NewStats: 3,263,741 , 8,181,211 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 04:12 PM 5n3v42

Yeah, I have had similar issue too
I will suggest u try to identify what u don't really like about him

Maybe his dress sense, way of handling issues, immaturity, differences in core values, religion, his family, his physique/ appearance or a particular behavior that is putting u off. If it something that can be changed, talk to him to improve on certain area, if it can't change, hummm maybe u should just let him be.

This one no be wahala?lolz

Op, I can't outrightly say u are right or wrong but guy, say the ones u have seen, dated or the gist people gave u. It is obvious that u guys don't even want anything aside sex
Yes
When a girl says she wouldn't want sex in a relationship, ur interest suddenly died
U people that ur third leg always disappoint u. Before u even check the lady out maybe she is intelligent, skillful and other things u would need in a woman, u have invited her over shamelessly begging for sex telling her it is up to two years u had sex last. So u guys always bring the last thing first because u are blinded by boobs and ass

Secondly, all ladies cannot be ur wife. Everybody with their characteristics. The one u love might not even love u. So whatelse. Whenever u find the right one, that will be the end of ur struggle.

This cry dey funny sha oooo
Na true say this thing happen?
Anyways, sorry bro
Heaven is the goal now

Wow!
Interesting write-up
I was in a seminar and something like this was discussed

Thanks
I will work on this personally too

If there is vacancy, you can give serious minded graduate like me an opportunity.

SultanOfPuna:


Typical Fathers behaviours, especially when they are expecting their first baby boy.

Reminds me of our family friend that has 4 girls no boy.
His wife got pregnant, did her ultrasound in hospital in Aba.
They told her it was a boy.
The husband literally threw a party celebrating this news.He was in cloud 9

Only for the day of delivery, na girl the woman born.

U can't be real
Lolz

Because u too is an ATM and anybody can come and dribble u because u can't control ur third leg


Simple

Sorry for the loss
Help will arise for u

You are right!
Thank God u got hold of urself
Pls always try to make urself happy. There is nothing much to think about in this life. Frustration/depression is real but pls hang on. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just the way u are wearing cloth to cover up, almost everybody does that
You are better than some people. If not for my mom, maybe I would have gone to the world beyond. I thank God, today is better. Pls hang on. I wish I could talk to u more. If u need specific help there might be people who could help here. Pls open up. Life is precious.

[quote author=madone post=109885705] what you fail to understand is that life itself is transactional
2. God created his world this world for his own glory.
3. Even the devil has no friend gift
4. Your parents gave birth to so someone can carry on their name.
Every thing invests to earn so don't see it as an offence or as being outrageous or out of order that a man want to spend time with you cos he promised you 10k. Or that men have no free gift.

These things are ruled by nature.[/quote

U have spoken well. But can we say those that get things done the other way are doing the right thing?

wenogodie2:
Deegee7788 I respect your decision to behave yourself. I used to harshly criticise ladies that give their body because of hardship till I also experienced impossible levels of staggering difficulty that even affected my loved ones. I'm not a lady and I didn't rob a bank but I learned a hard lesson not to be quick to judge those that didn't hold themselves like me.

It only takes uncommon levels of grace to stand through some stubborn adamant persistent situations in life.

Those that come out unscathed are true heroes.

"Life no balance" is more than a phrase.. thanks a lot. I know it a Matter of time

Happy new month fellas
Am not new on this forum but for some reasons this is my first post ( I don't talk when there is nothing to talk about).
Am a Corp member serving in IB. The main reason why I created this trend is to sensitize people that life isn't that rosy for some ladies too especially when u don't want to give ur body in exchange for things.
Some Men (if not all) are transactional ( they don't do things for no reason). As opposed to the previous trends I have been reading here that women get all the assistance they desire.
My recent experience
There was a man I respect so much during my undergraduate, just about two months ago, he called and my line was switched off, he asked why and I told him my phone is bad. I didn't ask him before he said he was going to do something about it January ending and we didn't talk about it again. Lo and behold, before the end of January, he started making sexual advances. He was going to help me add 10k but he is coming to IB next week and we will the night together. I was like" wow" . Anyway, I have been expecting it so I didn't reply the chat nor insult him. I just thought within myself that if I add small hustle to my alawee ( because my PPA isn't paying well at all. It a private school), I should be able to raise something for my phone without sleeping with one married man. I teach well, in case u need someone to coach your child, but not too far from iwo road, iyana church and like that because of transport fare or any business I can do that won't require so much capital pls. You can ask me questions, I will gladly answer. Pls no insult. You can give advise

Thanks

AlphaMale666:
Women weren't designed to be loved. They're just for sexual pleasure and that's it! Never in you life love this people. They're nothing but opportunists.
They'll take everything from you and give nothing in return. They all think that flesh in between their legs is gold. It's simps that made this to happen. And it will never be well with them! Never in your life love this vagina people!
They hate to you single and happy because they see they're witchcraft isn't working on you! 99.9% of vagina people are witches or as been one! Take my advice and live long and healthy life. Cheers to all the alphas who would never let any vagina creature manipulate them. Cheers!

Even ur work tire you

Sorry op, I didn't get ur explanation o.. can u help me Tru