NewStats: 3,263,652 , 8,180,904 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 04:30 AM 212j5t

Dumb thread, only poverty stricken, struggling men would create topics like this.

Aron1989:
What is most to least important to look for in a guy for a relationship of this categories: personality, looks money, penis size
For example his:
1 personality( most important ) How to you rank them form 1 to 4? with 1 as most important.
2 looks
3 money
4 penis size

the only thing imprtant there is 1 and 3, 2 and 4 can be replaced by generosity and sense of responsibility being a man

utenwuson:
14 years to study medicine? The moment u get an offer and sign with acceptance, u are obligated to stick by it, do if u aren't comfortable with the job why not reject it? U are plainly ignorant

e pain am o

tintingz:
Lol, some people will still say the man is the head, even when he's doing nothing.

dont mind those brainwashed individuals

oriewanbe:

Doctors remained the highest beneficiaries of govt wages in the civil service. They earn a multiple of 4 (x4) of what the mainstream civil servants in the same level earn.

and they work more hours, sometimes 36 hour shifts like 4-10 times a month, including weekends and publc holidays. Also other health workers do shifts, not calls, so they dont put in much time.

ziga:
Conflict of interest laws are not new.

If true, this is a good development. It is not fair to the government hospitals, for doctors to work at their private institutions while on the government hospital time.

Also, it is not fair for the business of the government hospital, if their patients can be diverted to the doctor's private clinic.

Bottom line is that for healthcare to improve, government hospitals need to be run better and everybody needs to be able.

Above all healthcare needs to be properly funded. Either by the government directly or via private insurance companies. Otherwise, healthcare workers will continue to scramble for peanuts and leave for more profitable jobs.

health insurance is another scam, dont ask me why, i wont tell, all you will get under health insuance is the cheapest healthcare available, trust me, ask the HMOs how much tgey pay the hospital per patient

utenwuson:
This is awesome..... How doctors who re paid over 500k monthly by the federal government still refer u to their useless private hospital,

which doctor is paid over 500k, not everybody will see rhe one paid over 500k cos he went to school for at least 14 yrs to earn that 500k, the ones you will see ehn earn about 100k. This paper wont help anything but increase death rate.

But what do i care,tired of talking to ignorant nigerians

tintingz:
These are all conspiracy.


Why must a woman kneel to another fellow human because of some ceremonial culture? Why can't men kneel down?

It is a thing of choice, if she doesn't like kneeling down, good for her, if a man doesn't like kneeling down good for him, is it that the kneeling down is definition of respect or love?


There are extreme feminist, in most group there's always extremists.

There are traditions and cultures that are irrelevant in this our era, most of this traditions were practiced out of ignorance, greed, power etc.

In igbo culture or so, when a woman husband dies, there are rituals she will go through like cutting her hair, drink the water used to bath the corpse, does this sound reasonable, in this our civilized era?

Evidence please.

Ofcos there's no 100% equality, it's impossible like you said, but oppression is the problem.

Ofcos it's your choice, even if you like slapping women, but know that your choice has limit.

Lol, where did you get this your feminism ideology from?


Ofcos yes.

I never said that about your mom.
It's a belief, people believe in different things, people are indoctrinated with beliefs, social myths.


It's not about men being the head, it's about how you treat your fellow human.

Ok, what if a woman is the breadwinner of a family, fighter, protector, is she the head?

yes, she is the head

martyns303:
Of all the women I have dated, only one is comfortable with me being able to cook, clean and do my laundry effortlessly. The rest find it intimidating, I have heard things like, "you make me feel like I can't cook" "u make me look dirty".

As the first child of my parents my mom made sure I learned how to do chores, which really helped me as a young man. I had thought women would appreciate a man that can do chores or at least help out. But the reverse has been the case.

As a woman do like your man domesticated?

no, because i feel you are less of a man, especially when you dont do your duty of protecting and providing for the family.

princfred:
Sense. Who teach this kind thing? Don't go and teach others and spoil matter for Mathias.

fowl nyash don open

Well spoken, wprks on majority of the girls, not girls with game.

gloria34:
I don't understand, how did u come to this conclusion?

simple, every man wants a woman that is 10/10 but he cannot afford her, now the only thing for him to do is to settle with a 5/10 who will split the bills 50:50 with him and allow his little excesses on the side, cos she is a 5/10 and probably running low on self esteem.

