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Luvlgenius:

love is love and beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

But to be sincere, almost all Nigerian men are the same tribe or no tribe

A typical nigerian woman, you can never understand them or what they are saying. What exactly is "love is love"
or "Nigerian men are the same tribe or no tribe".

@poster
My dear just try and avoid him. I can stay away from him for a while and within this period try and make your self believe the fact that it is over between the two and you can actually live without him.

Personally i don't think someone tribe has got any thing to do their character. Especially now these days when we all try to behave like "oyibos".
But like we know: legend has it that akwa ibom girls are the bombest.

My dear, I think you should take time to decide what you really want. Cos if like you said he makes you you dad and the hell he put you through, then i sincerely think that's some thing that you cant live with. So try and make him understand how he makes you feel when does things like that and give some weeks. after which If you stll do not see any improvement leave him for good. Because no matter how much you love him and how great a guy he is, for the fact that he makes bad about yourself then he is not worth being with.

@ poster.
It's one of two things. Its either she doesnt want someone to know that she is dating you (if that's even the case. Cos you might just be assuming that you guys are dating) or You got her angry and then she deleted your number. Either you are f**ked dude.

@frozennose
That's better.
Don't ever let any guy treat you like trash. As if your entire life revolves around him. You know they can behave like assholes some times.
Oops almost forgot that I'm a guy.  

!amebo no1:

all this one is story, i said you are desperate, i mean which young gurl will take all these from one man, a man that will take a ring today and bring it back tomorrow, is he the only one with anger issue?

If i say your so called fiance is a kid, i will be putting mildly, he is a prematured-confused-not worth-being-called-a -man, man

I'm sure if you misplace the ring, he will ask you to give him his sperm or your lifeback

Yepa: FLAWLESS VICTORY - Amebo WINS!!!

frozennose:

My dear am not desperate

Am young and 've turned down several marriage proposals i just believe some people have bad orientation from family,friends or past experiences about relationships and marriage.

I believe people should be given the chance to grow up to become better partners by advicing them to attend marriage counselling and reading books on relationships.

I know he wants to get married and settle down,yet it won't be a bad ideal if he learns more about it,hence my proposing the six months counselling.

The most important thing here is that he has accepted the fact that he's quick to anger he knows he has a problem and is ready to work at it.

My dear, open your eyes now that you still can. Before you turn to a punching bag later. The guy has a serious issue. Leave him now that you have not made any commitment or risk spending the rest of your life with IRON MIKE TYSON. If you like make you dey there dey dull yourself

Gabry:

I wish guys could have ladies whom doesnt wear clothes like they need to show to the world what they had for breakfast, lunch and dinner all one go! ABEG! Today Ive seen many guys walking with their gf's whom dresses like an oversize meatloaf !


Ok guys, back to topic! Am listening from this angle.

@Gabry
Please stay off drugs. Cos you didn't make any sense at all.

angelhair:

Give him his ring and tell him to go f**k himself. You don't need his sorry a** in your life. He probably is reconsidering his proposal, tell him to get lost.

I Totally agree.

@ poster
wait o, na topic be this?

What I want is very simply: One that's a perfect lady outside, but a total freak in the bedroom.

OBVIOUS:

I hold the strong belief that a mature man who loves a woman will love her regardless of her past.

@ebonyeye.
Maybe you two should get a room.

@iice, grammer, more textbook suggestions. You really need to give this guy a more practical solution you know cos all this fancy use of works will only make things more complicated. Cos seriously I can't seem to get the bottom line of it all: Mystical, mysterious, mistify

@poster
Read between the lines of my initial comment and you will get its true meaning. Just dont start thinking that the problem is entirely from you. Think of what all the girls had in common (character wise that is) and what they did that turned down the heat. Those are the things you should look out for in yur next relationship.

@wale.star
Chai, this guy na where you hear that proverb.
@kechukwu
So if you no want the thing wen Wale.star talk to happen, make you think twice o. Or come to think of am self, you might enjoy am - so go for it

Kechukwu:

i luv this chic am talking abt here. Her name is JOY and and i dnt think i can find much joy in Lagos frm any gal now. Dnt mind me when you are in luv u act like a fool. Right now am a BIG FOOL. Luv dey shark me,

I understand your point, but just dont let love cloud your reasoning. Be CAREFUL my brother.

hmmm nice reply,
was only trying to get your attention. I didn't read any of the posts except the first post. Oops that was supposed to be a secret.
You seem kind of cool though (tough but cool)

iice:

Too predictable on both sides. The women prolly don't hold any mystery to you or you focus on one or two things thus after a while, there is nothing to hold your interest/attention.

Mystery Nee mystery Ko. That one na textbook approach. The thing is simple, the guy is no mature enough to decide what he really want's in a girl. I bet you if you date this guy, even with all you textbook knowledge him go still dump you. Even if you apply all the mysteries wen dey this world, once he get the thing him dey look for, like a virus he go move on. Whether you show am another mystery or not.[color=#000099][/color]

whitelexi:

Dude, the worst u can get is a slap, look at it from that angle.
If there are not many people there to witness the slap, too many people wont know of it. . . So meet her when its a bit quiet around her.
Dont shake, u're a man! Approach her appropriately, charm her with your smile, start a good conversation, make her feel at easy with your presence, and take it from there. . . Your very first words to her does not need to be "Baby i love u"

Guy u dey f**k up o. How you go dey fear to talk to chick. Kai this guy just dey mess up.
Come na like you like so exercise you constitutional write (freedom of expression) and tell am say you like. If she try am slap you make you no dull yourself o, make you slap am back. Because that one ma assault. Besides I never see where girl go slap boy say him toast am except say you don dey stalk am and that one don toasting. [color=#000099][/color]

Honestly my brother, if you say you love am and you no go fit leave am then make you marry am.
But I no go lie to you sha, that decision no go sweet you in the long run. But if you no fit stand by the person when you love (no matter what), then you no love am in the first place.

I dey chase solomon record. But with this global economic meltdown, I don slowdown small. Na 473 concubines me i get now. I dey hope say before I go be solomon age mate I go don him record.

I have never been able to understand this virgin thing for the sake of my life.
Na wetin be the big deal inside am.
pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee.
If i openly call someone a virgin for public na so them go begin shame. e go be like say make ground open for them.
but stll na so dem go come dey talk of am like say dem dey proud about am.
Like my bro talk: if you too proud about am or if e dey sweet you say you be virgin, make you carry sign for your hear wen read VIRGIN. or better still make you remain vegin all your life so that you go enjoy being a virgin for ever. Make you no come dey take that kind talk dey disturb people. The thing dey vex me

Bearshare,
I'll try as much as possible to be honest and at the same time polite in giving my advice.

your problem na very small one. Its either you never mature enough to enter relationship (and by maturity I no mean old enough o. cos na two different things be that) or Dem dey pursue you for village.

See this boy o.
You wan die for woman abi?
kai I no know say guys like you still dey this our small world o.
Make you dey there dey dull yourself.
If you are wise take this advise: Get her out of your system b4 you make HAD I KNOW your national anthem and pledge.

The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Green is the bombest!!!!