NewStats: 3,263,955 , 8,182,081 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 03:31 AM 6y2y42

Matured.

To hell with her uncultured critic..

Who cares?

Please which area in PH?

Will send workers for viewing.

Dear Mr. Y'all, I think keeping you standing for 20years to watch, will not be enough for you to see what we see in a moment while sitting down.

Ginaz:
Na wa . If he doesn’t do anything and the kids suffers they will tag him an irresponsible uncle that couldn’t take care of the kids under his care despite having full excess to their late mother’s property.

Y’all all concerned about properties like the kids are gonna go to school with the properties or eat the buildings one after the other as food.

Y’all lacked insights . y’all can’t see he is a struggling man that have burdens he never planned for suddenly placed under his care. He is fully responsible for them, so y’all want him to kill himself training two kids to the university on his own? How many parents these days could afford it without struggle?

The mother left properties, he’s just asking to sell one so things would be better for them. After all, won’t the kids benefit from it?

O.p I suggest you do sell a property to make the load lighter for you. While at it, make sure the kids know the properties their mother left and please set up a plan for the senior child , maybe a business for her cos nobody knows tomorrow.

Sell a property goddamnit!!! With all the properties you late aunt suffered to acquired she couldn’t take one to the grave. Let the living feed first .

Oh! My darling.
Same here.

Have followed asap

Thank you.

Mood11:


We are friends already. I am following you ASAP. By the way, I'm a woman.

We will like to offer free accommodation only, to any trustworthy nairalander, who will like to visit Port harcourt this Christmas period for the whole of December (1st to 31st).

Go about visit places, do your genuine businesses for one month and peacefully hand over the keys as collected.

Interested? Let's chat here.

Sister, may your days be longer than you expected with health and prosperity in Jesus name.

God bless you my brother.

Please I want to be your friend just because of this post.

I like people who are bold enough to say the truth.

Keep in up.

Mood11:
Didn't you save anything from your previous job before you got sacked?

If she were to be alive, what would you have been doing to survive since there's no job anymore?

You can sell the property and start a new life. You just had to add that the children were adopted to calm your crying conscience.. It's already in your thought and I won't tell you otherwise.

But before I drop my pen, let me announce to you that greed is deeper than what it appears to be, it usually starts with 'just this one..

And you see the human mind, it will show you a thousand and one more reason why you should sell just another building to augment the money realized from the sale of the previous house so that your life can make more more sense.

You will keep selling and squandering the money because there's more... And by the time the ccockkk crows at dawn, there would be nothing left for the children she left behind..

Oh! What a pity.
The human mind is really wicked.

I don't know the kind of landlord that you have or your relationship with him/her.

It's high time you open up to your landlord by first apologising for subletting his house and humbly give him genuine reasons why you did it (to help your self moreover they have been your good friends).

Save your self the side spendings and keep it for a take-you package to your landlord if he's the greedy type because he might decide to charge you for helping you or use the opportunity to increase your rent.

So what is the deal?
He will officially prepare a quite notice and paste it on your door as usual after which you will go about begging and begging him. Sometimes, he will come to the house to shout and remind you of the notice and you will kneel down to beg him(while they peep through the window and laugh at you). that you will pay for all the logistics - transportation, phone calls, lawyer's involvement if the house has one. Sometimes, you will inform the landlord or his lawyer when the other guy is around so that you people can play the drama before them.
Try removing your things to somewhere pending when the place will be vacant then you come back.
Only a good landlord will do this for you, .

Another option is to be patient till the expiration time and quietly pack out.

Any intelligent lawyer you bring in on your own will tread with caution because it's an illegal act; unless the initial agreement with your landlord includes subletting.
Be wise!

Marri-age!!!
Huuuuum.

Personal cross o!

Patience+wisdom.

No money to complete already fixed wedding (even if it's marriage blessing without takeaway), but there will be money for divorce after wedding (who's still loosing).

Bro, wisdom, I said wisdom.
Don't always say 'yes' just to please people (no matter who).

Wisdom bro because your baby here is at stake. If you don't take care of him now as a father, you will definitely take care of him in his step father's house as a runaway father. Choose one.

Marriage has different stages, i learnt, so patient+wisdom.
Praying that your's will this stage and usher you into the peace you desire.

