NewStats: 3,263,467 , 8,180,217 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 04:41 AM 2ou1x

Ok pls report yourself to a nearby police station.. big fool

I don't think he is ready .. he jst needed a lady to lash at will... Jst move on n remain prayerful.. I am sure your choice of man will come around.

U ar funny

Chat me up on wattsapp for ideas
08106508648

Y did u take a loan when u ar not a core staff with terminal benefit

Sorry dear

PoliticallyInco:
You are simply attached to the person who first made love to you. It is a typical psychological thing. It is like a psychological syndrome. And it is real. It is also most common with women. The first man they gave themselves to. Men don't care. They mostly just want sex, have a chance to spill their seed and nothing special attached. You will only get over the silliness of such an over romanticized notion of "he is my first love bla bla bla" when you further mature emotionally and psychologically. Your sexually active love life is initiated at an age too tender and unprepared to foster ambition for solid love and proper courtship. The commonest reason for accepting a man's advances for girls in your age range lies within frivolousness, curiosity and vogue. Curiosity from romantic Novels, Zeeworld, and lies couples tell about how they have been together for 100 years and never quarreled. As girls mature in age, they either grow away from their first love, and get entrapped in other amorous discoveries; or are simply pulled along as parents change bases, or are heart broken and shattered by these men. Eventually they realize men can sleep with 200 women and call a few the love of their lives. Men can date 300 women, cater for 30,defend 20 from other men, fight for 10, and still not deeply love any.

It is always a wish for a girl to be with the man who was her first. That is what is wrong with you right now. You are romanticizing life. I am not saying it is not possible. I am saying it is highly unlikely.
Both of you are kids. And do not know what the hell you want right now. In this journey of life a lot will happen that will overwhelm both of you. You are both "young and dumb" as we jokingly say. For instance tell him your think you could be pregnant that something is late or missed. And then see him scamper for safety and tell you he isn't the one. Haha. Then you will know if he has his shit together or not. You will realize he is not ready. If it actually happens you will also know you aren't ready.

Listen, you are attaching great importance to this guy because he is your first. Just because you noticed and gave him a look first doesn't mean it was made from heaven. People love to do this "bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh made from heaven" self delusion. It is just an attempt to make copulation and sex look super. It is a silly and feeble attempt to leave reality into fantasy. Without these fantasies and bullshit talk and false feeling of eldorado, most women won't even let a man touch them unless their lives or survival depended on it. One thing is for sure, sooner or later, eentually reality always sets in.

People have told you that a relationship shouldn't be your priority at this age and stage of your life. You be thinking of being a financially independent woman in future. Face your education because men of tomorrow will see a woman who brings nothing to the table as a nuisance. However, between you and I, we both know you won't listen. So let me tell you now. If you want you should actually break up with the lawyer guy.Oh yes! I am serious. He is more mature and also let us agree not to put him through your cheating on him in future. Go back to your school guy and see if he does anything differently after you return to him. Another thing you can do is to tell the school guy you have broken up with the lawyer guy. Now that you are his, watch his actions and innactions towards this (childish) relationship.

The School guy is a little child that only notices his toy when another kid wants to take it and playing with it. Both of you are just young and emotions and animal instincts are working 100 per cent in you all. Reasoning, thoughtfulness, is very lacking. It comes with time, experience, the ability to learn and retain, willingness to change and taking persistent action to change until change happens.

He cries and sobs and you too your heart I. Interesting. Whether genuine or intentional, his actions manipulated you. Now you feel since he is your first, it is better you run back to him. Well, see this movie till the end. Go back to him, he will always treat you like he used to before the lawyer guy. Then when you find someone else he will break down again. Perhaps until you realize he is a waste of time, or until he meets another (most time a younger) girl he fancies. Then he tells you to leave. No amount of weeping from you will make him change his mind.

