NewStats: 3,263,717 , 8,181,145 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 02:04 PM 3qx

Josephkabila12:
take ur trading and stvpid revenue to ur ibo state

Okay

aswani:


That's not my point, the market is in Ala Yoruba yet has a non-Yoruba name.

Okay

Lanretoye:
they should go and generate revenue in the state they come from…if the farmer cannot appreciate the land he is cultivating then he should go and sow in heaven.

Okay

pimplucious:


Mad people

Okay

Idaytesj29:


Close your shops and keep your audio revenue, go and set your business up in Awka or Aba. That will be better, it's not by force to operate your business in Lagos if you cannot abide by the rules and standards set by the host.

Okay

aswani:


Ndi Yoruba are really accommodating sha, naming a market after someone that is not from Ala Yoruba and also adding someone not from their zone to the board to ister said market.

What nice people.

Who are the major traders in the market that generates the revenue for the market?

Newlymarried:
Just 11 weeks and he looks like this,what if he had stayed 1 month,that's obituary!

The oppressors humbled him.

11 weeks is almost 3 months o

And this makes her life more complete?

It's B.
Then C
Then A

See this ones, like we asked for an update on Buhari. They always go at length to justify their istration even after it's exit

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7354590/im-finally-getting-married#117054217

same person ?

Same thoughts exactly. There was even a follow up post on her parents forcing her to get married now not later while she kicked against it.

For her mind, she Don reach to give advise.

@op
These are not projects for the people. They are for the governing class so it doesn't count.

questioner:
I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.

1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl.
She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.

2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.

3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed

4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant.
Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well.
Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.

5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to us and then I'll drop them at home together.

6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff.
Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in
She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations.
infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.

7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable
asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.

8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.

9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'

10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...

11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.

12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions.
Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes
What job do you do - Banker
Are you married - No
Do you have kids - No
You must be old O ? - Just 31+
What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met

She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty

13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use.
I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate

14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.

15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t
I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while
in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.

16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier.
Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.

Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes

What do I do?

a) Do the right thing and continue with YS

b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS

c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them

Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.

But NL people, what do you think ?

Put the OS on hold and be sure of what the YS really wants. She could just want to use you and dump, unless you want same too. If not choose who has the better intention

Hi @mugnmuffin

Please do not be discouraged by the comments you read attempting to play down your spirituality.

Nairaland would not give you the best response to the answer.

Seek the face of God first. If there is no conviction about him, move on. God is with you.

ability is important in relationship. Please move on.

Where see the guns?

Seun:

https://punchng.com/sokoto-approves-n155m-for-clerics-to-propagate-islam/

This has to be some kind of joke. I mean, they might as well send the motorcycles directly to bandits, ISWAP. This is unbelievable.

Boko haram sponsors

hustla:
.

The entry level job, what does it entail?
Customer service stuff?

Asking for someone

Nope. All professional roles

CandyOps:
23 years is a prime year. Imagine a 23 yr old CR7 or Messi on the pitch.

Now if you were 20 yr old when Buhari started ruling. You'd be 28 when he's done.

8 good years of your prime completely wasted because of a bad leader. Our youthful years and energy wasted collectively because of one single bad decision called Nigeria

Word

robosky02:


https://www.completesports.com/bbnaija-winner-mercy-eke-denies-allegation-of-having-sexual-affairs-with-super-eagles-star/

She's not innocent

lalasticlala:


https://gazettengr.com/just-in-buhari-removes-hadiza-bala-usman-as-npa-chief-names-mohammed-koko-as-replacement/

When one leaves, another comes in. Competent fellows

CSoul:
(Created this new to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
( kindly push to front page)

Please save yourself the stress of the marriage and nairaland of another thread when the war starts. There's no love there. Dunt waste everybody's time

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

It's possible when you meet the right person. Be sure to always know their stand about these things before you start dating.

Try to see if you can negotiate with your current partner. Is he really serious about getting married to you or about having sex while dating?

GeniusOla:


This is teddy*x alternate moniker.

I concur

joobseekar:


How do i get there from kabala west?

Get to kasuwa/kano Road,

Take a bus to crittal hope busstop (busses going to Sabo)
Cross over, take a bike to barcode.

Alternatively, you can go through Barnawa Complex.

henry4991:
Na so Diamond Bank start

Exactly what I wanted to say

emmanuelewumi:



Becareful of Unity Bank, it is a bank that is operating with a negative shareholders fund of N250 billion.

When a bank or microfinance bank offers you an interest that is far higher than the industry average you need to be very vigilant. It is a desperate ploy to get depositors funds

Sir, what about WEMA's ALAT that offers 8%

Beeam:
Scary thought....

What if Jarus is Mosgoon?

Thread haff finished b dat

Beeam:
These long posts baba.... these long posts

Not "this"

English hard

Thanks man

Do people type these long posts?

c12112:
Apologies to anyone who has tried to me via pm. I used my primary email to here and I am still interested in staying anonymous as long as Nairaland is concerned.

I don't go looking for info, I get it cos someone directly related to me works in NNPC and has been for a considerable long number of years and he gives me updates as he gets- largely from reliable sources.

When I said payment for people from 11th were being processed, it was cos the person that processed mine called him immediately he saw my name and he was able to link it with him. Nothing mega.

I have still not seen the money. Can you imagine?

What I am sure of from what he has told me recently is that the process has been concluded.

I know someone in HR but he has little or no information as the very few times I have tried to ask him for updates, he couldn't give. We are very close- if he knows, he'll tell. That he's not telling is cos the goings-on are shared on a 'need-to-know' basis.

When would successful candidates be ed? Barring all last minute changes, next week. I was told an actual date but NNPC is a government entity. These things can change cos someone somewhere with influence decides to do anything.

Oh! The few times I have asked about link BTW APL and TP, same story: NO LINK.

CBT scores may have also be used for aggregation. MAY is the emphatic word here.

We just wait.

Peace!

Baba, your name dey the list of the successfuls?