NewStats: 3,263,759 , 8,181,308 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 07:03 PM 485q5p

onyengbu:
I dont think he meant that kind of T&C. I think he is talking about T&C as it relates to the "partnership". What does the developer stand to gain and loose.

yeah i agree with your view...if thats the case, he shall be a co-founder because i cant do it alone, so we plan and shape the idea together. Basically thats it...others will be discussed privately.

semasir:
State your T&Cs

Lagos based.
past web designs

FRInteractives:
Hello I am Fit for that and I'm interested give me a call or reply this if you will accept I'm based in Port Harcourt.
And please give a description about the project too
08072611343

aiit..but lagosian is preferred, because we need to be seeing every weekend.

this project is gonna be funded solely by me...but web guru is highly needed for partnership as continous service is the key in this idea. Interested? Reach me for further discussion [email protected]

Givemejoy:
Why is that most parents do not allow their wards to marry who they wish to?
A close study has shown that most Ibo dude LOVE Yoruba girl and vice-versa (I know what am saying), some (ladies) say they find it difficult divorcing their wife no matter what, however not applicable in all cases.

A friend is complaining that the wife complains a lot that the parents refused her from marrying the Ibo dude she wanted to marry because they invited it must be a from a particular tribe, a few days ago, he complained., she called the Ibo guy and it made him mad and went to the parents to allow her go marry the guy because he is fed up with all the cursing and making reference to the guy anytime there is an issue.

After a close look, most parent in my own opinion, do not believe in one Nigeria. I have parents that tell their wards to marry in the same state because it would reduce divorce, some even go to the extent of telling you that family first before anything and they are primordial in our ways. I know of many friends that their parents are against marrying from other tribes.

My own opinion, we are all equal in the eyes of the Lord.

so inspirational..

i wont say shes a wife, rather, i would say she is a stupid wife for making that decision. Ask her if her own bible practices forgiveness.

I believe each individual has different views on matters, especially with this "being married is better than being single" but there is this friend of mine that said, he prefers being single because when he was single, his life was cooler and he could concentrate more on his professional career and friends/family. He said, now he knows why many guys delay marriage because of this freedom, the fear of not conducting life as we want. Though nature gives us several opportunity to fall in love and we know we have to go all the way, we just do it... It is like running, the moment we hear the gun shooting we run and in a few months a love relationship turns into a marriage and we swear love forever with joy and pain, we start a family, we change our life and start living differently. New important responsibilities arrive and we drive new cars, looking head of us to accomplish a new project which is the family, the house, children, saving plans, bills, new type of vacations, families' reunions, new must do, s.ex! intimacy for example, is it going to be exciting as it was before having our kids? I laughed, and said, thats bad taught though, meaning you never loved your wife. Nope, I love her, just tired of the same thing. Although sex is not the most important thing in a new born family simply because new priorities come up and also because our lady changes after having kids, but it still has it way in marriage.

So, i believe many guys also reason in this way, and ladies, how do we settle this issue of so called change-after-child-bearing?

aikfrank: Ok I have my online business model:

A little complex but unique please read gently.


Why I came up with this idea.
1- Every business needs an online store.
2- People want to buy safely online
3- Not every body can design a website
4- Except from facebook fan page that helps a little, some business needs more tools to show their business online and receive payment
5- Vconnect is the biggest business directory in Nigeria, all it collects are Name, address and phone number
6- Many business want to receive payments online but they don’t know how
7- So many people want to sell just ebooks, pdf, softwares, and many more online with little budget




THIS IS WHAT I WANT TO BUILD:
Let’s use a random domain for better understanding – www.test.com (just example, this is not the domain to be used)

The business idea makes it possible for business or individual to create a business page or personal page, or business blog, or business sales page, or a personal sales page, I will explain in details.

For example if the site name is www.test.com, all I just need to do is to visit www.test.com and an , after ing, then I will be asked WHAT I WANT TO DO TODAY?

