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Find an excersize that will train your mind. Give yourself tough tasks, work as though your life depend on the job be very focused but relate with people. You need mental stamina. If you are given a task that seem impossible for you, promise to try and keep the promise. Read books that will make you more strategic and tough but don't apply every negative thing you found in the book. Read books like: Your next five moves, the subtle art if not giving a Bleep, Robert green books, try and be almost more knowledgeable about your job than most people in your team. Be very straight forward and tactical. You can watch wrestling as well. Stay away from pornography or anything that resembles it. Don't go near any kind of drug for help no matter the promises attached. Be more conscious if your faith( whichever faith you practice), set personal boundaries. Try these for three months. You will notice that some of the points I mentioned contradict but that is the way, You become dynamic and flexible. Make sure you don't lose that job on of percieved weakness. Be strong.

madridguy:
The decisive moment specifically was when the elders demanded for a refund of the total sum of N850,000 to repair the father's old car that knocked engine

na this one pain me .

The wife of King Charles III is addressed as QUEEN CONSORT.

judatech:
Yes...men are really suffering in this world...
The world is not balanced for the men...
A man married to a queen is titled a Prince-Consort... while a woman married to a king is titled a Queen 👑...
So unfair...
What's going on in this world self?

OP did no wrong by calling her boss.
She has already made her security his responsibility...she shares her locations when she is in seemingly unsafe region and would get angry when he doesn't call to check. It was on the same ground that the young man in a bid to make sure his lover is secured had to call her boss.
I feel she is playing a dirty game...a game of control and manipulation both on her boss and the OP...when everything settles she will claim she was testing you, women don't test men like that...Mr. OP you don't have any issues of insecurity and you were not childish.
My advice for you is this:
"In life no matter how tight you hold anything never hold it with both hands."
Give her space..if she blocks you then move on.
This should be enough motivation to drive you to success...If you were a very rich stud she wouldn't act that way. If you were richer than her boss he would be the one apologizing.Double your hustle my brother.Money stops nonsense.

Mr OP please check the poverty level of your own state within the same year...you posted the chart yourself....even with the level of poverty that time Anambara is on the top 10 of that list....Leave Peter Obi alone.

Find a family of elderly and responsible couples with proven integrity .. and make the woman your friend and confidant...You won't regret it.

Most parents will want to watch it so they can use it as case study to prevent it from happening to their own children...to be forewarned is to be forearmed

When there are so many versions of one story most people would want to see for themselves...to get firsthand information.

If you are always harrasing and threatening your neighbouts and the a cult notorious for protecting their would you say your neighbours did wrong?..

Ohislee:
If US truly wants world peace, they should start by disbanding all military alliances like NATO.

Military alliance are like cult groups. An attack on one is an attack all and this is a threat to non of such alliance.

As an individual, I don't know how you will feel if your next door neighbour, s a deadly cult group that are your one time enemy. This means, they can start having their meetings next door. The slightest misunderstanding with your neighbour, becomes a misunderstanding with the entire cult group. I believe this is what Russian is trying to avoid.

Aside this, cult groups give rise to other cult group. Most people this groups for protection. This can also be said for military alliances. It would give rise to rival military alliance.

NATO is a cult. Russian is within their right to defend itself from cultist.

She gave a part of her life to the young man...and he felt its time to quit,...something bigger might be quiting for him in front,...one day he will her but it will be too late,..A woman that gave her organ is worth more than gold...I love her.

She has been found..

They hardly give light in Enugu,...and the bill is very exorbitant,..Imagine one room tenant paying 2k and will get light for 2 hrs two or three times in a week,..they break people's bulbs for leaving them on in the afternoon,..it's more like the people are slaves to EEDC,...the whole thing is frustrating in Enugu,..

EBAFICATION

Find your way to .

Oga,....your product cannot prevent the collapse of a substandard building,...it's like using stick to a falling tower,....don't mislead people so your marketing won't lead to more cases of building collapse.

Add me please.

Please dont Kill him, rather keep begging God to take away his life,...it is better when God allow the doctor make a mistake which leads to his death than just killing him,....you will live all your life In guilt whenever you you instructed them to kill him,....I am a young father I wouldn't wish I had done such to my own dad,...It's really painful but if all his effort you won't want to...in this case emotion is more important than Logic...Even the doctors know one wrong medicine the will give him and he will sleep and never wake up but the wouldn't do it even though his health gives then inconvenience....KILLIING A HIMAN IS NOT EASY,...EXCEPT FOR THE HEARTLESS...
God will help you.

Tell Your lecturers the situation....let everyone that know you understand what is happening,...thoa that will help will always be more than those that will laugh at you.

