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This would be a welcomed development if it could go through

Great article except the point encouraging African parents to spare the rod Una sha wan train African children the western way
Use the rod when necessary

benzion72:
Both are very tough. I am into Cocoa cocoa survival is too low. It is like 30% extreme weather is killing cocoa seedlings.
Japa self is not easy. But with prayer you can be directed are right

So, you wouldn't advise one to go into cocoa farming?

Peledonomy:


What of the girls wey u dey bang wey u know say na people girl?

What exactly are you trying to justify, broh?
Fvcking your brother's gf? You go fit do hin wife self

CandyOps:
My bro dey abroad one time like that for a long ass while. His babe dey come my house steady. No be 1c no be 2x no be 3x no be even 10x.. like steady steady.

... We stay alone and all. We dey work for hours... And I even drop her off Yet the closest I've been to her is a side hug when she bought me a gift.

Once I know say you be my bro babe. I go begin find you ugly. Like I have to convince myself to see anything beautiful in you. I dey see you as my fellow guy.

Lol some guys na goat sha

Aswear, broh. There are some lines you don't cross as a man. An undisciplined man is not worthy to be called a man

Hey, broh.
Were you able to get one of those GAC cars? Any review on them if you did or didn't get one?

Jennyclay:
Not again!!

Another animalistic behavior from these foolish men

God will punish those evil men that did this to her. Their generation upon generation will suffer for this. Amen!!

I just pray the culprit are caught and sentenced to death ASAP!

I hate men!

Sapphire, is that you?

hopefulLandlord:
no you weren't! You were just someone who's "faith waxed cold" for some moments and later reawakened it then started labelling those moments your moments of atheism. Stop lying!!

You were never like me ever. You were always religious to varying degree but even at your least religious moment of your life you still believed in imaginary friend

If that makes you feel good, no wahala.
Can you now address the other parts of my message.

hopefulLandlord:
The idea of heaven is so stupid I wonder how people believe it lol
The Bible doesn't say much about what heaven is supposed to be like. Most of the claims about heaven are exaggerations of the Bible. The Bible says the Gates are made of pearl. What are the gates for? Are they made just as an excuse to irritate clams? Are the gates supposed to keep someone out or to keep souls from escaping?

it also says the streets are paved with gold but the only reason we actually like gold so much and we attach such values to it is because they are rare and difficult to extract. Gold is malleable and can be formed as needed for use in, among others, electronics, dentistry, medical tools, and the defense, aerospace, and automotive industries. Gold is durable and noncorrosive. However gold shouldn't be valuable at all in heaven unless we'd still need to use gold for those things in heaven too which actually makes heaven just another version of earth

The sales pitch for heaven is that there is only happiness and no sorrow. But it also says that many people's loved ones won't be there. Since they can't feel sorrow about that, are they ecstatic that their loved ones are being tortured forever? Either your memories are removed or your human empathy is removed. Is it really you that is left over once some parts of you have been removed?

If life matters to me now, it will always have mattered to me, even when I am gone. Death cannot change that.

Your best hope is to be locked in a gold cage with your memories of having an actual life being erased just so you can kiss ass for eternity.

Life is pleasant, death is serene. The transition might be troublesome but we all have to go through it. You shouldn't fear death so much. Heaven and hell are imaginary. You should reject the indoctrination. Life is much better that way.

To quote a friend: "Heaven's supposed to be this really great place, right? So how come a third of the angels got pissed off??"

My fellow atheist, it's wisdom to question things if they don't make sense. Been there, done that.

But I quitted atheism when I realize that spirituality is real and science has not been able to take us into this dimension.
The same way the behavior of particles in the quantum dimension deviates from the norm we are used to, so also, the laws and working of the spiritual realm would most likely not conform to our expectations.

Till science is able to give us a sneak-peak into the spiritual world, your questions may not prove much helpful for your spiritual being

ADURA123:


Sorry for responding late i dont come here often is called dimethandrolone undecanoate the only problem is that i dont know if it is available in Nigerian market, my friend abroad usually comes with it when he is visiting.

Thanks, broh.

Jennyclay:
Why is the man now making video, he should have raise his hand on her and see if the embassy won’t send him back to Nigeria, he’s not a saint either .

Probably the husband wasn’t taking good care of her!
Her reaction said it all.

Personally if I’m not getting enough Money, sex and true love from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere .

@Jennyclay, you just dey torture us with your stupidity on this forum.

Don't take back a cheating hoe, broh

He doesn't deserve a second chance. Tell him you've been having sex with like 3 people while he was away. He'd file for the divorce on your behalf

Took a while to realise his real name was Chancellor. Thought it was title

No English dictionary word is safe from these people ooo. Why you go name pikin Chancellor

His music taste is quite different from mine

ADURA123:
Before you crucify me, pls check my previous two stories

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7842384/peace-ultimate-target-happy

The peace above only lasted for a week, then it done on me that this woman will never change, reading through comments on Nairaland shows that is a place to have fun not for some serious issues, but as the matter na here i start am, i say make i update una grin.

