NewStats: 3,263,560 , 8,180,550 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 01:43 PM 2h1y3q

happney65:
Okowa doesnt look fresh and chubby. He looks lean and looks older here.

Why do people in this part of the world view been chubby as a thing of joy? When it is infact something to be worried about

It’s the Mtototo for me

Okoroawusa:

Why didn't they ban Israel because of Gaza war? Western hypocrites!

Westerners are evil people and that’s because they have all the power in the world right now.

They make the rules for everyone you don’t make rules for them

Thought FIFA banned Russia because of the Ukraine war?

deltateam:
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Why do we disrespect and diss our artists?

Are you aware that Davido performed in Fifa world cup closing and even sang in coming to America 2.

Can you beat that?

Doesn’t mean we should not criticize them when they don’t do well.

Just like a football club.

Firebox123:
marry her since that's the bride price you have been shouting about

Lol 😂

Ok

Firebox123:
ordinary 25k way you give her since last year

Lol 😂

Grow up and stop whining oga

Firebox123:
how much you don spend on her sef

Bring proof and evidence here

50k monthly on average

Firebox123:
sex addict

Grow up

kenn4rill:
Since are parents depends on her for feeding and all, who then financed her education? Abi na you do that one also? So for solid 3 years you have been taking care of she and her parents? Money you were supposed to use in uplifting your financial status.

I did , I never take full responsibilities. I’m careful enough not to take the role of a father.

She was doing petty business in school but that wasn’t even enough to cater for anything as she cries every now and then about needing funds.

You can never go far in life with such girlfriend or wife because it will get worse when you 2 get married and it will be like an entitlement thing to her for you to care for her parents. And I'm sure you haven't done a quarter of what you have done for her to your own parents or siblings. Bro be wise

I’m really scared now honestly, and her mom is already asking when I am going to come to visit her.

Oh yeah, my families are doing fine and I never neglect them for once.

Firebox123:
hope your friend never dey Bleep your so called gf

If not Interested in her again drop her please

Bleep off

Firebox123:
cos you're paying her bride price that means you should turn her to your slave

You can allow your wife Bleep around in the name of “she’s not my slave” when you get married.

Definitely you're an sex addict
You're the main reason why she wants to do that hookup business

Oh yeah I am. Aren’t you?

mardis:
Which sensible and responsible lady will put herself and hookup in the same sentence? Imagine telling the public she wants to start hookup and claiming it's a joke. Who joke with such irresponsible behaviour??Been broke isn't an excuse to venture into any illegitimate work. Unless you don't want to start little. Better be careful of who you want to wife to avoid "pls hide my identity or keep me anonymous "

She’s shown vibe of an irresponsible woman before and I think I overlooked because she has other responsible attributes, but I think i am being foolish for ignoring all these signs

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8153130/where-ashawo-house-dey-computer

Imagine your gf is on nairaland and see these two thread I just posted

Will she be happy 😁

I’m paying her bride price, she’s not paying mine.

Besides, if she’s in long distance, I’ll have to cure konji elsewhere, reason why I wanted to bring her around.

Why should I wife an ashawo?

Firebox123:
As men we need to be ruthless and heartless like women. Never date or help a broke girl

These stoopid girls are not looking for husband,what they are looking for is "husbank"

I've made a promise to God that I'll never date a girl that can't do 50/50 in a relationship...

I understand this perfectly, but shes broke, not lazy and she is always looking out for opportunities to make legitimate money, this is why I constantly stuck my neck out for her. But I think it’s getting too wessier for her and her family these days and I just can’t stand a cheat.

I know what to do sha.

Mabuggi88:
Song no sweet.
Good luck for streams anyway

Exactly.

I believe this post is a sponsored post.

The song sounds too mid though, I don’t know where the hype is coming from.

No doubt Wizkid has the biggest fan base in Nigeria, and they always help him push his mid songs down our throat.

There are some of his sounds that are pretty good, but this particular one is a miss. They hype is just to overshadow Davido. Another terrible muscian lol

brain54:
She isn't working...Her parents depend on her. And she in turn depends on you.
Are you sure she hasn't already been doing hookup without your knowledge? coughs
Is she in school? Whats her age? You are ready to settle down. If you feel you can't cope with the stress of dating a liability then it's best to dump her "broke ass"!

She finished school, she’s going for NYSC next month. I’m trying to work it to Lagos so she can be with me.. but the vibes she’s giving make it seem like she running so coded runs.

She’s not a lazy person per se, it’s just the foolish thing she posts on WhatsApp.

Confused clown

seanwilliam:
No Dey run road side girls , most of them get sick attitude. Run your parole on Facebook and tinder. With 5k , you’ll jam correct meat. You’ll be in control and also get value for your money . to strap up no matter how sweet the pu-c is. Goodluck brother
Awuzubillai I’m fasting

How to run parole on Facebook

She's been complaint of being broke for the past two months now. Just last week, she complained of how she and her mom only eat twice a day.