Now what do.you think happens to miss/mrs 5/10 when he can afford a 10/10?
That is why the true test of a man's character is when he has, not when he is without. Trust me this is the tactic men use for their golddigging. It's called the game.

Pls let's discuss
What is your own definition of submission as a man or as a woman?

What do you have to do as a man to have a woman submit to you?

Should a girl friend submit to her boyfriend and are women supposed to submit to other men who arent their husband?

How easy and possible is it for female breadwinners to fully submit to their husbands

michaelandre:
I don't think feminism is bad . because am 100% in of equal opportunities for men and women. but where I have issues with them is the area of marriage. I think women should be women and stop trying to be the man in a relationship. I think women have many powers they don't know about

o am going to make a thread on that

epelumi42:

That is no where near what Feminism stands for. Again, you're building a stereotype based on the men hating group of people you see online.

but isnt that what you romancelanders think feminism is? Women hating men

epelumi42:
According to Wikipedia, Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men.

Following many posts I've seen here on Nairaland, it seems like people, especially men hate the idea of women identifying with feminists. Based on the stereotype that many have created from the women who claim to be feminists, the definition has changed to a men-hating, men-defying movement.

Feminism does not mean that men should be hated for playing the superiority game, it means that men should learn to see women as equals and not subjects.

Feminism means that husbands and boyfriends should not judge a woman by her ability to cook and perform home chores. No. That's sexism. Feminism means women is just as a man, maybe not in physical features. If a man does not know how to cook, a woman shouldn't be crucified for not knowing how to cook too. If a man cannot wash his clothes, his wife should not be expected to wash it just because she's the woman. No.

Feminism means that women should be allowed to take the reigns of power because they are capable, and not denied based on their sex. They should be given an opportunity to compete with men for the same position and win based on merit, like everyone else.

Feminism does not mean women should not respect men, rather, men should respect women and vice versa because they deserve the respect, not because of their sex. Women should not be made to kneel to the man because he's Superior. No. She should be able to do it because she feels it's right. The same way a man should bow for his wife. No one runs the Monopoly of respect.

Feminism does not mean men should stop catering for women. It means both sexes should cater for each other of they have the means. It should be done out of love than chauvinism. Women can provide for the man when he is incapable and not expect the man to always be responsible for her wellbeing.

Feminism means that women can be surgeons, engineers, and men can be nurses and secretary. No job stereotypes.

Feminism is right because no one chose their sexes. Males and females have their strength and weaknesses and should learn to live with each other in love.

there is a male version of feminism called MGTOW look it up

Oreofepeters:
This an example of ladies we are talking about.

#Bytheircommentyoushallknowthem...

thank you dear

gloria34:
spender? Lol, I work 4 my cash, I take my bf on outings. at first he didn't like it but he got use to it. now I don't even know who spends more. well, girls should go out and work, men will respect them more yet its no reason 4 a guy to disrespect a lady (respect is reciprocal).

hahahaha, you couldnt be more deluded, mark my words that man will leave you to another woman who wont spend a dime on him, even if u marry him, it is only delayimg the inevitable. It is his in DNA to go after the woman he needs

emmyN:
I actually read through to the third page of that thread but was surprised no one came out to challenge that statement. The encomiums rather kept pouring in. He's entitled to his opinion though.

I guess it's the values we've adopted in the society plus unpalatable experiences in the hands of some ladies, who seem to have of late taken on the majority, that have shaped men to reason in this way.

Life is not all about sex and money. We were created to love.

isnt it the other way round. Men use ladies and dump them, so.they are all after qhat they can get

Oreofepeters:
why the thing cum pain you like this nau.?

However There are some truth in What he said, considering the fact that Nigerian ladies are becoming more and more materialistic day after day. It's becoming more like "the pvssy goes to the highest bidder".

