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comsoy(m): 10:22am On Jan 09, 2022
I doubt anyone who laboured hard for his money legitimately would go this route? As in, this calls for suspicion...and EFcc should step in. These guys need constantly investigated so that they can get to the root of their suspicious illgotten wealth. Is that not the same way Obi Cubana lavishly spent huge amount of money that could have gone into taking care of the needs of people in need in the society on a dead person who had no idea what she was going to face in the grave let alone on the day of judgement.
comsoy(m): 9:51am On Jan 09, 2022
Hi fellas,

If you're going through a heartbreak situation right now, I can help. Quote this message now or send me a DM.

It can really hurt to be heartbroken. So Quote this message now or send me a DM. Let's talk.
comsoy(m): 9:31am On Jan 09, 2022
Nothing pains more than the loss of a loved one. Even if the person is not dead, the feeling of not having with him or her can be very overwhelming. It’s excruciating pain. You feel like a part of you has been ripped away. More, you might seem aloof of what is happening around you because of the shoulder upon whom you stand no longer exists.
In real , nobody can clearly describe what goes on in his or her system. Feeling dizzy might be one of the easiest symptoms of a breakup.

Who Recovers Faster From A Break-Up

Apart from the many researchers conducted on who usually have the most far-reaching effects of a breakup, people generally believed that the women often get over a heartbreak up faster than the men.

Of course, there can only be one reason for this ¬– women have less or nothing to lose. Compared to their men counterparts, they often do not give much in a relationship. For instance, in Africa here, women often wait until marriage before having sexual intercourse with their spouses. Though there are still many of them who go against this general tradition, the majority do not let men into their legs until marriage.

So when sex is not given, what is it then that the women will lose after a breakup?
Nothing!

The men, on the other hand, must have invested time and money in keeping the lady, spending for her and sometimes her family as well.

So when a break up happens, he feels the brunt the most. He thinks of – subconsciously – all he had invested in the lady in question and what comes to his mind is regret.

Of course, this is when the person that initiated the break up is a woman. But oftentimes, women are behind most breakups.

Having looked at break up and matters related to it, let’s now look at how you can move on from a breakup.

The 3 Effective Ways To Heal From Heartbreak Fast

As heartbreaking as a break up is, you can recover from it. If you’re committed and determined, you can recover quickly from the wounds inflicted by break up. These 3 simple steps should help you along the way,

1. Repurpose Your Goals

Maybe your initial goal was to get married to the girl who just broke your heart. You’ve had it all planned out and have even saved well for your wedding ceremony though you haven’t picked a date yet. To get over your heartbreak, re-channel the money and resources into something profitable and consciously connect your mind to your other goals. Move forward and think forward, to still think about a girl no longer yours is thinking backwards. You can’t afford to remain in the past. You owe yourself a great treat, a night chat with friends. Before long, you’d continue to realize how much of the past you’ve left behind – you will be able to think clearly about what’s next in your life.

2. Think other Girls

Yes, I know this might sound unholy as our hypocritical judgment often teaches us in this part of the world, but who cares? When this is about your heart, the most precious part of you, you go all out to heal it. And one of the drastic steps you can take is to look forward – think other girls. Well, I’m not saying you should start flirting around from skirts to skirts because that would eventually land you in trouble. Though it might bring temporary relief to your worries, what often follows such escapades is a bucketful of regrets. By thinking other girls, you should hang out with them, have some cool gist over chilly Coldstone or shawarma with nice soft drinks and you might feel alright. If done consistently for close to 21 days, chances are you might forget the hurt from your heartbreak quicker than you imagined.

