NewStats: 3,259,434 , 8,170,095 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 12:05 AM 3h5ed

emmanuellex:
Hi guys. Please I need your advice.
About 3 years ago I found out she was in my friends house while she told me she was going back to her family after visiting me in my school.

I hacked into her WhatsApp messages due to my suspicions with how she often keeps her phone from me and I saw the chat between she and my friend telling him that she missed her period.

I love her so much and I decided to let go due to her statement about what she did was because I also cheated on her with a friend of hers. There was no evidence that I ever did such.

Everything was going fine until this year 2022 when I discovered she’s doing thesame with another guy.

Please I need your advice.

You are both toxic.

Daniel7543:
Don't try that bullshit with me o, I'm not a gentleman at all o. If a woman cross her boundary, or she verbally abuse me, I go beat 20 years out of her life. She dey Mad ni?

I'm a woman beater, I go give her dark eyes.

Not the best sir. Try and change

yinkaOdutuyo:
Me and my wife had being married for 3years now.

During our courtship we do have sex time to time and amazing sex, not a boring one.

We have being married for 3years and we have always being having good sex.

There is no styles of sex we haven't done before and after we married and we use to have marathon sexs for hours as many rounds we want.

Have always make my wife cum and satisfied many times.

But going to 3 weeks now, I don't even feel like having sex and my wife too complains that is stress for.

Note: none of us is cheating and I was also the one that disvirgined her.

So I want to know is it normal or something is wrong?

It's completely normal. But don't let it linger for too long, always do things that will ignite your ion. Do you have a baby?

mikezuruki:


She needs me to do something. Truth is, I have not had the time to because of work.
She then threatened that the relationship is over if I don't do it as soon as she wants. To be truthful to you, I know she has asked me for some time to get this thing done, but the threat there is what I don't understand. Like it didn't warrant it at all.
That was why I chose to stand my ground. I haven't and I didn't threaten her over anything, I don't why she would resolved to that.

Haba. Well a girl who loves you and sees a future with you will not threaten you like this,over getting something done. Except that something has to do with moving to the next level in your relationship.

UgoEvans:
Can a good head (not isi please) actually prevent a girl from leaving a guy?

It depends on who the girl is.

LILTJAY1:
How many of the over 250 tribes have you slept with..??
Mine yoruba, esan and bini only.

Here to read lies

Richsteemit:
Good evening. Have been praying for God to give me a good wife and job. God answered my prayer I got a job last month. But I'm in love with d boss of my work place. She posses everything a woman suppose to have. Guys should I shoot my shot? I know it is very risky. Money is not everything. May be God wants to answer the two prayers at a time

I hope your boss is not married.
Also hope it's not the Gold digger in you making you want to shoot your shot. If at all you really want to get involved with her, you will have to get a job elsewhere.

czarr:
It's not that women don't want to be respected it's just that most women would rather be desired than respected.

Guys make the mistake of assuming women care about being respected as much as guys do, that is why you'll often hear guys advice women by saying things like " stop exposing your body, so that men would respect you".

I laugh because they just don't get it, they don't get women. Women only start caring about respect when they loose desirability, that is when old age comes and they cannot leverage their looks anymore.

That is why guys who respect women get no pussie.

Nuff said!

Respect your fellow human, man or woman.

Youngerikan:
I just moved a to a new house, their is dis one of my neighbors so much crushing on me and I want to take her out for date tonight and she don already accept, but I don't just know wat to say for there and how to talk to express my feelings like an alpha male, I'm queit person and I don't like talking too much and I cherish my dignity, I don't just have the mental stress to chase ladies, how do I get this out tonight without no bruise? Abeg!!!!!

I would not date a neighbor.

If you insist on doing so. Be yourself, just be a gentleman and use your sense.

