman I could swear for was being banged by an elderly man. It was the biggest shock of my life. However I was willing to forgive her. It was the shame and guilt that took her out though! My brother man no die man no rotten.

but why are women like this??

the day I caught my ex I also could have sworn that she would never do something like that.

Techiekingee:
And those girls dat rejected him bk den wil b lyk "had i known"

that's what they always end up saying. even the ones reading this will still end up making the same mistake.

tundejoel1990:
I tire o dis blog pple self dy just dey hype hype tins.....wen e begin dy play for man city wey e one dy earn 85k pounds weekly

you and the person you quoted are not up to date.

banio:
Men marry with the mind of looking out and eventually getting a divorce. Women marry to love and to live their years with their husband and children.
Op please forgive your wife.

yet women file for divorce 70% of the time??

tell yourself the truth.

Ichliebedich:
8 pages of Bad mouthing Nigerian women . Nairaland guys una weldone o

Ja, ich liebe dich so sehr.

wie geht's?


sprechen sie Deutsch?

Pidggin:


It doesn't mean you are divorced. What do you want? If you still want the marriage why not involve people she respects. She can't just decide the marriage is over, tell her parents and relatives what she is doing

what kind of annoying advice is this?

just kukuma tell him to go on all fours and grovel like a dog, all because he wants to stay married to someone who doesn't want to stay married to him.


OP, I don't care what you're plans are or what you intend to do, but never you ever take that woman back. accept that you made a huge mistake by choosing the wrong spouse. that girl was never ready for marriage.

All dis small children sef!


When you cannot submit and show unconditional respect to your husband that you're seeing, how then are you going to show respect and submit to the Jesus that you cannot see??

UIA04:
Irony of life
Jayz married a very beautiful woman so at least his kids can have good looks
His first daughter comes out looking exactly like him

Thewrath:

No oh,don't follow the situation,countinue shouting ipob up and down,you hear..nonsense!

it's like the situation has been following him all this while...

malvisguy212:
Dirty mind you've got. The song of solomon is about a man and his wife. The man approach the woman but she refuse because she is afraid of stranger, but as time went by, she finally understand the man and fell in love with him. In the next verse, the man is describing the body of his wife and what make him happy. It is because your mind is corrupted that why you see it the other way round. The man is NOT talking about women. The CONTEXT is about A MAN AND HIS WIFE. Thank but no thank from were you learn this bad moral behaviour.

you contradict yourself...


is the wife not a woman?

see the kind of calamity AFONJAS brought upon Nigeria all in a bid to spite the igbos...

make una continue, until y'all acknowledge that the men from the east are wise, una never see anything.

Afonjas with their crude agbero ways..
just imagine...

Doghari:


That's the problem you feudal muslims have, you make buhari feel like a ruler not a leader-the nemesis of his problem, and the real precursor of his downfall.

Goodluck with trying to bully Igbos and expect them to role on the floor for your Buhari. I wish you success on that.

when we tell them that we are an egalitarian people, they feel we are just speaking grammar.


They Are yet to understand the independent, unbowed, unbent and unbroken attitude of the Igbos.


they think we are like them that just roll over and kiss ass anyhow.

ificatchmodeh:
Bubu the country is drifting..insecurity and crime rate on the increase,please do something..
We no dey wail again..na beg we dey beg naa.

Oga, Shebi it's when somebody knows what to do that the person will now do it??

what then happens when the person has no clue whatsoever on what is required of him to do??

this is the dilemma we've found ourselves in.

brainpulse:
They looked like flat heads

they are your fellow afonjas....

don't deny Your Own.

thekingisback:
A slap or two is definitely the solution. If you're not willing to do that, then I'll suggest you give her the silent treatment.

you're a good man...

God knows I can't predict what would happen after that spit.


that is definitely the lowest of lows. how she could resort to fighting this dirty beats me. especially for someone who professes to love you.


I've never been spat on my entire life. it would take divine intervention for me not to kill her that night.


As for me the marriage is over.


OP just better watch your back.... that lady can snuff the life out of you without any qualms.

larryUG:

D rate at which guys butt lick ladies here is alarming.

my broda, sometimes one begins to wonder if girls don finish for real world...

it's way easier getting a girl offline than online.

