NewStats: 3,261,431 , 8,173,991 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 09:18 AM 5g6w2k

The only mistake u made is that you didn't give her transport. that's all.
since you both had an understanding before she came, she ought to have given in to your request giving the fact that you have been there for her.

I should also say that I ire your courage for sending her out. you are a real dude.

also, note that you owe her no apologies for your actions . You don't need such girls around you who comes to u cos of u money but doesn't love you.
U are a real guy n don't let any idiots here on nairaland make u feel bad for your actions.

Thanks for stepping up to be a real guy. And don't her anymore

AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

Frigga13:
This man is a person of integrity honesty character and deep personality

In the face of threat of death.. he stood his ground.. itted receiving 500mill.. and reg from a major office

That’s trust

The Yoruba Senators that kept attacking him are both useless and without dignity

Nigeria need a strong man like Ningi


Not cowards like jimoh, bamidele and the other ogun idiot

History will be kind to him tomorrow

Let Yoruba senators enjoy it while it last


Corruption just peaked in Nigeria under the Yoruba Government of Tinubu

Yoruba Senators are after their entitlements ... haba!

This country has formally gone to the dogs and scums

i don't get dude. what has yoruba got to do with the issue? pls enlighten me

... after he has become so rich from same source he is speaking against...

Pls don't spread lies about this man.

Nemesis0147:
Till tomorrow
Make access bank try nonsense with me

I went to access bank to link mine and was told my customer care rep that they don't have any facility to link NIN with my .
omo I shock.

I actually saw this coming. It has always been an economic vs well-being issue.

How can a government remove subsidy n float the naira at same time? it has never maid any sense and will never do.

How can we survive the effect of subsidy removal alone, let alone adding naira floating?

Tinubu has never felt the hardship of the common man and will never do.

He doesn't even know how bad the economy is andthe hardship we feel.

He is a heartless human being. I cannot over emphasized this. Where is the palliative he promised? Does he need a reminder before palliative comes to effect?

Will things change? I doubt.

unfortunately true

gaby:
Everyone in government and just a few outside of it understand that the case with Nigeria currently, is a hopeless one and they are working their best to loot as much as they can before the final collapse.

The signs and body language are there for the discerning to take a cue from.

They've run it aground and have no way of wriggling out of the quagmire.

Maobichek:


Hahahaaa! Are you dam serious here? Of a truth, I'm not against removal of subsidy but floating Naira at the same time is wickedness, evil, devilish and uncalled for.

Exactly. I have always been against these policies taking off at the same time. it's pure madness

DeepSight:


Devaluation is suicide for an import dependent economy.

Not entirely true. It has positive n negative outcomes

Exactly. This is actually one of d benefits of devaluation.

Civetcat:
“Our food products are the cheapest around the neighbourhood,” Senator Kyari declared.

So produce more . This is exactly what the policy is supposed to do. More exports means more forex and the inability of farmers from neighbouring to compete on price . Kick this one out already

Tuzzyjohnson:
True true.. life no balance..
When i used to had chances to date gurls that are decent, i always think it was wrong time.. the decent ones backthen don turn something else.. it always difficult to follow that little voice but it pays at end when you do..
Anyways I need babe wey no get problem..
And no sex until marriage cause

nice one

Not so sure I understand your write up.
Can you explain further?

Magnoliaa:
Yet you're always the people threatening women with loneliness and ending up with 9 cats in their old age.

Why do you so badly want to partner up with selfish people then?

Una dey kill me.

This is so nicely put.
very accurate

advanceDNA:


Sadly u are right.....
While some of them deliberately choose not care like u said... it's an unconscious thing for many of them .....they just feel once they give u their body, that's all u need to be happy...then u should pay them back with the luxury of life....

That's why when men break up they don't feel ever feel u are unhappy or the relationship isn't working for you....they just feel u cheated them and u are scum because they have given u "all u need" to be happy in a relationship

Lurdd:
Truth set free
Thanks for this piece
These girls are just selfish

Definitely true.
Men go through alot in the hands of their women.
Our liberation is coming

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You are so right

Women are Conditional and Selfish Lovers

In most cases women don't care if you are happy in a relationship. As long as she get what she wants from you, your feelings are inconsequential to her.

