NewStats: 3,262,636 , 8,177,744 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 06:32 AM 176m3v

Happy hour

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

How come you two have discussed marriage yet she doesn't know your true feelings for her?Cos if she was sure as sure can be that you love her, she would panic at your silence and look forward to seeing you face to face to understand why the silence and not have time to bang another man within a few weeks of silence when she was in the camp.
Camp is not more than 2 months na for Her to sleep with someone else. So I guess you are quite unserious with her hence she doesn't know where she stands with you or she just gave that excuse to get out of trouble.
Secondly, if you were serious with her and you guys vibing as one unit, how come she didn't know about this your so called personal problem? To know that you are facing some challenges and maybe she will be the one checking up on you to know how you are faring. Rather you appear when it suits you and disappear when it suits you but expect her to be waiting with open arms anytime you re-appear in her life.
Also I suspect that you cheat on her or are those I don't love any woman except my MoMA kind of guy and she knows it hence her thinking that she isn't anything special, you just could have found someone new and moved on.
But she self, if your wahala is too much for her she should move on and find someone to be faithful to.

Minime10:


Braaaa! How do you know the dead even prefer death
I no go fit argue that one with you ooh! 😎

I was once terribly sick. I suffered until one day I lost consciousness. Suddenly I saw myself in a beautiful land. It was peaceful, happy and full of love but Just before I could start to explore the land I heard my brothers voice calling me from a distance. I suddenly was sucked back into my body. My guy, I was ANGRY. I asked him why he called me back? He said he got scared that I fainted lol and my reply to him was "and so??" Is that why you brought me back? I didn't forgive him for years. But now having kids and setting positive goals in my community has nade me have a desire to live again
Many people that experience NDE say they were happy to be in the afterlife. They express regrets for coming back to life. Tho no one knows if there was a phase after the NDE that is true death.

Using hunger as a weapon to trap the souls of the poor. Wike should know better.

She found another job already but she didn't learn much from her experience

Notfogotten:
Please I have a question to ask.

I don't want to go into details so my partner doesn't trace this to me.

My partner came to UK before me, though still on student visa. I ed her with my 3 children one months ago.

I have noticed some red flags which never happened while we where in Nigeria and I was footing the bills alone.

Each red flag, I pretend nothing happened because I don't want to be thrown out like the man I read about on social media.

My visa is dependent on hers and we are still on student visa.

My question, in the event that we get papers to stay permanently in UK and one day she decides to send me packing or I decide move out, will I be asked to return to Nigeria because she is the main applicant?

Please I need urgent answers. I may not play the fool for long. We are very certain of getting papers next year.

Lol, you are now strategizing like women in a marriage where the men can do whatever he wants and she must swallow or be kicked out of her home. This is why when wives wait it out and strike years later when ball lands in her court people say oh she is a bad woman.
Your answer: NO! Once you get your perm residence divorce won't lead to deportation

This man is on kolos

Kobojunkie:
This una voodoo tapping of blessings ritual... I see that now say na even the man dey promote the thing.

Lol. If not for tapping of blessing why else would a traditional ruler give up his throne for his daddy?

Stronghold91:

oya now
gather yourself and your family and go to the war front, you will be wasted like your fore fathers

Are you minding that imb€C!le?

Everybody want tap blessing from papa even giving their throne as offering for blessings in reward.

Morostical:
Merry Christmas Nairalanders, I pray we will all witness many more Christmas season in the future.

Here is my story, I couldn't afford to buy chicken or fish for us as a family this Christmas unlike last year, and then I went for okete (Bush meat) and my trap caught a very big one between yesterday night and this morning.

After it was properly boiled with seasoning, my wife then roasted the bush meat, cooked jollof rice, and served everyone.

After we finished eating jollof rice with the bush meat, I asked my children a very simple question, which is the best chicken or bush meat (okete)? They all chorus bush meat.

I am happy that my children with all sincerity and contentment all said that the bush meat is far better than chicken.

The joy on my wife's face gladdens my heart most, that woman will forever remain my Africa queen. I hope I will be able to get one or more like this for us to enjoy in the new year. See pictures below.

May we all live to see the new year and many more years to come.

How much is the chicken?

Bobloco:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/25/japa-we-should-all-stay-back-fight-for-nigeria-defence-chief/

And what did this Buffon do to protect the people of plateau state when they were attack for almost a whole day? What has the Buffon done to keep lives of those in Nigeria safe from crime? These people annoy the hell out of me. He is eating and growing fat from budget while inviting people to continue to become victims.

PriceActionZ:
When money talks, your wife self will keep quiet even if she is not that happy with some of your actions.
Though elites dont see anything wrong in that moves, but let one kamaru from okokomaiko organize a party and JUST INVITE HER PARAGA SELLER to just dance with him on the stage. I am 100 percent sure that it would be the third or the fourth wife that was not recorgnised will break a bottle on her head and tore her clothes. This will eventually scatter the party and turn to local street fight with the police invitation after that.
Have money ooo, e get why.

Then it makes sense for her to worry cos she knows that if he has 3 to 4 wives already he is a man that can't control his d1ck hence her breaking bottle before he brings in no 5

The more insecurity the more money the politicians of such state earns.

