NewStats: 3,259,316 , 8,169,793 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 05:10 PM 4t4b65

She always post six of her pictures on Whatsapp status everyday. She has two Facebook s and she will post her pictures on the two s, then she always record herself dancing and posting the video on tiktok.

An intelligent lady spend the night in my place, and after the intimacy, she started praying for me with tears in her eyes, and said I am human god...

I am the person in any group, people run to for solutions, share secrets with and seek his opinion.

I am a dominant, always appearing smart and strong, towering in the group.

So after considering these things, I decided to get a name that resonate with my impeccable personality, to minimize the fame of my all Catholic name, and the Puff Daddy, people call me because of my Dad.

When the girl started calling me Demigod, everyone accepted the name, very unique and inspiring.

Know when to move on and walk away. You can only control your actions, you are not responsible for the other's reaction. You can't stop anyone from cheating on you if they choose to, but you can stop them from disrespecting you when you walk away.

Anything, especially relationship, that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive.

Train your heart to expect disappointment from people you love most.

Invest in your family, cousins and neighbours than a woman you are not married to. Your family, cousins and neighbours will benefit your society if they don't benefits you.

I don't want to use the word "Hate" but in this context, I will try.

1. I don't like a girl who is obsessed or addicted with social media, especially when she is not using it for business. I once dated a girl that posted her pictures everyday on WhatsApp status and Facebook, and she danced on TikTok, we couldn't continue for several other reasons.

2. I don't like a lazy and unproductive partner. As my partner, you should be industrious, have your own goals, dreams and ambition, make effort to achieve those goals.

3. I will never accept a partner that is not loyal, a cheating partner is a capital No. Loyalty, respect for boundaries and self esteem matters to me.

4. Dirtiness, lousiness and inability to communicate effectively, just work on yourself before you meet me.

5. Emotional instability, and if we are dating, don't hide me. Don't give other guys the impression that they have a chance with you, don't go begging on social media.

I can't type all, although I have my own flaws, no one is perfect, they said, but I expect my partner to have sense and be reasonable.

In choosing a wife, I can never compromise my standards. I also consider my children, friends and family in the kind of woman I will marry. Most people (both men and women) in this generation, lack the concept of loyalty and boundaries, the lazy, unproductive and unive partner, cheating partner and all that is scary.

Marriage is just scary, our generation has successfully destroy the sanctity of marriage.

Nuts all the way. Why will you even compare noodles and nuts?

The fact that a motherfvcker is born with you doesn't make him family.

2Pac

In those days, blood is thicker than water, but in our days, Love is thicker than blood.

If you have genuine friends, associates, you are good to go. As an adult, I won't advise you to reconcile with your family, you know the best.

I will attend Christmas party on 24th December in my area till morning. Then I will go to church, after Mass, I will eat, sleep, when my girlfriend comes, I will introduce her to my Mom, buy them drinks and when she leaves, I will go hangout with friends.

I have realized this mistake long time ago. As far as you are not my sister, girlfriend or worthy friend, as a girl, you won't get anything from me. I am not stingy nor mean, but I am reasonable enough not to be taken for a stupid person.

Interesting.

Our conservative nature kind of protect us from some self inflicted disillusionment. I am glad Nigeria is reasonable enough.

However, the aspect that a partner gets the property after a spouse's death, I think writing one's Will should be highly encouraged.

This look more like a content to me, but there's nothing special about this. We have handsome men in all spheres of life...

She is kind and rare, if not because of the selfish and entitlement mentality of girls these days, this shouldn't be a thing to celebrate about, it should be one of the things we do for people we love.

Girls are frustrating men with financial pressure and unreasonable demands, with zero productivity to contribute in the relationship.

When I met my girlfriend and she is not demanding, I was confused because it has become a norm that girls will wound you with billings, but my girlfriend will never ask for anything, and when you give her, she still won't accept, as far as you are always chatting with her or answering her calls, she is cool. I am thinking about marriage now.

When you lost a loved one and I see you crying, I can quite understand, but seeing a full grown African Man crying because he is getting married is absolute nonsense and stupidity.

We are so doomed to the point of learning expression of emotions from White man? Why exactly are you crying for?

