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farida20: 9:27am On Jun 23, 2016
Because of d greedy people we have in this country that's y we are having those problems. They want to eat alone. Maka why?
farida20: 9:13am On Jun 23, 2016
Aaah! Nigerians are not patriotic at all. cry
farida20: 7:50pm On Jun 22, 2016
Hmmm! Na wao! I'm tired of praying and hoping for d improvement of this country. Dear God we need ur mercy and Grace
farida20: 7:35pm On Jun 22, 2016
What's going on? I haven't hear any positive news since buhari came in as a president. I don't knw if he is afraid of thse criminals
farida20: 11:26am On Mar 18, 2016
They were both dating, which one is abduction here.. Is she a kid? Ha..
farida20: 10:27am On Mar 17, 2016
Nigeria is really upgrading
farida20: 9:58am On Mar 17, 2016
Nigeria! What's happening na?
farida20: 6:58am On Jan 17, 2016
Toks2008:
It is the wish of many ladies to get married and while some ladies are fully prepared for the institution,many are totally naive about what lies ahead after saying i do but from my little experience in life, i present to you 10 things no mother or pastor will tell you before you say i do to that man.

1.That no matter how sweet the man is to you,no matter how caring and romantic and no matter how many prophets told you he is your man,that sweet man can turn to a demon after saying i do so what it seems before marriage is never a guaranty of what it will be after marriage.

2.If your man beats or cheats on you when you are courting,there is a 90% possibility that he will do even worse after marrying you and you need to understand that it is a big mistake to marry a man with the hope that he will change some characters you don't like but just learn to love him that way or take a walk.

3.If your man beats you once,it could be a mistake but if he beats you the second time then its a habit he is likely never going to stop.

4.That it is good to marry a man you have feelings for but it is a terrible thing to marry a man who does not desire you as much as you desire him.

5.That if you marry a man because of what he has and not because of mutual love then be ready to be miserable in that marriage as long as it lasts.

6.That a man can love you with all his life and could still cheat on you because most men think with that thing down there when it comes to their feelings for women and are polygamous in nature and no matter how sweet and disciplined you are,it will not stop him from cheating on you and divorcing a cheating hubby is no guaranty that the next man won't do worse. nice one

7.As a lady, as long as you are sexually decent,GOD fearing,an excellent cook,financially independent and humble,you have absolutely nothing to fear because it will be extremely difficult for your man to disrespect you much less divorce you.

8.That not all men are calm but some have innate tendency to be violent so you must try at all cost to avoid any form of confrontation.

9.That women are women worst enemies and many of your female friends will be glad to see your marriage crumble so avoid discussing your marital flaws with them but take it to God in prayers and you must block your ears from hear says and believe what your hubby tells you even when you have an irking that he is lieing and whatever you have not seen does not exist.

10.That there is always a lady out there who is ready to push you out of your matrimony and take your place but 90% of men who cheat on their wives are not ready to divorce their wives but it is these wives that push the man out with impatience and hot temper so you will need lots of patience to deal with a philanderer because in most cases,they always come back home after having their feel of the side dishes.

11.That no man owns the key to your marital happiness except you because most men are the same and no man is worth the stress and as soon as you are married,you should focus on building your life as well as that of your child(ren).

12.That no marriage is perfect but every marriage has its own perculiar challenges and you must be ready to work on your marital pasture to look green cos that greener marital pasture you see on the other side have been worked so work on yours and that a happy union is not between two compactible people or two romantic people but its the one between two forgivers so learn to forgive and you will have a happy union.

13.That no matter how careful you may be in choosing a spouse,marriage will always be a black market where you must prepare for unforeseen situation and there is no right or wrong choice of man but what we have is your choice and what you make out of it and only GOD can guaranty a happy marriage.

Hope these make some sense.
farida20: 11:34am On Jan 16, 2016
The truth is, u don't two don't look alike, he is fair and u are dark in complexion, u are even more handsom than him
farida20: 8:23pm On Jan 15, 2016
We are talking about accident and u are bringing school issue... My friend what's ur problem, una nigeria no go ever change...
farida20: 8:35am On Jan 15, 2016
Ha! U people are not encouraging at all, unaa wan kill this guy with insult? Abeg no mind them, the truth is u look exactly like ojukwu
farida20: 8:14am On Jan 15, 2016
Pls add more to it, some guys really need it.
farida20: 7:59am On Jan 15, 2016
Its a pity! Rip
farida20: 5:32pm On Jan 14, 2016
This is serious o! Na waiting be this? Ha make God save that man
farida20: 5:04pm On Jan 14, 2016
farida20: 4:50pm On Jan 14, 2016
That girl is really something else
farida20: 1:29pm On Jan 14, 2016
Na wao! This world is turning into something elso! His purnishment is unmentionabe

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