3. Stay Hyperproductive

Let me tell you. If you’re having a heartbreak and are lonely, the angel of death might be hanging by the door. Research has it that loneliness alone which is a friend to idleness has claimed many lives. So to add insult to an injury is to be lonely when going through a heartbreak. If you don’t have a heart attack, you might suffer from sleeplessness and related symptoms. When you’re idle and lonely, you’d have no power over the influx of thoughts, mostly negative that will flood your mind. You might want to revenge the girl who broke your heart and fill your heart with spite for her. You might even go to the extent of wanting to revoke or reclaim some of the favours you did for her. In short, your brain might be clouded with extremities and hatred and bitterness for her. Chill, just be super productively engaged and, gradually those negative energies in you will wane in no time.

Bottom Line

That a girl whom you loved with all your heart leaves you is not the end of the world. No doubt, it is painful and feels as if the world should cleave apart and swallow you. But wait right there, before you continue to spend all your energies on what’s gone, why not find a way of stepping out of that anger, that sense of loss, so you can move forward. By following the given steps, you can snap out of your heartbreak within the shortest time possible.

Read more valuable tips on https://thenigerianweb.com.

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comsoy(m): 9:56pm On Mar 27, 2016
[quote author=topsquino post=44163518]I want to thank all the applicants for their efforts. While I was impressed with everybody's prose, I am afraid that I cannot train more than 2 people. Here are the people whom I would be very pleased to train: MULLAH, GEOFAVOR, AND MEMYSELFANDIMEMYSELFANDI. I intend to drop one of the chosen candidate who doesn't show any sign of commitment after 1 week. For those whom I did not select, I wish you the best in your endeavors, and I would advise you to seek for professional training from other editors.

Dear successful learners

I am writing this brief note to notify you that i shall you on April 1, 2016 for the commencement of the training. Thank you

Regards

Topsquino

I will those of
comsoy(m): 9:22pm On Feb 25, 2016
AkProsper:

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comsoy(m): 10:16pm On Dec 05, 2015
Please I need soft copies of the eBook...richest man in Babylon and many others.

Here's my email: [email protected]

Thanks.
comsoy(m): 7:37pm On Dec 05, 2015
True talk, man.

Indeed, if there is anything the Nigerian government has done by detaining Nnamdi Kanu, it is that it has helped given them publicity enough to fire them to win general sympathies.

Truth be told, if these protests upon protests would stop the government need to consult with the different agitating groups involved. That way, Nigeria should be safe yet again from imminent danger.

God bless Naija!
comsoy(m): 10:45pm On Dec 04, 2015
Seriously this is very unfortunate and should not be happening in a land full of milk and honey as ours.

I hear people say it's all because the officers are underpaid. For me, that's trash and morally disastrous. Being underpaid doesn't justify extortion and bribery and Whatnots flagrantly perpetrated by these criminals called immigration officers in MMI. Beyond words, it's worrisome and PMB should act fast.

Can you imagine people being forced to grease these guys' hands with fake dollars at the airport. Yeah...people now do that.

May God help us.
comsoy(m): 6:52pm On Nov 03, 2014
kennedyugo:


I think they've reprimanded this comsoy guy in another thread. Why continue posting a nonexistent job in order to get traffic! Please stop it. If you have any job posting and authentic give us the direct link here and not otherwise!

Oh my! Why are guys like this!

This thing is simple...if you feel the job isn't authentic, why not post authentic ones here and let people benefit from your good efforts, rather than spend precious time just condemning and NOT DOING? I bet Achebe must be a smart lad when he said that if you think my story isn't interesting, write yours.

This isn't difficult at all. If you feel it isn't authentic even after visiting the site which is conspicuous on the link, why not just let the bee be and not discourage those wanted to apply to try. They wouldn't die doing so, would they?

I give credit to eremy for a job well done here. Why not imbibe this noble attribute? At least the guy's spending his precious time he could as well have invested in something else in a thing that's beneficial to others.

Well, at this juncture, I leave this to eremy to decide: this is his thread. If he wanted people to keep on complaining and not do anything to add to the good work you've already started here, good luck to him.

Peace.

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comsoy(m): 2:15pm On Nov 03, 2014
Yeahreen:
Took my tym..hoping for the best. Thanks again.

