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The bond of corruption is what glues Logos' politics.
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BrutusOj: Lol you sure don't listen to oyedepo No pastor in Nigeria preaches hard work him. |
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I was in a similar situation about a month ago. I resigned from 2 full time jobs I was juggling together to focus on a remote job I got. I'm also spending the free time to upskill and make myself ready for even more foreign remote opportunities. This shouldn't be a difficult decision for you at all. |
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turmacs:the thief, the dog or the owner |
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Then there's me who's just gonna say "I am Diogo Joya"
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owolabi5: No address No company name No website No email address Just phone number Add some details if you want people to respond |
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Odin13: Whats the prove of the love and care if she can't ask how her fiance is coping with life after not being paid for 2 months. Love is characterized by how much we're willing to give and sacrifice, and sadly, in this part of the world, we've taken the giving part to be only the man's responsibility. Each day I hear women talk about how much they want intentional men lol. Here's an opportunity to be one but she's waiting to be told. I found myself in a similar situation during covid-19 when they stopped paying me because we couldn't work. This girl I had been giving money never for once asked how I was coping. The girl is a nurse and was still working and getting paid during the heat of covid-19, but she never thought of send 500 naira airtime. Many times I'd intentionally tell her I didn't have airtime to call just to see her reaction but nothing came out of it. My submission is that the fiancee has shown signs of selfishness which is common amongst most ladies. "Jis money is our money, but my money is my money" mentality might be playing out here. I'd personally not date anyone who wouldn't be excited about helping me when she's got the means. Both men and women deserve care and intentional partners. 1 Like |
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Instead of calling parents, students and school authority, why not send an undercover reporter to the University to see things themselves? Very lazy reporting.
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fyzaila: Lol The same tactics many women play daily. Staying lazy, but being beautiful. Then some unfortunate man will marry them thinking they've married wives. |
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EreluRoz: It's the guy who doesn't have sense sha. Once I hear any unreasonable thing from anybody, I'll simply call everything off. Let them have their daughter. |
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Juliearth:So, what business can a 400k monthly salary earner open for someone who isn't satisfied with 100k monthly free money? Its quite clear she isn't a good manager of money, neither can she be patient enough to run a profitable business. |
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TheOldGods:My rent is due We want to do seminar My project Gas and foodstuff has finished Etc I met one recently and it's probably my most regrettable experience this year. I never dated a student while I was one, do I'd blame myself for approaching her in the first place. This particular one is even entitled, telling me she likes money whether and she doesn't care if it's hers or someone else's own. I just allowed her fool herself well sha... I've stopped picking her calls, the small money I was sending don sweet her mouth. |
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You see how very few ladies have commented so far?
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Lovemeharder: One called me yesterday to borrow her money to pay rent. I dunno what gives them that audacity. Always looking for who to fleece on. 2 Likes |
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emkz: Let it go? Should he goan format his brain? ![]() Unfortunately, that was the first thing I ed when I saw her picture. It's normal that people will and bring it up at some point. And sadly, people will still present it as "receipt" if she doesn't agree with them. |
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Valid grounds for a divorce
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1TrippleCee: Its actually necessary There are people who may be in similar situations today, and this might be the inspiration for them to be courageous with their choices. Secondly, those people are terrible humans, there is no point shielding wicked people. |
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Exactly what I'm experiencing with a babe now. Fumbled alot about being independent but wouldn't stop talking about her needs. Once you call her, there's no end to how badly she needs money. The last one that broke me was her telling me that her mum requested money from her to buy a refrigerator. You're a student for God's sake!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Quality20: Good couple? She's just a friend, not girlfriend ![]() |
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Quality20: Well, she's an adult and it's up to her how she wants to live. We still talked yesterday, and I've never made her feel like I'm aware of such a thing. |
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I can't forget seeing one of my female friends on codedruns. She later deleted her profile, and I've never spoken to her about it
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Haveyoueatentod: Our female football is not progressing. You can quantify that by how much we perform in international competitions. It will not be shocking when these smaller teams finally catch up and we will be declaring a state of emergency for female football. 5 Likes |
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You can't even fault or blame the woman
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One stays in my compound. She can't stand one minute without scratching somewhere on her body. I wonder how her clients dey cope. |
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Lol This one is a joke please. The gift of the working of miracles is given by God through the Holy Spirit, and I'm sure these guys don't believe in the Holy Spirit. So this one no enter abeg. 2 Likes |
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PoliteActivist: Reaching compromise to sustain relationships, friendships, family, job, business etc isn't a ME thing, it's a WORLD thing. I don't know how else someone who desires to be in a relationship should perceive the world if they're never willing to compromise. But I get you sha, every single person should make whatever choices they want and bare the consequences. Nice ๐ 1 Like |
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PoliteActivist: You've simply just summarized what I pointed out as the mistake or character flaw of the OP. The same character I have itted to be a victim of and trying to overcome. She was judging everyone in the light of her very religious upbringing. And that was why I mentioned that with a willing partner, adjustments and a rewarding compromise can be made by both parties. From her story... Did some of the men fumble? Yes Were they ready to adjust? Yes Did she give them a second or even third chance? No When she saw her equally very religious person, she still ran due to stinginess. I quoted you because you said she's better off being single than being with someone she couldn't stand. But if you read her story again through the lens of what you just wrote, it'll be clearer that she made many mistakes. Every thriving marriage is so because both parties have chosen to keep unlearning and relearning. 1 Like |
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PoliteActivist: Something I've learnt recently is that no man or woman marries a perfect partner. In fact, when you realize that you're not perfect as a person, you'll learn how to give others second, third, fourth and fifth chance. Even if Jesus had asked this OP out, she would have broken up with him if she caught him talking to another woman. No second chance, no forgiveness! Please, how do you even want to have a good marriage with such character? I'm pretty sure all those people she accused of cheating later got married and are still married. So, did they change? Did they stop cheating? Or they happened to find someone who understands that we're all humans who are capable of making mistakes. I'm 30 and I've not been in a relationship in about 12 years, so I was very well like the OP. I use to lose interest in ladies over little character I don't like, but how long will I keep doing that when I can simply teach a lady the right things to do. These are things I've learnt recently and putting to practice. So, as long as a man or woman are willing to learn and change, why not give them the opportunity to change? At least give enough chance until they've proven that they've changed. I hope many younger ladies and guys learn early to avoid cases like this. Jewessgratitud3 5 Likes 1 Share |
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Akfrenzy: Some of you don't have brain cells. You say business continues. Do you think the father is gonna will some of his to the son's new church? Do you know how much it takes to leave a church of millions of followers to go start from scratch? Do you know how many decades it'll take him to remotely get to where winners has gotten? Do you know how much favour and privilege he's about to sacrifice? Make una dey try think small before una talk. |
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