At the dashboard I can do the following (possibly add more)
New business page | Personal page | New business blog | New personal business blog | New business sales page | Personal Sales Page |



Let me quickly explain what they all mean:
Personal page – Means an individual want to customize a personal page about him self, if created the page will be www.site.com/the-page-name

Business Page – This page means a company/org wants to create a custom page for their business.

Features of the Personal page and the business page – They will both have a us form that will be linked to the owners email, fully customizable page, add/edit contents from their dashboard and many more cool features.



The personal and business blog – This feature will enable the create a blog page.
This type of page will have cool features like – Do you want s to comment on your blog (enabling or disabling comment from the blog), full statistics of daily visitors from the dash board, filter comments you don’t want to appear on your blog comments, ban certain ips (countries) from commenting on your blog, and many more features.



The business/sales page: (yea this is the deal, am very sure thousands have what to sell online, so I needed to carefully think about this to prevent abuse and scams)


I love this section – A company/ business/individual can sell online buy just creating a business page.
How it will works – There will be different category in this session, Those that want to sell digital products and physical product.

For all method/type of sale page created, who ever is creating it can choose which payment method should appear, they will never receive payment directly!!!

Payment will be sent to us, and if after the stipulated time frame, no disputation from the buyer as against what promised buy the seller, then payment will be sent to seller. This page will have ecommerce system enabled, one item page selling and many more. s don’t have to learn any code at all, will just select yes/no to add any online payment module.

Let me quickly explain this - If the seller has in what I will call ‘Refund Agreement’ as:

-10 days money back guaranteed (Minimum of 7 days)
-If it’s a software and the seller says “This software will extract 30 times daily” and the software extracts only 20 times daily, the buyer can request for refund, within the stipulated period

Refund will cost the buyer some percentage
Also if money gets paid to the seller, we will also charge some percentage also.






The main essence of the site is the sales page/business page stuff and blogging, the personal/business pages is just to increase the number of participants at the site, and it could serve as a directory.



So a will be able to build a business page, also build different sales pages, or an ecommerce store.



MY MAIN AIM
You can browse all sales pages on the site, and anyone can shop safely without fear of scam from any Adam Or Eve.





HOW THE SITE WILL MAKE MONEY
Since registration is free and it’s free to create anything, sales page, personal business or anything, so I see thousands already on the network if properly d.


First income opportunity – From all transactions, both refund and successful payment sent to seller. (don’t underrate the income here)

Second income opportunity – Maximum space allocated to each businesses: if not careful some persons are ready to over 50g of files and they will tell you that they are selling na. Every will have a limit of maximum total files allowed, if has exceeded the number of disk space allowed, then he/she can buy additional space (and pay yearly)
This will be very small and affordable, will not exceed N5,000 yearly


Third income opportunity – We will have s, VIP and ordinary s. I will talk more about this later


Fourth income opportunity – ADVERTISING –

I so much love this – If we now have the traffic, people are creating pages and the site’s name is every where, then definitely rs will be our friend
The advert will be very efficient, cos the r will only choose where he wants his/adds to appear, either a cement blog or a blog that writes about farming.

Also the bloggers will shares some percentage from the income, to make more people want to write, they also get paid per clicks from rs who on their blog category, or per impression.
So the advertising income opportunity, is both for those blogging and us, the percentage will be decided by the shareholders.


Ay body interested at all I just dey type since?

NEXT - I WANT TO SHARE THE FOLLOWING.

Cost involvement
How many persons i would love to raise the capital
How we will all know the income statement daily, infact every minute
How every share holder will be a part of the if wished
How transparent its gonna be


Good News - Since am a web developer, design/development becomes easier!!!


Interests?

highly interested

These studies are certainly not conclusive and do not decidedly settle the question of whether or not delaying intimacy is beneficial for a long-term relationship. But the results are intriguing, and as they at least point towards that idea, it’s worth exploring why this might be so.