You're welcome.

All the best.

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comsoy(m): 8:05am On Nov 03, 2014
panachuku:
dont mind d goat. d email he even put der. dey dont even use it anymore. wen der is a job vacancy they create specific email for it. silly blogger.

Hi, pls check all my posts on NL. I don't trade words with people. What I don't get is why you would be this harsh tagging a thing that's done sincerely to help others like this; it isn't civil. Not for you. Not for me either.

Check that site and you would see that we don't spam. I don't buy cheap traffic for my site. Not even by giving them fake info. Come on, guy. This hatred is so obvious.

Even if there're anything like what you pointed out (and I doubt you're right) you could have done it in a most humane manner. Respect is reciprocal.

The site is there for anyone. Let them go there to confirm or better yet, them.

Pls you really don't need to go about talking this way (even if you wanted to correct something).

I leave you to pls check my posts on NL carefully, you would never find me talking trash or using vulgar, disrespectful words on anyone. That's how it should be.

Cheers.

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comsoy(m): 6:42pm On Nov 02, 2014
Godisnear:
OP, nice one. Tnx for posting

You're welcome bro.

Apply; I hope and I'm sure it will be good news.
comsoy(m): 5:21pm On Nov 02, 2014
baba11:
I'll check it out now and give u d #babanpy.....

Alright.
comsoy(m): 4:45pm On Nov 02, 2014
Estorico:
Thanks op cv sent

Best of luck.

You will get a good job soon. Believe. Act. And it's done.
comsoy(m): 4:42pm On Nov 02, 2014
baba11:
thanks comsoy..... are we still on the matter

What matter, bro? Pls remind me.
comsoy(m): 4:37pm On Nov 02, 2014
Wishing you best of luck, bro.

Hope you didn't send it in a hurry?

Hopefully you should get a positive response from them soon.

And hey, make sure you stay put to that resourceful site for more of such opportunities including scholarships..

Peace.
comsoy(m): 11:09am On Nov 02, 2014
@eremy, well done. You're doing a great job here. Pls keep it up.

Well, I like to a good cause.

Here's one:

John Holt is recruiting fresh graduates who have what it takes to work in a corporate environment reknowned with a global standard of excellence.

To apply visit http://.com/john-holt-plc-is-currently-recruiting-graduates/


All the best.
comsoy(m): 10:56am On Nov 02, 2014
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comsoy(m): 11:45pm On Oct 26, 2014
Duchaello:
Pls I'm interested

You sent me a mail, right? Just replied it. We'll talk. Don't worry.
comsoy(m): 11:43pm On Oct 26, 2014
Juzzybabe:

Hey,thanks a lot. Have you gotten any mail fro. from me? I av bin receiving failure notice to the mails I sent to u.

Yes. I just did. Sorry for the late reply. Don't worry. We'll talk. Cool? Good.
comsoy(m): 5:33pm On Oct 24, 2014
Juzzybabe:
Please friends,I need your help and advice. Am in a mini prison which gives me no room to entertain friends or go out at will. I wish to get a job but am under tight restriction. I will like to know if anyone has an idea of a sure and legal job or business I can do from home no matter how little the pay,I only wanna keep my brain active. I will really appreciate your suggestions thanks.

Hi. I was once in your shoes. I quite understand your situation. But wait, do you have skills? Most importantly, are you good on a PC? Or even your phone, android or Windows? I'm into lots of legit stuffs I mostly do from the comfort of my home. I can help. Just send me a pm or find how you can reach me as I don't like to drop my number here, you know spammers na. Well, just check my profile here, you'll find how to me. I wish you the best.
comsoy(m): 1:23am On Oct 11, 2014
sammoe:

I'd like to know if the part-time English tutor position is still open.

No. Been taken. But don't worry. Will let you know if there's any.