The annoying thing is that 80 percent of this new couples have had countless s*x before marriage, so why the charade display of this weakling and childish behavior?

You get married you cry.

You discovered that you fathered another man's children, you still cry.

Beautiful Town crier.

For this protest and chaos in Nigeria, man has more important struggles than just keeping a woman.

Love doesn't make marriage work.

Prayers don't make marriage work.

Money don't make marriage work.

We have seen good women broken by men who don't appreciate great things in their lives.

And we have seen almost perfect men destroyed by women too.

Marriage doesn't have template.

Lol, honestly, I will always be grateful for being a Nigerian. My country, no matter how things are not working, the hard work, smart work, humour and living life is second to none.

Nigerians are unique and overly talented.

Most people are sad, with smiling faces and broken hearts.

At some point in life, you have to stand alone.

They said blood is thicker than water, but life taught me that Love is thicker than Blood.

Being a good person doesn't guarantee good life. People will still mess you up.

Anyone that put food in your mouth, by all means, don't ever forget such a person.

Could God be so afraid of His own creation that he chooses to live in heaven?

The little help you give others today will go a long way, the best investment is investing in people.

Intelligence and Making money are two different things.

Don't conclude your story yet while you are still alive.

Be kind to yourself.

Etc.

Nairaland men will choose the old woman, anything to avoid billing pussy is welcome.

But only God knows the low self-esteem you are going through for you to bring yourself to this gutter level of comparison with Grandma on social media. That's another reason why they will not choose you.

However, you have d yourself, the hook up customers have taken note.

The guy see an opportunity and he went for it. It is not a new thing, girls dumb broke guys for rich guys everyday.

I will never settle for broke girls, that's why I am working my ass off.

Ilekokonit:


Someone I know in the UK lost 2 houses and 3 kids to his wife. I saw him a few months after the separation and the guy said he was going to go to all the beaches from Lagos to Benin republic and bury juju at the beaches against his wife. I pleaded with him not to do so as it might affect his daughters and he answered back saying he does not care if it affects the daughters and in fact he thinks it is better if it affects the daughters as that will teach them a lesson not to treat their future husbands the way their mum treated him.

I have another friend in the same UK who was at work and his wife told his 10 year old son to throw his Dad's things out of the window into the street. The same wife once told him on their way from Church to stop playing Sunny Ade music in his car if their children were in the car as she does not want her kids spoken English to be as bad as their Dads.

This is terrible. You can't do this to me and enjoy your life. I will squashed it instantly.

kalufelix:
marriage ended a long time ago (with the gen x) IMO..this is what you get when you rope yourself with a woman because the society has made you to believe that you are old enough to commit to the baggage of a wh¤re @35...

I like your statement bro. Marriage is past tense now.

Villa12:
The guy is from a rich home

We are all hustlers, rich or poor, hustling continues.

Genesiszero:

that's the code niggah, no Time for emotional manipulation, you can't stay faithful? you go!!! very simple. I ain't no gonna forgive cheating, I ain't a cheat either. can't raise a bastard.

Walahi guy. If you are mine, be mine and if you are not then you are not. The funniest thing was I gave this girl what she asked for, money for business, treatment or hair. She took shirts from my wardrobe, we talked about our s*x life, but girls are always girls.

God is just using all means to tell me that marriage is not for me.

Joygiver, how this ladies sense the work is quite unimaginable.

Actually, I have never thought about this question before, perhaps, it's natural for women to know how to cook especially in Africa. Most women I have a thing with are good cook, but most of them are poor in that sexual aspect.

I will still choose good cook, we can patiently learn the bedmatics together.

This was how I broke up with one girl last year after I introduced her to my Mom and elder brother.

She thought she can LovePeddler her life and I will be stupid enough to go waste my money marrying baggage.

After my constant warning and advice that I don't forgive any cheating or attempt to cheat, she still foolishly go visit a man who was asking her out in a hotel, and she thought I won't know. Before then, I already read chats with other guys and I know this one is for street. I waited for her birthday then broke up with her, she begged, cried, curse, threatened suicide, make she kill herself, there are too many whores already.