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Aquaregia42:

Shut up! How many female currently can survive brokeness without trading their pussy? Even when little life problem troubleshoot female, they can't hold themselves for long without caving to clitorcurrency. Only few women. I repeat few women! So very infinitesimal in figure. Not up to 0.05% of them maintain chastity. Did I just say chastity??Bullshit that! because now it's no longer relevant by the world standard.
So accept it, you can't survive trying to be a man if you're a woman. You'll shutdown in months time

And I repeat d.u.m.b ass that there's nothing special. Are there not gigolos, I stay in a place where I see mem being kept by women. Are your fellow crossdresser men not doing the same. Are there not young boys marrying older white women money. The truth is both sexes are the same. So stop with the holier than thou bu.l.l.s.hit.

Danibonk:
Guys pleas help me is it only me that is not move when a woman dance or shake her body. I rather watch men dance than woman. I really get irritated when a woman is dancing seductive and I love women too but I hate to see them dance

Is this your subtle way of coming out of the closet

Sparky3434:
Dear Kings, I’m reposting this for those who missed it.

The first time you DM a lady, have a lengthy but light conversation.

Express your interest in her with subtle without intentionally declaring your mission.

When she’s getting really hooked into the conversation, end it and run off to do something even if there’s nothing
Don’t DM her again until after 5-6 days, if she DMs you first within this period then you’re onto something.

If she doesn’t, DM her and apologize for not reaching out. You’ve been busy.

Women hate busy men but love the rare attention from said busy men.

This time stay with her, don’t run off. Make up for the last time, allow her do most of the talking and how do you accomplish that? Ask her questions about herself, her dreams, her career.

Keep romance out of it for now. Let her see you as the friend you are pretending to be.
It’s now ok to ask for her number, but don’t ask as if you’re asking. Ask as if you’re demanding. “Give me your number, please” is more masculine than “Can I have your number?” Women hate weak men.

She’ll give. If she asks for yours, fine. If she doesn’t, she’s expecting your call so she can save it
Don’t call until after 3 days. Don’t DM too.

If she becomes too familiar with you, you become less interesting. Women love mystery. Let curiosity fill her heart. She’s probably talking to other guys so be different.
When you call, keep it brief. I’m sure she’s surprised to hear from you. So before the excitement dies down, tell her you’re checking up on her and will call her much later.

Keep this call less than a minute.

Don’t call for another 3 days
When you do, ask her out for lunch. If she’s interested, pick a day one week ahead. Most gents make mistakes and pick 2 days or 3 days away.

One week is fine. Let her see that you are an organized person and you don’t love to rush.
As for the venue of the date, give her 3 options and ask her to pick one so she feels like she’s in charge.

Men should always make women feel like they’re in control.
While waiting for the date, reduce verbal communication to a minimum before you will say something that you will regret and make her call it off or before she will piss you off.

Simple greetings are recommended.
Make sure you arrive 10 minutes earlier to the venue and survey it before informing her that you’re there.

Check for security challenges, exes and current girlfriends or their friends.

You don’t want to ruin your first date.

It is highly recommended to sit in your car or cab while waiting for your date to arrive so you can walk into the place together.

Compliment her dressing and tell her she’s beautiful.

Don’t press your phone. Keep it face down on the table. Focus on her.
Offer to drop her off at her junction if she didn’t drive, not at her place. Don’t give up any vibes of being with her privately yet even if you literally can’t wait.

Patience is a virtue
Don’t call her for another 3 days. Only text to check up on her.

The next time you call, ask her what she’s doing on Friday evening, that you’d love to cook dinner for her.

If she’s busy, postpone, if she’s not, buy a cook book
When she arrives, compliment her dressing, always tell her she’s beautiful. Get her light refreshment before you serve her dinner.

Sit far from her and play a classic Hollywood drama. Something she hasn’t seen.
When you remove the plates back to the kitchen you can come back and sit beside her, so it’s unintentional.

If you throw your hand over her shoulder and she leans in, then we’ve made progress
Anything you want to do from this point, you should ASK first.

“Can we cuddle?”

“Can I kiss you?”

“Can I unbutton your dress?”

“Can I suck breast?”

“Can we go inside the bedroom?”

“Can I remove your pant?”