Be a strong Man Bro.This too shall Co.e to .
Be strong.

dapsoneh:
I hope this guy doesn't go bankrupt one day

Mayweather own 9 sky scrapers in the US,...he will only go broke if American Government seize everything,...else he may never go broke.

Dear OP,..From your description I think Architecture will work better for you,..

Do not mind who makes more money or who is more superior,...

If you get ission in Civil Engineering please go for it, don't hesitate because ission is not very easy in Nigeria.

In case you want to write JAMB gain you can go for Architecture,

There is nothing in the two professions that is too difficult for an average student.

None of the two professions will go extinct in the next 200 years,

Civil Engineers give me work and I give civil engineers work,

The owner of the real estate company I once worked in was a business man, not an Architect or Engineer.

I am encouraging you because of your post not to compare which profession is better. Both professions are good.

Ease do mot mind all those doing comparison here they are looking at the professions from a basic perspective, in advanced projects there is none superior to the other. There are sectors where Architects are never needed and there are also those where Engineers are never needed.

Civil Engineering covers Building, dam, erosion control, roads, geotechnical, e.t.c.

Architecture covers Building,interior,landscape, lighting design,psychology, history,politics, business,. E.t.c.

You will very rich Architects and Engineers, You will also see very broke Architects and Engineeers, what guarantee your success is your disposition, strategy and God.

Your ability to be confused on the course to study and being able to bring it open shows how critica, analytical, creative and receptive you can be.
I see you as very creative and you will do well in Architecture if you can accommodate the stress In school.
Architecture is expanding daily as the world gets more advanced, as an architecture your primary assignment is 'creation and modification of space'. You must be a great thinker and analyst jut you should be ae to express yourself.

Drawing is involved in Architecture, but the essence of the drawing is not for the Arts but for the purpose of expressing that thing you want to create, hence the evolution of 3D and Animation in Architectural designs, this comes because there is usually different interpretation for a work that is not properly deatailes ant that is why specification writing is done in detailing.

Just look around you and begin to appreciate your environment first.
In some years to come you will come back to this thread and I hope you will appreciate this counsel.
For your information you will still meet calculations in Architecture but not as much as in civil engineering depending o your school anyway,..I did theory of structures up till 300 level.
And when you graduate respect professionals in other areas of construction, you can't be all and you can't know it all, you will be needing the of other professionals irrespective of what you studied. It is arrogance and pride that makes one feel his profession isore superior than the others.
Good morning.

Kizyte:
Our fake pastor Righteousness2 is always on every thread 247 on Nairaland.

He obviously spend 99% of his time on Nairaland;

- No time to read his Bible or pray
- He doesn't go to church
- Does not go to work/business
- Only derails threads

Mods please do your job!

So what has Righteousness2 done wrong that warrant you calling him out,...He comments like every other person and never insults,...some people make hatred a hobby.

Kizyte:
Our fake pastor Righteousness2 is always on every thread 247 on Nairaland.

He obviously spend 99% of his time on Nairaland;

- No time to read his Bible or pray
- He doesn't go to church
- Does not go to work/business
- Only derails threads

Mods please do your job!

So what has Righteousness2 done wrong that warrant you calling him out,...He comments like every other person and never insults,...some people make hatred a hobbies.

blackpanda:
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Wrong. I am a catholic. and the policy of the catholic church is not to engage in domestic politics. Those who do it do so on their own for their own selfish purposes.

Bros, You lie too much

Tunde835:
Cause he's a thief. He stole d money he used to buy d house in d first place

Poverty mentality has affected many of us to the point that we see a wealthy man as a thief,...

It was still a case of restructuring,...I'm believing after the meeting the colonial masters sat Gowon down and told him why he should back out,..and Gowon not knowing how to backout now had the excuse that Ojukwu spoke first,...

Foreign interest will not always favour us.

naptu2:
This is one of a series of videos posted by the Catholic Bishop of Nsukka, Most Reverend Godfrey Igwebuike Onah, to his YouTube channel on October 21. The theme of the homily was about the End SARS protests and the situation of the country, but I believe that it is this particular clip, in which he talked about mosques in Nsukka and churches in the north, that offended a lot of people.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxwTa5TbKAU

I have watched over and again,....I am yet to see what is inciting in that Video.

blowjohn:


My friend keep quiet.
Which best?
Calabar is one of the worst states in the country.
Am from akwaibom

Please don't say that again,...Donald Duke worked very well

I've ever met Donald Duke at Obudu cattle ranch,.. you need to see that man,...such a wonderful person,...he transformed Cross River State,...the people are still reading the fruits of His great works,..

I'm still trying to understand why a Politician that is not succeeding would not want to ask those that succeeded how they did it,...there is no shame in asking.

