Daisy101:
People dey marry sha!!! Chaiii. Virtuous women has seen a lot.
This is urgent. Post immediately you see this. Please pardon any mistakes. I’m not coordinated. I’m a married woman of 3 kids. 8years, 5years and 1 year old baby. I’m a market woman. My husband drives keke. I have seen shege in this marriage but I’m not here to lament. I just want to talk about what happened now and the best way I can pvnish this stupeed man I called husband. You know the situation of country affected all businesses. We’ve not been able to pay our children’s school fees. My husband lamented bitterly about not having money. I break my safe and I brought out 120,000 I’ve been saving since January. And gave him to complete and pay our children school. The fee is 140,000. It’s with abeg that the school allowed them take exam. I leave for market 4,30 am to be able to buy food stuffs cheap before it enters resellers hands and I told hubby to go and pay the fees before going to work. This night, I asked him how far. He said his keke jam person and he used the money to repair the persons motor. I waited till after he slept and I went through his phone. He didn’t know I know his . Nurse chi, I found out that my husband’s side chick is pregnant. I suspected he’s che@ting but I don’t know with whom. That is not even my only problem. My husband gave his side chick my hard earned money to comot belle. I want a planned deal after I’ve recovered my money. I want to pay that side chick a visit. I’ve gotten her name through true caller and I’ve seen her social media handle. I’m trying to get her house address. Please advise me. My head is full. How do I pvnish my husband and his side chick. I want them to feel the same pain they caused me in this marriage . The id£i0t is sleeping like zo_mb_ie right now. I feel like st@#b£ing him to de#@#th He is a d&£m!on in human form.
So, what did you expect me to do...or wants me to do for you/to you...;
or to go and do you,do for you or get for you and for me/ to you...?... Haba! Hahaha!!! By the way, how old are you please...?... You can respond to me personally... direct message...
H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.
The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.
I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.
I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.
Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(ed nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we ed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.
When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.
She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.
I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.
Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
Mumu! Sepe iwo naa laiki/feran omu...,ati idi...? Ebaun ja idi re..., enje un wo omu re/oyan re...? Se oma funmi ni ounje je...? Se ofe funmi ni ounje je...? Oti fe funmi ni ounje je o...! Iru ounje wo lofe funmi je...? Ounje ijekuje ni o...!.. Ounje awon aje ni o...!... Abolohunje je, maje ki olohunje ri nkankan je... Abolohunje je...maje ki olohunje ri ounje je... Eye jenu wujewuje...,eyin alajebanu...ati eyin alatenuje... Mowiire abi nko wii re...? Konilo/kose pataki/ko pondandan, atibeebeeloo; funyin lati sofunmi wipe, mowiire abi nko wii re...
DaisyMellow:
Hi guys. I usually don't bring relationship issues to Nairaland, but this one is very serious as it concerns the man I am engaged to and scheduled to marry before the end of the year.
I have known him for a year and few months and we are in love. When we started having sex, it was all vanilla and although he was a bit rough; as in throwing me around and putting me in different positions, I was okay with it, and honestly, it was kinda exciting because some of those styles were new to me
However recently things have gotten really weird whenever we are having sex. He requests me to do certain stuff that honestly creeps me out. Sometimes he would tie my hands behind my back so tight and stuff the pillowcase in my mouth, then have his way with me. Sometimes he would blindfold me with my scarf and ask me to beg him to free me, while choking me with his two hands. There was even a time he got a knife and pretended to want to stab me and asked me to play along and act scared. Sometimes he would ask me to forge tears so he would watch me cry while we had sex.
It's gotten real bad that a week ago, I almost ed out when he was doing one of his weird choking sex-plays. In the past I have talked to him about how I didn't enjoy some of these things and how we should do it sparingly or not at all. He sounded like he understood, but after a few weeks he seemed bored and uninterested in normal sex, and begged me to go back to the rough stuff because that's the only thing he likes.
I know he loves me because he takes good care of me and is even friendly with my parents and siblings. But this extreme sex thing is really making me uncomfortable.
I can't imagine going through this sort of sex every day when we eventually get married and live under the same roof.
I need serious advice on the next steps to take.
You are unreasonable & not sensible/sensitive..., how can you be seasonable...? You are irresponsible, an irritable bowel or "have an irritable bowel and towels"...? Get out and get lost... After all, you have gone out ... or are&can be getting out or going out to eat lunch...? Fool... good cool fool... looking for food or looking for cotton candy/cotton wool... What a cool fool looking for good food!..., or are you looking for good news...?...