Most women are selfish lovers. That is why they have no plans to offer a man any assistance in the relationship.

For women, relationship is always about what they stand to gain and not how to help the man. Relationship like this ends the moment the man stops helping them.

Women are Conditional and Selfish Lovers

Be wise

hengrotech:
Helo

Do u have office in abuja

rano1:
I really feel for the poor. If we are not careful we will see people start stealing to survive.

who told you they are poor?
Do you know how much mechanics make weekly/monthly?

Besides, do you know how shady they are in their business dealings?

Dont waste your emotions bro.

Obi3icebaba:


+2348034775889

His name is femi

Thanks

Obi3icebaba:


I can give you the estate agent number, I can't do that stress of going about looking for house I'm sorry.. but if you like a peaceful, safe, quiet place with neat and organized environment then you will love the Estate

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ok. Pls send d number.

Thanks

Obi3icebaba:


I live at Navy Estate

Bro, how do i get an apartment there?

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Banilla:
I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a t , too far away to do so.

So what matters is who. And I'm better suited

Thief

seunny4lif:


Russia running out of weapons like seriously.
A nation that have been storing weapons since over 100 years is running out of ammunitions.
A country that is second biggest supplier and producer of weapons in the world only beating by USA is running out of weapons.
Military weapons is the 3rd biggest contributor to Russia Economy after petroleum productions and agriculture.
Bros, you watched too much BBC and CNN.

U missed my context.

pansophist:
The building block of unipolarism are institutions. Think of a country with different ministries such as the arm forces, foreign affairs, central bank, judiciary etc.

UN is one of the blocks that sustain American hegemony, alongside the dollar, IMF, ICC, interpol, etc. So don't expect the UN to be fair. It was not designed to.

One thing this Russian/Ukrainian war did was expose the hypocrisy and hegemony of the West, and lots of people who are asleep before are awake now.

What you should expect this decade is the decoupling of the global South whom are the majority of global population from western grip. I expect that BRICS should integrate a security architecture to safeguard weak countries from US bully.

In a truly democratic world, global institutions should have its headquarters in every corners of the planet. The UN, IMF, ICC and co should not just be headquartered in the West.

BRICS New development Bank for example is distributed within all member states, and are developing a basket of currencies to trade equally within themselves, instead of one country to control trade by forcing others to use their financial eco-systems.

Woh. Nice flow.
I'm curious about one thing though?
Y isn't Russia getting weapons from other countries (especially from the BRICKS), like Ukraine is getting from the west? This makes me think Russia will be out of weapons soon and loss d war.

Eurasia:
The good thing is that Russia can take on them

I really hope so. Russia's victory will definitely create a shift in Global power n politics. Which i think is cool.

However, the events of last year really make me to see the vileness of the united States and the destructions it has caused globally.

# American invaded Afghanistan, Europe shut up.
# America invaded Iraq, Europe shut up
# America invaded Libya and killed Gadafi, Europe shut up.

Russia invaded Ukraine, Europe sanction Russia.


Animals wan dash me human rights

peterbello:


You should be the one to calm down here. I am talking from first hand experiences I have had with NIRSAL and not just generalizing. In fact, one of the staff i know finished a year after my set from the same department I graduated but I am not excluding him from the accusation.

You are not talking from any experience.

obedience4:


Dude research, and stop disgracing yourself online,
The patriot missile system are uses to target incoming ballistic missiles not drones..
Stop acting childish

Watch your grammar.

peterbello:


You should be the one to calm down here. I am talking from first hand experiences I have had with NIRSAL and not just generalizing. In fact, one of the staff i know finished a year after my set from the same department I graduated but I am not excluding him from the accusation.

So, all NIRSAL staff is corrupt?

peterbello:
This one is long overdue. Another name for NIRSAL is corruption. I don't think they have 1 staff who is not corrupt even with the big salary they enjoy.

.

Becos politicians are corrupt does not mean all NIGERIANS are corrupt.

b calming down

Naira20:
No be so.
The original post was a simple post showing a guy who picked a little girl abandoned by her mother.
Nothing about the mother's condition.

ok . i get you