NewStats: 3,259,238 , 8,169,562 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 12:31 PM 3x594f

Baddestbiitch:
So there was this guy i met on whatsapp, he's cute, sweet but very stingy, and i disliked stingy guys.
But well i decided to give him a try, but first i told him for me to be his girlfriend, half of his monthly salary will be mine every month which he agreed and even suprised me with a gift that same day. I visited him the next day, i asked for some money to buy some stuff, dude started complaning telling me how broke he was, menh, i had to quit and asked him never to call my number again but the funniest thing is that he started calling me to apologise, i had to bill him for playing mind games on me.

If wishes were horses . It's good to dream.

PROVERBZ:
Hey guys, so I am a twenty three year old Nigerian guy and of course I am no way ready to get married now. But there is this girl I love so much who is of similar age with me. I fear she might start getting suitors for serious stuff and there is no way she would wait for me.

She is my first kiss and by far the most beautiful girl I ever had anything with. I dream of our kids together.

I don't know if I should get her pregnant. I'm in no way capable of taking care of just her talk less of her and a baby.

Well it depends on how she feels about you, her family and if you really love her. If you both are serious you may end up married in 3 to 5 years,with family and both of you hustling too. It all boils down to you both. But if you know she is all about comfort and material things then get your head out of the clouds.

pulsa:
So my girlfriend took in and sadly she had to abort it because of our current situation, but few days after this we had a small fight, I had discovered that she had restricted me from viewing her status, she most likely did this after our last argument when I dumped her in anger because I complained we were not having more sex (we had sex once a week, and to her credit she's a medical student and therefore always really busy), and did not change it back after we got back together, but she took it so wrongly and she broke up with me.

Then she offered we could remain friends which I vehemently rejected, but now I'm wondering if I'm not taking her feelings into , I read somewhere that abortion really affected women emotionally and she also use the phrase that she was "angry at her self" and wanted "everything to go away" when I tried to reach out to her.

I think it's best you let each other be, since you both can't abstain and are both so irresponsible . You should let her focus on her studies and you on whatever it is you do.

InfinityFabric:

If you're not married in the first few months, you're being scammed.

There's no soul mate, it's a myth.


Says every girl in love/lust.


There's no problem here, he's just being pragmatic. You can leave him if u don't like it.


If you're not hoe, why would you want to socialize with a man ?
Men will always want to have sexual relation with you. We don't care about anything else.
Will you still have this idea if you're married to him ?

But since you're in a FORNICATIONSHIP, you can do whatever so does he.


Female making their "friends" single since 10 B.C. So you're worried about what they think ?
Do you enjoy your guy's company or not ?


As you should especially if/when you get married or planning to.


Says every girl sucking another man's Instruments while married OR in a relationship. Still happens anyways.


It is called: HOLDING FRAME. And that's exactly why you're attracted to him. The moment he does all these nonsensical crap you mentioned, you private parts dries up the moment u see him.


By acting like someone who wants the ring and NOT acting single.

YOUR SINGLE FRIENDS AND UNHAPPILY MARRIED WILL MAKE YOU SINGLE.

OMG

Abfinest007:
Good idea instead him to cheat on her and bring unwanted disease

He will still cheat.

You all are speaking my mind.

Alexgman1:
She brought shame & disgrace to me because my full family, friends, colleagues and everyone who knws me knew about the relationship. We always wear desame clothes. Everyone knew & were expecting our wedding I.V asap. My parent even told her never to abort because they want grandchildren. But she because sex she cudnt control herself.She just want to be fuccked all d time.

I am sorry you felt humiliated by her but that's what happens when you put the cart before the horse. Stop doing what married people do when you are not yet married. I hope you have learnt from your mistakes.

Alexgman1:
In every relationship i find myself i always try my best to please & satisfy my woman even to my own detriment but it seems no matter what u can never pls a woman. Only few women out there are sincere, loyal & faithful. My recent & 4th relationship was the most tasking. I fell inlove wit this girl out of pity & comion. She was the 1st child of 14kids. Her mum is late & her dad is based in cameroun with his other 2 wives. I vowed to love & care for her & her sibblings as if they are mine. I sacrificed all i had to make them happy & comfortable. But the issue is she wanted everynight sex but i couldnt attend to her always. My work was time & energing cosuming so i can't over stress myself. After 1year & a half she left me & went back to her ex. It took me 5 months to get over it.
Recently i called her to come celebrate my birthday wit me. I took her to a fast food we eat & drink alot & she even ordered take aways 4 her sibblings. I took excuse to go & do POS & dat was how i left her to pay #24,000 bill.