My I already gave her 25k mid this month, then when I received salary yesterday, gave her another 25k. But the money seems to not be enough for her broke ass..

She went ahead to post about her starting hookup on WhatsApp, when I confronted her, she said it was a prank and she was joking. Asking me that does she look like someone that can do runs? Lol. Told her point blank that they don’t write it of forehead and that she’s giving the vibe of coded runs lately.

We have dated for 3 years and I’m starting to think of cutting things with her. After all I’m more ready for marriage, but her brokenness and the fact that her parent depend on her despite her not having a job is making her delay me.

Think I need to find someone on my level atleast.

Need advise

I went for a full body check yesterday and the result is now out.

My Estimated GFR (CKD-EPI)reads 81.

Should I be worried and what can I do to make sure it doesn't decrease further.

Boogyman557:
Holl
Ikeja under bridge computer village, na der I NACK yesterday, u go see more dan 12 ASHAWOO house, infact u fit see like 5 different ASHAWOO house for STREET for der and u can NACK with 5h, 1k short time.!

Which side for Ikeja under bridge?
Help your boy??

Manuel91:

Chief, a big Amen to this…
The fact that you think things should go a certain way is why you’re really upset with your sister. If you truly understand life and probably gotten to the stage of having your own family; you’d understand “why you should let things work out the way God plans”.
Now there’s a difference when your sister builds her house and never tells any of her family and there’s a difference when she doesn’t disclose it whilst in working…. When my fiancé was pregnant with my son, I didn’t tell anyone (and I mean anyone), I told my family when the doctor handed my son over to me. Same as when I building my first house. I only told them when I had completed it. And they were happy for me, prayed for me and blessed it. But I guess you’re more upset cos she acted broke and even loaned money from you.
Trust me bro, there’s more about life you do not understand yet, it’s a cold world man. ( I’m not saying she doesn’t trust you guys). God Bless you!!

Oh well, now I understand your comment. You’re the exact kind of person.

izubext007:
For you to complian , she has a reason to to do so

Lol, I’m not complaining. Everybody’s fine.

I’m just relating to similar situation with the thread mentioned in the OP.

A very close friend of mine traveled to the UK without informing me all throughout his plans, I swear to God, it didn’t move me one bit and we still talk and laugh over it today.

I understand that nobody owes your anything.

,but when it comes to family, I don’t entirely believe same. Because when all the chips are down, your family is all you got. Dead or alive.

SeriouslySense:
If you claim you really care, then you wil move on, because its time to do so, do not dwell on pain. At least not for long.

I’m not dwelling on the pain whatsoever and I’ve really moved on. Most times when I’m sharing money to my siblings in festive periods, I still include her in the sharing.

But her actions has thought me to not put her on the family level that I put others, I honestly now see her as a stranger.

I’m a family oriented person and I believe the way we treat family should be different from the way we treat strangers. Usually treating your family with regards and love will not be just for your own benefit, but also foster on your kids too.

How you treat your siblings will definitely have impact your children as well.

You don’t treat your siblings like a total stranger and expect them to treat your children like your own when you’re around or not.

SIRTee15:
babaYibo ignore juvenile and immature rants here on NL. I read response to the friends one yesterday and concluded na small pikin dey nairaland. Until it happens to them, they won't understand.

Housing project is a big achievement in naija esp for the middle class. If not, why is the friend throwing a huge party because he built a house.

There's something called betrayal of trust and that's what your sister and the friend did. There's something in Yoruba called aponle- regard, it's obvious your sister don't have much regard for u, same for the friend.
Your sister don't want to have a close relationship with u, just see it that way and respect her choice. Do your thing and let her hers. It's painful but that's the way it is.

The most painful part is that I have so much regard for her.

I’m never entitled to her money, infact I sometimes give her money because of her level of acting broke.

I also go out of way to make sure I stand for her even when she had issue with my dad when he was alive.

You know that feeling when you love someone, not because of what they want to give you, but because you just want the best for them and you want them to be happy.

Xpol:
Lol. if she didn't do that, your numerous demands wouldn't have let her finished that project .
She's a wise woman/lady.
In Africa, if you're rich friends and family feel/think they're your responsibilities but if you're poor they feel/think you're on your own.

Funny enough, nobody relied or expected anything from her.

Ofadaman:
People owe you nothing ,because you yap about everything is the reason you expect others to do the same.

Plus exactly this kind of attitude of self entitlement is what made her not inform you.
Why do you feel entitled that she must tell u about her finances ,why do you feel pained that she built a house without telling you, if she told you would give her a penny?

You people aren’t seeing this thing in the same perspective as I want, but I understand, this is the internet until it becomes your reality.

I’m talking about someone that go about acting broke and all the family would not mind contributing to donate to her.

Funniest thing is, non of our parents know and my dad to death complained about the fact that she’s the most different amongst us. I was defending her in front of my dad. Begging him to forgive her whatever she must hav done.