NewStats: 3,264,145 , 8,182,763 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:55 PM 4o3x1a

this is a girl that I love so much. I gave her my time and attention. I was there for her, care so much for her and also go any length just to make her comfortable and happy. I forgave her countless time when she broke my heart because I love her unconditionally. even when she slept behind my back with different guys and even entertained married men as friends, I still forgive her. I love her so much and I was blind "fool" to see the lies she told especially when she claimed to have slept with just her ex finance who had engaged her for 3yrs and didn't married her but was surprised when I flipped through her "diary of sex" and I saw that she had slept with almost 10 different guys in d past

she saw me as her option but not her choice because she was still keeping in touch with her fiance who maltreat her, mess around and another woman has a child for him. when I complained about her keeping in touch with her fiance, she told me "lied" he only wanted to collect his engagement ring that she is yet to return to him. this girl deceived me, manipulate me, played with my emotion and feelings because I was a fool for love and perhaps, i was naive of losing her to another man.

long story short, she told me she was pregnant for me and wanted to abort d baby which I told her not to because I was making plan for her and the baby.though, I doubted the pregnancy because of her lies but I had NP option but to believed her since she kept claiming she was pregnant.

three month later, she told me she had miscarried and my world was shattered. for now, we are separated by distance and she traveled home to see her parents and also returned her engagement ring to her fiance who lives in the same environment with her. I was silprise when she told me two days ago not to call her, texts her and neither reply her chat on Facebook because her has been hacked and our pregnancy conversation has been seen and its causing problem. she said she would call me when everything is calm.

I was shocked by her text because I knew she had gone back to with her fiance whom she promised me to have returned the ring but it was the other way round.

this morning she sent me this break up text " I am sorry for all I caused you but its high time i say my mind to you. with all seriousness, I don't want to continue with this relationship. I just have to go to where my heart is free and love".

I didn't reply her text back. I no I am stupid and foolish for allowing myself to be hurt by her even when she doesn't worth the love, the attention and time. maybe because I am too emotional and I love completely. I kept making the same mistake even when my heart was once broken by the first girl I love then before meeting this other one. despite the fact that I have so many side chicks, I don't feel anything for them and I told them to go instead of wasting their time because my conscience judge me.

pls u guys should advise me and also insult is allow because I am a fool for love who fail to learn

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op urs is even much beta..my ex gf who is 23 yrs old had sex 10 different guys.she told me then she only had sex with just one guy but was sulprise wen I flipped tru her diary of sex and I saw d no of guys she sex in d past and d ones she sex behind my back.she even entertained married men too.she couldn't change. she is a liar,manipulator,dishonest,deceiver, not be trusted and so on.I tot she wud change but she doesn't.now am d one who feels d pain because I love her. I am trying to move on despite d fact dat I have side chicks,I don't feel anything for them neither did I enjoyed d chicks.I am letting d side chicks go instead of wasting der time. I want d one dat will love me and I love her too to enjoy me not d side chicks or my sex addictive ex gf.I pray to find d love of my life someday.

so op, she will never change and of if u give her d chance, u will hurt yourself so badly..let her go and don't turn her to side chick as long as u love her

d fool below me will tell u d real answer

I am single because my heart has been broken so many times and i stop keeping track...I forgot to love myself first...so, I am single because i realise relationship will only distract me from achieving my dream...i am after my dream and inner peace of mind..I believe I will meet d love of my life who will love, appreciate and be fond of me wen d right time comes..for now, its my future first and putting smiles on my family face..for now, I have to make that money b4 one stupid girl distract me again

I forgot to add this to my previous comment...my ex girfrirnd cheated behind my back with different guys and even entertained married man...does that mean I am d reason y she cheated?no..a girl that cheats is never satisfy and she does not no what she wants.......a girl who has so many male friends is bound to cheat..prove me wrong

I disagrred with d op because no matter how caring and good you are to ur gf, she will definitely cheat on u if she wants to..and if u ask Herr y did she cheat, she can't give u a definite reason y she did that..its is in her blood to cheat and she can never change...girls that cheat are always loose..and cheap because once she cheats once and nobody caught her, she will do it again and even if she is caught, she will still do it again..I am talking from experience..

women don't have conscience wen they cheat but guys have conscience...women believe that as long as u don't catch them in d act, dey r doing d right thing and she won't feel remorse but once she is caught, she will cry heaven and earth for just some time and after everything is settle, she will still go back and cheat with that guy and with different guys..

love they say is the sweetest thing in life but i mine was d sadest thing i have ever encountered. i was blinded by love even though i have eyes. i thought a cheat will always change but i was wrong...

long story short...my girlfriend while with me was keeping in touch with her ex finance who had engaged her for almost three years and didnt married her..she told me she was done with him but she is yet to return the engagement ring to him even when i told her to do so...she once had abortion for him despite the fact that she knew that another woman has a child for him..

i have always complained about her keeping in touch with her ex finance and also messing around with other guys and even married men behind my back...she promise to change but she is yet to..i forgave her countless times and she got dependent (comfortable in disrespecting me) in my forgiveness.. i wish i never love so dearly.

she was pregnant for me and i told her not to abort the baby because i had already made plans for her and d baby.three month later, she told me she had miscarriage and my world was shattered...i broke up with her instantly because it was painful and beside she is a potential liar, manipulator, deciever, not open, secretive and most especially i dont understand her...i didnt talk to her for good two weeks but we later came back together because i wanted to start all over with her and also forgot d things she did in the past..

though for now, we are separated by distance.she travelled home to see her parents..i discovered she didnt even show any sign of wanting to hear my voice on the phone..each time i called her, she dont respond well on the phone.it is as if i was forcing myself around her...my mind told me she has gone to see her ex fiance who lives in the same environment with her...though, she told me she was going to return d ring to him once she got home..