Sorry for your loss bro.... but, like the good book says "Wisdom is profitable to direct "

with about 200K or less, you would have been able to construct something that shares a close semblance to a proper fishpond.

jaywhoco:
you self! From injoo to gionee... na curse.

try Gionee, then come back and give your testimony...

maxwell60:
Gionee, Tecno,Innjoo Infinix they are all full of shit. they are just affordable they are not durable.

Bro, kindly remove Gionee from that ignominious list.


Thanks!

You sef, you come across like one who doesn't have her acts together...


tell your friend to buy gionee next time...

APCer:

Are you okay? Boko haram emerged in his regime and he couldnt do sh!t!. Even as at when Buhari took over they were still detonation bombs and killing people to the extent that some of you started mocking us.

Gej was just too useless and incompetent to do anything meaningful for Nigeria. Thank God he has been kicked out

So, buhari is the one doing something meaningful for Nigeria?



you need to bury your head in shame.

amaechi1:
I will be an act of irresponsibility if I fail to acknowledge the mercy of God in Nigeria. Secondly, we may be complaining about the economy, but we have taken time to reflect on those days when boko hara was running riot. One day, one bomb. To the extent they got closer to Aso rock and people where living in fear. What would have happened if Boko haram where not cut to size by God through this istration. If God had allowed things to degenerate like what we have in Syria, Mali, Iraq, just to mention a few. Would we still be lamenting our economy or praying for safety first?

In summary, let encourage everyone not to totally look their way, but this istration to get the economy back like in the day of Pre-oil boom.

God bless Nigeria.

Stop trying to be politically correct.... say the fvcking truth.


GEJ was about wiping them out already....

rman:
Guys would stop drmanding for sex if girls stop being emotional and financial burdens.

They expect the bf to recharge their phones, call them, sponsor birthrdays, take them out to movies , eateries, buy shoes, cloth etc however all she has to do is be there to enjoy..majority offer nothing.

At a point, the boy realises, if she leaves, money spent is down the drain. And the chances of girls leaving u is very high, especially when they are still young. They rarely up the opportunity to upgrade their BFs..

Demand for sex is just a consolation for the guys..a guy that is genuinely in love with u will still hurt when u leave,even when he has slept with u.

So a more balanced relationship is what will dowse the tension for sex..buy him gifts, genuine ones not boxers. Call him up and take him out and be responsible for the cost sometimes. Sponsor his brithdays, yes , it won't kill u. And remind him of how lucky u are to have him in your life..He may still want sex but won't ne angry if u refuse.

Lastly, true love is genuinely unconditional. However, setting conditions ensures no one gets hurt or cheated. Girls want true love, if that is true, sex is an important ingredient of true love. The moment u do not want to do that, then u have accepted reality and stepped out of fantasy land. There is no unconditional love.

most of our girls are just double faced hypocrites.

always receiving and never giving.

Their greed and selfishness would never allow them to think in that direction.

Capableben:
Hmmmmmm... This doesn't concern me much.


anyway, I'd be releasing my single titled My Nation on or before the 1st day of October. Nairalanders, anticipate hard!

why not use Nigerian skyline in that your album cover??

and yet you titled it "my nation " ...

ISpiksDaTroof:


Im starting to think your fellow countrymen are right and a lot of your people might truly be insane. Well, maybe insane is not the right word, most of you might just be suffering from PTSD, trauma or some kind of affliction that leads to severe paranoia because I do not see how tribe came into the issue of a man that has been disbarred insisting that he gets paid as a lawyer.

Did you even bother to read up about his former criminal past or that just doesn't matter to you because its ok in the eyes of Nigerian society to be a bloody criminal?

Mr, you need to take several seats...

how about you reading up on how the said man has single handedly pursued the case, using his own funds. He is simply asking the corrupt Nigerian government to honour an agreement reached with him... since he worked his ass off to get them to repatriate the money to Nigeria, then pay him his fvcking money.



Whenever most of you hear "IGBO" or Igbo sounding names, logic goes out the window.