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Pop Singer, Seyi Shay who has been termed Nigeria’s Beyonce because of her style of music and the sexiness she oozes on stage has no doubt been involved in a number of controversies since her emergence in the Nigerian entertainment industry. We bring you a list of 5 of the biggest controversies. http://thesoup.com.ng/five-times-seyi-shays-name-has-raised-eyebrows-in-nigerias-entertainment-space/ cc. lalasticlala ishilove
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Hi everyone, I appreciate all your words and advice on my last post.It really got me thinking.wanted to reply you individually but i am not so good with nairaland's way of posting and all.I am aware some people tried reaching me personally,sorry if i didnt get back to you.i tried getting back to some people but i didnt get responses.I am here again to say whats on my mind. So the supposed guy i had issues with last year that i was continually apologising tocame back to the country few days after I sent that post but didnt tell me.dont ask me how i knew but when i called him, his no went through.he didnt pick and when i called again, he blocked my line. I unblocked him on whatspp and i continued sending him messages but he never replied.One day when i asked to see him, he finally responded, said we couldnt see and said he was gonna block me on whatsapp which he did almost immediately. I felt terribly bad especially as I felt he was doing all these cause he knew I really liked him.I continued sending him messages every now and then on fb and text messages all to no avail. even when I was trying to assist him by sending things to help his business or when I told i was ill, i didnt get any reply concerning I really dont understand why I would love someone so much and yet I will get this form of attitude. The problem is I still love and think himabout a lot despite his behaviour and I always regret the fact that it was because of the issue we had that he withdrew. this is one person i loved for who he was.but i also feel that if someone cant easily forgive another person, thats a red flag because issues will always come up.its how you address it that matters. i have concluded that i cant continue in this state cos its gradually driving me into depression, i have been sickly of late because of this and I have kept some things on hold as healing is taking longer than expected.I want to get over him but its been hard and i havent been meeting guys.even online relationships have not been encouraging as I havent been lucky with them.everyone around me is getting engaged and married and here I am, I dont have any close male friend not to talk of a relationship.its really sad and i am getting frustrated. ![]() ![]() Dear friends, how do I get over this guy once and for all and even forget I ever met him cos he is causing me more harm than good?secondly i dont mind making new friends from here both male and female as I get lonely most of the time.you can send me a mail on [email protected]. Thanks :' |
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Hi everyone, I appreciate all your words and advice on my last post.It really got me thinking.wanted to reply you individually but i am not so good with nairaland's way of posting and all.I am aware some people tried reaching me personally,sorry if i didnt get back to you.i tried getting back to some people but i didnt get responses.I am here again to say whats on my mind. So the supposed guy i had issues with last year that i was continually came back to the country few days after I sent that post but didnt tell me.dont ask me how i knew but when i called him, his no went through.he didnt pick and when i called again, he blocked my line. I unblocked him on whatspp and i continued sending him whatspp messages but he never replied.One day when i asked to see him, he finally responded, said we couldnt see and said he was gonna block me which he did almost immediately. I felt terribly bad especially as I felt he was doing all these cause he knew I really liked him.I continued sending him messages every now and then on fb and text messages all to no avail. even when I was trying to assist him by sending things to help his business or when I told i was ill, i didnt get any reply concerning I really dont understand why I would love someone so much and yet I will get this form of attitude. The problem is I still love and think himabout a lot despite his behaviour and I always regret the fact that it was because of the issue we had that he withdrew. this is one person i loved for who he was.but i also feel that if someone cant easily forgive another person, thats a red flag because issues will always come up.its how you address it that matters. i have concluded that i cant continue in this state cos its gradually driving me into depression, i have been sickly of late because of this and I have kept some things on hold as healing is taking longer than expected.I want to get over him but its been hard and i havent been meeting guys.even online relationships have not been encouraging as I havent been lucky with them.everyone around me is getting engaged and married and here I am, I dont have any close male friend not to talk of a relationship.its really sad and i am getting frustrated. Dear friends, how do I get over this guy once and for all and even forget I ever met him cos he is causing me more harm than good?secondly i dont mind making new friends from here both male and female as I get lonely most of the time.you can send me a mail on [email protected]. Thanks |
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I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months. In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of irers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness. A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media s and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced. Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more. I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 11 Shares |
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happy new year friends, I have been itted to UNILAG for my masters degree programme starting Jan ending/Feb and my source of worry is accomodation as my course is purely part time part time and i live far from Yaba ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
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