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That's the Age of Awakening and, in-depth life thoughtful reasoning.
I at this age, I was growing frustrated and falling depressed - STRUGGLING WITH JAMB AND ISSION ISSUES, PEER PRESSURE, DOING MENIAL/ODD JOBS JUST 4 PEANUT PAYMENT,etc. It was a challenging phase of my early adulthood. I decided to go learn a vocational skill and today I'm self employed, contented and glad I overcame with the help of my parents. NB: STAY AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER UNTIL U CAN BOAST OF A STEADY INCOME MONTHLY should things go down south.



Life is a great Teacher,
Time is a Gentleman.

gbengaoyeladun:
Girls ehn....naso this one told me in January that she dream that she will do her wedding this year...I was like not with me...she said is with you nah..and I said OK.....since then ehn.....I ran for my life.

You for wait small

You don't owe her anything! She's got a father, hasn't she?

Cos you girls are dumb, unreasonable, ungrateful, and highly immature.

A guy helps a gurl freely–she starts misbehaving like it's her entitlement, but...

When something gives way, she reasons objectively.

Look after yourself first n stop being needy of a companion. You can't control people's commitment towards you.

sexylassie2:
Men going their own way to sexuality section, precisely ashawo section to naked pics, watch sex videos and then masturbate to death

It shouldn't bother you so much Ms uprighteous'.
Not all men can put up with your craftiness, mischievousness n dumbness.

February 14th


To my parents. They really deserve all the love they get now from me.

I love you both, Mum and Dad. There's no feeling like it.

peterswagg:
Werey nio ..Na primarily school student u think say dey here...no one will click that link

Carry your scam commot here, abi this wrap never do reach?

Nano90:
LWKMD

Holy ghost fire�

PointZerom:
US hv already sent 2800 soldiers to Middle East.


If Iran do anyhow..they will see anyhow.

I stand to be corrected but it's actually 3,500

pocohantas:


Abia

Glad I took you home. Never knew you are Nigerian sef.

Una own Igbo self be as e get.
Wetin be igbaliala?

No lie, onye isi-alangwa north

LaneBoi:
Lol. One bastard is asking me for xmas gift as if she and Jesus are twins. The matter weak

Guy chill na�
Hunger they o

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

The letter font on these images are painfully bad, my eyes aren't ready anymore aches.

paiz:
Do you want to be eating ofe mmanu?

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Ofé Ósé. Guy u no well.


Ehmmm, mr poster l think it's a tribal taboo on the part of the igbos at large. The disgust n rejections one will face dating a Yoruba gurl among his peers n family is not better imagined.

I fear them females bladee rãzor.

lilwetdick:


when you start calculating your age and the age your children will be, i think it is a recipe for disaster, that is desperation.

i think a man need to prepare himself financially, mentally and emotionally and also select a good woman to have a good marriage instead of calculating his age and future kids age. nothing bad if as a man you get married at 50 years, if you take care of yourself, you will see the prime of your
future children.

50yrs? How much more years do you think such person has left to live?

I for one, I don't care what the society thinks but our families makes up the society, we grew up in it, schooled in it Worshipped in it, which we draw our norms n values from. You have no idea what stigmatization the 50year old nuclear n extended family will go through, money or no money. The society doesn't care.



My uncle who was close to fifty before he got married has five children today


First,is gurl 26yrs with no plans of getting married anytime soon cos they practise holiness n righteousness at deeperlife, besides his wife's a devil's incarnate.

Second, a boy, 24, just graduated from
ANSU(igbariam campus) yet to be called up for NYSC.

Third, a boy, 20, yet to gain ission but has been sitting for exams.


Fourth, a gurl, 17, still doing her O'level.


Fifth, a gurl, 14, Jss1


Now tell me how he has to live n anticipate for grandchild while he has a family of seven(including himself n wife) from his monthly pensions at the FCT at the age of 74, hypertensive too?

AdebisiAdeyinka:
Lady narrates how Redeem church impoverished her family


A Twitter took to her social media page to narrate her family's bitter experience with the Redeem Christin Church of God.

The young narrates whose father is a pastor in one of the Zonal branch of the church reveals how his father strife day to day to meet up with the target set by the Church's headquarters which has since left his family decimated.

