NewStats: 3,260,841 , 8,172,757 topics. Date: Tuesday, 27 May 2025 at 07:38 PM 83v1k

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."

I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.

This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.

There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

Wetin concerns us...,or werin concerns me...?...

Franzinni:
my point exactly

So, it remains to be seen how and where people (people like you...?),etc; would go/goes,when or after they dies... Ore wa, je kalo; ore wa 2×...?... It's outright or outrightly/utterly and bitterly,etc; self deceptions and"reception"(not slightly self deception... Of course, people has or have reception,etc; for self deceptions and or, have/has reception etc; where they are doing self deceptions... talkless of or not to talk of/not to talk about their intentions or ill intentions-from the inception/since inception...They don't need redemption...,or did they just needs exemption..of redemption/from redemption? They asks for exemption...instead of redemption...?...), if people are spending and expending "our money or ALL OUR MONEY",etc; and not giving or sending us money/any money to buy foods, woods, good foods and consumptions,or like consumptions,etc; yet they are not heeding-let alone yielding (they are still needy,a needy or part/one of the needies/neediest...?)..., yet they are not accepting/they have not accepted GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; as their LORD, GOD and PERSONAL SAVIOUR... Can you tells me how to tackles self deceptions...?... Franzinni

Franzinni:
sorry you are already irredeemable... We all are too hypothetical and greedy. That is why I always thank God humans don't live forever, no matter how much money to hoard you will leave it all behind.

Mufu... Ara wa ko moves...

Franzinni:
sorry you are already irredeemable... We all are too hypothetical and greedy. That is why I always thank God humans don't live forever, no matter how much money to hoard you will leave it all behind.

Okay o..."poor guy man, I am so sorry for your comments on the way home alone with the kids and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC...?" By the way, "explain we are all too hypothetical and greedy..." Hypothetical or Hypocritical...? "Hypocritical or hypographical and geographical...? Typographical...,or biological and typographical...? Biological typographical...? In the theoretical or in the practical and pragmatical, if you don't says/if you won't says that; I am speaking grammars.../a lot of grammars... Brighter grammars...?... I need to be critical or I wants to be critical..., you needs & wants to be critical...?; which is crucial or very crucial...,etc; not racial and interracial... like those in Asia and Australias...,etc; with no alias or that has no alias &aliases, alliance/alliances&are so bias or biases... Is that why they are so bias or so biases...? Or, is it because they already has/have fiance and fiancees,etc; that they are financing..., on their finances...? Like Pope Francis...? What of finances or what of their finances...? Is it your alias or your aliases,etc; that determines finance or your finances...? Did you have a "fiance" or fiancee rather-that you do finance/finances with you Binance... How is/how are romance or your romances, appearances, contenances, etc...? Romance for appearances&contenances... or appearances&contenances for romance...?
Romance appearances contenances etc; for romance fragrances..., or fragrances for romance/romance fragrances... Romance for fragrances...?Whatt of fragrance or fragrances... I hope there is no romance for fiance or with fiance and fiancees...,or with Francis fiancee/with "Pope/hope/drope/wardrobe&cope Francis,etc;fiancee..."?...

steeltrust:
bro if na school
That money no reach any where if your intention is to go to first world countries

What I’ll advice you to do
Learn a skill
Like truck driving etc
Search for companies who are ready and willing to give you sponsorship visa
Example of countries are Canada
Or apply for Canada visit visa
Use it to get there
It not going to be easy but if you put effort you go find job with LMIA from there build your self to soft collar job

Have it in mind
When you reach abroad
Even if you be medical doctor with all the liscense here in Nigeria once you get there you’ll have to train to their standard before practicing. During this process you have to look for menial jobs to do, there are menial jobs in Canada that pays 24$ and hour for part time examples of such jobs are school bus driver
You can have two jobs in a day from there you can save up

My brother no listen to anything when anybody de tell you here
Find away to japa
Na who never comot for Nigeria go tell you say there’s peace here because they see other Nigerians abroad saying so

By any means necessary legally.
Leave, Build your life and then come back after becoming a citizen
Imagin holding a first world country port which give you access to countries which the Nigeria port can not

If you need more guidance
Quote me
I will give you update for free
But I know more of Canada than any country so I can put you through on it

Oda naa...

Blackmercyvelly:
Try to Add more 7million naira , so later I will tell you where to japa to , mumu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wahala...

Tenshades:


Get a laptop and pay few dollars to learn any of copywriting, content writing, web copy, UX writing, and Script writing to name a few.

When you are sure of yourself, pitch your skill in every platform possible.

Earn more money to switch nationality and travel around the world.

Your first degree in English made me suggest the niches up there.

I wish you goodluck.

The niches and cliches...,or the niches like cliches,etc; that can make ones riches or bring about ones riches...? From creche or as a creche...? Help me asks Lionel Richie...,or; let me asks Lionel Richie, Lionel Ditchie and Ritchie, ETC; that, what is his/their niches and cliches,etc; that brings about riches, the riches/that brings about their riches... Lionel Richie, (& Lionel Messi...,Van Persie,etc...?...) Lionel Richie, what brings about your.../what are the niches and cliches(and the caches?...or you have just cleared the caches...?) of riches or of your riches...? Gold and Silver,etc; belongs to or comes from(or comes out from...?)GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, & HOLY SPIRIT,ETC...