Note- next time, if the pressure becomes much, kindly inform the person to go ahead and borrow or take loan in his name only. That you will gradually repay him as your income is coming.

pappy2000:
I used to think marriage should be full of bliss. I have begged and begged her. but its all falling on deaf ears

Very good idea for you to be independent bro.

I will advise, you start with the least-demanding-capital business idea since you have a lot of them.

While the business grows, you keep adding other ideas according to your capability; till you arrive to your desired point.

Again, don't forget that there will be obstacles especially during the initial period, but patient and determination will help.

I don't advise for loan for a new business, but you have the final say.

Good luck!

The connection is the same that exists between the tyrant king of the jungle and the innocent, but helpless other animals.

I think, he does not buy the idea of burying his mother in the zoo, rather in his Biafran land.

Oya, please my airtime, sharp sharp.

[Aquote author=LegendHero post=83797958]Kanu should not answer Junaid. He should come home to Nigeria to give his final rite to his mom. That is his final chance to bid his mom goodbye and to prove to the whole world that he is not a coward!

However, he already termed Nigeria a zoo not minding the fact that his family also lives in the zoo. Now Kanu the self acclaimed only human being in Nigeria is now begging to come back to the zoo.

My question is what is the connection between Nnamdi Kanu ( a human being) and the whole Nigeria ( a zoo) and why did he want to bury his mom in the zoo?

I will give anyone that can answer my question #500 MTN or Airtel airtime.
[/quote]

À good farmer in disguise.

Please let him cultivate reasonable amount of rice or any other farm product that he can handle under a tight security surveillance for the next 5 to 10 years. At least for the inmates, less privileged and orphans.

Come and thank me later.

Sorry dear.

Please visit a good hospital and follow their advice.

Be patient and try to test for cholesterol and sugar levels.

Marital wahala

brother

Litmus:


How did you get this impression? How could you not know that in a list of 1 to 100 , with 1 being nations with the highest folks risking death to immigrate to Europe by boat, train or lorry, Nigeria occupies 100, with folks from Syria, Afghanistan, Eritrea, Sudan, Somalia and Ethiopia occupying the top 10 positions ?

Oh! What a pity.
RIP Souls, you died trying.

I use to think that it's only Nigerians that massively migrate for greener pastures.

God bless you for saying the truth.

When we keep maintaining ceremonial structures in these places with their official wicked touts every where working for their big ogas.

Refer back to an urgly experience at Seme border in 2016, when I decided to cross the border by my self for the first time because I have been using ABC Transport.

Fast-forward to that very very day, I was really confident that It will be a free moment since I had all my documents -int'l port, yellow card and my student ID Card.

To my greatest surprise, I was wrong as I was traumatized at the end of the day.

My brothers, I have to through almost 10 caravan offices to answer 1 or 2 questions, some which don't even make sense. Sometimes when you try to question them, they will tell you that they own the place so you should not question them.
Only the faces of some of them, will tell you that something is wrong.

Please note that you are not just visiting these so called offices, but you have to give them some money before coming out as some of them were not even ready to look at your papers.

Once you come out of an office and try to work free on the road, immediately you will see some hungry looking dirty touts directing you to another caravan; and if you dare refuse them, you are in a big trouble as they will go as far as fighting and destroying your things. I saw them fighting with people and dragging their luggages, but there was this young fair man who not only fought with them, but went as far as swimming the dirty stagnant water and peddling stones with them simply because he refused to follow their direction.
May looking at the man, one can deduce that as a regular of the border, he purposely prepared for them (because of his dressing how he wrapped his only bag around his body and his boldness in challenging them).

I decided to take this route because I wanted to stamp my port since I never ed there without stamping my port, but when I got fed up with giving money as I was spending out of my budget plus the time wasted because any office you entered without giving, you will not be allowed to leave no matter your excuse and plea as if they are deaf.

At this time, I was thinking of what will become of me if my colleagues I was traveling with at the other end should leave me because they took the apian way with the help of crossers while I decided to take due process so I became stubborn too and refused to give.
(Trying so hard to cut it short).