She wrote:

My father is a zonal pastor in redeem. For years, I've watched this man slave for that church. Money that he would have used to put us in good schools all went into building churches and the church continued to milk him by transferring him the moment he's done building

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My father has built over 5 churches some days we barely eat at home. I can't how many times they sent me back home from school as a school fee defaulter since primary school and still, my father never stopped building churches. Why?
As a redeem pastor, you have a percentage of offerings/tithe you have to turn in to the church and as at 2017 or so, if you didn't meet the bench mark for attendance, you'll be penalized. My dad has to "plant a church" every year either in April or December �
Reading this tweet, I'm actually crying for my dad and my family. This man is 50+ and he's hypertensive, yet they gave him 2 zones to manage as if the stress of managing one isn't already too much. But if you take away Christianity from my dad, he'll have nothing else to live for
I've had to grow up in a house where my parents loved the church more than me. My mom seized all my tros one time because I wore tro to a night vigil ON A COLD RAINY NIGHT! sometimes I want to scream and tell them "if you die, the church will replace you"
But what sacrilege! They will stop paying my school fees and tell me to come and sit at home since I'm being influenced by other people outside. Mehn! I HATE REDEEM! I HATE THE CHURCH! but I can't tell my parents this because a girl has to survive �
Did I mention that every month, they do a "remittance" where they remit every single offering and tithe that came into the church, to the headquarters? �� The remaining 30% is just about 1k or so. My dad never touched that money until one day when we couldn't get food a
At home and he had to go to headquarters to ask for that money. I won't even mention how much they gave him because it's embarrassing ���


https://twitter.com/i_preezah/status/1196714753542033408?s=19

Read more here:

https://bidemiblog.com/lady-narrates-how-redeem-church-impoverished-her-f/

My Bro or Sis, Christianity in Africa is forceful indoctrination, mental slavery and unendng agony. The General Overseer gets richer n his congregations suffer in penury.
Don't be fooled, the black man's religion is idol worship, it's his last hope. CHURCH NA SCAM!

rexericx:


Read him!

I want to get advise from this beautiful place. I don't want to continue with my wife again because of what she did . She use to go to gym every weekend but i don't bother because I stay with my son. She is 35 years, our marriage is 6 years. She went to gym, this happened last month and the way she came back that day and started demanding for sex made me scared. She came pounced on me started removing my clothes, that she wants me this and that. This is a woman who I touched at night and she was shouting that I am a freak and I should free her. When I obliged her because she was holding my manhood, I wanted to suck her, she refused, that she is wet already, when I insisted to wear cap because our baby is still young, she refused and said she wants everything raw. We made love and it was good. Only for me to discover through a chat that she succeeded in seducing me and if it turns out to be positive, that I won't have a reason to doubt her. In the conversation, he was telling her, that he couldn't control himself and he is sorry he won't release inside her again . I snapped the chats and kept it. I ed a friend, to trace who is the owner of the number she was chatting so dirty with was? we found out it was my wife's gym instructor. I have confronted her and told her that the marriage is over. She almost denied the whole thing, said no chat is on her whatsapp, I had to come out with evidence and the truth started coming out. She is begging me not to tell her people the reason for the break up , that we can say that we are not compatible and needed some time off. I told her to leave my house and sort herself out but she has refused. I want to leave the house for her . Is this a good decision?

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I follow Madam Cynthia Valerian Raphael's on her personal Facebook but not this page and I guess I missed this one.
It's a pity, women are too vulnerable to advances from cute looking guys ( married or not) so long they reason with their emotions nd not their heads.



Never trust a woman wholeheartedly, she's complex, always want to explore a new world at the expense of the old one.


Mr, your sanity and peace of mind should be Paramount to you at this juncture and at such file for a divorce and leave. Keep a cool head, it won't be easy but prioritize the all round wellbeing of your child as a set goal and let fate be the judge.

Cheating is a sin especially from a woman.
Do not seek for a revenge, karma will do that on your behalf.

lexdino:
QUICK POINTERS:

* This post was motivated after reading several of the miseducation threads created by the NLer with the Ubunja name. I observed the way some guys/men refuted the reality of that guy's teachings in his threads therefore, I decided to create this thread as a layman's explanation of what I have learnt from the girls I've dated so far.

* "Average girl" as used in the context of this thread means a girl who comes from a fairly stable home, has average or good looks, not older than 25, not a drug addict/alcoholic, has good relationship with her father, and probably makes her own money or ed financially by her family.
Since I started dating again recently, after having to quit an abusive relationship, I usually screen for only the average girls. If you are the type of guy that commits to financially broke girls, understand that no amount of game will save you from the emotional, psychological and physical stress that is bound to befall a man under such a one-sided relationship. You are on your own bro.

* Game is not the Be-It-All of being an Alpha. You also need to be financially buoyant or at least not the broke or lazy bro who is blaming govt and the world in general for his iveness. Owning a good apartment, a personal car, a source of income and taking good care of yourself, all factors in to your alphaness. So try to work on your shortcomings if any, before trying to game women.


NOW TO THE TOPIC:

If there was a technology that could reset the mind of an average girl causing her to forget all her past suitors, here is what will happen in her dating life.

Her first instinct will be to search for "man" she will love and ride his D whenever she's Hot(Box A) . The second instinct will be to search for the "men" who will love and worship her in exchange for a false hope of getting sex someday(Box B).

This means she groups each suitor into either of those two boxes.

Be aware that oftentimes, Box A is open to only one occupant at a time. While Box B is open to as many men that are interested.