Is it just me? If I love someone I would not want to hurt them even if they are happy with someone else.

omron:
Hello Good moring Romancelanders .
I really need a very urgent advise ,its affecting me emotionally and am confused.
MY name is Joseph am Abeokuta based live and work in Abeokuta,About 5 weeks ago I met this lady a graduate very beautiful, tall, and charming on my way to visit my Mum during weekend so I stopped her while driving and we chat and exchanged numbers,Since then we av been in constant communication, The funniest part of this aspect is that ever since I met her she go deeper In love with me even more than I do ,she calls me morin day and night to ask of me ,ask me what I eat how my day was going and all that even when am moody and she observe she will make me happy and crack jokes and all that, One day I was broke cos someone owe me money and could not pay she noticed am not happy and asked me why I told her am.broke and this lady sent me #5'000 naira to my bank that day for me to manage till the next day, I just kept wondering why she love me this much and one day I asked her why she love me this much and she said its natural ,I invited her to my house one Sunday and she came to cook for me and tidy the house and we jist,so I tried to make attempt to have sex with her but she refused me and told me that it's the first time of coming to my house that it's not proper ,meanwhile she told me she met a guy while she was schooling at Obafemi Awolowo University ile ife Osun state they both graduated then and relocated to Abeokuta together and they were living couples life after school.so when ever this lady comes visit me she will be hurry to go back to the guys house which am not so much happy about ,...So this last Sunday she came to my house and confessed to me that it was the guy who disflowered her and that she never had sex with any other guy in her life except that guy,,,so this last Sunday again I tried to make attempt to have sex with her but she was dragging with me telling me no way no access I asked her why and she started crying ,and was so emotional ,she told me her conscience is disturbing her that the guy did not offend her and that she loves the guy so much and she loves me too ,that the love she has for both of us is equal and she does not want to be having sex with two guys at the same relationship and now told me that the only thing that can make her have sex with me is if she breaks up with the guy that I will have to be very patient and wait for that day to come and I now asked her what if the day does not come and she said all in God's hand ? I tried to persuade her for sex that Sunday evening she was dragging it with me and suddenly she left my room in annoyance carried her bag and left crying.....I have never seen the kind of this lady before in my life and after she left I felt bad and I hated myself ,,,,when she got home I called her to check on her and she told me she has reached home and she was apologising to me for refusing me sex ...Please am just so confused I don't know what to do ..she calls me more than 12 times a day asking about my welfare and my day ,am the first person she calls early morin with WhatsApp video calls and she is very caring ..what should I do...am thinking of deleting and forgetting her ..How can she say she loves me and having sex with another guy and refusing me ...please I need a very good advice..I really love her and I feel like marrying her but I don't just want to waste my time...Thanks for your concern my dearest nairalnders God bless u

Maybe there's something she is not getting in the relationship with the guy. It might be age doesn't see a future with the guy , probably due to some reasons best known to her, but she is finding it hard to leave him, you are just the spare. The problem is that you like her and have developed feelings.now if you want her then you need to give her an ultimatum, it's either you or the other guy, if you cannot do that then let her go.

VeryWickedMan:
I noticed a lot of ladies love doing this especially in public places like restaurants or buses. Some do it while cooking.


Why?

Panties make women more prone to wedgies.

RedPiller:


How?

I get ur point, but I don't think so

Of cos you don't.

RedPiller:
https:///oKAe4cjFXo

The Bandits are seen in the above video beating male abductees only, and I know they didn't do the same to other engers because they are VAGINARIANS.

My take: Is this gender equality of a thing true or WESTERN PROPAGANDA


Cc: Amb1045
siofra
candidlady
islandlady
TheGidRedpiller
Gadafii

::: Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Brainmytool

Yes the females wil be violated in other ways worse than beatings.

Cypress042:
Nairaland lowkey portable

Brokenhearted smally with mummy issues lashing out , trying to get attention. Be careful what you wish for.

kmaster007:
I have a very close male friend. We are not dating and we haven’t really done anything romantic although we have told each other almost everything about ourselves and we have spent a lot of time together gisting and generally having good times.

I just like him as a friend but I am not sexually attracted to him.

He actually hasn’t ever asked me out but sometimes he sends me some odd text messages talking about how much he cares for me and how much our friendship means to him and all that.

