NewStats: 3,263,489 , 8,180,316 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 08:45 AM 345x5d

Loyalty is not how much pain you can tolerate from a partner. Goodluck.


Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Sigh

Most times, we are the cause of our problem. Cos his wife is financially stable, you decided to make yourself feel special believing he married her just for money. To be honest, You have no value in his eyes. Can't say for his kids though. But the earlier you accept he ain't necessarily using his wife but obviously using you, the better.

Men Sha... He has kids and wifey has no clue.

Just take it one day at a time... You'll be fine.

Needafriend:
Hey NLs,

I had to create a new to get this done. I’ve been way too lonely and shattered . I just need a good friend to talk too, preferably a matured and educated lady with good sense of reasoning...

Thank you,

Regards.

N:B. I’m a guy

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Laid off without notice? Strange....

moscolink:


No one's perfect, she must be willing to forgive any form of imperfection or misdeed.

Stating it calls for questions. Forgiveness should not be imposed. Everyone has deir limit. Wish u all d best.

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Done & Dusted...
I wish he had half the personality stated here.

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Lawrencecute:
I am Lawrence, from Anambra State, I am 32_yo, attractively tall, fair in complexion, good looking, Educated, self employed and intelligent. I need a wise, humble tall or average in height, and hardworking girl for serious relationship/marriage. preferable age is between 25-35 years of age who resides Enugu, Abia, South East/South South, for easily reachable (not by tribe but by residence any tribe is welcome). when we finalize our relationship, then we can plan our final base. any serious minded girl (Graduate, who got something to offer in the Union, not just gold digger) from any religion (we all are people of God) should me on 08133684325
(it's unfortunate that Nigerians never grow to extend of looking for love beyond their region, religion or ethnicity? it's too bad)

April 28/Lagos

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Price for 2009 Toyota Matrix plus clearing pls

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April 28

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