I think I finally have to agree wholeheartedly with the decision of NDLEA on ballons 🤔
Dirty dainty deity... See your head like that of Olamide/Olamide song..."...I Carry you for head like Afro"?... Or I carry you for head, like Mariah Carey...?...
I’m sure op came here thinking NLers would approve of his thought 💯
You have to seriously wrestle against an impoverished mindset.
You should be glad you could be of help to your family, not being this bitter against your own father.
I pray you be a father soon, so you realize that “the nothings” your father did for you were sacrifices in his own nothingness.
to recite Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s line, “I will never be broke!”
You may simply rephrase it, “I refuse to be poor for long”; 50 recitations 3x daily.
Didinrin... Get out and or get lost... Na by force to be a father...,when you don't have a feather-let alone some feathers or many feathers..., clothings& shelters...? Like Martin Luther...or like that of Martin Luther,etc; that is or that are wearing and "tearing" leather jacket or leather what...? What of May Weather...,or like that of May Weather...? They would be running/going helter skelter, hither and thither,etc; until they either withers or withers either&neithers... like they are not brother/no brother or have no "brother(s)"...? Of course, I know MY "BROTHER(S)" & OR "ELDER BROTHER(S)"... They/those "sinister/adulterer/murderer sisters and wanderers/slanderers/Gadarene brothers",etc; would be shouting THE LION OF THE TRIBE of JUDAH...,etc; as if they have imbibed/imbibes or wants to imbibes THE SPIRIT-THE PRESCRIBES, DESCRIBES and ASCRIBES, etc; of THE LION OF THE TRIBE of JUDAH... They are like those Scribes,etc; that do takes, gives or collects bribe... Who told them to imbibes THE Spirit of the Scribes...? That is why you would see many manly arrant ignorants,etc; that doesn't know what it warrants...,let alone have the warrant for opening/the opening...or for&to be opening pants... They are like an/the/some infants ants that are rampant... looking for where, what and who to devour,vour,pour/fall...or detour...?... Now, they would be talking about or bringing up water vapor...as if they don't look up and or can't looks up... They should looks up and devour, vour, pour, etc; the water vapor... Let them stop doing hook up... because of lollipop...top up... chop chop or "chop up",etc... Did you wants to drink 7up or licks lollipop...?... Come to my shop or "OUR SHOP"... Hop on or hop and chop in... If you haven't do hook up..., let me see your hands up... You are full of Bleep up and Bleep off... until your time is up...?...
IamAtAnger:
Are u sure you're mentally ok?... did u even understand what u juz typed?
Funny you... Just ask...,if you don't underestimates and or don't understands... It is amusing rather than amazing, this old fashioned way, etc; that you are using to or trying to get me talking/speaking or get the Words of GOD/THE WORD from me... By the way, introduce and reintroduce yourself... First of all, introduction... Your gender reveal...?...
How can I be of help...? By the way, isn't there a theory-according to some people that; "HEAVEN helps those who helps themselves..."? Clap for yourself...? Seems you don't know yourself...let alone knows and abide by HIMSELF... If I were a chef, I would looks up at.../to my self and my Shelf...; I won't be deceiving myself-doing like Wyclef or like a Wyclef...,that is in "AYF" (Anglican Youth Whatever...),NCCF,etc... EFCC or DSS...? SSS, SS, AS or ASS?... As a chef, I would love/haves/halves &armed myself,etc; with or by putting "books".../THE BOOK...,etc; inside a Shelf or my Shelf... Now, you would be singing-"ROCK of AGES clefts for me...let me hide myself in THEE..." In THEE or with THEE...? Both...? What of..., let THE WATER and THE BLOOD... from the...?...
Dimaya:
I am writing this post in response to my initial post that made front page yesterday in which a lady said she won't get pregnant until her husband starts earning over 200K
People's reactions got me thinking heavily because nobody addressed the obvious elephant in the room:
unreasonable civil service salaries
In the original post's video, it was established that Nigerian civil servants starting out with a degree ( level 8 ) earn an average of 75K monthly.
And it takes as much as 15-20 years before they can earn close to 200K monthly.
With the current high cost of living (particularly food, transportation and housing), it seems the government doesn't expect civil servants to be able to their families on their salaries.
This begs the question: does the Nigerian government pay enough for civil servants to get married?
And also, if you're a married civil servant earning less than 100K, how on earth are you able to meet your obligations today?