And sorry for the late response.
comsoy(m): 11:40am On Oct 08, 2014
As human beings, we see life in different light. Some see it as a major place where we exhaust all there is about the meaning of our existence. Others believe it's a closed book whose content will forever elude the reader, regardless of his level of intellect. Matter-of-factly, this is an endless process of the definition of the self, of the essence of the entire condition of life that makes us to always wonder why we really cannot define the things that happen to us.

My friend, Momoh, simply narrates these wonderful lessons as taught by Alexander the Great below:


The last wishes of Alexander the Great.........

On his death bed, Alexander summoned his army generals and told them his three ultimate wishes:

1. The best doctors should carry his coffin ...

2. The wealth he has accumulated (money, gold, precious stones) should be scattered along the procession to the cemetery ...

3. His hands should be let loose, so they hang outside the coffin for all to see !!

One of his generals who was surprised by these unusual requests asked Alexander to explain .

Here is what Alexander the Great had to say :

1. "I want the best doctors to carry my coffin to demonstrate that in the face of death , even the best doctors in the world have no power to heal .."

2. "I want the road to be covered with my treasure so that everybody sees that material wealth acquired on earth , will stay on earth.."

3. I want my hands to swing in the wind, so that people understand that we come to this world empty handed and we leave this world empty handed after the most precious treasure of all is exhausted, and that is : TIME.

We do not take to our grave any material wealth. TIME is our most precious treasure because it is LIMITED. We can produce more wealth, but we cannot produce more time.

When we give someone our time, we actually give a portion of our life that we will never take back . Our time is our life !

The best present that you can give to your family and friends is your TIME.

May God grant YOU plenty of TIME, to share with all.

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comsoy(m): 11:08am On Oct 08, 2014
sammoe:

Hello, I've been having some difficulty sending you a pm.

Oh really! Think that prob is general. Sorry about that. What's it: can we discuss it here?
comsoy(m): 12:15pm On Oct 07, 2014
Rebekkah:
Interested! I can do the job. Got an SSCE, still in grad school. What's the location? What age bracket will be handled?

Hi, sorry for my late reply. Didn't see your pm.

Glad you're interested. And of course you can do it. But, sorry, the employer needs a grad of English, one whose degree is either BA or BEd.

Thanks for your time.
comsoy(m): 4:09pm On Oct 05, 2014
Nice thread Op. Someone I know very well just got a job with a school at Ikorodu. The pay is 30k per month plus nice accommodation, not to mention other seductive package.

A few days after he got a placement with an infant publishing outfit, to be paid 40k per month plus weekly transport allowance and a little package. It's a marketing job.

Which would you advise him to go for?

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comsoy(m): 3:09pm On Oct 05, 2014
Did you study English? Would you like to teach part-time (like three times a week) for an attractive pay?

Pm me. Let's talk.

Note. Don't want to leave my number or email here because of spammers.

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comsoy(m): 10:08am On Sep 23, 2014
poundsmaker: If you are a fresh muslim graduate still searching for that dream job, this group is for you.
If you are an experienced muslim graduate who delight in sharing job/career tips and resources, this group is for you.
If you wish to learn more about Islam, especially how not to lose your faith in the quest for employment, this group is also for you.
If you need relevant career-enhancement, motivational, Islamic materials: ebook, audio, video, this group is equally for you.
While you are on the job; while you are still job-hunting; while you hope in the bounties of Allah, you don't neglect your deen, you don't slack in faith.
That is what this group is all about.
The WhatsApp group will help you to:
*Interact with fellow muslims in your career path
*Build and expand your network
*Seek sincere and useful advice on important matters
*exchange relevant career-enhancement, motivational, Islamic, materials
*Build lasting friendship
*Have access to und jobs updates

To send your WhatsApp number to:
[email protected] or
drop it below (if you don't fear spammers anyway)

May Allah in His infinite mercy grant us all that which is best for us here on earth and in the hereafter.

Ramadan Mubarak!


