NewStats: 3,259,585 , 8,170,557 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 04:22 PM x2c3g

Nobody told me before I started avoiding romance sections and Nairaland visit generally. Took me a long time to realize where alot of my insecurities and breeding hate and intolerance for my gf and her flaws had been coming from. Flaws that could have been patiently amended and corrected. Flaws that aren't the worst to happen. It's Wells Sha.

Prettygirl200:
Pls do not mind that human being that calls himself a redpiller, redpillers with empty pocket. Live your life solerly to your objectives and don't let any useless human being make u believe all girls are hoes. [/b]Some of them are just here to tarnish some people's love life and relationships[b]. Do not give them the chance to do to u what will make u hate your woman. Since they like their redpills, let them swallow it alone.

Smile. You need to change ur circle.or better still re orient urself. Not blind to the trash of ladies of today.but generalizing it is way out of it. I've dated the worse. Equally I've dated the best. 1.Change ur circle and mindset. 2.Up ur love game and you'll find that the worst women would always avoid u and the best would attract u. Got nothing else to say

sollolucci77:

First of all is it a guy or a girl that is mentioning me?
If you're a girl that you dont think like other girls dosent disprove the fact of what I said..you're only an exception
If you're a guy:
I dont end up with street hoes...[/b]unlike you I'm smart enough to f*** them and dump them without any attachments unlike you who panders to them...like I said go and get experience...if you think it's only you your gf is doing something with...you're only fooling yourself[b]...how many times do I have to reduce my IQ to try and help you?..na breakfast go tell you

Mumu talk again. Stop ending up with street hoess who didnt acquire proper education and morale Orientation and date better.then only then you'll know women don't think alike.smh

sollolucci77:


First of all I'm not even getting married, secondly it's either you're still in secondary school or a university simp because from the way you're talking [/b]you really dont know how women think[b]...like i said...na you sabi ooo

See mumu talk. Na ur type dey like chop indomie with 5 other niggas from same pot. Everything go come look por for por tor and Una still go dey chop. Na until u do marriage before u believe other men gats stop contaminating pekus for u! SMH. People like u go still dey eye married young women

sollolucci77:

Na you sabi...she's just a girlfriend you think she's not collecting d*** somewhere else..its like this is your first time being in a relationship

Confirm. Dem go see fresh babe. Dem no go know say na one nigga money and dickk make an fresh. After I was done with one mofo living beside my babe house. All the niggas around there dey avoid me like plague. Dem come sister zone my babe after one of them bled

iamyemiakins:
Some guys use it to massage their ego.
[/b]If you eye my babe I go break your head sha[b]

If only it was a weekend job

kp3tech:
A business firm at Governor's Road, Ikotun is looking for suitable applicant for the role of Office Assistant.

Requirements:
-Must live around Igando-Governor's Road-Ikotun Axis (Applicant living outside this area will NOT be considered)
-Proficient in MS Office & Corel Draw.
-Ability to Work Independently.

Salary: N30,000 - N50,000


Send CV to
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True enough.

derecho:
Pre-nup is seldom done because of the ion and the make believe that there's trust.Men by nature, are risk takers and often not as calculative as women.Despite that weakness, he will deal with a matter howsoever he wishes when confronted with one.That's why an unregenerated man is deadlier than what all these ladies think about them.Only a godfearing man would easily let go.

This is why I always sing prenuptial agreement to men before marrying that perfect and flawless woman! Nothing wrong in protecting ur future. Any woman that takes offense at the idea of a pre nuptial agreement should be wearied of.

derecho:
Oga, I have read about similar cases in Italy and Spain. When the men in question thought about how the wives would gain everything they've worked for, they killed the women and are in jail now.
For them, those women can't enjoy what they suffered for.

This is just it. Even if something may have triggered her to run mouth anyhow,couples really need to learn to communicate more. How can u know My reaction as a man to been talked down In the mud and still do it non chalantly like u don't care what my worse is. Damn,this matter craze gan.not blaming the women physical victim nor men who loose control but people really need to be accurately educated on this matter

derecho:
No one is ing domestic violence but Some men would willingly kill them and face the consequences.

[/b]Why is difficult for verbally abusive girls to know that's equally as bad as hitting a guy? Is being verbally abusive what makes you a woman?[b] Learn respect from your father's house if you are interested in marriage.
No man, even an agbero enjoys beating the love of his life.All these ones shouting up and down are not doing so because they love other women but are doing so because they know what'd befall them if they refuse to change.

is this one even okay? Whoever educated u on domestic violence didn't tell u DV ranges from physical into verbal and emotional violence? And where exactly did I tell u I blame the physical victim solely for this?! Mr Man! I can claim anywhere to be emotionally and verbally abused by her too! If u can't read and comprehend! Fuvvck off my DM!

texazzpete:


Whatever happens, you have zero justification for domestic violence. If you know you cannot control yourself around her, leave her and move on.

