NewStats: 3,263,950 , 8,182,051 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 12:46 AM a366h

emusmithyy:


Do you already have it written? Partly but I still need a guide

Sonnobax15:

Bro,the bitter truth is that your wife has left you emotionally....

exactly

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

sorry to say oga you are a fool, a woman u marry telling u this , u still dey beg her , she come dey get power u are fool,my advice to u is that secretly in your own start preparing for break up

Tekashi89:
Hey guys I'm a young guy of 25 and I recently noticed a problem about me, people tend to not listen to me or obey my instructions or listen to my topic of discussion.
Note: I always listen to theirs and I always do what they say I.e as per friendship or relationship.


So it goes like this whenever I'm with a friend male or female and we're discussing and I bring up a topic they tend to act uninterested either by rolling up their eyes or bringing another topic to cover it. They'll always want to be the one initiating topics.

And also whenever they have an event and they invite me over I attend but if I invite them they'll make up one or two excuses.

Also if I have problems and I discuss it with any of them they'll just allow me talk with nothing meaningful as advise and they'll bring up other topics to cover it as if what I'm saying is not important.

I even recently broke up with my girlfriend because she'll like to do things on her own not when I want but will want me to do things when she wants. If I talk to her she doesn't listen but will expect me to listen likewise my male friends.

So I had to like distant myself from everybody now and I'm mostly alone whenever I'm not at work.

Note: people do things for me not because I ask or persist or insist but because it came from their mind. But I want people to do things for me because I asked them to

So guys any advise on how I can work on it cause I can see the problem is not from them it's from me

You know what they say , that if u want something nice to be done for u, gat to do it your self

Ojiniman:
Hello,

I'm a single guy in my 30s search for a nice lady of Igbo extraction to get married to this year. I live and work at home in a quite area on the outskirts of Lagos and due to the current nature of my online work I do not move around so much and so finding a woman I like is quite the problem.

I want to solve that problem in the next months so i may be a married man before the new year.

Following some advice form an older friend, I wish to ask and know about any church in Lagos with a high number of matured single ladies so i might visit and find a good thing. I can visit any where in Lagos all i need is an address and time of service.


Additionally, can someone please advice me how Synagogue Church of All Nations in Ikotu may fit in here? Are there a lot of nice single ladies there like i keep hearing, Ikotu being so highgly populated? What are the best days to visit there?


Please, please, be civil and do not insult because i have insult no one and this issue is a real problem to me. I do know there are so many single ladies in this country now search for husbands and most go to churches to find pray and find solutions to the issue. I just want to know where to look for them. The nice ones that really know God.


Thanks




.

Christ embassy na

Zonefree:

A further proof that a man in love is a useless man.

Tueh

I dey tell u, love delays men from building mansion or generating wealth

I use to blame my dad like u, mine was almost like yours , woman brought him down , but am happy before he ed away he helped me with were I can buy a land , a thing am proud of him , now I determine to never waste any opportunity given to me, forget him and push forward leave anything woman alone , usually I started understand that salary work is not good but business work on daily income, 12yrs I have not been married, but I have achieved a few properties on my own . Stop blaming your dad and start think positive

Sonnobax15:

No be lie...

Every hustler just dey suffer for those car owners hand well well...

Reminds of me of a similar scenario that happened between my myself,my banny and one mumu guyman enger inside my Keke some weeks ago.....The werey heard how my banny and I were calling each other babe but the mugu still went ahead, trying to woo her, right in my presence . Na once I stop my Keke for halfway say make the scallywag come down,say I no dey go him destination again

I hate men who try to oppress their fellow men simply because they feel they have emarrived more than such men

U wan kill me with laugh, u for carry the mumu man go another far destination tell him to come down with a slap

Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

Don't rush baba make her angry , frustrate her,and see how easily she bend then u will thank me later , woman once then enter na to see u finished

Samajogs:
I tried this sack farming last year in my compound and I regretted all my hardwork and money.

same thing too with my oga ,the yams and peteto crashed

Rexymania:
No follow person wey you fight... highest, just dey observe and strike in his vulnerable time

never outshine the master

bennybuhari:
Fubara fall boys hand with that im okpolo eyes

There are times we lower our pride and beg ,he may have lost the battle but not the war.

Herbalworld:
Please read and share in all forums / blogs

Living in this part of ikorodu is the worse decision I made in my life. How can someone have light for few hours within 3 days and then the light will spoil for one week? No light to pump water, cook, bath, nothing nothing.This has been my experience since I moved to Iogun logun in Igbo olomu, agric, ikorodu.