The main point of contention in the debate over when you should get intimate in a relationship generally boils down to whether it’s better to find out if you are sexually “compatible” as early as possible, or whether holding off on sex might uniquely strengthen the relationship in such a way as to make that question a moot point. For example, while the participants in Busby’s study who waited until marriage to have sex would seemingly have taken the biggest gamble in “buying a car without ever taking it for a test drive” (to use an analogy that frequently comes up in this discussion), they still reported being more satisfied with their sex life than those who had kicked the tires right out the gate. Busby offers this explanation for such a result: “The mechanics of good sex are not particularly difficult or beyond the reach of most couples, but the emotions, the vulnerability, the meaning of sex and whether it brings couples closer together are much more complicated to figure out.”

The following factors help explain how waiting to have sex may trump the question of sexual compatibility.

In another study, Dr. Dean Busby sought to find out the effect that sexual timing had on the health of a couple’s eventual marriage. He surveyed over 2,000 people who ranged in age from 19 to 71, had been married anywhere from 6 months to more than 20 years, and held a variety of religious beliefs (and no religious beliefs at all). The results were controlled for religiosity, income, education, race, and the length of relationship. What Busby found is that couples who delayed intimacy in a relationship enjoyed better long-term prospects and greater satisfaction in a variety of areas in their marriage. Those who waited until marriage to have sex reported the following benefits over those who had sex early on in the relationship:

Relationship stability was rated 22 percent higher Relationship satisfaction was rated 20 percent higher Sexual quality of the relationship was rated 15 percent better Communication was rated 12 percent better

For those couples that waited longer in a relationship to have sex, but not until marriage, the benefits were still present, but about half as strong.

Why Would Delaying Intimacy Benefit a Long-Term Relationship?[b]In another study, Dr. Dean Busby sought to find out the effect that sexual timing had on the health of a couple’s eventual marriage. He surveyed over 2,000 people who ranged in age from 19 to 71, had been married anywhere from 6 months to more than 20 years, and held a variety of religious beliefs (and no religious beliefs at all). The results were controlled for religiosity, income, education, race, and the length of relationship. What Busby found is that couples who delayed intimacy in a relationship enjoyed better long-term prospects and greater satisfaction in a variety of areas in their marriage. Those who waited until marriage to have sex reported the following benefits over those who had sex early on in the relationship:

Relationship stability was rated 22 percent higher Relationship satisfaction was rated 20 percent higher Sexual quality of the relationship was rated 15 percent better Communication was rated 12 percent better

For those couples that waited longer in a relationship to have sex, but not until marriage, the benefits were still present, but about half as strong.

Why Would Delaying Intimacy Benefit a Long-Term Relationship?[/b]In another study, Dr. Dean Busby sought to find out the effect that sexual timing had on the health of a couple’s eventual marriage. He surveyed over 2,000 people who ranged in age from 19 to 71, had been married anywhere from 6 months to more than 20 years, and held a variety of religious beliefs (and no religious beliefs at all). The results were controlled for religiosity, income, education, race, and the length of relationship. What Busby found is that couples who delayed intimacy in a relationship enjoyed better long-term prospects and greater satisfaction in a variety of areas in their marriage. Those who waited until marriage to have sex reported the following benefits over those who had sex early on in the relationship:

Relationship stability was rated 22 percent higher Relationship satisfaction was rated 20 percent higher Sexual quality of the relationship was rated 15 percent better Communication was rated 12 percent better

For those couples that waited longer in a relationship to have sex, but not until marriage, the benefits were still present, but about half as strong.

Why Would Delaying Intimacy Benefit a Long-Term Relationship?

Is There Any Evidence That Delaying Intimacy Benefits a Long-Term Relationship? You may have a heard a parent, teacher, or preacher contend that waiting to have sex will ultimately strengthen a relationship. But is there any actual evidence out there that backs up this well-meaning, if often vague advice? There is at least some that seems to point in that direction.