It is an offence to give or take bribe

The guy is not her husband,...if he were he would be in boxers.

The guy is not the baby's father,...h is not you a father so he doesn't understand how to hold the child.

She is not so comfortable with the touches,...my investigations proposes he is either a young widow, is divorced or the husband is janded.

The guy seems to have close link with the father of the child.

Mr OP if you try those nonsense you typed on your woman eh,....any man that does the opposite will take her over from you for life,.....do your best to get sufficient training before marriage so you won't die prematurely,...women are not slaves and have as equal right as a man,...how dare you hit your wife,...or walk away from her when she cries...To be the real man you must lower some of your masculine bars and allow her be the woman(not the slave) in your life....

I will say no further when you get a girlfriend or wife you will understand that you do t own the world.

TkhGuy:
Things you should never do with your wife or girlfriend if you want to be feared and respected by her.

This is Most women attributes

Firstly, you have to be familiar with these and know the right timing & applications,

Opposite sex, means a reprocation of what you did to her in ironically,

If you treat her hash get tough with her, she gets soft and treat you carefully with caution, if you respects her she will disproportionately disrespect you, if you ires her she will find you unattractive. If you get hot with her, she will get cold with you........Check

If we met a very beautiful lady right now and you tell her that she is an angel from heaven, she will step on you without thinking about it, but if I tell the same lady that she is as ugly as vulture, or too ugly to be seeing with me, she will get angry but at last she will follow me.

The strong men are strict and strictness codes that commands attention and respect is what I will be coaching you guys today.



If you are sure you want to be constantly in charge of a woman who is your wife or girlfriend.

1. Never compliment her in any way, never say it or write it as text just overlook it like it's no damn thing.
2. Never argue with her, arguing with her makes you a weak man, a strong man will slap his wife or girlfriend if she over steps her boundery & she will render a solid apology..
3. Be a new guy or man to her Everytime she met with you, be unpredictable & full of surprise.
4. If she did something wrong, scold her hashly so she will feel terrible about it, else she will do it again.
5. Be strict with her, let her do the worry if she asked you why you are strict, yell at her.
6. If she jokingly insult you, hit her if you have to and yell & rebook her to never try it next time.
7. If she starts a conversation with anything other than greetings like good morning after or evening
Ignore her, or Rebook her and rain insult on her about how untrained and stupid she is.
8. Don't call or be first to start a conversation with her, that will show you needy if, she start, try giving her a short and brief reply.
9. If she ask you how did your work go today, reply fine.
10. Don't tell her secret that only her knows or making her feel special..rather make others feel special so she will get puzzled up why you hate her,
11. Don't give her your pin number or making her a signatory to your and no t .
12. Don't tell her stories or listen to hers, if you have to, tell her stories that ends with her knowing her boundery..
13. Don't tell her where you are going and when you will be back, if she ask you, tell her you will be back.
14. Never drop her what's app message if she is not online, or better still don't chat with her on WhatsApp and never ask her who she is chatting with on what's app or any social media that she is so busy with, but if you find her getting on long chat that she doesn't give you attention, snatch the phone & smash it to pieces right before her.


Once you conquered your wife, every woman that sees you will trade with you with fear, carefullyness and respect..

She will submits, most of them like 98% will stick with you hoping you will change, or try to change you by any means possible, that's why a strong and powerfull man are rare and never empty,
Provide her matterial needs but hold Her emotional needs with your strictness.. she will not stop reporting you to her mother & other women,, some will want to put love spell in your food, but if you have become a don, aka Odogbu you don't need to eat any food cooked by her or use any restaurant she visits.. [/b]

Women don't leave a man who have money that cheats and bully them.
But if you can't take care of her materialistic needs if you beat her she will want to fight or leave.

No woman under this Earth that will not hands down for you, she will not get to monitor your movement, she will not even think about touching your smartphones not to mention asking you the unlock code, she will treat your guest with respect as much as your brothers mother and relatives, she will not even think about cheating on you cos you are too mysterious,


The man who faces the most disrespectfulnes is a married man, the person who disrespectf him the most is his wife. But that same wife of yours respects other men she sees outside, so what went wrong, is over familiarity..

The funny side is that she will be proud of you and constantly seeks to make you come down to her level if you are following this codes

I don't give a Bleep about anything any pussy sucker have to say about these, go & eat shit..! That's the best you can do.. and will continue eating your own shit if you ignore this code, you will become a house boy, she will turn you against your own self and against your relatives..she will have your millions while poverty and disease will kill you, she will use your money to rent a guy and bang in your bedroom..
Look at the picture I ed very well that will be your duty roaster fool..