[quote author=siofra post=123367554]So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married
THE FUTURE&THE FUTURE OF/IN THE SCRIPTURE,ETC; IS THE RAPTURE... As if I already don't knows/already don't captures your pictures...? Forget The SCRIPTURE&THE FUTURE WHICH IS OR WHICH ARE THE RAPTURE...? Hell no or hade no/hey no!? You should better or you had better forget about the caricature&miniature, etc; like furniture, agriculture, horticulture, sculpture,etc... What is the culture&nature of RAPTURE OR OF THE RAPTURE, ETC; THAT WAS STATED, SLATED, MENTIONED&HIGHLIGHTED IN THE SCRIPTURE...? What should be the nature of the stature or of those statures, textures,"vultures", ventures,etc; that wants to be captured, during THE RAPTURE...? Have you been ruptured...? Won't you have/suffer fractures or suffer from fractures,etc; as a result of ventures&debentures, or ventures debentures...?...
I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.
This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso
Scripture is future&future is RAPTURE...D SCRIPTURE&FUTURE/PLUS FUTURE;ETC=RAPTURE-RAPTURE IS D FUTURE.
I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.
This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso
Let me see ur picture,I want 2 picture ur future from THE SCRIPTURE;which is or talked about&of RAPTURE
Yevabi:
I was born deaf and dumb. I communicate through sign language and lips reading.
Unfortunately, very few people outside the deaf and dumb community understand sign language. This has been a huge hindrance to my dating and social life.
A lot of men back off when they find out about my disability. It is really depressing.
Share your experience.
We don't even know or see your face, & or "her face"...
Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?
Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain ission?
Continuation...
But if u asks me,"who I go ask"? U don't,may not&don't wanna kno...Seems u are...blessed...?
Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?
Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain ission?
Continuation...
Are u asking me...? I mean, wud u be asking me; if&wen u don't know me&don't wanna know me??
comrChris:
Some folks here are the reason many don't ask for help here.
Just imagine people's response to somebody seeking for help for his brother
Mention those folks; Oakes,"Voakes", Ovoke,etc; don't provokes or don't get provoked... Don't be easily voked&provoked... Did you want to smokes or drink cokes...? Smokes&drink cokes...? You want a coke or you want to smoke(cigarette...like Gareth, Margaret, Macbeth, Elizabeth,etc; that use to play bet, wear beret, play bet&wears beret or use their belt&beret to play bet...? Let us bet... You are from what "berth", wears what belt&beret, gives birth 2 what, etc...?...)? What did u know or can u say about cokes,chokes&smokes, pokes&provokes, yokes&etc...? "Do not be unequally yoked with d unbelievers..." It is GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST(IN THE FORM OF ANNOINTING OR WHO&WHICH COMES IN THE ANNOINTING,ETC...), dat breaks d yokes or can breaks d yokes&okes or oakes of Ovokes, Oakes, "Voakes"/Vaughan, etc... May we not be yoked,be...
Emmanuel30a:
Is it fetish or "fish"...,etc...? He has eaten some fetish fish,etc; from Will Fish or Will Smith-d goldsmith or d "blacksmith"...? Smitten or mitten,etc; lyk a kitten in d kitchen,from d kitchen, or a kitten caught in d kitchen trying 2 steal chicken(s)...? Dat's sickening... So sickening,weakening,demeaning,defeaning,etc; lyk a weakling, or lyk a weakling&hireling sibling&fingerling or sibling lyk fingerling... He was probably watching "merlin",etc; with/from sister Helen, Evelyn,etc; dat is so lean, or dat is y he is so "lean"¬ keen,akin,harken...? Meaning? Dia is di...
between Dean, Sean, beans, locust beans, Mr Bean,&Osama Bin Laden, etc... He probably needs an awakening... GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST SAYS THAT:"Come unto me, all ye that labours&are heavy laden; I would give/gives u rest..." He is or was busy looking 4 ladies,at ladies,lyk ladies,etc; lyk "u",etc...? Instead of going 2 GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...?... I RISE&SHINE..., or arise&shine...
malcom1X:
Bro there are lecturers meant for this, he needs to talk to those lecturers.
It is that lecturer that will tell him what he needs to do.
Secondly you need to check your brother why would someone have 5 carryovers?
Is it money, gambling, girls, flexing or cultism.
You need to focus on the main issue rather than beating round the bush...
You need to ask him what the problem is.
