NewStats: 3,261,363 , 8,173,796 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 02:01 AM 70d11

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kafeii123:


1. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest.

these have been his coping mechanisms against the job stress and sexual frustartions before you came to him....

2. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years:

if he has been into it for two years...you shouldnt expect him to be off it in two months...

3. We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore:

This might have helped...but what you actually need is to be in his face like so everyday..directly or indirectly....send him on errands... ask him for help with things.....basically.....get him busy enough to always you and begin to wean him off the two-year mandatory bachelorhood he's had before your arrival...

4. I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021: May not change anything....

5. My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again" ...... leave this persons alone...your whole matter is entirely with your husband....

6. I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work:

see.....I told you this man is stressed/has grown a wider appetite..... he needs outlets for that frustration....can't discuss them with you.....needs raw animalistic f*cking but you're mummy's girl.... you married him for his nice-and cool-ness.....he can't ask you for anal sex...cant ask you for Mouth Gig....can't ask u to just show up randomly near at the nearest hotel to his workplace and send him snapshot of you in lingerie...or wearing the sexiest outfit he's seen you in in years...and holding a goblet of wine .....you're too responsible for that afterall.....How do you praise God with this mouth with which you've swallowed d*rk......?

Plus .....you're now a moommy...you're mostly about the kids now....cant grab/spank him playfully and subtlely....


7. I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time..... :

That's the very time to target.....let him be for a while....act like all s well..feed him well if you still can....begin to give him ashawo vibes... for God's sake flirt with ur man.....he'll at first ignore it....treat him to a glass of wine after work....ensure you take some too..... then drop down...relax onto your femininity and really have the maddest of seks with your husband..... following this... schedule random midweek showups at/near his workplace..... call d man up... tell him you're in the area and will like to just see him before returning to your way.... have him show up at d hotel....come to your room....take a glass of wine.. ferk him...(make sure to collect the money you paid for hotel room from him... maybe by the weekend help him get a small wristwatch from it/them) the next time...park a few metres to his place.. just before breaktime ....call ur man up/call any friends u know he has there..that you're outside and have to see him ....give him lunch....roll up the car doors... him in the backseat...and take him.... the more erotic moments he shares with you..the less he time he has to follow escorts....

what a man eats is the only portion he has gotten in his life's labours..... the kids...family spendings..rents...etc..those are foryou...he mostly just needs food for his belly...and food/endorphins for his brain....how he gets that will determine his approach...some people just sleep ....some drink....but for many men...sex releases the most amounts of stress relief...by sex ..I mean ferk/bangs...and not love making ..... he will so begin to glow when you guys return to your former selves....


8. Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?:

When survival is no longer a man's problem...something must keep him pumped.....its not you or him.....its his need and yours...but for some reason..he thinks you'd judge how he wants to be served.... you know him to be religious... you're the very one who should let that religion stay outside ....and for the public... while you feed his animal in private...cos whether you like it or not.... he's got one


9. I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him:

Wrong move.... this will only make him want to hide it further from you.....its better to joke about it with him.... tell him to begin paying you ashawo levy every week....which you'd use to get one nice thing...for yourself and/or him......he is hiding from your judgement ..is why he went to pay a hooker for the type of sex he likes....he doesn't depend on you financially.... shame is a wrong tactic to apply....

10. Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beautiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me:

you see now? how's a prostitute different from you?.....cos you're educated?...run a company..... are accomplished..... to him.. you're both women..... and the dopamine/endorphin/oxytocin/whatever pleasure hormone is released during sex loads he gets from her is more than from yours.... that's your real sexual value right there... not that you are not beautiful...he's just gotten used to getting fed from those sources...you now have to also love-vendor up a bit.... and entice his brain to start seeking the satisfaction from you....

11. I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do....: this is not needed...you only need to brave up...and employ psychology with him....

12. I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person. you do this....you'd likely lose him forever if you're not careful...i'd advise you let your folks be...

13. He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink. : I can promise you that 1. he now does...he just doesn't do them with you.... and/or 2. that's the very reason where his urge for real/non-religious/"ungodly" sex is much more intense..... he wont be sated with the vanilla missionary sex you have been feeding him since...he now has a larger appetite...u have to expand your kitchen...beef up the menu you serve him...before blaming him for not eating....

in summary: I'm not used to doing this....but I hope with the above few pints of mine...I have been able to convince and not confuse you...that Sex is as important to a man as food...but that like cocaine/other pain medications...you have to increase the dosage as the gets familiar with the substance in use.


No pun is intended..I do hope you're able to become more social...and find a way to infuse life into you guys' relationships.... men are babies...you have to feed his ego..if you want him to feed your tratra (replace the -ra-s with -o-)..that he even owes your mom and you for his traveling is a dampener for his ego.... your femininity is the only way to maintain keep his insecurity at bay...

Do pardon me if this doesn't resonate with you...just speaking from small experience

Thanks so much

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