Nice one. Well done, people.
comsoy(m): 10:06am On Sep 23, 2014
comsoy:
Nice one. Well done, bro.
comsoy(m): 10:05am On Sep 23, 2014
poundsmaker: The group is in progress, where we learn, share ideas on interview experiences, ongoing CV submission to companies (un), tips on how to secure interviews through writing a standard resume including winning the interviews and post different job updates on daily basis.

Aliahmdulilah Robilialamin.

Anybody who wants to , can send his/her whatsapp number to the group email address: [email protected]

Ma salam
comsoy(m): 11:14am On Jul 26, 2014
As muslims, we're expected to follow strictly two main sources of wisdom in the discharge of our affairs in this world: the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet (SAW). Anything short of this is not Islam. Even the opinions of the scholars, our sheikhs and alfas do not count except when they conform to the two aforestated sources.

Regarding fasting in Ramadan and sighting the moon, a true muslim will never follow his whims and caprices nor that of his Shiekhs nor of his Alfas. Except if and only if those whims and caprices are in line with the Words of Allah and the Hadith of the Prophet. This is true way of the believers.

May Allah make us all better muslims.

Concerning moon-sighting, let's read this:

They ask you about the crescents. Say: they are but signs to mark fixed periods of time in the affairs of men and for pilgrimage (Q. al-Baqarah, 2:189)Abdullah bin Umar narrates that Allah’s Messenger once mentioned Ramadan and said: Do not begin the fast until you sight the moon, and do not break the fast (at the end of Ramadan) until you see it. If the new moon is concealed from you, then work out when it should be (TMH Al-Muwatta, 18. 1. 1)While thanking Allah (SWT), the Praiseworthy, Who has made us to witness and experience the holy month of fasting, Ramadan, for the year 1435 A.H. /2014 C.E., the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA) felicitates with Muslims all over the world and in Nigeria in particular, on the successful attainment of the last part of the blessed month.The Council also sincerely apologises to the Muslim ummah in Nigeria for the unusual confusion and miscommunication that trailed the commencement of the holy month. Despite all the efforts made towards avoiding such a confusion, complete success was not attained. The appropriate lessons have however been learnt.It is in this respect that the NSCIA wishes to remind all Muslims who know, and notify those who do not, that there is an established structure for moon-sighting in Nigeria. Due to its significance and technicalities,the Council has a National Moonsighting Committee under the leadership of an expert. The Committee is equipped with necessary equipment and technological gadgets that are relevant to the discharge of its assignment.The hip of the Committee is drawn from various segments of the Nigerian Muslim Ummah, including: 1 Dr. Hafiz Wali (CHAIRMAN) 08036009090. Kaduna  2 Shaykh Tahir Bauchi 08032103733, 08033058201. Bauchi  3 Shaykh Kariballah Kabara 08035537382 Kano  4 Muhammad Nasir AbdulMuhyi 08065687545, 08024333381. Jos  5 Shaykh Habeebullahi Adam Abdullahi Al Ilory 08023126335. Lagos/ Ilorin  6 Alh. Abdul Hamid Oyebode (Surveyor Gen.). 08037063923. Offa/Ilorin  7 Prof. Z I Oboh Oseni (Chief Imam of Auchi ) 08033574431. Auchi  8 Shaykh AbdurRahman Ahmad. 