Do you think it worth the stress?.

no it isnt worth it, especially when you have nothing to offer

milemimi93:
At night u .. Go to Allen avenue and stand.. In the morning when people are busy hustling u to create dumb threads seekin for cheap attention..

only a broke man is online on this forum morning and night to monitor my movements. Each time you call me a slut i feel happier so keep the compliments coming

milemimi93:


why is it that when a lady is been told 'U are beautiful' she doesn't say 'ur mom or sis is' but if she is told 'u are ugly' she will say 'ur mom and sis are'?

I had opportunity to insult ur mom durin ur second quote but I chose not to.

I see such act as a fvckwit displayed by a coward.

If someone insults me, I should be able to insult dem back. Fight me, I fight dem back dan bring their relatives into what d hav no idea of..

U are indeed a slut.
My guess was right..

i never insulted your mum, i only asked if you could ask your mum the things you asked me. If asking you a question is now an insult, then i guess you are more blinded by hatred and poverty than i thought

milemimi93:


cases like the following:

1. Hey girl, send me ur bank acct.

2. Babe recharge this card.

3. Can I take u out for lunch?..


Poor slut..

How many responsible girls have u seen waking up as early as to create a dumb thread?

Wh0re!

can you in your present state ever say (1,2,3) to your mum, talkless of the woman of your dreams. Wait i forgot, you are just a bitter old MGTOW who is destined to die alone with regrets

bot101:
This thread seems to have no end in sight, and I have a ton of work to do this morning, so, Au re voir!!!

have fun

bot101:


Lol, wealth is a very relative term. What you see as wealthy, I may see as penury, so can't debate that.

it goes both ways

milemimi93:


do sluts have future?




Take it to ladies section if u don't want men to comment.




unfortunately she is broke and a leech.. She is seekin for attention here from her supposed broke guys. Soon she will a slutry pic on her profile to scam guys off their hard earn money..

Where is the ladies section?

bot101:


To what end?

bashing me and my posts. My posts will teach ladies to get some Standards, simple.

milemimi93:

cheap hoe like u.. To get on ur level, one has to step down.

I know ur end goal is to get guys to notice u and den send u pm. Soon u will someone's pic on ur profile claimin to be urs..

Dirty slut.

Na, iguys already send me pm, i dont answer them except in few cases, so that is not my goal.if you step down from where you are you will either end up as a midget or in a ditch, you cant go lower than where you are

bot101:


Lol, no one's asking you to date a broke man. In simple , if you don't want to date a broke man, don't be broke!! Simple as A..B..C.

you thought i was? Besides you could have fooled me by the way you are acting

bot101:


Muhahaha!!! They are called leaches who have nothing to give, but expect to get everything. No intellectual capacity, moral values, social manners, and they want to be valued. A sane man can only value what has value (that's supposed to be common sense, but alas, sense ain't common). If you believe a man has to be financially buoyant before you can be in a relationship with him, then believe me you, you have no relationship. You are in no relationship, you are just an expensive borehole (otherwise known as LovePeddler). Agreed, money makes relationships a lot sweeter, but if that's your motivation for being in a relationship, then a night time who're is both a ton better than you (easier to access, cheaper, and without all the stress!!)

I have a certain future i am working towards, if you dont fit, dont feel bad, broke men can always improve then get the women of their dreams.

I work with actions and results not empty promises like buhari's change . it is called drive and having a vision, how many men can boast of that

bot101:
Lol, women of low IQ! No insults intended. The only women who are supposed to talk like this are those who have actually achieved something in their lives, not those leaching off struggling men (as you put it). If you haven't achieved some level of financial independence, what kind of guy stays with a broke girl I know you are one because I relate with a ton of girls who have achieved, or are on a path to financial independence, and guess what? Their brains don't spew such stank!!! Go get a life!! If you are a broke girl, you deserve a broke guy!!. If you think otherwise, then God help you!!!

linda ikeji isn't struggling, yet she became a babymama for a guy richer than she is. That should tell you all something, in struggle love, a broke man leeches off a woman, not the other way round.

JONNYSPUTE:
My dear please take your frustration to the guy that put you in such a bitter condition. The same girl that was against slutshaming of ladies but did not see anything wrong in broke shaming guys.

i never said i was being objective and this post is written to the ladies