NewStats: 3,264,892 , 8,185,020 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 05:54 PM 3q345h

LordGuru1:
Big Lie! Friendship may come before Courtship, NOT dating. Dating is pure satanic, sex is the primary thing on the minds of those dating.

OP thanks so much. Jesus said they shall hate sound doctrine and resist truth, that's why they stoned Stephen in the Bible. He also said "he that hath an ear let him hear" because he knows that many do not have real ear to repentance. You are indeed a great blessing to humanity. May God increase your anointing in Jesus name.
Truth is always very bitter, we all know that it is hard to have boyfriend/girlfriend without having sex. You want a life partner? Pray God to guide you, locate the one you love and start Courtship that leads to Marriage. Dating does not have Marriage in view, when marriage is the focus it is called holy Courtship.

You are an idiot.

All these virtue signalling won't change crap. Economics would always win in the end.

In Big 2019, somebody somewhere is claiming that this fella with no known source of income empowered 36,000 people.

Why do we overdo things too much in this country? I know it's profitable to lick ass but respect our intelligence na.

Nzeh12:
Sis, I don't know how spiritual you are, but I believe in the potency of prayers. Take this issue to God in prayers and Fasting, battle with the word of God. Then keep confronting him, not violently.

God has got you, you just need to present your case to him

what is this? lol

While your case is done and dusted there are lessons in here for females. Learn from her bad decisions.

gidgiddy:
It will be hard to change the name because the Ijaws and Ogoni's of Rivers state will see it that the city being "Igbonised". But it should be changed

because ikwerre man go siddon and allow you name him city igweocha lmfao. Woodhead.

Intelligence is heriditary, but it's all useless in an environment that doesn't it. One can be genetically predisposed to understand complex analytics but the wrong environment stunts his development.

You enabled this behaviour. It's all your fault. Now you know this, what are you going to do? Put a ring on her as the weak man that she sees you as or learn your lesson and change your ways in your next relationship?

Unlike a woman who simply is, a man must become. And every man thinks of himself as the perfect embodiment of the term "man". It's what makes him wake up and ready to slay dragons. It is his primary source of motivation.

"The male ego" is simply the intrinsic need to feel like kings (even if he's not) and hurting a man's ego is simply reminding him that he is no king (that they're greater men) and denying him recognition for his achievements in turn starving him of the highest validation he needs.

If he can't be recognised for being "THE MAN". Then he is no man at all.

In 2019 is this really news worthy? "First Black Woman", " First Black Man" yada yada all for clout. Your skin colour doesn't make you special, you chose a field and decided to get a doctorate, you were not stopped or oppressed or forced against it. You are just as equal as the rest of all other PhD holders in your set. A great personal achievement but don't use identity as a clout chasing card.

Imagine crying Racismo when they were outscored and dominated. These Cameroonians were a big disgrace to the entire continent, nothing screams dumb than reacting the way they did when VAR didn't go their way. It's an emotional sport, but have sense at least.

lol

Chrismarvel:
i bought it from someone and I don't know if the person have update it, but anytime I try to update it. it always tell me am using the latest version

Reckon the update was what caused the malfunction. Would advise you to get the stock ROM from and flash the device.

Chrismarvel:
pls bro
have you found any solution
cos am having the same problem

Did you update your device recently?

All these could have been avoided with proper parenting. Best to cut your losses, move on and probably pray for her safety daily (if prayer is your thing). There's really nothing you can do anymore, she controls her destiny.

This fraud played against guys that trained twice a week and did coke at night.

kimbraa:
Nothing is subjective here. Have you ever wondered why it's so hard for any Nigerian musician to win a Grammy?

"If a good musician is one that makes a good music", then what's termed a 'A good song/music?' you people think it's about cooking some beat on repetitive gibberish about Sex, ass, money, drugs, and girls? Abeg, go to music schools, master your voices, learn how to write good music before you can start singing, 'till then, we don't know music. We do crap!

The above bolded should pretty much sum up your lazy point.

50 million IGBO Jews from where?. Its obvious Mr Kanu is just telling the Israeli's what they want to hear. Make them feel special in exchange for food and protection. A common tactics I must say.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

visit Nofap.com and go on from there. Listening to advise from people who say you should just limit your self-service time is a complete waste of time. It's like giving a heroine addict a time table to get high, it just doesn't work. Addiction and spontaneity goes in tandem. Positive thoughts and what not won't even do much help, truth is you need counseling and help. NoFap.com is like an AA group for ex/current addicts. Time, determination, mental strength and God is all what you need and I am sure you can conquer it. Good luck brother.

This "Sweet Boy" tag is the most cringe-worthy thing i've seen on Internet Nigeria this week.

Did they just kill the main character on Bodyguard?

Wait, I thought this was one of those Nairaland stories. I was even getting my popcorn ready.