You are very stupid. So by having sex is how she should prove to you that she wants to build a stable relationship with you? Besides why spend money you don't have if sex was your last goal? Men like you irritate me like kilode!
You want a woman that will love you for you yet, you present the you she should love in a different light from the you; you want her to love

Abi they lured him and offed him. She just gave that story to save her hubby thinking as a woman the law will be lenient on her

omoadeleye:




May you never know peace in your life, may all your entire life be full of disappointment, for all the greater things in life you seek for you shall never find it, for any doors of opportunity you knock shall never be opened to you.

All your helper shall resent you and you shall never see the mercy of both man and woman in this world .

Your parents shall die a terrible death before your eyes...

You shall live in sorrow and pains, you shall for pray death to come in your every day of life, you shall find no solution to your life problem and you shall end it all in an instant...

All these shall be onto you.

toxtimmy:
Ask you mama to self-service am for you... I go send you ororo for free.... Make you cum on your mama left ear and put one drop in a left nose.

Since you dey look for hammernon the internet and you never get an all these years... Why you no take a mechanic spanner, put engine oil on it and stick up your arse.... I promise you or will solve your problem

Hahaha, you are cute when angry. Give my request a deep thought and comeback to me tomorrow let's pick it up from there

toxtimmy:
My advise to you is to go get Vaseline and self-service yourself to sleep.

If no Vaseline you can use some vegetable oil to grease and self-service yourself.

Come give me a hand job. Since you seem to have a crush on me .

That's why I laugh at niggers ing them cos of religion. They claim Hamas are saints fighting for freedom. These guys are blood thirsty. They are fighting against anyone who isn't Muslim. If they catch you, you are gone. They don't care of you were shouting free Palestine from your roof top a few days ago.

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*

It is not a matter of ideas, it is a FACT. If this man were in UK or US, the consensus would be that he had psychological problems (even if they don't yet know what it is). In Africa anything we don't yet understand is juju or spiritual. Epilepsy was spiritual and juju for a long time, till whites developed drugs that controlled it !

This one is mostly true

toxtimmy:
Bleep the shut up... You mama, sister, grandmother, aunties, are Japanese women I guess.

Mad man like you na I'm make the internet dangerous.

Awwwww. You are sad cos it hurts? Here, here! Take this teddy and show me where it hurts

Fredoh:


😂 😝 😆
You sound like my younger sister.
No vex ‼️

Lol

toxtimmy:
Battered woman or wife syndrome.

If you put a dog in a cage and beat it every day... When you leave the door open the dog will never run away... Mentally distorted at that stage.

Not with naija wives. Most of them have used their marriage to pepper their friends etc on social media. To come out now will make people laugh at them so they rather endure. Plus religion also keep them inside such marriages too.

Men. They can't even endure small cheating yet they expect the so called weaker vessels to welcome extra wives with open arms. Small cheating he go drink sniper.

She will still go back to him. I no dey put mouth for this Kain matter again.

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*

That's the big difference between us and whites and why they'd always be ahead of us.
In their culture this man would be studied, analyzed, treated, and cured, AND a case history will be opened on him and people will study him and his treatment for their PhD's, and in future generations.
In Africa, it is spiritual, end of story. And we'll be looking for who caused it on him, and babalawo or priest that will cure him. Despite the fact that this has never advanced us in any way. Even when the British were approaching with few men to attack Benin empire, instead of preparing or negotiating, they were busy doing countless human sacrifices. And even though it didn't work at all, that didn't make them stop believing in such till today!

These you people's ideas about how oyinbo countries work is funny.

pannyman:


You should be grateful to her. Are you not better off today?

You no lie. Thank God for grace.

Prophets and prophetesses destroying lives in Nigeria since SAP era.

Very foolish man that followed the stupid "Your wife is not your blood" mantra these chewing gum males throw around.
You call all your family to show document then hand d it to your wife in front of them? You are very stupid indeed. You no remove one for her Incase.
When I learnt that family sometimes don't want the best for you years ago is the day I asked my sis to talk to one big woman friend of hers in civil service that I am job hunting. Na so this babe tell me say I no dey reason like who get sense. That my mates that are getting jobs, did anyone help them get the job? I was like wow. No vex. Thank God for where I am today.

Luckysbab:
The funny version by Omolomo (TheVawulence) via X:


So guys, the babe married her husband and after marriage,she turned into a feminist.

Husband said he didn’t marry a feminist say na traditional lady he marry, wife say old things are ed away and she’s proud to be a divorced feminist than to be a married traditional woman.

Husband said ok oo byebye, wife friend saw vacancy and told husband I can be a traditional woman oo.

Husband told Fabrizio to announce the g and ‘Here we go’ in Fabrizio voice.

Wife friend married the husband now since she can be submissive.

As na man do am now, e dey sweet all of una for ears.
You all are cheering him on, claiming it's the woman's fault. I
f say na the wife marry her hubby's friend cos husband was not doing right as she married him, you all will start yapping like a pack of wolves experiencing starvation.