NewStats: 3,263,637 , 8,180,878 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 01:28 AM 4q3e6b

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Hey guys

Onyi22:
This man na woman wrapper, real men don't talk too much

Who is a real man? Who are you to define what a man should do and not do?

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need your advice on this.I find it hard to express myself to people because of been rejected by them
I find it hard to express myself because of being criticized
I find it hard to express myself even at my place of work because of being sacked going back to square one
There are somethings I don't voluntrily want to do when people ask me to do then but I can't say no because I don't want to look bad
I lack self confidence too
I really need help because deep down I hate it when I can't express my feelings to people
Have been pretending to enjoy pain and stress since I was born and now am 21 years of age,no school,no handwork, always feeling shy but I have one talent which is music but I don't know how to go about it and I don't want to see sucide as an option
I blame my parents for this things because when I was small, they don't allow me to go out and experience life
As I write about this now,I feed myself and instead of them to give me, they are always demanding from me
I don't even know where to start from
Am tired of this goddamn world!

Damn!.. i can relatee

Lol, the thing casted at the end

Ritzybeauty:
You just wanna look for trouble.. Lol

Lool… aznnnnnnn.. cos inam not understanding right now… loooool

biggy26:

What do you like about the younger sis, that the older doesn't have. Is it her physique or personality?

Just the aura alone, more intelligent, and of course physique is on point

Cyndyblingz:
What if the younger sister don't like you�‍♀️
Like you are not her spec ��

Lol.. then life moves on.. I guess.. wasn't a bad thing in the end

Faaji1985:
This reminds me of Bola and shalewa some years ago but I later explained to the elder sister that I lover her younger sister.. it wasn't an easy task..���

did it work for you?

WoundedLamb:

You guys and this formulaic response. Did OP tell you he didn't have money? Do you know if settling down is the next on his list?

Abeg help me tell them oo.. lol... funny you can tell what people are going through when they post comments

elisho:
what of the young sister do not like you

That's fine... life goes on... at least I tried. h

Goldbw122:
The problem is that you like her younger because of her beauty and her young face and beauty.

And her senior sister is older right?

of course, senior is "older"
The junior is quite smart actually

Vision101:
See your life. You went to church and all that you will crave for is to start selecting between older sister and younger sister.

Fear God. Sex is addictive. The more you have it the more you crave for it. You can never have enough.

At the end you discover that it's vanity after it has caused so much destruction. This generation should think less of sex.

Relax... no one mentioned sex through out the whole thing. Didn't you see I said I turned down her advances

Every addiction is destructive.

QueenSuccubus:



You and your wahala

I can see you have a fetish for a younger girls eeh! Your problem is actually is very simple. Talk to her older sister, make friends with her and tell her to help you to link you with her little sister.

Haha... who no like younger girls?

QueenSuccubus:



You and your wahala

I can see you have a fetish for a younger girls eeh! Your problem is actually is very simple. Talk to her older sister, make friends with her and tell her to help you to link you with her little sister.

nice one... I don't know why I like this advice.. sounds smart

stanliwise:

If you ever make her let you agree you love her... then you have roped yourself.
But if you always play safe, she has nothing to throw on you

Did you ever make such confession?

Nope,.. never, I even pushed her away when she tried a bit.. was never the plan.

Offpoint1:
Forget both because she's gonna brainwash her kid sis and you'll never get the chance.

yeah.. I am fearing this.. we were only supposed to be friends till she tried to be funny

stanliwise:

It’s simple, throw her in the friend-zone.
Visit her and talk to her younger sister.
Is anything hard?

I am wondering how to approach it if it ever comes up with the younger... the fact she tried to make a move as well

Met two sisters a while ago in church, for some reason, the older one got my no and has been calling me almost every day. Meanwhile, I ve always wanted the younger one-she is my full spec for a serious relationship, I just did not get a chance to bond and get her .

Recently, the older one tried a few more advances which I turned down. I ve planned to clear her straight that I am not interested, but I am not sure how to go about it as of course these are siblings. I really like younger sis, but I feel I am not sure how to proceed with this.

I feel the recent move older sis pulled will sabotage any meaningful relationship I want to have with the younger sis in future

darqly:
Well, she wanted a commitment after 3 months and I was like wait for abit, lets give it one year and see. Then she comes over to my family house and well, my mum disapproved. Then I was put in the middle, "If you luv me, you'll or you won't, " kind of situation. I really can't handle those sort of choices or lets say I refused to be drawn into it. I know I love this girl, she's my friend too, and she's so nice to be around. Now she doesn't want to even speak to me anymore, can't blame her too much though.