Such a shameful thing for you to use this thread to victim blame. Why not open your own thread for people who are verbally abusive?

Should go both ways. Lack of respect and understanding is what causes all these domestic violence. Partners ought to know what their partners like and hate. Should also learn to talk sense into each other in the most patient ND reasonable ways. If any other fails to see reason then separation can come into play. But nobody ever talks about how hard separation can also be.its hard to leave someone u love even if they're abusive. Unbelievably enough some people can abuse their partners involuntarily and still love them. This matter of domestic violence is way too complex than we are all churning out so called perfect advice and should be studied more. really tired. Women too get for hand plenty. Men sef no make it any better with overreaction to any form of provocation.. tired of this matter. I'm saying all this because my gf provokes me to the point of slapping her and yet I doubt she can ever feel more pains as I do. She may lash out at my reactions to her terrible words over things that don't matter,would even threaten to leave and I would also reluctantly agreed and yet! Nobody would want to leave the relationship. Why? Why isn't she leaving If truly im the horrible villian with all guilts and she the innocent victim with no guilt. Nobody should tell me it's love keeping her only, I know her,she loves me yh, but she's no soft meat nor over religious brain clouded person. She only stays because she knows she's responsible for some things I do out of provocation. Not justifying what I may do sometimes ,in fact I hate to those kind of moments,talkless of been not apologetic,and I doubt she feels up to the emotional pains I feel after those heated moments. Won't be our first nor third time,once those moments come and go, everybody adjusts and starts avoiding any channel of offence,this issue of domestic violence is way too complex than to churn out any advice. This matter dey weak person.

faithfull18:
Some women need to start standing up for themselves.

Never let anyone talk down on you or go physical on you.

God abeg don't let anyone I know fall into the hands of these kind of men.

someone's high on codeine

Kwinesther:
Yen yen yen, he will jam a woman who has a husband like you and sleep with her. She will even bring a bastard home for you to train and nurture. Sheyb you men are polygamous in nature and are proud of it. The consequence of your polygamous nature is sleeping with each other's wives, so enjoy your nature while it lasts.

U have time to reply her. Person wey don ment finish

yanabasee:


If anyone will devote their time to dig out all the atrocities of women and post them on this forum, you will not see a space at the front page to push your little research about men...



There are women out there doing nonsense and raping men and stabbing men and even poisoning food for men to eat and die... Yet you chose to be obsessed with men ..



Seems you e been going through alot and you need a therapist and not adding salt to your injuries by reading all this things you make findings of....

U also see it? Religion and morality aside, somethings don't just make sense

Authoreety:
Cursed people littered everywhere on this thread..

I have given u my like

Fuckyoumod:
nothing dey happen. Fvck married women is the best.
I woo them a lot. I'm currently working on one like that. But she is scared because she has never cheated, this is 2 years of her marriage with her husband. But I will win her over very soon.

Really feels good to be alive doesn't it? May u not jam a woman who has a husband like me. Trust me,I would kill and bury just for suspecting u. Not to talk of catching u. And nobody would link me to u.both u and d stray bittxh

Fuckyoumod:
yes ooh ...
Normally her husband goes out early to work, a manager in a bank.

So I decided to play around with her, I loved her like mad, I treated and pampered her like a baby, I knew what she was lacking from her husband.

At some point she wished I was her hus., She get husband but I was her command in chief.
So that day we were supposed to meet around 10 a:m at my place. Hotel was too risky...

She called to know the Items we needed to keep ourselves ok without any interference.
This is our routine, we made sure there is food, fruits, drinks, wines and other edibles.

I won't lie, at some point she became madly in love with me, gave me everything I needed. Kinda busy now.

To be continued...,....

no be by mouth. When u get to Angelique height, we'll take u specifically serious. For now, shutt ur naive trap and let the real women talk sense

saphiere:
The FUTURE is FEMALE

tell her if she chooses to keep the pregnancy,then it's hers to bare alone. Nobody should force u to do what u didn't sign up for. Grow some balls

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.

There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good ing condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.

For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.

I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.

What do I do now?