OSDD:

O Lee fork... another religious fanatic, have a nice day

You are from hell or in hell...? Did you comes from hell...? Which one..., HEAVEN or hell...? Sell...

OSDD:

O Lee fork... another religious fanatic, have a nice day

O Lee fork ko, O Lee shit ati O Lee kiborocky ni...

pachigo001:
Mine was when I was serving my supervisor started getting fond of me I run for my life and avoided her like shit

Wetin concerns us...?...

OSDD:


He needs a real life solution not something spiritual

Okay o... Oda naa peru indiana jones movies... What is the difference/differences,etc; between casual and spiritual...?... I know THE BEGINNING and THE END... "I am THE WAY, THE TRUTH and THE LIFE, no one comes to THE FATHER; except through ME..." " I am THE ALPHA and THE OMEGA, THE BEGINNING and THE END..." Who created him..., "I mean the boy or the boy/one of the big boys or biggest boys,etc; who wants to travel..."? You wants me to unravels...?, you would marvels... Pick a shovel...,& let's unravels... Let's unravels what, gravels that's has travelled or that is waiting/ready to travels... Don't do April fool or I don't do April fool... Stop doing April fool... I'm a not a fool, etc; to not knows what is beautiful... You may all knows that, my cup is full; or, is it that-my cups are full...? Don't be fool.../don't be fooled or don't be a fool...

BlaqScarface:
I want to pursue a masters abroad as a means of escaping this country. I’m jobless at the moment but I’ve been saving from my former job for two years and also got a couple millions from sport betting and inheritance.

I’m confused about this while japa thing as I don’t want to go abroad and start doing useless jobs or start suffering or get depressed in another man’s land. I want stability and peace in a country with a reasonable economy.

Also, I have a first degree in English language, I’m 24. I’m confused on the path of my life to take please advise me.

My place is the best ever ever ever ever place,etc; that you can come to...? GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; are THE ONLY PLACE... you can go and come to...

Kobojunkiee:
I see... you don't even realize what it is you. You simply plod forward like a brainwashed sheeple probably thanks to programming from your pastors and mogs. sigh!

Mufu, ara wa ko moves... Dagrin omo kogrin...

Kobojunkiee:
I see... you don't even realize what it is you. You simply plod forward like a brainwashed sheeple probably thanks to programming from your pastors and mogs. sigh!

I see you...

Kobojunkiee:
Again
● Why are you dead set on shoving your Bible--- and its standard(s)---- at every one?
● Who send you. --- who asked you to do that?

You of course... Standard kor, substandard ni...

Jman06:
Sorry o. You go soon enter market

Your papa or your father, grandfather, mother and child office,etc?... Oloriburuku somebody else...

Kobojunkiee:
Again,Why are you dead set on shoving your Bible at every one? Who send you?

That's why I am asking or what I am asking and basking,etc...? Crackings or crackling like Kirk Franklin...? Jacking or jerking and carjacking, like carjacking...?...

Kobojunkiee:
Why are you dead set on shoving your Bible at every one? Who send you?

You says...? Did you sends me or sent me...?... Are you heavensent/The Heaven Sent...? How many percent..., did you knows or did you also knows the serpent, his agents, gents, recent agent, gents&regents,etc...?... Like 50cent or like 50percent&or 💯of parents...,in parents or in/with parenting... Natal, prenatal, antennal,post natal,etc; are fatals... They leads or can leads to mental and kolomental..(kolometers or kilometers and centimeters of kolomental...?), how much more/how many more of marital; or talkless of marital...? "Many people have died from the flu in the..." Many people are doing natal prenatal antennal post natal,etc; outside marital..., that's one kolomental-marital itself is kolomental or brings kolomental? That's why we have many kolomental, etc; that have ran/that can't run meters and kilometers, meters like kilometers,etc; going/running/rushing and "onrushing or unrushing",etc; to do marital...,etc; that has meters and kilometers, meters and diameters/meters like diameters...,etc... Kobojunkie, did you wants to drinks liquor or drinking liquor...? You need a liquor/liquors,etc; or water vapour...? Liquor like water vapor...,or pedicure and manicure...,etc...?...

Kobojunkiee:
Why are you dead set on shoving your Bible at every one? Who send you?

Dead set kor, handset ati mathematical set ni...? I hope you would hear THE TRUMPET/THE SOUNDS of TRUMPETS and CLARINETS, ETC; when GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; blows...?...

thaoriginator:
It's possible bro, He's all forgiving. That's why we pray for the dead. That's the only thing we can do to help

Dindinrin... Scam and silly... You don't have A BIBLE...or you don't reads THE HOLY BIBLE...? You don't know the story of Lazarus and The Rich man,etc; in The HOLY BIBLE...?... Was the Rich man forgiven...? Pray pray pray... until you becomes a prey...? You are praying which/whose sins,etc; after death...? After death, there is judgement...!... You are probably a muslim...,a prelim or interim muslim,etc; like Teslim and Malim/Mallem..., like Akeem...? Seems you are an Akeem, or like an Akeem, Kazeem, "Mr Sim",etc...?...