Why do some areas enjoy light in ikorodu and others suffer for light? My friends that live in Oko Obi, elepete, also said that they have not have light for 5 days now. Imagine that.

This morning, I feel like crying in bed. imagine yesterday I have to do short put because there was no water to use in my toilet. Have been using pure water to bath for days now.

My question to Ikeja Electric Plc is do people living in logun logun, Oko Obi, solar, psychiatric, elepete at Igbo olomu agric Ikorodu offend them? Or they just choose to be wicked to us.

There is no month here that light won't spoil for days. I don't owe electricity bill yet you people won't bring light for us to at least make us feel like a human being for once. From my window I can see light in agbede and other places around us but here in my area it's a no no.

I pray Lagos state government sees this because I don't know how long I will do this short put and litter the bush with my poo when I am living in a flat that have all the amenities I needed.

Please share so @Ikeja electric and Babajide Sanwo-Olu can see this. I'm literally living in 1906 in 2025 honestly and I'm tired. They should fix our light please. I'm mentally drained.

We just got out from not having light since November last year till February this year 2025 ( We were completely out of light for good 3 months) I suffered during this period and now they have continue to put us in darkness again.

Please we need help...

Seun and other s please me move to front page.

Na you wan live for Lagos na,even in the north light dey well well.we enjoy more light,water etc cheap transport than ikorodu

emusmithyy:


I saw your comment on my post and I mailed you.
The post was about my book, HOW TO BORROW MONEY FROM NIGERIANS.

Pls I wanted to asked,how can I write a book for publication

Celestialsword:
grow up to become touts and street urchin because of no good education and care.

Their education should be his priority and not marrying another wife

If u can control something pls control it,if u can't leave it,I have a case like yours ,but na them sabi,when a woman left u with her kids ,she wants to use them to puppet u,the best way when a woman leaves u is to make money

Carndidlaydid:


You think everybody be like you

Two of una too funny

Firebox123:

this man why are u worried relax joor find another wife it's never too late , another wife will bring blessings,if them grow and understand better they will find u

Kongaone:
Rizzler

U done finish me with laugh

Seun:
I had a long phone chat with an old friend of mine who I previously had a public falling out with. We agreed to disagree about religion and family life, and promised each other not to allow our differences of opinion to be a stumbling block to our friendship anymore.

We also committed to doing business together. I will buy a beautiful duplex from his company and consult them when I need to travel. He will buy 7.5% of Nairaland at a very attractive valuation and become a director of our company so that we can benefit from his vast experience.

It feels so good to be on good again! I urge you to follow our example if you're currently not on good with any old friend.

seun na April fool abi,how u go sell nairaland

My Husband Makes Love From Midnight Till Dawn’ – Kaduna Woman Wants Divorce by Islie: 2:16pm On Mar 25
A 37-year-old woman, Linda Stephen, on Tuesday, approached a Kaduna Customary Court, seeking divorce over her husband, Felix Stephen’s excessive sexual demands. Lol some commentry will make u laugh and laugh until you forget the topics.

Racoon:
How can a spiritual counsellor be having sex with the children she was supposed to be a good example to?

Oga she was 23 then ,she
Is now 40

Mariangeles:
Ona.


I used to not like this stuff because of its unusual taste, until the day hungry wayad me, and so I had to eat it with fresh palm oil.
No be person tell me say make I enjoy am.😀

U are funny

mrvitalis:

That was before the supreme Court ruling

Jonathan declared state of emergency in brono yobe and another state the governors remained

The president have no constitutional right to remove the governor the military should rule besides the governor

He was not removed,but suspended till they fix Thier political problem,tinubu is the commander of the armed Forces,he has the power to do and undo.

God1000:
If Tinubu wants to be fair, then he should also suspend FCT minister, he's responsible for all the chaos and mayhem in Rivers state

Na true u talk o

Samantha125:
You want people to start stealing cars?😑😑😑

you dey mind the idiot,na so them go dey bring one idot and desperate ideas because them see do,what do I benefits in having a car instead of a house,it's not by power but by his will,many people who got cars are now packing it because of fuel.

helinues:
We have a new sheriff in town

you are very funny,are u a fan of spaghetti western move or cow boy movie like the good the bad and ugly.

michlins:
This is really good but make I ask,is the pipe not too shallow on the surface. I was hoping for around 10ft depth so that even with further development of the city, nothing will touch the pipe

who would want to build on a pipe line anyway

Mariangeles:
From former INEC chairman to special adviser on livestock reforms? How did that happen?
Only in Nigeria! 😀

Once you loyal, them must find position for you.
I mean, look at Wike.

am telling u