After reading all the comments from the first to the last by men. I have to say and it that Nairaland is full of madd and deranged people


That angel that brought me to naija,we mustn't meet when I die

her kind of compensation in her last paragraph should give u a hint of her kind of social life both in University and post uni

emmanuelbrown26:

A bitch will always be a bitch

person wey no well. Like I always tell my gf,let us be mad together. Get sex elsewhere,I'll get mine elsewhere. Make we see who lose,my conscience is clean

manneger2:

Look at how this girl reason, denial her sex like his life depends on sex, if you don't know man can easily get sex, man can easily remarry, you won't be talking this if you have been to advance country. You will see how women worship men for love.

U did nothing wrong. She's just evading kitchen responsibilities in a even wrong way. This is why men should always make sure they end up with women they can control

If u have a car,u guys should move there to do ur thing. Or somewhere else in or around the house. Backyard or wherever. All this if u prefer not to spend on hotel. As for the in law. Leave her till she goes herself. As for me ,I can't permit overnight visit when I'm married from anywhere. Don't care what igbos think about long visits cos my fiancee is from there.

I doubt aj would have done the same if Nigerian was in Ukraine shoes.

ArchiLimited:
He's the realest for even deciding to go and pick up arms to defend his country

Yh I grab. Already moving on 800k for maybe a Honda 2004

Rizin:


The truth is that any car you buy less that 1m now will be very problematic. Hence you will likely spend 4days every week in the mechanic to keep it on the road. I hope u understood my point.

Also remove the mindset that you will repair it once because mechanics does not manufacture spares. And In the auto market, they will loose from A and sell to B wash the one from B very well and sell to C and the cycle continues. This is why you will buy a direct bulguim throttle mouth and the sensor will be bad. Go and buy the sensor, they will tell u that it's not a matching type or that you need to program it. Ask the mechanic to buy, he will replace from store with faulty one collect your money and tell u that you need to replace the engine. The story is on and on.

Unless you are a mechanic, do not go for that.

ode u don make sense to urself like that. Shut ur trashh and let experts who knows their way talk!

tropaz:


I was held back from calling you stupid as it's not in my habit to insult people online. But how else should we define a man looking for a convenient car with barely 400USD. I will advice you to take your money to the next available pepper soup t and cool off please. We live to hustle another day. Don't buy a car that will end you....

u just can't conceal ur stupidityy can't u?

tropaz:



Amazon car charger!!!

Which car can u get with 300k. Not looking for cruise but convenience

I'll like to message u for catalogs. Preferably WhatsApp pls

Temilayo816:
Dear esteemed customer ,
here is our catalogue for today.

FORD
2003 Ford Escape - N400,000
2000 Ford Focus - N370,000
2003 Ford Explorer - N530,000

KIA
2007 Kia Optima - N500,000
2007 Kia Rio - N550,000

NISSAN
2000 Nissan Pathfinder - N490,000
2003 Nissan Altima - N550,000
2003 Nissan Altima - N490,000
2003 Nissan Pathfinder - N520,000
2004 Nissan X-Trail - N500,000
2004 NIssan Murano - N500,000
2004 Nissan Quest - N550,000
2005 Nissan Altima - N430,000

TOYOTA
2000 Toyota Sienna - N640,000
2002 Toyota Sequoia - N530,000
2000 Toyota Camry - N460,000
2004 Toyota Sienna - N790,000

HYUNDAI
2004 Hyundai Sonata - N500,000
2005 Hyundai Accent - N380,000
2005 Hyundai Santa Fe - N560,000

HONDA
2000 Honda Accord - N370,000
2003 Honda Accord - N490,000
2003 Honda Civic - N490,000
2003 Honda Accord - N560,000
2004 Honda Accord - N560,000
2004 Honda Pilot - N560,000
2005 Honda Odyssey - N600,000
2006 Honda Pilot - N650,000

PEUGEOT
2009 Peugeot 607 - N550,000

MAZDA
2001 Mazda Millenia - N490,000
2003 Mazda Tribute - N420,000

RANGE ROVER
2004 Range Rover - N630,000

CHRYSLER
2006 Chrysler 300 - N500,000

and is it Uber job that isn't meant for women? If not that it's irresponsible, pathetic, sexually motivated men with little or no sense of dignity wey full outside these days

oluseyiforjesus:
Truth to be said there are some job not meant for female. But God bless all our hustle....... Happy new week.

Smile. You forgot to acknowledge miss yam legged there

iTearHerToto:
Even before I opened the thread I knew it was Mr Afonja






Pukes

I tend not to be so quick when I read about ugly public proposal denial. Most couples are just playing and watching each other. Calamity is well deserved when u take the play far and propose fearlessly regardless of the truth and reality.


As for that bummer that toasts my gf behind my back despite knowing I come and go. In case you're here reading this, continue till I'm ready to bury u alive for the disrespect. Na she know why she refuse to disclose ur identity to me