NewStats: 3,263,941 , 8,181,990 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:33 PM e184k

RayJinble:


The world will never run out of weirdos and bad people...like I said the system is weak, unfortunately our law and enforcers do no not deter this men enough from sexual harassment... until we get there, all you can do is help in your own little way... help train your boy child too so he doesn't harass others in future...

God bless you.

You are one of the few sane men here.

Gosh, the most infuriating thing about all these is how women fighting for their 'rights' as 'humans' is immediately tagged as feminism...

Oh, if not tolerating being groped is feminism, then I want to be a feminist so bad!

RayJinble:
Women most times are the cause of their own problems... women are primary factors in maintaining morality and societal ethics . Charity they say begins at home... A mother refuses to train his son well, his son will probably grow up to abuse women in Yaba market in the future. It might sound absurd but it's all connected.
Xenocentrism is another chronic problem in our society today. We tend to copy from the Westerners including things we aren't supposed to. In a country like Nigeria with weak judiciary system, we are just not matured enough to condone certain kind of dressing in public. Nigerian's are not Americans, Nigerian's are communal, religious and upholds female decency and chastity very well. But you already know this... You know you will be gazed at, hissed at called names, groped and whatever But you still chose to dress indecently hoping that everyone you meet on your way will some how suddenly transform to an American and understand why it's your right and why you should be loved even though you are walking around in bra and minis THIS IS NIGERIA you aren't allowed to.. meanwhile a pry 5 pupil will see this same aunty and feels this is how a contemporary lady should look like and unknowingly recalibrate his standards and values and subsequently starts to objectify women in the future and probably assault a lady someday at Yaba market all because a woman feels she has a right to bare boobs...and the Yaba lady cries out mysoginist and patriarchy and that men should be less of a pig and bla bla..
.no man is born a misogynistic...educate our boy child too and he won't depart from it
Dress as you want to be addressed.... Men are visually wired (you already know this) a man sees your boobbs, he will sexually objectify you its natural, you can't fight nature..
My point are
Nigeria isn't mature enough for Feminism.... and it isn't coming any time soon... Don't waste your time
Dress properly if you want to be taking seriously and avoid unnecessary abuse...because not all men are mentally upright. It's better to stay safe than try to prove your right every time to fools..also consider the kids of your fellow women while dres too. If we want eradicate mysoginism in Nigeria, then we must all sacrifice together and strive to instill decency in our kids not by words alone but also by our actions

God bless us all

YOU JUST HAD TO MAKE THIS THING ABOUT DRESSING APPROPRIATELY?

Plot twist, I am a Muslim woman. Practically covered from head to toe. I get harrased each and everytime I go to this market. Should I just continue to allow them touch me cos the can?

SKhanmi:
Smh,Anyway it's the pioneers of any movement that gets it rough. It's just plain stupidity trying out oyinbo trends in a country where the law doesn't even favour you as a normal citizen. Imagine LGBTs parading oshodi,boys would just look them waka abi? Not to mention that less than 2% of them really know the true form of feminism. Especially the nonsense displayed about on NL

SERIOUSLY?

You just compared women complaining about being groped, being touched inappropriately with LQBTQ's movement?
Who was the animal that raised u?

Triangles1:
I don't know much about Yaba traders but it's abnormal to touched a woman body without her consent, for example if you do that to a Muslim woman in the northern part of NG you will get your self blame because their boys will stone you to death if care is not taking, its barbaric and shameful but the protesters are wrong by going to their working place, they should report to Police or any human right radio.

Weren't the so called men harrasing the women at this same supposed work place?

Hey guys. I need help finding any information about 'a one campus initiative' supposedly organized by the world bank. It seems all shady and I just need clarification because I have tried searching online for anything related to it, but I can't seem to find any. There are claims that some students in UI and some other UNI's I can't have benefited from this cause. Please, comment on the legitimacy of this initiative

morals and religion aside, are gay people normal?

He is and was a fine man.

nice picture

I just had a migraine from reading this...

I wouldn't have been able to pinpoint what the whole drama is about if I hadn't read what the OP typed at the beginning.


But hold on a sec tho, aren't Big Girls supposed to be classy and maybe, speak something close to good English

I've come to accept the bitter realisation that no one is safe in this country that we are in.

Well, I do not even need to read the post to know what to say.

The headline has said it all. It's no wonder the statement is coming from 'MAN'.

Just another no good, ordinary and a silly joke for a man without a title or even a name to add to it.


By the way. I think typing random stewpid things on the net is the rave now. Low self esteemed sets of people choose being controversial to be relevant and 'MAN' is definitely one of them

The answer I wss given was 'I know Babe'

I was so heartbroken until he eventually added '...and I do too' after a long, very awkward pause.


I could tell it was forced so I knew it was never going to work out

if this is the part where everybody's supposed to 'awww' and pity you then I certainly am not one of them.

if all these accusations are actually true, even an insane person knows the right step to take.

I would have asked what you were waiting for up until this day but frankly speaking, it just seems more and more like you are a suicidal patients who couldn't bring herself to put the rope around her own neck but would prefer Bolaji to do the honours because if you were really willing to remain alive, you would have left a long looooong time ago

My submission was acknowledged but I wasn't able to add a yellow diamond . Would there possibly be an issue?

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