In one study, Dr. Sandra Metts asked 286 participants to think about the different turning points in their present or past relationships. One question she hoped to answer was whether it made a difference if the couple had made a commitment to be exclusive and had said “I love you” before or after commencing sexual intimacy. Metts found that when a commitment is made and love is expressed before a couple starts to have sex, the “sexual experience is perceived to be a positive turning point in the relationship, increasing understanding, commitment, trust, and sense of security.” However, when love and commitment is expressed after a couple becomes sexually involved, “the experience is perceived as a negative turning point, evoking regret, uncertainty, discomfort, and prompting apologies.” Metts did not find a significant difference in this pattern between men and women.

Brett & Kate McKay

when is the right time to start having sex in a relationship? Not until marriage? A couple months in? The “standard” three dates? Sometimes even on the first date?

There are as many opinions on this question as there are men in this world, and each will often vigorously defend his position. The guy who waited until marriage says he couldn’t be happier with his decision, while the guy who sees nothing wrong with sex on the first date contends that such behavior is entirely natural and without negative consequence. And of course abstinence guy will never be able to step into the shoes of early-in-the-relationship guy, and vice versa. Which is why time and experience have shown that arguing about this decision – especially over the internet! – rarely, if ever, convinces someone to entirely change their position.

Thus what I hope to lay out in this article is not an iron-clad rule for when you should become intimate in a relationship. Instead what I aim to present today is a case for delaying intimacy in a relationship and taking it slower – leaving the interpretation of what “slower” means up to each individual man to filter through his own moral, religious, and philosophical beliefs.

Note: Before we begin, I should probably point out the somewhat obvious fact that this post is directed at those who desire a long-term relationship. While I don’t personally endorse the one-night stand, if that’s your modus operandi, then this article would not be relevant for your situation..

#stay tune#

Yomieluv: preacher's wife.

is going personal...that's her 2cents bro..

edwife: I just don't see the point of being angry ,i can't stand trouble,my head is busy with other more important things,like LIFE.

Life should not be that difficult.

I agree with you...
but being angry sometimes with someone corrects mistakes, and mistake is also a core factor that affects life.
so, I still stand, you need it sometimes.

Fatalveli: Recently, I'm dating 3 girls to in which to my surprise, the 3 of them are claiming to be a virgin! Well sex is c'mon in every guy and believe me, I tried all dis sweet words dat God created in my cerebrum just to convince them 2 have sex wit me, I even go to the extent of romancing them till dey orgasm! But whenever I'm about to unbutton dat mighty tro, dey won't let me, and dey will start begging and crying until I pity and leave them alone! Pls wah can I do to make em' wanna have sex.....

I would say you should leave them and face your study..

am so way sure that a matured mind would never come nairaland for this kind...

many of us have turned nairaland to hospital.

the 8th kill it all..which could also minimize the fighting frequency.

Redoil: I believe most ladies are naturally born to be angry.

I agree with you...but what I see is jealousy causes most of the anger...

egopersonified: I am learning to let it all out by locking myself up in a room and talking out loud as if am confronting the person. After doing this and I talk to the person again, it almost feels like I ve poured it out on them and sometime later cant even the ones I said in private and the ones I said to the person.

But sometimes, I let it all out in yr face ohh, when the guilt comes, I apologize. Even the bible says dont let the sun go down on your wrath, it doesnt state how to release it, so anyway na way.

even if bible doesnt state how to release it...but deep down in your heart,you know bible will never those over reactions..
so how did you feel when you realized you have over reacted?

zeb04: Kikikikiki do I even get angry! am lazy almost at everything. Ofcourse except eating and spending my patner's money.

I wont encourage you on that...like I said earlier..anger is neccesary sometimes..if I may ask..how do you deal with unreasonable actions from people?..or you are saying you overlook all your man wrong act.. I don't believe that anyway...

I, as an individual believe anger is a normal and even healthy emotion, but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships. leaving gender-biased alone, research reveals that women tend to suffer more from anger than men because of the deep emotions they posses.
But ladies? how do you control your anger?