i was sulprise when she sent me this text "pls if u are called by any number u dont no,pls dont pick and if u r being sent a friend request on facebook, dont accept if u dont no d person cos my facebook has been hacked and being use by another person.my chat has been seen about that pregnancy with you and is causing problem.pls dont call nor reply now and dont reply and chat sent to u through my .i shall call u to let u no when everything is calm".

i immediately called her back and was asking her some series of questions but she was not saying anything..i hung d call and i knew it was her ex fiance who had gone to facebook .since she didnt, say a word to me when i called her, i decided to send her text..."you have broken my heart so many times and i keep forgiving you countless times because i love u unconditionally.i tthought you said u love me but you dont because if u do, u wont go back to him.u saw me as your option but not your choice.this is not the kind of attitude i want from the woman i love.you never love me.you are only playing with my emotion.i thought u said u were done with him.i trusted you but i was wrong.since you love him and u cant live without him, go with him. i will never forget what you do to me".

pls i need your advise..insult is also allow because i am a fool and i fail to learn despite seeing all the signs...sorry for the long post..

this op is just trying to make public spectacle of herself..idiotic op

I forgot to add this to my previous comment...op does not even show any sign of remorse..she thinks she did the right thing by giving d dumpy Dr. her no..her response to peoples comment shows she is a proud type...she is dis type that don't take correction easily because she thinks hse is right...I hope u r not making mistake that u will regret tomoro

you are never satisfy..what are you looking for again?its wrong and your husband has d right to be angry because u will still do this again..maybe u don't no u r married...

u no cook d lie well

op, ur life has gone beyond repair..I pity for u

I love u guys comments.its just so funny..can't stop laffing

who cares if she is beautiful and killer curvy

your gf. is dating you and d soldier guy

d op is immature..pride don scatter her head

op, ur brain need mopping

eya....NA pesin pikin be dis..u just waste ur mama belle for notin.

ur repetition of words "NA so, NA so, NA so..." shows op is a potential liar...see wetin awuf dey do person

dis op can jealous

this story reminds me of my uncle who wanted to sex his wife and he discovered there was magun on her...he didn't put d magun on her.so d question was how did my uncle wife got d magun? her lover put d magun in her so that my uncle shud die..my uncle sent her packing immediately...

one thing we need to no is that...if a married man puts magun on his wife body, d charm cannot affect him wen he has sex with his wife..but if d wife sex another man, d man will die

dis op is sick

Hopefulman:



You are ing two issues together, me and the op matter dey different

hmmm..no mind me jare.I just dey vex

imagine girls trying to defend themselves when d op is right...pls girls leave dis thread..

good for u at least u don't have to spend

dis op must be mad..d op just mention all my tricks that works for me...dis op should be evicted from NL

its very painful..d girl has no sense..imagine 25yrs old girl fucking 19yrs old boy who should have been hier junior brother times 3...she is deranged..if it were to be someone above her age or her age mate, d view wud ve been maybe u didn't Bleep her well, or u don't give her much cash, or u r not caring and so on...i wonder y she has to fall for 19yrs old boy...that girl has mental problem..

as for d baby, don't let her abort it..I doubt if d baby is urs or if d baby belongs to d 19yrs old boy..just wait for paternity test..

Hopefulman:
At least she was bold enough to confess.


I deflowered a lady and dated her 5 years, she was with me all through the struggle when I had absolutely nothing, 5 years on thank God things changed, I could die for this girl cos I make sure she lacks absolutely nothing at all. Guess what?

Just recently I caught her cheating cos she wasn't smart about it, as a matter of fact I knew before she went to spend the weekend with the guy but I didn't stop it cos I wanted to give her a benefit of doubt cos of my trust and believe in her that has waxed on for 5 years, I thought she would just visit and leave cos having the opposite sex as friends mean nothing as long as you know your boundaries.


Behold she slept at this guy's place for two nights and avoided talking to me, calls and barely could read my messages. I let her be too so she enjoys herself..

Note : I had taken her home and made my parents know this is the one I want to marry and they have blessed us, as a matter of fact she's in with my parents and I made them like her.


Another thing is sexually I was the monster and sex Frick between us and she complains alot about my undying sex appetite, she rarely satisfies me cos she's weak in bed, but I learnt to be patient with her, teach her all she knows and manage the sex like that, so if there's someone who should cheat it would be me, but I had loved this babe too much to cheat, so me not satisfying her wasn't the issue..


Now let me blow your mind like Al Queda, guess who she went to Bleep for two days while I was up all night and couldn't sleep for desame two days knowing my supposed to be wife I shower all the love, care, money on with tears wondering how confused these women can be, it was a fukkkking 19 year old boy, meanwhile she's 25 and I will be 30 by May


After I gave her a face to face confrontation with the scope of having a spy app on her phone and knowing all she does, she confessed she bleeped him twice but it's her first time ever, "Babe what is your reason for this stupidity ?, ", she's like I am sorry I just wanted to explore. imagine such bullshittt


You can never please a woman.

you are damn right..my gf bleep different guys behind my back even though I satisfy her well but she was just too loose..I found out when she allowed me flipped through her "her diary of sex"..at first she was lying but she later it..I asked why did she cheat behind my back and she could not say anything...

so what am I trying to say is that, a girl who lacks proper home training and who is also loosd and also have many male friends is bound to cheat for no reason...if there were to be a tangible reason y she cheated, it wud ve been understood but she since there is not, she will continue to cheat no matter how u try to pleased her..

recently now, my gf sister wants me to bleep her too..I don't no what all these cheat girls gain from this

congratulation to ur stupidity op

see her dry face like dry rat