Elder001:


Your stupidity ehn..

Brings me closer to which girls? how many Nigerian girls even know if there's something called feminism?

I don't know why misogynists are saying bullshît on this thread, I directed my post at women not men.

PS, I'm married.

I want to insult you but it'd be a waste of time so let me compartmentalize my thoughts.

1). You are a beta male.
2). You have no idea what Feminism is all about
3). You are your wife's bitch.
4). My condolence to your wife for picking a soy like you.
5). You learnt the word "Misogynist" recently.
6). You sound like a sex offender with latent homosexual feelings.

Elder001:


First of all, I don't ask for money from men.

Secondly, I'm a man.

I'm not the cause of your frustration in life.

I'm not surprised a Misogynistic pig is angry at my thread.

Beta male with no sex life hoping being a feminist brings him closer to girls throwing the word "Misogynistic" around without context? Can't say I am surprised.

The Israelites never prayed for their territorial enemies. Earlier you realise the war out there is Eat or be Eaten the better for you. Spiritual intelligence is rare I must say.

gidgiddy:
People should rise up and condemn this clear sign of exrar-judicial killing. It is really disgusting!

Nobody tortures a dead person, so when you see signs of torture such as the bruises on the 4 guys, you know that they were captured alive and tortured to death. One of them even has a bandage around his leg where he was shot which shows that he was captured alive and kept to bleed to death

It is only in a barbaric country that security forces of a country still engage in murdering criminal suspects they capture then parade the bodies in hope of getting cheap popularity

Who gassed this clown?

That German team is just pre-intimacy and no intercourse. Not surprised at all.

Confiman:
Please this might be a little lengthy but bear with me, everything here is needed to get the story out and ask my questions. Thank you.

This will go down as one of the most embarrassing moments of my life and I'm deeply confused. But before I go on, I'd love a quick intro.

I just created this moniker to chronicle all of my confusions and to feel free asking for help without any of my friends here tracing them to me. I'm 22 and a serving Corp member. I'm a hustler and I can say I'm doing fairly well for a Corp member.

I am still a "virgin" iff that term can be loosely applied to someone who masturbates. I'm deeply disturbed by my masturbation, but that is not the purpose of this thread.

I recently met a girl - also a Corp member - whom I'm really, really fond of. However, I strongly believe that sex is for marriage (I'm a devoted Christian) and so I have always stayed away from it. With this girl tho, we get frisky a lot. I shared my first kiss with her, and we've since gotten more intimate than I'm usually comfortable with. Sadly, that doesn't help my desire to stop masturbation as I always do that after making out with her. When doing so, I imagine all we had done and it gets me off.

However, this is where it gets embarrassing. When making out with her she sometimes gives me a head. Despite all of her efforts tho (and she is sincerely really good), I can't get myself to remain aroused. No, my hands don't give me half the sensations I get from her mouth, but it still doesn't matter as I just can't remain aroused enough to get off as is the case when I'm by myself.

Today was the very worst as I kept shrinking rather than edging towards release. It angers her cos she believes I don't want her, or how else does she explain it? She feels if I wanted her as much as she wanted me that it would be different. I know my conscience pricks me while we're at it but I don't know if that is the cause. She says I think too much about it... but I can't help the thoughts. Now I'm torn.

I need to know just two things:
1. Is it my 'plenty thinking' that's hindering me when with her? I've already put away most of my inhibitions to get that far with her, but I can't seem to go further. And I don't really think I want to.
2. How can I tell her to take away the sexual edge of the relationship without coming across as offensive, and without confirming her belief that I don't want her?

P.S: Before you begin bashing the lady, note that she is also a virgin. Her vagina is still very much sealed. I doubted that at first, but I've seen it and... So I know. I don't want to lose her but I don't want to go so far either...

Try NoFap.com and change your life, being a chronic self-servicer without first hand sexual experience has affected you. Its time to crave the warmth of a woman and not your hands. Beating masturbation is the only way forward.

sonofthunder:

you are most likely browsing from a social bundle. same with the other nairalander above.

Your commitment to being petty is noticed good friend but let's leave the replies to those who can read shall we? Its a bit of a serious issue.

GeniusDavid:

The only network that browse and on all browsers with the phone is MTN and I had to configure it manually ie. IP address, Port etc. For the likes of Glo and Airtel Opera Mini is the only browser that works and It doesn't except when I use a VPN.

tafat:
try ing other browsers from playstore or you could collect from some one using xender

I have got chrome and Firefox on my phone.

sureinfo:
on which device? the tecno k7? try ing chrome from playstore.

The only network that browse and on all browsers with the phone is MTN and I had to configure it manually ie. IP address, Port etc. For the likes of Glo and Airtel Opera Mini is the only browser that works and It doesn't except when I use a VPN.