Kobojunkiee:
There is no such thing as untimely death. Get over that delusion and you will thank me later for it!

Yes or right...? Except that, the righteous(or the righteous gemstones...?),etc; can be taken care of/taken away..., before their evil days-which is still not an "untimely death"... Many people here, don't read A BIBLE...,let alone reads A/THE HOLY BIBLE,ETC... Hence, are you/are they righteous...,or you are a righteous stone & gemstones/stones like gemstones...?... Righteous stone like gemstones..., or your are as righteous as gemstones...?... " Be ye HOLY as THE FATHER in HEAVEN is HOLY..." "Be ye PERFECT as THE FATHER in HEAVEN is PERFECT..." Hun/huh...?...

Jman06:
Tell your father mumu, and while doing that, ensure to check into the nearest psychiatric hospital. You need the attention of a psychiatrist as soon as possible.

Dindinrin nio..., read again... You don't have a father...? Did you have a father or grand fathers...?... Did you also have or has THE ABBA FATHER...?...

Jman06:
Instead of holding our leaders by the balls until they fix our healthcare system such that Nigerians can readily access quality healthcare, we'll rather attribute deaths from accumulated negligence of our healths to village people and the devil.


RIP to the dead

Mufu Mumu mugu imun gun,etc; what is health and what is/what are health system...? Health system or healthy and wealthy system...? Healthy and wealthy stems and systems...? You need a totem or totems&diadem, totems like diadems, etc; to have a healthy and wealthy stems and systems...? Did you...? Is that what you needs or needed...? You don't know GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, ETC; of/in Jerusalem, Bethlehem and IN THE NEW JERUSALEM.../WITH THE NEW JERUSALEM...?... You would be using totems, etc; and be calling yourself diadem or a diadem...? You are one of them or amongst them,etc; that are using totems...? Is totems or is that/are those totems,etc; from Jerusalem, Bethlehem and THE NEW JERUSALEM...? Did totems or did such/those totems &the likes, or "those totems from Bethlehem and Jerusalem"(if you say so or if so says...)etc; has stems and systems/leaves systems...? When we asks you to do motem and post mortem/postmortems...,etc; you would tells us that, you are going to an hotel or some motel... To do what...? Are you a Laurel/is your name Mr &Mrs Laurel...? You all are doing like "Elede Durel",etc; that can't operate a Dell/a Dell laptop..., let alone operate and separate Dell from what...? Can "Elede Durel" etc; sells a Dell or a Dell laptop...,if he or she can't tell what a Dell laptop(s) is or are...?

Franzinni:
giving back to the next generation and shaping the future... you only live as long as the last person to you. I want to be ed for shifting the paradigm that will open the minds of the kids of today to become great people of tomorrow if I can successfully achieve that I am fulfilled and I have found the perfect opportunity. I have the skills, drive and determination.

The world of today, the greatest war being fought is the battle to control minds so the earlier we equip the kids of today the less they are easily controlled like the generations before them. That's as much as I can divulge. So help me God.

And how is that for me...? Is that/is there something/anything for me,etc; in that or with that...?... Are you with me...?...

remsonik:
Jesus Christ,ye! Ogun nla leleyii o. Chai! This girl is from my hometown. I know the family well,very decent,gentle, hardworking and well devoted girl. God why

Ask again...,then-tell me why/the reasons you are not born again; or the reason you are not yet Born Again...? Be born again,etc; is what you wants to hears...? Where are you located, residing at or living,etc; in Ogbomoso...?...

Oloki:


For you

Who is you...?...

bassdow:
what's more annoying - your calling a silly god or that this life we live is meaningless

You says...?...

Oloki:


No never can tell. Stress and low sugar combine.
Inlost aceewt friend last month ending. She too was healtho. Infact we chatted till we reach bus stop. She entered maruwa to where she was going, while I trekked home. Only to be called two hours later that she was dead. I didn't believe until I go there and saw her lifeless body inside the car.
Till now, is still like dream. Am like, maybe she travel and she will come back any moment

She is coming back to you...,or for you...?...

juman:
Condolence to the family.
My yoruba people.

What people or which people are you...? From which people...or where are you from...?...

Franzinni:
Stress is a very bad thing ... I have been struggling with it for days now , anxiety about uncertainty even though I know it's all internally generated.


I don't want to die without fulfilling my purpose, I have greatness in me. We ALL do.

Leave your comfort zone mentally and physically that is how new things can find you.

Rip to the dead

What is your purpose or what is then your purpose...?... Multipurpose...or glucose...

BGSM:
The people around her during the bridal shower should be investigated, am very sure something is sketchy.
Please in life, don’t trust anyone.

Mumu...