NewStats: 3,264,380 , 8,183,542 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 08:03 PM 1z454i

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Someone once wrote on Nairaland that it's not the things you do or bought for a woman that keeps her or makes her love/respect you. Rather the things she does for you.

Bros at the start of your relationship, you made a mistake of buying her attentions with gifts and all that.

Oga you must continue o. No stop wetin you don start. Carry on with your marriage as you start am.

Righteousness2:
Listen,
White, Black , Blue or Red smoke,

Do not be Distracted!
Put your House in order!
There is no more time!
Get ready! Be ready! Live Ready! JESUS CHRIST, The KING of kings, LORD of Lords and PRINCE OF PEACE IS COMING QUICKLY

Oga be calming down.

The Bible wen you dey read, na who first compile am?

Well I know you will never do your research.

SenatPresdo:
He had every chance to make Biblical heaven, his death came very slowly.

Rip

Biblical heaven. So funny. Do you even know the history of your Bible?

KingMack:
chai! I how sometimes we go burst this insect belle to see wether we fit bring out the light 🤣

You dey find free energy

Free energy if you know you know

phemmie06:
They're summoned because they extort Chinese nationale, how many have been arrested for extorting the citizens?

We go another country we be 2nd class. We dey our own country but our authorities dey treat us like 2nd class citizens

Mannyautos:
As someone who has been on Nairaland for 16 years , here are my requests

1. We need a dislike button. It’s long overdue

2. DM option should be embedded directly on the site without the need to do this via exposing my email compulsorily . This is 2025 we really do need this feature on the site

3. Allow direct ing of videos albeit with a size restriction if you’re bothered about storage.

4. Can we have night mode feature please.

5. We need personalized feeds, where I can customize what I want to see

Those are all I can think about for now.

Seun please taking everything he wrote here. Everything make sense.

Anybody wen just get curly hair, fair skin, we go call am oyinbo.

Abeg this guy is classified as Arabo not oyinbo.

Saga16:
Europe has already rallied round Ukraine.

Trump can fuk off.

Same Europe that can't feed themselves. the most stable among them is on recession. Laying off staff, can't pay salary. But will have money to fund Ukraine war? Bros stop watching cnn.

unity004:
allow the court to give the final verdict.

Maybe this case has effects on Cytizens slump in form

Pep dey under perform so the club can sack him. He knows the club will lose the court case. The guy na smart guy.

It's funny how all these stupid EU thinks they are punishing Russia when it's actually themselves they are punishing.

Put all the EU countries together, their population no reach China. And Russia are friends with China and India. These EU people think in their small mind that bying Russia will destroy Russia economy when it's the opposite.

Roboto11:

Oga na appeal he lose o. That doesn't mean he is pronounced guilty o. Again I put to you to name one person he raped.

You and I know that in the western world, women can just wake up and accuse any man of rape. The keyword is accused.

Until Trump is found completely guilty, don't say he raped someone just because of you don't like him. Doesn't make sense.

Roboto11:


E jean Carroll.

Again I put it to you to name someone he raped. Jean case is an accusation which Trump was not guilty by the Judge.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/E._Jean_Carroll_v._Donald_J._Trump#:~:text=A%20jury%20verdict%20in%20May,accusations%20made%20by%20other%20women.

Namaster:
Tears of a FOOL!

Trump is doing EXACTLY what he promised to do.

You CANNOT vote for someone who promised to carry out MASS DEPORTATIONS and turn around to WAIL about him carrying out said deportations.

Plus, a Latino WOMAN voting for a known racist and rapist is like a chicken going for a vacation inside a lion's DEN.

Its MADNESS!

Oga name one racist thing about Trump. Also give me just one name of a lady he raped. Please don't give me news from cnn.

franchasofficia:
Very good.


Add carpentry
Welding
Electrician
Computer coding
Computer repair
Auto rewire
Painting
Baking
Fashion Design
Refrigeration or HVAC
Farming


These are what makes a nation great not political science, ing, etc

Nice suggestions

To say each citizens now owes certain amount of money is trash. Na the president wen borrow together with the people who voted for him na dey owe not me. All my life I have never voted for anyone. So I owe nothing.

Titogbanski:


Yeah...God na Oyibo.

Almost zero African American for im appointments

Stop playing victim. He working that's all that matters. Are there Mexican American or Latin American in his appointment? Only blacks like to form victim. Abeg rest.

Hemanwel:
I don't understand Trump's crackdown on immigrants. I am sure this operation is targeted at blacks majorly. Is it that the blacks in the US didn't vote Trump or what? Don't just get it!