“Should I get a condom?”

“Should I cum inside you?”

After the sex, make sure you help her get dressed up the same way you undressed her. A gentleman must remain a gentleman after orgasm.

This time drop her off at her door, kiss her goodnight.

Call her when you get home then you can now delete her number and move on.

Thanks ✌️

What's with the mind games?

chatinent:


Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique

I believe the question should be as a guy living the kind of life you live now, with the body count you have now, would you consider yourself an ashawo. Let's learn to remove the plank in our eyes, first. I mean we all have mothers and sisters.

samiabigail:
How many marks can you
score from the score board below?



You have to be sincere about it. Check out my own score
below:



virgin 10 Marks




never drunk 10 Marks




never smoke 10 Marks




never kiss 10 Marks




never hugged 10 Marks






vegetarian 10 Marks




single 10 Marks



only have one on nairaland 10 Marks




never gamble 10 Marks



I only scored 10 marks. LOL!
What about you?

40 marks because I am married.

Viraltrends123:
Let me too express my disgust, because you people can't see anything wrong when you generalize, and abuse someone else's tribe, but will shout when someone do to yours

MadamVanessa:


Useless idiotic Hausa Fulani sex starved terrorist

This is not a generalization. I believe she was referring to the particular person in the video. She used singular oga. Your body too hot.

Viraltrends123:
You have no proof he is hausa or Fulani. Same you complain when unknown gunmen are tagged Igbo. We've seen worse from all tribes, if we start counting scores, everyone will see we are all equal.

It's 2AM, So, concentrate on your ashawo business, so you can get at least one customer before daybreak, if you no want sapa knack your soul on Monday and Tuesday's sit at home

Why do you guys feel once you have called a woman ashawo then you have insulted her. It's logical for her to conclude because they are the ones who escort cows,he is also dressed like one. Why are you taking it personal. She is disgusted let her express her disgust.

Emeka511:
good evening NL.
i have a friend who startd dating a girl since feb. the relationshp startd great bt this month things startd changing. he loved this girl so much nd was very transparent wit her to d extent of leaving his phone wit her for hours while he uses his pc.
lately he askd her to open her phone so he can watch some of her pix bt she disagreed and said her phone is her privacy. frm then he bcame insecure with her. he also noticed she a type of girl who argues alot and never wants to be correctd and lately she said hes controlling her jst cos he tried correctn her wrongs.
lately her true character startn poping out like telling little lies, always arguing wit him, shes always right, she talks rudely to him too. their r/ship is shakey nw.
pls wat do y'all think abt this r/ship? should he try to build this r/shp like try to fix her or he should walk away?
pls note hes 30yo while shes 22yo and theis r/shp is jst 2 months old

Best he leaves her, few 22 year olds are thinking of having a serious relationship. It's just 2 months old, if he is seeing these signs he should walk away.

They had to make do with what was available,since they were put in a female prison

Piercings in unnecessary places.

Funkyswagzz:
Im ready to settle down and raise a family but getting a good partner is been difficult for me because of really funny experiences ive had with different girls. I and my girl broke up few weeks ago but after her begging i decided to give a try again. So when we were having sex i noticed something different around her private part.. her clitoris was a bit rough. Its as if the flesh around that part pushed up a bit so i found it difficult to stimulate her. I strongly feel she had marathon sex with someone. The difference over there is so obvious so need a lady to explain this senario to clear or affirm my thoughts. Thank you

Guys please dont derail this convo its really important for me

If you noticed it after you had broken up a while then she didn't cheat. If she could beg you to take her back,then she can as well tell you what you seek to know. It depends on how you go about asking the question
.

MonkeyMods:
That my ddick is too big

ment

Stubbornness, but I am not stubborn,just principled

killmods:

Go check ur eyes.. What's cute there

She isn't ugly oga.

Kelvin2022:
Good evening guys I met a girl on Facebook and she visited me today and I bleep her without condom, she is fat. I use to hear guys having sex with a girl on first meet. Hope is safe?