Also he has dated and broken up with about five girls since I knew him.

I see him as just a normal friend, more like a brother but I am beginning to suspect that he sees me as more than a friend because he gets angry when he sees me talking with other guys and he always tries to act over-protective.

It became so annoying that one day I had to ask him what his problem was. When I tried talking to him about this attitude of his, he got angry and started acting funny. Now we are not on talking because I told him to respect himself and give me some space.

He is my very good friend and I like him because he’s a nice guy and I don’t want to lose his friendship.

Guys will always start developing feeling and imagining things, that's how men are wired. Once there's no blood relationship between you two, there's no way it won't cross a straight man's mind.

abiolamitodun:
To me it sounds like the of that word is being proud..

Nothing is just the world's way of cutting corners. Trying to make everything as short as possible.

One of the red Piller gang coming here to seek for a simp advice hiding under a new moniker .

I would advise you take a break. Just completely cut off, no calls, no messages no visits no communication. It's hard but try. If she comes over and trys to use sex bluff her. Do this for long time, and then gradually you will get over her cos all those attitude will amplifying marriage.

Viktorinox2:
Sharing this here for insights please.
Recently, I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend long story short, after so much display of attitude and name calling I asked her that I wanted us to reconcile.she demanded for was 5k claiming I'm too stingy and all that.
Yesterday, I told her that I had sent 1gb of data to her, to prove to me she didn't see it she had to screenshot of the service reply and sent to me.
There I saw something that surprised me .
I'll attach the screenshot here . I feel she wants to use my head.

Are you faithful? If you are not don't expect it.

HanahHitler:
Now that men know that women are capable of cheating too, and it might just be in our nature, why are they not so forgiving?

Why does it hurt them?

Why can't we all cheat in piss?

Cause men can dish it out they can't receive. They don't have the capacity to bear pain like women do.

Choosing between my family and making my marriage work.
Chose my marriage and it's the best decision I made. Now I am being used as reference to people to emulate.

Offpoint1:
Why do lots of female teenagers become highly disrespectful after testing/eating the forbidden fruit?


The boys are not left out either, but it's more rampant with the female folks.


There was nowhere in biology class I was taught sex influences behavior

Not true, such children had bad character already.

Tonero5200:
Fûcking her as always been my fantasy

That's probably why the girl is being careful. You are probably coming in too strong.

Vinnie2000:
Some examples include.

*How many years you take senior me?
*Na wa for you oo.
*The Ogbono soup dey draw well well.
*That Guy dey tap current from his female seatmates.


MINE IS: Uncle, dat boy tell me Waka/Shege/Oooin.

OYA, ADD YOURS!

Mr English, Angelfrost, help us translate.



Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Please move to FP. Thanks.

* You are not that much older than me.
*You amaze me
*The soup is really slimmy
* The guy is tactile with his female seatmates

Akpipi24:
I sincerely want to hear your opinion on how to spice a relationship that has been tag
"boring" .Thanks for your contribution

Once had sex at the balcony .

Scamupdates:
as a single/married man will you ever allow a t with your partner

I will because my wife is a better planner than I am, and she isn't the bossy controlling type. If it were another woman like my ex,I married besides her, then no.

When you cannot control your urge as a man this is bound to happen. For all those normalizing side chics and cheating better get use to this trend. As for Yul , people like him always end up old and bed ridden with regrets.
She will be fine, time heals everything.

ReverseIlamina:
So Me and this girl have been friends last year on the Same Campus though we kept it lowkey. My friend noticed the girl on campus one day and they proceeded to talking stage.

My friend showed me the girl and I told him we were just friends I gave him the go ahead. But actually I was interested in the girl but I wanted to study her before making any move.

So Fastfoward, they dated for a month and broke up. He said he wasn't interested anymore and I could go for her actually. I'm now close to the girl. I had to let my friend know about it. He said he wasn't bothered but went behind my back and told my other friends what happened.

Now all of them think I'm a snake . I'm I wrong?

And that is how the herpes and non resistance gonorrhoea gets ed around.

Elizy09:
Pls house should we call this love or my uncle is under some sort of influence

He does not want to lose a hot younger wife. How will he explain it that he is not able to satisfy his 30 years younger wife. His Ego won't allow it,

Aidneeded:
NLDers
What are this on my chest and is there anything I can use to cure them...

try bathing more frequently with warm water, then use nixoderm. If symptoms persists after 3 weeks, consult your doctor.