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Akannigbabe:sharing bills with a wife is not bad. OP u and ur wife matter hmmm wetin de my mind mk I just keep am make trouble no de. Both of u should just try and ignite ur love for each other. Infact u and ur wife should have a meeting and talk about these issues causing problems btwn u guys, appologise to each other and vow to let love lead. 2 Likes |
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Beverlyjean:waoo this girl u like football nd get sense oh...exactly wetin de my mind. That Sari de dull my spirit allah |
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This is an insult na...this coach is not a Ronaldo fan. He is just trying to cut the wings of Ronaldo.
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Spin360:nice one bro. may God bless ur hustle...u will succeed Amen. |
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Spin360:where do u base? I don't have a bus but I can help you search |
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Spin360:pls modify your post and remove my phone numb, then let's talk about the bus. I saw something like that that will benefit you.. |
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ionate888:true talk....but me I go marry the last good one last last |
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pls anyone on NCS WhatsApp group pls drop the link
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pls pm me KingCurtis21
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ginababy:lols na so o my sis...no b small thing...Glory be to God in the highest. 2 Likes |
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Tunyx01:Amen |
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otuekong1:lols...na so o....thank u my brother. |
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Offpoint:listen to ursef...ur don't need a big money for any white wedding...its not by force to hold a big white wedding. 3 Likes |
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sassysure:bros stop spoiling Catholic name here. The Catholic church doesn't permit sex before wedding. couple that have sex before their wedding, is none of the church business. The church doesn't permit that, but will not kill u because u did it, u would still be wedded. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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moderatedguy:oga make una calm down...that is not an issue. If this guy should cause problem because of this issue, then he is not qualified to have her as a wife...PERIOD. For me, this is not an issue at all...just a little patience needed. 9 Likes |
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Martinez39:Igwegeorgiano, your marriage will b sweet...don't listen to these kind of advice... u have a lovely wife and u should and must respect her decision.. don't even create any trouble with her at home because of this issue, it will affect ur marriage for life. the way u started with her and keep ur promise. u are not just keeping ur promise but u are also helping her keep the promise she has made with God. Igwegeorgiano, do u know what it means to make a promise to God and keep it? some people go as far as saying that " God if I do this and break this promise, let me die" do u know how strong the covenant she has with God is? me for example there are some things I really love to see or do but my love for God and the promise I made to him is scary and is keeping a me away from doing such a thing!!! u see. I believe ur wife is a precious jewel and will come with many blessings... don't even try to upset her and make her feel that she made a mistake ending up with u. Do u want to spoil this beautiful union because of sex which u know u will have her for ever after the white wedding. if u don't know I pray daily for a virgin wife. They are precious in d eyes of man and in the eyes of God...I have a lot to say but I will stop here. Just respect ursef pls Igwegeorgiano. Don't allow anybody here to deceive u, some are jealous because u married a virgin wife which is the dream of 80% men out there. My only problem will b if after everything it turns out that she is not a virgin. But pls bro respect her decision, that decision is not an ordinary decision. Do u know whether she told God that if he has sex before white wedding, she should die? It takes people like saints to make such vow and keep it. u should b happy that u got married to a woman that would b faithful to u and God forever...show her much love and care and hasten up ur white wedding so u can have her in peace. no b must say u go spend big money for white wedding... u can make it small. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
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pls respect your wife's decision abeg. I know it is not right for her to do that anyways because traditional marriage has been done...maybe its how she understands it...even me to I also strongly believe in white wedding officiated in the church, but not to the extent of not having sex with my wife after traditional marriage... but for me, I will still permit her decision not to have sex...100% in . Oga relax she is now ur wife, just do the white wedding and have her...no issue here...just relax ur mind and hold ursef. But what I won't like is after all this and it is discovered that she is not a virgin, that would b a different case. Pls respect her decision, she deserves that respect...to stay a virgin is not easy and I believe she has told God that she will only brk it after her white wedding, so just respect her and God pls. Na you get her so have patience no rush. I Just pray she is truly a virgin sha. 65 Likes |
