Stop taking anything that has to do with government in of skill acquisition serious. Know this and know peace.
Naso one failed State Governor come the use us the shine just because we want learn digital skills.
As a country, I think we have not gotten to the stage that we should start deploying technologies to solve our problems. No matter how sophisticated the technologies are, it will fail.
We need to go back to basics, get it right and change the system/institutions first because that where the problem lies.
For those that are yet to see their money, kindly go to their office and lay a complain because some details have errors and the money bounce back and this was no fault of the adhoc staff but rather a typographical error on INEC's part. That's what happened to me.
And lastly, there were some irregularities I observed during my ordeal with them, act fast if not you wouldn't see your money.
i was paid the governorship allowance last night but up till now, i am yet to receive my presidential allowance. i submitted my bank statement since 4 weeks ago, nothing yet. my state is oyo state
Go back and complain to them at their office, if not you no go see shishi
tomi4life:
So, I am not new to nairaland, I only created a new so i can post and remain annonymous.
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
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Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
I got emotional at some point but I saw forgiveness from her part and the willingness to carry on and not to give up even went the situations was out of control.
Op, must you lie so shamelessly just to get clicks?!!
God bless you my brother.
OP edit your heading because it's misleading.
This has nothing to do with him being a choirmaster because the scenario doesn't state that. This is purely a criminal offense and should never be associated with church please.
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asanausana91:
since the day that fool accepted to be campaign DG of Tinubu even after tinubu tell the world that northern Christians are incompetent I begin to hate the short fool.
Tinubu decided to insult your faith and you still agree to work for him? Who does that? Can a Muslim agree to be a campaign DG where the whole Muslim body was insulted?
Lalong you are finished.
He likes cheap publicity and limelight.
Asked me the projects he has successfully done as a Governor during his 8 years nothing. Chairman Northern Governors Forum, zero. Even as DG Campaign this one worse self
asanausana91:
Shame on Lalong, he cannot win senatorial seat,he cannot president, he cannot even win governor for his party.
Nigerians should reject APC from top to bottom.
Congratulations to plateau people.
One thing you don't know is that Lalong has successfully ended his political career rather prematurely. I doubt if he would be considered for any elective position in the near future.
Somebody that can not delivered his own PU how do you expect him to deliver the others 😆😄
I like this!!! Spirit of sportsmanship!!! This is how politics urge to be and this also attest to the fact that PDP candidate truly won the election.
Looking forward to seeing you both work together for the common interest of plateau.
You sabi Nasarawa politics. I don’t know how the indigenous people get robbed every four years.
They got robbed every time because they have been using the principles of DIVIDE AND RULE on them all these years. But I like the fact that their eyes is gradually being open with the LP candidate stepping down for PDP candidate.
The moment the indigenous people forces and work together, the better for them.
Carry your religious hate and leave Nasarawa state, we don't want people whose sole aim is to cause religious division crisis is Nasarawa state, the people of Nasarawa state are peaceful and happy with each other until folks like you came in with religious dogmas.
The people of Nasarawa will never bow to hate filled individual who go to religious centers to sell them bullshìt.
You destroy your state and think you can do the same in Nasarawa state. Never
With what just happened in Nasarawa State election, you guys are already trending the path of religious crisis. I have lived all my life in Jos and I can tell you for free that this was how it all started 2001, 2008, 2011 etc. Just pray that this never happen because Nasarawa own will be worse.
This is how Nasarawa would have been as well but the Muslim vampires in that state has said that the state will not be free; all thanks to INEC’s refusal to follow their own guidelines which would ensured transparency and eliminated chances of manipulation.
But sooner or later, Nasarawa will be liberated.
Daylight rubbery in Nasarawa. Evil sets of human beings. They wanted trying it here on plateau but their game plans have failed. People stood their ground and protected their votes.
As for Nasarawa "he who fights and runs away, lives to fight another day". One thing this election taught the indigenous people of Nasarawa State was unity, I saw them United across different ethnicity and tribes to fight.
Congratulations!!! to his excellency Caleb Mutfwang. Your victory has finally delivered the Plateau people from 8 years bondage of Simon Lalong led APC government.
Who has became an aso rock errands boy.
Please can you list the documents ed, since you are through with yours
These are the documents to be ed.
1) port Photograph.
(2) Educational Certificates ( secondary, high institution and professional certificate)
(3) Certificate of State of Origin.
(4) Birth Certificate/Declaration of Age.
(5) National Identity Card.
(6) NYSC Discharge/Exemption Certificate.
My candid advice and experience, the size of these documents should be in kb if possible.