Stop watching cnn.

rinzaugustine:
Taking pictures and Celebrating symbolic nonsense that adds no value to the economy or improve naira value or repair bad roads or food prices in market is equal to rubbish. Seeking and snapping pictures with world leaders should be the prerogative of entertainers and online influencers and not the job of a president whose country is in total disarray and people dying from hunger as a result of his bolekaja economic policies with his incompetent, unqualified quack team

Exactly. The funny thing is the German president is just a figure head. He has no say in . But see as we dey celebrate am for Nigeria. The main person is the chancellor.

helinues:
Na so

Other countries are now having more relationship and confidence with Nigeria.

All thanks to president Tinubu with his new policy reforms

Nigeria is moving ahead

Oga calm down. The German president is just a figure head. He has no important say in German economy. Main person is the chancellor.

Dshocker:
Some of these allegations are framed up.

Exactly because what's a 13 year old doing in a mid night party

dermmy:


The people performing that ritual didn't say they are practicing Physics do they even understand the laws of Physics. Can you do that to your baby in the name of testing the laws of Physics?

This is not testing the law of physics. It is the ijaw tradition to do that. They have been doing so since ages before all you woke genz were giving birth to.

Yes they aren't aware of any laws of physics. All they know is they must do their tradition not knowing all they are doing is simple Physics.

Allow people enjoy their tradition. Carry your wokeness go corner abeg.

dermmy:
They should be arrested for endangering the life of their baby. What if that baby drowns.

When dem dey teach physics for school, na night class you attend?

Padipadi:

For all ya rants, receive one nuke!

I dey use am drink garri now

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8273757/matt-gaetz-withdraws-trumps-attorney
This are things associated with Trump. Not his fan or enemy but he's not a saint. Now when you call me CNN addict, may na African magic you dey watch. I can give you list of Trump's charges both he was accused of and those he paid damaged for.
https://apnews.com/article/trump-rape-carroll-trial-fe68259a4b98bb3947d42af9ec83d7db
https://19thnews.org/2023/10/donald-trump-associates-sexual-misconduct-allegations/
Ezyp, no let me reason ya matter on this forum. I ll suffocate ya (s). Dey look face before you troll. For you to be so loud mouthed and type this way showed how little ya knowledge is. I dey watch you, come closer and receive nukes!

Dey form oga for nairaland. Shame no dey catch you?

You wrote Trump has been accused. That is just accusations and it doesn't mean he has done any of those. Watch or read information with a clear eye and clear mind you this mofo.

You dey threaten me for nairaland. That is the worst you can do. Shame on you.

No be your fault. Na me wen get time to reply your sorry ass. Idiot. Do your worst.. oh I forgot your worst na to write like a sixteen year old.

Padipadi:

Woke boy, you're replying an expert in world politics so talk less.

Sleepy boy... Keep watching cnn and be claiming you know politics. I am still waiting for the answer to the question I asked..

Padipadi:

It's a shame a blacks like Obama and Harris are in this confused gender people analogy. Thought it was just a pure white people craze but our blacks that we thought would imbibe morals are easy tools. Trump wey get craze, sexual abuses allegations now looked like a saint.
The world has spoiled.
That congresswoman should use male toilets cos trans toilets can't be created again.
How can a trans complain of rape from man or something woman?
Which one will we blv?

Stop watching cnn. The sexual accusations were all lies. Even with common sense you could see that.

Name one craze you claimed Trump has? Just one o. And not some cnn propaganda lies

Please focus her energy on what she's good at. Probably nursing is not her calling. She could become one of the best lawyers in the world (many Barristers I know are terrible in maths).

I would rather focus her energy on Art to become a Barrister (in future chief judge )

CodeTemplarr:
So trump will just abandon Ukraine like that? Same way they abandoned Europe to Hitler's rampage.

By abandoned what do you mean?

Trump has always said that he will put a stop to the war. How's that abandon? Or to make Ukraine win the war? By that more people are killed. Let the war stop. That what Ukraine needs. Biden istration doesn't care about Ukraine. His istration dey cash out full time from the war. Stop watching cnn

God1000:
Rough times ahead for Ukraine


Surely there will be significant changes in of political, financial and military from US. fighting a war is expensive

North Korea's involvement is another issue entirely


But I don't think Donald trump will even consider doing the same to Israel, US weapons will continue to flood israel unhindered.

You still dey write for nairaland? Shame no dey catch you? After your fake predictions

God1000:
Too bad


The same guy that ranted on Twitter like a child until he got banned, the same guy that was behind the Insurrection at the Capitol, the same guy that mocked a handicapped man, the same guy that ended certain environmental protections, the list could go on and on. This is just insanity.

America has finally lost the little respect I have for them

... I feel pity for you. Take heart bro

chris51:



You are very well informed. Ignore our people ing Trump. Let them come and live in the US and know who he really is

What has the black community in USA benefited from Biden/Kamala government? Please just name one thing.

Only what I see is the freedom to loot stores and that's a shame.

Another question I would like to ask you is what are Kamala's policies that wants to make you vote for her? Let me guess your answer: NONE. She has no make sense policies. You and I know she lies alot.