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blank: U Neva can tell. I cud either be writing an autobiography or a biography |
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Kennycyphers: Lols. Watsop kenny |
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Shuuu? I dint receive any text o. Or is it jst fo doz dat paid d 4 k ![]() |
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butanep: Sch doesn't send names anymore. NYSC sends to sch rather. After getting list frm online |
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...... He went to my employee nd raked hell hw they are enticing a woman to disobey her husband. He came bac nd after shouting at me told me dat my employee sed he will only withdraw d job if I came personally nd sed I dint need d job again, of course I refused. He used different mechanism to make me succumb including raping me at a point after of which I got pregnant again! To cut d long story short after six months i cudnt continue wit d job cos I was nt emotionally balanced. I still had house chores to deal wit so I quitted d job n had my baby. I thank God I dint hav miscarriage so I named her miracle. Her father always mocked us by calling her obstacle bt it's well. Wen miracle was 1 yr nd eight months old I wanted to start job again I decided dis time to inform my loving husband bfo going nd he sed over his dead body n dat I shud consider mysef dead if I take a job. I shud stay home nd bear him kids dats why he married a poor church rat like me. He asked me why I needed a job was to flaunt mysef for guys. After all he was taking care of me nd my wretched family. I replied dat if he dint allow me I wud go bac to my family after all mum had rained me almost to d end bfo I met him. He laughed at me nd said he knew I won't go anywhere cos my family can't do witout him as their only source of income dat he was sure they wud chase me bac ( truly he had been caring for my family despite treating me like a ware) I complained to my family nd received d same advise they gave me wen I was getting married so I swallowed my suffering until one day a letter came frm a company I had gone for an interview alas he received it. Wat I hrd as I was bathing was " honey I tot I told u dat u can get a job only if u wanted to die" confused I asked "nd so?" He drew me out of d tub nd used his belt thoroughly on me I pretended to hav fainted wen I cud bear it no more nd he sed "wen u wake up we shall continue from where we stopped nd stormed out, Eh?? I packed out dat very nyt with d help of a neighbor. Early d next morning I went bac to my fathers house. They wept wit me on seeing my body nd rained curses on him. For one week hussy dint call. My sis nd her husband called him to kno wat happend bt it's either he dint pik or he abused dem. so my inlaw nd my mum nd bro went to see him to ask wat happened. They got theree nd saw him merriing wit harlots. He even pretended he dint know dem. they tried to speak wit him bt he told dem to leave his house nd Neva com again to beg him for money since their goose at laid the golden egg has decided to run to her numerous boyfriends. They came bac nd we started managing life togeda. My sister had married but her husband wasn't dat rich they jst helped a little so after some months my mum started her own war.......... Just like my sister earlier predicted........ TBC |
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I am the second in a family of eight. My dad was a police officer while mum was a trader. When I was fifteen Dad died in an explosion where he went on a distress call. Mum dint want to go bac to village so she started bugging me nd my elder sister to get married wen I turned seventeen nd my sister eighteen nd half. It was in my third year that I got to kno Raphael. He was a business man gentle to the core. Good looking nd charming. No girl cud resist him. He took ova my education, was contributing to the family's welfare showering us wt gifts nd made me fall in love with him. At the beginning of my final yr He proposed to me wit a very beatiuful nd expensive ring in a resturant. Unknown to me he collected my close friends' numbers nd invited dem. I wanted to hesitate that it was so fast that we shudnt rush tins bt he started begging nd even shed tears I loved him d wanted to be his wife bt nt this soon however I accepted. Immediately the lights came on nd everyone shouted congratulations!!!! I was stunned to see all our friends. Everyone in d resturant was there for us nd were waiting fo me to accept. I was so impressed nd was drunk in love with him. He was this perfect guy bt there was somtin wrong.......... He looked down on people sometimes me, though he was quick to apologise nd make amends. But in a few days or even few minutes he wud always go bac to his behavior. He shouts at me disgraced me in public insults me nd sometimes bangs the phone on me. My weakness was that he always apologizes almost immediately nd is always sorry. I had it up to here. I complained to my mum even though I know she wud kill me if I sed I dint want to marry him. She gently pointed out that marriage was nt a bed of roses nd she was nt ready to stop the flow of gud tins. My elder sister told me hw she was giving her hell for nt getting married nd insults her every day. She sed if I dint want that I shud manage nd marry d guy dat tin wud iron out wt time. She encouraged me to go on wit d wedding prep. Within four months we were married nd within ten months of marriage I gave him a child. We were so happy. Four months after my baby came I understood the meaning of "Marriage was nt a bed of roses. I had graduated nd was serving immediately after my service a school around my area d for teachers. I was always bored as he was rarely at home always on business trips. I asked him if I cud apply bt he refused I went ahead nd applied. I was taken. The day I told him I got the job I got the beating of my life. He had beaten me bfo bt nt like a child. This one he used cane belts chairs his hands nd anytin he cud find.....I fainted
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nnatom: Yea. Just lik at d wedding in Canaan. |
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Wow dis is nyc bt I prefer spouting nd sulking to shouting on my boo. He hates nagging so he has to tolerate my silent aggression
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Wow dis is good. Hi mates. Is there lik a BB or whatsapp group?
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arvinsloane: If it wasn't ur biiz den u wudnt hav commented d advice stuff. am nt married nd am nt searching.... Wen I meet d right person I shall marry if I feel like it |
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arvinsloane: I named celebs cos they are d ones we kno mutually. D difference btw she nd dem is dat they went into somtin they cudnt handle while she is taking her time respecting her inability to handle a marriage just yet. Many ppl marry jst to satisfy family or frends expectation nd nt because they are ready or ok wt it. Dats y I respect her preference to take her time. She knows her personal reasons which we might neva find out |
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arvinsloane: Wat type of foolish advice do u want to giv to someone dat says she doesn't want to marry YET? Na u go keep d marriage for am? If she divorces u guys wud stil mock her. Isn't she beta dan dem Funke Chika Bukky Tchidi Stella Monalisa Ini Nd oda actrersses dat cudnt handle dia marriages and are nw divorcees. Free person abeg 3 Likes |
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Pls why do guys take it personal wen a girl says she doent need a man ![]() 3 Likes |
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eckersley: Who no be expert?? |
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Wat is she laughing about. If she cudnt hold her husband why won't ini try nd dig her own gold off d dude. It's nt her piece to laf cos it was Ini who left after getting all she wanted. Nt dumped as she (Ruth) was dumped
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