How did it go for you over time, cos I am in similar situation?

Ibuchimok.. Ibichim.. Ibichieonye janyuzo, agama kpachuruko nwokobioma, onyi nanya kendinso... Ono marakpu mahie weroku.. Gini ki kanmekikenegi ezurogi. Agama kpisiana yege kene.. Iibuchimm..
Jesus.. You are the greatest, I don't know who you are, but you are the greatest.

Take my hands and heal me... Be ahead of me, be my light, be my strength.
Even though I work through the shadow of darkness, I will fear no evil. Amen amen amen!!!


I pray that your day is filled with joy

May we go out today radiating the greatness of God

darealbabe:

Lol. So this justifies trying to kill another person? Because of a girl? Sick people.

Of course it doesn't dumbyy.. Do I have to spell the obvious?

This guy Chumaz is just a snake and poison. I m just glad your friends figured it out early, so they've used your real character to learn a significant life's lesson. You are a horrible person and the truth is that you will never know peace till you sit and it you truly hurt your friend.

One thing you can't run away from is self-deception.

It's even funny how you tell him you are trying to be civil.. For real? who is civil with things of the heart. You really want to have a civil discussion after been caught so you can play the sanctimonious role out of it. You only came here to look for pity. You are evil. Period. I know some of you and the way I handle your type, you d live the rest of your life around me on eggshells.

Man you ve been exposed for who you truly are to yours friend. A snake and poison and will never know peace till you it your part in it. It is not a curse, it is nature.

Ps.. It doesn't justify any form of threat or violence

Cc offorken

boss1310:
seriously?
you are worried about someone who is living his life and not breaking any rules

Hahaha.. Abi o... Meanwhile, the 1diot is busy trying to sleep with his best friend's fiance.. Who even knows why he is even friends with them anyway... Poison... Spits!!

byrron:
Chelsea's captain armband should be permanently handed to T. Silva, his organization and sense of awareness is so superb

So true!! Silva is just a class above all of them

Tapout:
Personally I feel that question is very unethical and should be eradicated. It's like you (a recruiter/Hr) calling a cobbler ( job applicant ) to amend your shoes and instead of bargaining with him/her, you start asking how much he collected from a previous job, Considering the fact that there's always a 90% possibility you already have an idea of how much it will cost. Nobody goes to the market without having an idea of the cost of goods and services.
Technically speaking, that's a fraudulent Question!!!
I'll will always answer it's confidential too because actually, it is confidential.

Exactly. It's simply unethical, perhaps the company should also disclose how much the previous person in the position earned and why they left. In these companies, if employed, they ask you not to disclose your salary with colleague. Sort of corporate slavery

Yustash001:


Thanks for your kind words....

Fuuny enough, they were all contended with the I answered the questions, to the extent that one of them even complemented me by saying he loves the way I stood my ground

So the chance of me getting the job is above 80%

A little tip too. Employers worth their salt- I mean not these mushroom HR staff on this thread- know and expect employees to negotiate on initial offers.

Angelfrost:
It's a simple question sometimes intended to test your integrity...
Ignoring the question even when asked orally was wrong.

There really shouldn't be that much secrecy with regards to previous salary...

How can his integrity be comprised because he chose not to divulge personal information?
It is ann application for a new role and anything from the past that should really matter is his past experiences that he will bring. What he was paid is just no one's business.

If that's the case employees should be told what their manager earns for openess and "integrity"

Cblessing:


You goofed bro! The question is very formal.


You ended up exhibiting ignorance and a bit of arrogance.


You may still be called for the job, God on your side.



Do not make this kind of mistake again in future.

There is nothing arrogant at refusing to disclose past salary. Companies don't disclose all about themselves before hiring either

AntiWailer:


They are not scarce to get bro. Na the skill set dey scarce.

It is not a big deal to answer what u earn currently and also insist on what offer u will consider.

When u grow to that level u will reveal with ease and even let them u have existing liabilities to to then where necessary.

Haha.. when I grow to what level Sir.. Anyway it's a faceless forum, and no point disclosing what I currently earn.

I ll it, my advice may not always work for a fresh hire that needs experience, however anyone who has had a bit of experience, should never disclose this.

A job application is not a friendly meeting. It is where you decide how much you will be initially measured off and any subsequent increases will be based of that. Companies don't give a massive bump on your initial salary unless with a significant role change.

Your comment is indeed funny tho.

In fact, the higher you go, you find two employees in the same position, with same skills are not paid the same.

People need to question why companies expect their staff to be confidential with each other about their salaries, but expect new applicants to disclose this.