08023141752 Lagos/Ilorin  9 Prof. J. M. Kaura 08067050641 Sokoto  10 Shaykh Mustapha Ajisafe ( Imam of Osogbo) 08035740333. Yorubaland/Oshogbo  11 Shaykh Abdur-Razzaq Ishola 08023864448, 08051111063. Lagos  12 Shaykh Abdur-Rasheed Mayaleeke 08035050804. IJEBU ODE  13 Mal. Simwal Usman Jibrin 08033140010. Kaduna  14 Alh Yusuf Nwoha 08030966956 Oweri  15 Mallam Nurudeen Ibraheem  16 Prof. Usman El-Nafaty. (DEPUTY CHAIRMAN) 08062870892. Bauchi  17 Dr K. K. Oloso 08023098661 Ibadan  18 Mal. Ibrahim Zubairu Salisu  19 Alh. Shakir Ettu Lagos  20 Prof. Muritala Salawu 08037229766. Abuja/Ibadan  21 Dr. Ganiy I. Agbaje, FNIS 08028327463, 08057752980. ABUJA  22 Muhammad Yaseen Qamaruddeen 08055322087, 08099516362 Lagos  23 Mal. Abdullahi Shuaib 08023037478. Lagos  24 Usman Mahmud 08034540120. ABUJA/Kano However, hip of the Committee is not exclusive to the above-listed personalities. The NSCIA expects people with requisite technical and demonstrable knowledge of moon-sighting to indicate their interests to the Secretary General, NSCIA. It is also helpful for such persons to list their areas of expertise. We intend to have an expert in each of the Senatorial Zone of the Country.The National Moonsighting Committee will advise the President-General of the NSCIA (The Sultan)through the Secretary-General, on the commencement and conclusion of Ramadan or sighting of Ramadan and Shawwal crescents. When a Muslim sights a new moon, (s)he should call any member of the Committee close to him, who will ask him a series pertinent questions These may include i). time the moon was sighted, ii). Position of the crescent relative to where the Sun sets iii) Altitude of the crescent above the horizon, iv) Orientation of the crescent, v) Conditioon of the sky at the time of the sighting (e,g, clear, cloudy, rainy). Our brothers and sisters in Islam are urged to direct their observations, notices and enquiries on the crescent to of the National Moonsighting Committee.It is on the backdrop of the foregoing that the NSCIA announces that in line with the Qur'anic verse and the tradition of the Prophet (SAW) cited above, as Ramadan draws to its close, any information on sighting the crescent (of Shawwal) should be conveyed to the National Moonsighting Committee so that the President-General of the NSCIA, His Eminence, the Sultan of Sokoto, may pronounce the end of fasting.IT IS AN INDISPUTABLE FACT THAT THE OLD (Ramadan) moon will set just before sunset in Nigeria on Saturday, 26 th of July 2014. The new astronomic moon would be born few minutes before midnight of that Saturday. CONSEQUENTLY, THE SEARCH FOR SHAWWAL MOON IS ON SUNDAY 27th of JULY 2014. It can be sighted in Nigeria on SUNDAY with optical instruments or with some difficulties with naked eyes. Any claim of sighting a moon that is yet to be born is not only false, mistaken or impossible but also ridiculous.Onceagain, the NSCIA congratulates the Muslim Ummah on the auspicious period of Ramadan and wishes all Nigerians happy ‘Idul Fitr in advance. Many happy returns of the holy month! “Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out our sins and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. You are our Protector, help us against those who stand against faith” (Q. Al-Baqarah, 2:286).

Prof. Is-haq O. OloyedeSecretary-General, NSCIA.
comsoy(m): 12:33pm On Jul 21, 2014
Wizeboy: Al hamdu lillaahi rabbil 'alameen

Thanks to everybody for participating in this year RAMADAN IFTAAR, your attendance and contribution really makes the programme a success. Brothers and Sisters arrival before time was really commendable and appreciated, as this help us to start the programme at the time stated (let us keep this good character in all our future programme). I think this is the biggest RAMADAN IFTAAR we have ever hosted, the attendance stood at 51 people. May Almighty Allah accept it from us as an act of Ibadah (AMIN) and I pray next year programme will be more elaborate and successful than this.



wow! I had no doubt it would be a wondeful experience.

So painful, I missed it. Despite my well-arranged plan to be first in attendance! Lol. Other matters came up, so I had to skip it. Insha Allah, come next Ramadan, I will be there.

Can't wait to see the pictures, really. And, thumbs up Wizeboy for a good job. More power to your elbow.

Salamun alaykum!

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