Pls tell her she can't eat her cake n have it... If I am that lawyer guy... I will break up with you ASAP

Palema007:


So you decided to do it yourself, lol and I was about to render my help with that.

you nor get joy at all

My guy.. don't resign, let them terminate your employment first...
If they do, then you will be asked to repay the loan at your own pace

Ask again

Pls I need the past questions..
[email protected]
Plsssssssssss

U ar a big fool

Leave the fool... He is not serious

I am tired of the lies.... Save it

Theobserver835:
A critical assessment of that post by JDJ4

He said he love the girl so much but his mum didn't love her and told him to leave her.

Because of this he decided to distance himself from the girl.

The girl found out and decided to do same.

Later he went back to the girl by visiting her in her shop when he heard she is making money as she just open a business.

Unfortunately she wasn't at her shop but at home so she told him to come over to her house and he sheepishly went to her house and one thing lead to the other and he bleep the hell out of her.

After a month plus,she call to tell him she is pregnant for him and op couldn't believe and so he rush down to her place to confirm.

After confirming that the pregnancy is truly his colabo, op then force the poor lady to abort the pregnancy against her will.

After a well,her action started affecting her life and she went spiritual and the cause was what she did with the op.

And the op was told to provide money so as to buy some certain bullshit that will be use by the operating witch doctor in order for the poor girl to be free.

Op then decide to run from that by dodging the girl by not visiting or picking her calls as before.

And presently op is with another lady that according to him was accepted by his mum as a wife material.

So op is now here crying like a baby he is and telling us he is confuse and even contemplating suicide.


This is my verdict after thorough assessment of the whole thing via the op writeup and peoples comments to and fro in regards to that post I hereby declare the op guilty on the following count.
1. Been an accessory to murder
2.An heart breaker
3. A betrayer
4. A disobedient child
5. A bloody weakling.

He is hereby sentence to carry out his responsibility of his action and do whatever he is told to do by the poor girl family for his own peace because karma is a bitch.

Court! Arise.

So this is y u created a thread. U must be a clown

We all need to be prayerful becos so many persons updated their profile.n besides we don't knw how many they need.
My prayer is that by hook or by crook my name will be among those finally taken

purpleB:
Hello Naira landers,
My name is Esther, I'm currently job hunting and my focus is In call centre/ customer service positions. I humbly request the assistance of nairalanders who can help me secure a job in these positions, I'll be extremely grateful.

I currently work as a centre officer for a telecommunications company as a contract staff.I have over two years experience working as a customer service executive, I also have an online diploma in customer service from Alison.

Please don't read and nairalanders as your call to that might be the help I need.

My email:[email protected]
Phone nun:08084466248

Pls take marketing... Ok everyone cant be on customer service

Go and do marketing... pls everyone cant be in customer service okquote author=purpleB post=88254866]Hello Naira landers,
My name is Esther, I'm currently job hunting and my focus is In call centre/ customer service positions. I humbly request the assistance of nairalanders who can help me secure a job in these positions, I'll be extremely grateful.

I currently work as a centre officer for a telecommunications company as a contract staff.I have over two years experience working as a customer service executive, I also have an online diploma in customer service from Alison.

Please don't read and nairalanders as your call to that might be the help I need.

My email:[email protected]
Phone nun:08084466248[/quote]

Dazgrace:
Please me too I have certification in customer service,call center and I have been looking for a job for long and am just tired this is my WhatsApp number 08115147469

Go and do marketing... Everybody can not be in customer service ok...

Whogoes:
Good day nairalanders
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I am having a serious issue right now concerning my sexual life . If I am having sex I last longer than expected. I hardly cum and many babes complains about it . Even the one I was looting today have to stop me half way. But I have been untop of her for almost ... I can't really calculate but trust if I say 20 minutes. All our effort for me to cum was not working. We even had the second round for Me to cum but no way.
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Please help . Matured minds only.

I pity you

Monday60655:
95% of N-power beneficiaries do not go to their PPA twice in a month. I have many of them as friends.

So you came here with your big mouth to expose your friends... U ar not a good friend
Rubbish