NewStats: 3,264,120 , 8,182,684 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 06:53 PM 1h6s5i

The X6 is terrible experiment gone bad period. What the heck was that

habumaks:

I know the ladies expecially the "beneficiaries" will try to condemn me but this is the truth. I have been observing this from ladies lately. U will send her a recharge but still she will expect you to do the calling. Even if the call is more important on her part she will not call you for just one minute and in the information. Haba!

I dont know but is this just another way of showing you are "responsible" or they are outrightly exploiting us.

Guys do you observe that too? your views please

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGCnl6O6bnE

I laugh when I read some response like "leave the man", "he's not worth it" etc. It shows that a lot of people still do not understand that men and women relate to issue differently for most part.

@OP: Communication is essential here. Have you tried discussing the issue with him? How much of him do you know i.e personality, demeanor etc? Has he always been like that? Are you aware of any reasons or incidence btw you two that might be influencing his demeanor? I ask because, for all that matters, he may not even be aware that he does these things, let alone how it makes you feel. I know it sounds prudish to most women, but men in general are not always cued into emotions as most women do. You owe it to yourself to let him know what he does and how those actions make you feel. If he is matured enough, loves and respect you, he should come through with whatever it is that is going on or better still allay your fears and change his demeanor accordingly.

Good Luck

ybab:

i understand the part of the man living in nigeria and the wife and kids abroad (good education for the kids, etc)

the one that is the most rampant and painful is cases where the man travels abroad in search for the 'gloden fleece' and then never brings the woman over to him. Rather, he comes home every 3years to impregnate the wife and goes back.

yet the foolish wife. yes, very foolish wife, opens her legs for him each time and allows him to feel her up.

so man is 'married bachelor' abroad, while he has wife and kids in nigeria that he send money to every month.

there are soooo many of such men littered in US and various countries abroad.

shameless men !

i had the (mis)fortune of falling into the hands of such. the cow didnt tell me he was married. but when i found out, i show the guy shege.

In most cases like this, the man is either not legally settled overseas or is married to someone else abroad to regularize his Kpali (papers). Some guys are so smart they hide it from their spouses. Believe me some ladies may know this but chose to stay put in the relationship for the sake of the kids, financial security et al. All cases are not exactly the same. The truth is, relocating abroad for married couples is usually very complex and often come with many complications.

Else-Oh-Jay

I am pressed. You be cloth?

richard69:

I was 7 then and we had this house girl who was abt 18yrs, she and her friends used to play with my tiny stick while watching mojo.
I liked it though!

You are a victim of child molesters. This is not funny at all dude.

If you are in naija, simple solution, get yourself some serious 'agbo jedi' 'opa eyin' to be specific. S shots in the morning and another 2 in the evening. Work wonders!

U guys make it sound like there are only two types of men. What happened to the not too muscular and not so skinny lots? Do I sense some kind of discrimination going on here

Hi,

Would like to know the going rate to buy a block of 4 flat (3b/r with en suite `toilet each) with good facilities around Challenge/Felele area in Ibadan. Also what will be going rate for rent for such flats?
Thanks

Hi all,

I am looking for the average going rate to rent a 3 bedroom flat with good facilities around U.I, Ojoo area in Ibadan.

Info would be appreciated

Hi,

What is NEBOSH all about? Would be helpful to know what does ing the board exams leads you to. More Details, weblink etc please.

Thanks Lawyer. That was very helpful. I will revert re progress

Hi Lawyer,

Thanks for the valuable info. Just a quick but not completely related query:

If I am buying an existing completed building with an existing C of O, I like to know, would the existing CofO in the seller's name suffice or would I have to get another CofO for myself. Someone suggested I may need to get Governor's consent. Is this the case, and if so would the valuation for the governors consent be based on the value of the land or the entire building?
many thanks for your prompt response