Why the f.ck are you telling us. Hiv/ herpes carrier

killmods:

I was even thinking u were one soft fine girl. Only to see face like sour kunu... nonsense noise maker

She is cute. Stop lying.

AdiokOnoNland:
Please I want to know and understand too

I would say 6 months, except she initiates it. But if you can wait till marriage,it's even better.

Stephen2324:
Right now, I mean right now! My babe is currently in another boy's house knacking, she told me she's traveling home for Easter, little did she knows that I've read all her chats with the guy, the guy had send her TP to come over and she told the guy how she's going to treat him.

With knacking and ask the guy to be patient till dey meet, she left on Saturday, I even took her to the park and all that myself. Peace.

If na sex I dey Bleep her till she cum time without numbers, if na hunger I dey stack the house with food, if na money I dey give me even though I know say she still get. She dey tell me say I dey treat am well cos I do almost all the cooking cos I'm a chef, so wetin she want?

The main reason why I want her to go and come back to me is dah I needed to know why she's doing this, what is so special about what she's doing, is that she needs something that I didn't give it to her or something else, I just want to know what she gained after everything!!

Women are gradually becoming like men and guys are not smiling.

VictorUSA:
So in your wildest dream you think I'll post my pictures here? Shuu!



So folks, how do Victor U S A look?



Am I handsome?

I hope you are not a pedophile

RICHMAN247:
I met a young beautiful girl last year, she was everything I needed in a girl. She has all the attributes I prayed for. So, I asked her out and she accepted us to be in a relationship. Everything was going well until one day when I notice that she regularly post a particular guy in his early 40s on her WhatsApp status. I asked her who the guy was , she said that the guy is her Real Dad. Well, to cut the long story short, I found out that the guy was not her father rather her boyfriend. Before we agreed to start up the relationship, I made my intentions clear that I want to get married to her in the long run n I also asked her if she was in any relationship , she said No but to my greatest surprise, I found out that the guy she lied to be her father is her boyfriend.

Later, the guy too found out that I was also dating the girl. I don't know how the guy got my , he called me one day and started abusing me to stay clear from the girl. The girl loves me no doubt n I love her as well. So, when the guy called me, I over reacted with anger and told him never to call me again that I don't have anything to do with him.

After the whole drama when I later met the girl she told me that she has broken up with the guy, that I should forgive her. Which I did, I took her out on a date and engaged her.

This girl, is well known in my family and my parents knw her, she is loved by every member of family, but I am the only that know the kind of person she is cos I discovered that she has been cheating on me n has been lying to me all this while. Currently, we have an issues and not in talking for now. Though she has returned my ring but didn't let me know cos she kept it somewhere in my house. I feel she still have something to do with the guy.

I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her. I've tried to get her off my mind but I can't. The girl is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger, she is down to earth. I know her mum n we do flow well on phone calls any I speak with her

Advice me on what to do cos right now am confused. Don't knw if I should still press on cos I've tried giving up on her but can't get her off me.

To you that had similar issue like mine how did you move on? Help a brother

Your girl is in a sugar daddy relationship with the guy. The guy probably finances, her and has fallen in love with her but they can't marry for reasons best known to them. If I may know why did she give you your ring, because it sounds funny that she will take off the ring wihen she is at fault , except she is no longer interested, I hope you didn't physically abuse her. If you didn't do a such, take it that she is no longer interested, her heart obviously belongs to the other guy. What I would advise is to keep off from her, don't engage a girl you are not ready to marry within 3 months. It is when you have done introduction and a wedding date is set and plans are on going that you can give her a ring, not because you are afraid. There's no easy way of getting over someone, it'll be hard. You just have to make up your mind and keep off her. In my own perspective she doesn't see a future with you and she is pitying you, doesn't want to hurt you, it doesn't not mean she loves you.

Class over swag any day.

Medianna:
Ahhh...
Men are still kneeling down to propose??

I wish una well

She knew he was going to propose. They both dressed for the occasion in matching outfits.