Is it fetish or "fish"...,etc...? He has eaten some fetish fish,etc; from Will Fish or Will Smith-d goldsmith or d "blacksmith"...? Smitten or mitten,etc; lyk a kitten in d kitchen,from d kitchen, or a kitten caught in d kitchen trying 2 steal chicken(s)...? Dat's sickening... So sickening,weakening,demeaning,defeaning,etc; lyk a weakling, or lyk a weakling&hireling sibling&fingerling or sibling lyk fingerling... He was probably watching "merlin",etc; with/from sister Helen, Evelyn,etc; dat is so lean, or dat is y he is so "lean"¬ keen,akin,hearken...? Meaning? Dia is dif...
Kholiwe, tell me-wat shud I throws 2/in/at ur face&faces...? Afterall, I ain't throwing faeces, etc; in2 ur face lyk faces or "faeces"? I mean, in2 ur face dat has been defaced lyk dat of Tuface...? Wat is ur face,&wat is in ur face,etc; dat I can't face... U are neither a scarface or a boniface,etc... Wia wud u surface,av u surfaced,av u been surfacing...? Wat av u faced&defaced...? U wud probably lyks a/some sperm or craze,etc; 2/on ur face dat is lyk Tuface...? U wud lyk 2b set ablaze inside a furnace or INSIDE D FURNACE, without a trace or dat is without a trace, or wia u can't be traced...? It wud takes or wud only TAKES D GRACE OF GOD&OF D LORD JESUS CHRIST,D HOLY SPIRIT,ETC; 2 be erazed or "taken" away from such place&terrace of furnace,with furnace,etc... Are u "taken",woken,broken or awoken/awakened/awawakening? Did u wants 2go 2/end up in d lake of fire...? Wud u come 2 "MY PLACE", or u wud go 2d/ur only place?... [quote author=Kholiwe post=123046161]
stop throwing spits in my face
mytime24:
This woman just suffered an accident and wit her broken leg and pain and
she's feeding her baby waiting for help. d luv of a mother has no limit God bless mothers all over the world.
❤❤❤❤ a word for her please ❤❤❤
#lalasticlala pls move it to Fp lets bless all mothers
Kobojunkie:
1. Please engage your senses abeg! Moses, the one who in fact gave to Israel the Old Law,never indicated the existence of a place of torment after death. God never suggested the existence of any such throughout the 40 years He led the Israelites through the Israelites feeding them the details of the Law.
"I am D WAY,D TRUTH& LIFE, no 1 comes 2 D FATHER; EXCEPT THROUGH ME..."... "I am D FIRST& LAST,D BEGINNING& END,D ALFA&OMEGA..." "& I saw d deads of both youngs&adults,etc; in d tent(or nest...?) of JUDGEMENT..." I won't put my nerves&verves,etc; in2 "dis/these"... So, u may not serves ur reserves... I wudn't serves my reserves...,or if I were u; I wud reserves&conserves my nerves&verves,etc; 4 wat it/dey deserves... So, how are u...? Wat did u deserves...? Wat u preserves...? I mean, wat did u deserves,etc; dat u can't reserves&conserves...? Mayb wat u can't serves&reserves...,etc; is/are wat u deserves? Are u playing 4d reserves or with d reserves,...?
Kobojunkie:
1. Please engage your senses abeg! Moses, the one who in fact gave to Israel the Old Law,never indicated the existence of a place of torment after death. God never suggested the existence of any such throughout the 40 years He led the Israelites through the Israelites feeding them the details of the Law.
Hello, just keep dis 2 urself or 4 urself; I mean, y did d scripture(if not THE LORD JESUS CHRIST...?)said dat: " deads in D LORD wud rise first/wud first rise,etc; on d day of ressurrection..., or judgement?no, or on d resurrection of d saints...,etc..." Don't/stop saying heresies... Isn't it okay 2 drinks pepsi...,etc; Wtout drinking hennessy...? Wen ur name isn't "Fawasi&arowasi Fawasi tiunse waasi...",etc... JESUS CHRIST spend how many days,in d place of d death; &doing wat...? John how many..., in d wilderness...? Even u/1 can be saying heresies, afta drinking pepsi; how much more of heresies, if&wen u are drinking pepsi&Hen...; or with henessy...?...
Emmanuel30a: 11:46am On Jul 28, 2023 
LIFE, no 1 comes 2 D FATHER; EXCEPT THROUGH ME..."... "I am D FIRST&
and
God bless mothers all over the world. 