Good Game (and a bit of looks) are the primary determinants that qualifies a man into her Box A. While money and status are the primary determinants that qualifies the men into her Box B.

The world over, all average girls have these two categories in their dating lives. The only difference is that some few will consciously Bleep both occupants of Box A and Box B simultaneously but the majority of girls will only Bleep Box A while golddigging the occupants of Box B.

SOME NOTES:
* An average girl is loyal, submissive and caring to the Guy in Box A. But she will be hard-to-get, bitchy and disrespectful to the guys in Box B.
* Any girl that has you in her Box B will naturally be a gold digger in your eyes but the guy in Box A doesn't see her as one.
* If you're the guy in her Box A, be aware that any of the guys in Box B is capable of screwing your girl if she happens to be high and alone with him or if your Game starts slipping.
* When a woman is ready (or under pressure) to marry and the guy in her Box A doesn't seem to be ready, she will accept a marriage proposal from any of the guys in Box B who is rich and confirmed to be easily manipulate-able, and most likely continue her relationship with the guy in Box A as an extramarital affair. This is because a woman can only be truly happy when she can freely choose and replace the occupant of her Box A according to her emotional feelings. Marrying a guy in Box B only provides her a "man slave" to cater for her cubs and elevate her status in society while it restricts her from "playing with her Boxes" therefore, some women will selfishly attempt to get the best of both worlds through extramarital affairs.
* Being her boyfriend or husband doesn't mean you're in Box A. An average girl that is unable to find a worthy alpha to occupy her Box A tends to have little to no sexual control. She will multi-date and have sex with a lot of the guys in her Box B(each one of these guys will believe that she's dating him exclusively). During ovulation, she is likely to go on solo trips in search of a one night stand.


CONCLUSION:
* If you're a red pill guy with game, realize that majority of the time, only those average girls with a vacant Box A are available for easy gaming. Because once an average girl has an occupant in her Box A, it becomes very difficult (not impossible) for you to game her unless the occupant in her Box A either dumps her or he slips off his game.

* Your precedent during the early phase of courtship determines which Box she deems best to place you.

If you are the guy that didn't spend a dime on her, bought her just a drink or nothing during your date, but meanwhile you gave her the best feelings of being with a strong man during the date and entire period of courtship, you made her open up on things she usually don't tell other guys, and you were confident and neither clingy nor needy in your actions towards her, you are most likely to get the ticket into Box A. But , she is also very likely to ghost you after this kind of date - sex or no sex involved - if she already has an occupant in her Box A that is doing fine in his Game.

But if you're the guy that spends money lavishly on her in your attempt to woo her, displays high status in her presence, drives a cool car and lives in a cool condo, be 98% sure that she will never ghost you regardless of whether she has 100 other chasers who are richer or better than you. , the capacity of her Box B is infinite, there will always be a space for new comers. Just don't whine about how hard she is to get or how she occassionally snubs you for a long period of time before she decides to start picking your calls again.

FINAL NOTE:
I'm aware that when observed from a gender-based perspective, the Box A and Box B analogy used in this writeup is kind of female-centric in nature: given that it portrays the women as being the more powerful gender in the sense that they are the ones who get to choose and dispose off men according to their own timing.
This thread is not intended to affirm or dispute gender equality in any form.

Epistle to apostle Paul.

zum19:


You'll make urself useless if u do dat.

U will waste energy & loss vital body nutrients.

U will look like a cocaine addict.

U will waste money on data any how because u're watching porn on xvideos.com. The cost will alarm u Wen u discover 6 to 8k has gone in 1 week of which u can spend & give urself a nice treat in a good restaurant.

Real sex done safely is better than masturbation. The effect from masturbation is more disastrous dan sex. It dustroys u from inside out.

Abstinence is the best but it's not an easy fit, except God use padlock & lock ur dk.

You're so so ignorant of what you think or claim to know.

Widen your scope n read more please.

Bros when the matter don enter interest levels, ehn, run, run, run. You'd know the economy is hard when it's time for payment.

Theze gurls are master beggars.

liberalchick:
Wow see generalization. Tell that to millions of introverted male that are in a relationship.

You're on the defensive, dear.
You don't want to meet an introverted guy. You'll choke to boredom in an instant, cos I know Naija girls for whom they are.

Trex4:
Really? Well, I've Kinda Noticed Sha Why Is It Like That?

Girls wants' to stay around exciting n lively guys always, which introverts aren't in totality. Except they re (she's) introverted.

Foodforthought:

Detest is a strong word oga...my own sister doesn't like extroverted guys.

Your sis is introverted. Extroversion don't mix with introversion.

You're introverted, and it's fine. However, girls detest introverts a whole lot.

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Go ahead and update it if your phone is not rooted... It's a saving Grace for me cos virus almost crashed my device.

Beating a gurl shows you're weak n insecure. What goes around comes around.

July 23