In all these, anytime I the experience, the one that keep paining me was my experience in customs and ports clinic offices where I was meant to pay money even with my papers intact. At a time they questioned about the colour of the biro used in g my paper. Saying that there should be red pen in it.
At a point I wanted to take it up with them as I have already noted some of their names, but with other expenses in the numerous caravans and the thought of missing my colleagues, I finally forgot everything as I became frustrated, traumatized and weak out of annoyance. At a point, I started cry, when I ed that I was receiving all that in my own country by my own people.

I was frustrated because when I crossed Togo border -Ila Conje, I paid only trois cents (300 official price) to stamp my port and there was no harassment instead they told me 'bon voyage' with good smile on their faces.
Those who did not want to stamp their ports walked free after securing check.

Nigeria, my Nigeria, which way, please?

NB:
Please I forgot to inform you that it happened during the waiting of the commissioning of the newly built Nigerian Border for years.

nauto5:
Do we have border ?

Better still, if you can; erect your own house in the village and be separated from the family house stuff so that you will not be sèeing those shits.

Channel the energy you are reserving for their punishment into something meaningful while in your own village house and they will come looking for you and serving you too.

Charleys:


I get my own house, but we all travel to family house during holidays.

[Funny you


quote author=Charleys post=83098163]

The children dey insult wella, something that I can never open my mouth to say to grown ups. That's what they say.

I also believe she knows what she was doing that's why she told her children not to greet me.

In fact it is an insult to not greet her when I was small na heavy knock she go use remind me that I didn't greet her.

I need solutions.

My parents which is their grandparents can't say anything because they've gotten old. I believe this is my time to step in[/quote]

Congratulations!

Not even a single pic to back up the findings.

That a woman president will help
Nigerian situation.


Till humans begin to avoid lies and treat it like an outcast, we go nowhere.

Nice one indeed.
Cutting your coat according to your size.

Meanwhile it's advisable to go for a new brand if the money is there.
For example, buying second hand stuff at 200 box when I will get same stuff of a new brand at 220-250.
-Check out the joy of owing a new stuff with the receipt in your name.
-the joy of giving it out when you are done with it to someone in need of it, who will thank you.
-the degree of diseases and accidents you have minimised because you don't know much about the past s.
-chech out the duration of a good and quality new stuff, which most times come with guarantee.

-Checkout the disgrace and shame you avert by avoiding stollen goods.

Checkout the ease of making reference to that stuff because it's always handy and the possibility of ing it on to your generation or the society.

-count them.

The same thing goes for complementing orthodox medicine with herbal when the cash is there to complete your treatment.
From experience, I have come to realize that many complications of illness and deaths were as a result of the above, where someone will visit the hospital; after which he will be asked to come back for review or checkup and once he sees that he was a bit relieved, he aboundons his medication and before he realises it, the illness has gone back to square one if not worst with the help of many self-acclaimed doctors and advisers saying "please don't waste your money in the hospital because English medicine can not care it. It's only herbal that can uproot the illness".
And you will see people complicating their issues.

Please all I'm driving at is that both English and herbal are good depending on what one want, but the two should not be used simultaneously.

Any one you start with, please continue with it till you are done with it and advised otherwise.

Some good English and herbal doctors know when to advise a patient for an alternative.
Let's be wise.

Generally, what I'm saying is that it's good we consider new and quality things if we have the money because life is so precious, delicate and very hard to come by.

I believe no one came into this world as a second-hand fellow.

Please if you can spend little more to be happy when you can afford it, kindly go ahead because most times, the irony of it is that the people we are trying to please or safe for, go as far as not only going for the new and quality things, they most times tend to spend extravagantly while we are there gradually punishing ourselves to death.

Too strong a comment and sign of irresponsibility

Devil don finally catch fire

It's a pity.

Please do 7days water fasting and praying for your family (u can make it 6 - 6 if it's your first time). Please don't forget to equip yourself with the Word and also ask for forgiveness.

Another one for your brother. If you can.

And God will direct you.

Peace be with you.

Jesus is still alive, doing good.

Two bedroom flat

Oh! Christians my dear Christians.

Till this moment, we are yet to be convinced that the glory ahead has nothing to compare with; not even first class private jet.

Jesus wept.

Because she is strongly protecting her territory against you home breakers.

Please marry men who don't have money to prevent dieing mysteriously.

Life so precious than liking and having money.

Be wise