So finally i left my wife and took my three kids away from her and she may never see them until they are 20yrs, women should know that, is a man's world no matter what you try to do, the Nigerian society is program to favour the men, from law to traditional institutions.

Now, i found my self in the hand hand of a beautiful single mother of 1, 35yrs same with my wife and Halas, she is over the moon, she self na man pursue am last year November, her marriage lasted just 7yrs and guess what? she could not speak to her kid since then till now, is a man's world.

I am very careful but i know say no be pikin carry me go there, i am currently on drugs i cannot impregnate woman, but guess what>

Most of you suggested coz i couldn't satisfy my wife in the OZA room that could be the reason why she is misbehaving despite all i have done for her and still doing, naaaa, sex is from the heart, i barely last 20mins with my wife and struggle to go two round, the same me last Saturday i was almost killing somebody's daughter and person former wife grin.

Some of you requested i increase her monthly upkeep, i did, but for where, i just discovers she is not my kind of person and no match for my lifestyle, She has to look for another man to marry or remain single and f*ck around if she so wish.

The simple lesson here is that, both women are now carrying the Tag, DIVORCED WOMEN, while me as the man can still settled for a baby girl of 21yrs but God forbid, their ogbanje too much grin.....Married women should learn to do what your husband want, no juju that one, especially if the man is responsible and taking care of his responsibilities.

Adura ni ti gba....if you don't know me you can judge me.

What drug are you taking to prevent pregnancy? Please, quote me when you drop it

Women don't want to practice traditional feminism anymore. What's the world turning into, fgs

I think Nigerians needs to start doing better by leaving workplace reviews on job sites like Indeed. It would go a long way in helping many other victims of circumstance like Shade

Kobojunkie:
ERCross, as far as families in the USA, there is no established data that suggests children raised by single fathers turn out better than those raised by single mothers.
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Also, be aware that this report applies to fathers in America and not Nigerian single mothers and single fathers alone.

Based on personal experience and intuition, I'd say a single father is more likely to raise responsible children than a single mother due to the following reasons:

1. Masculinity and Teenagers: The teenage is one of the most critical period of a child's life when it comes to shaping the child. I can say a child that would turn out to be irresponsible would most likely start this lifestyle during their teenage. The presence of a responsible masculine figure in their life would go a long way in correcting a wayward child as men are more aggressive, dominant, and less emotional

2. Typing...

Kobojunkie:
Most single Nigerian mothers do not have the child on a part-time basis — shared custody—, right? So, how many single —unattached— Nigerian fathers are out there compared to single mothers?

Right, the statistical data may be skewed because there might not be enough unbiased-sample/population to represent the fulltime fathers.
I've come across only one fulltime father and more than 10 full time mothers. So I'd say the ratio is about 95% (fulltime mother) : 5% (fulltime fathers), based on my encounters in Nigeria

Kobojunkie:
Again, How many single fathers --- caring fulltime for their kids--- are out there compared to single mothers?

What do you mean by a fulltime care?

Jennyclay:
Watch how these broke and lazy men would come here and start saying “it’s true” with their broke mouth.

Just to take good care of your wife/girlfriend so that they won’t look outside… is what the world is designed to kill men .

All this stupidity, inside one head. Babe, how you take dey manage am

To knock this OP dey hungry me. It is mummy oyoyo and so shall it remain

Divoc19:
If your marriage is not bringing out the best in you please, Dear sir/ma.
Divorce
If you feel stuck with someone who does not value you enough to create time for you
Divorce
If you have to shout to the top of your voice or report your spouse to someone before they can have the sense to do common things
Divorce
If you find yourself pretending to be happy when people are around and fight in the bedroom all night every night
Divorce
If your kids see you quarrel with your spouse please that home is not good to raise a child
Divorce
I am happily divorce for almost 2 years now and am happier ever

Your name even sounds like divorce. Deep down, you aren't happy with your decision but you won't it.

A ti ku

Carcholce:
The most important one is not even on the list.


What about free access to punna?

Scam of the century

Kobojunkie:
Scientific theories are testable and repeatable. Your karma idea is not.

Yes, you're right. Karma is abstract. It's not meant to be testable and repeatable using scientific methods.

And because humans are sometimes unpredictable and radical, such tests (if possible) would produce different results each time it's conducted.

Kobojunkie:
Meaning your Karma theory is not sound, right?

Meaning given different circumstances, no theory holds 100% of the time, including scientific theories.

Kobojunkie:
Ever read the story of the man who killed his mother and father over a small argument, then later escaped prison and eventually ended up running off to Australia where you lived out the rest of his life as a father to two kids who grew up having only good things to say of him. It was only long after his death that it was discovered that he was a murderer.

Life is not a straight line, my sister

Sounds like fiction to those who think karma is only but a myth

This one wan dey teach gender wey get short memory. You get time

Mohbad