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Sunday Night with Fr Kelvin From Onoja E. Good evening father Please I have a question. Must one have to confess his/her sin to a priest to be forgiven? Can God not forgive us if we pray directly to him? What about non-catholics? Does God not forgive them? What about catholics that live in places where priest are not available, how would they have their sins forgiven? These are questions a catholic(charismatic member) raised while trying to tell us that there is no need confessing to a priest. I would have responded with my little knowledge but I felt there's no need arguing with him. So I would be glad if I can get a response from you on this subject matter. Thanks padre! My response: First thing we should note is that confession/penance is a sacrament. In the church we have seven of them: baptism, confirmation, Holy Eucharist, penance, anointing of the sick, Holy Order and matrimony. So, just as your charismatic friend has asked some questions, we too can ask your charismatic friend the following questions as well: What if one does not received baptism even when Christ made it clear in John 3:5 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God" ![]() What if there is no one to baptise the person even if the person truly wants baptism? What also happens to non Christians. Following Christ words, does it mean they will be condemned? OKAY, we move away from the sacrament of Baptism and we go to the sacrament of the Eucharist. In the same way, we can also ask your charismatic friend the following questions: What if one does not receive the Eucharist even when Christ said emphatically in John 6:54 "truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you will not have life in you" ![]() What if there is no priest or minister and the person never had the chance to receive the Eucharist? What if the person is not even a Christian, what will happen to him or her? We can go on and on with the seven sacraments, but let focus on penance or confession that he is arguing about. Penance or confession just like other sacraments was instituted by Christ. We read in John 20:23 When Christ gave this power to his apostles saying "Those whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven them, and those whose sins you shall retain, they are retained." When one go for confession, it may look like you are confessing to a Priest who is human, but actually that is not often the case. , it is Christ that gave this power to his apostles, and like in our day today, the priests. Every sacrament, the priest is just there to help you reach to God. He does not forgive sin, God does. We know the sacraments help us reach God. So, I say this to you, God knows what will happen to the person who is not baptised for no fault of his. God knows what will happen to someone who cannot receive the body and blood of Christ for no fault of his, or someone who cannot receive the sacrament of confession for no fault of his. God knows! But the biggest question will be, what happens to those who came to know how emphatic Christ was about these sacraments and the person has all the opportunities to receive them but adamantly refused. It is like having a large pool of fresh water in front of your house, which is accessible to you at all times, but even though you can see it, you still stubbornly chose to trek for miles to fetch water with a small bucket in a far away small river that is not so clean. Anyone who looks at the person will actually feel he or she is foolish. Yes, you finally took your bath with the not so clean water you got from the river, but a fresh clean water is more than sufficient before you but out of your foolishness or unnecessary stubbornness decided to punish yourself by trekking miles. To what end ![]() Then the worst part is, you are not contented in simply being foolish and ignorant alone, but you decided to go on a mission of recruiting others to you to be foolish so that you can have that consolation that you are not just foolish alone. Unfortunately, this is what your charismatic friend is doing. |
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Andychinedu:very true... |
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Andychinedu:chai...120k don sure for you every month. Congrats bro...plan life well with your pay o...don't depend on only d salary. God pls help me...I want to give my testimony like D's guy too...AMEN. 12 Likes |
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wait o...una mean say custom de pay 88k? I don't believe this...anyways maybe there is allowance and other money on top, cos I know they pay well....according to most public opinions o. maybe 150k
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its true...they are just being realistic. The church is made up of the good, bad and ugly...not everyone can overcome the temptation of stealing, so its best to avoid reckless abandoning of your belongings in the church.
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iLegendd:the triangular shape that covers the name as above this ur comment, is better than that circle covering the name. the design is dope |
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hello guys if u can help people, help o
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Viking07:the customer care job u talked abt is it still available? I will like to apply pls |
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Alimaid how to apply pls |
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Flakky26:pls where is the job location |
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