NewStats: 3,262,342 , 8,176,875 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 09:07 PM t3b5g

Ikeagu, your defense is very weak, how can you take custody of a step child that's female and her mother is alive and well? You even refused to send them upkeep allowance since November 2021.

You that will not always be around due to the nature of your work, how will you now be able to care for them or you think money is all they need?

Your wife lost a pregnancy and you didn't care enough to find out from the doctor or your wife why that happened? You are obviously not a good and kind person.

If the judge grant your request I will truly understand that Nigeria is completely lawless.

Hmmm! You broke up with her because you are still a baby and not a man yet, it wasn't because of your mum, at this age and time, you still allow anyone to dictate who to marry to you? The fact that, you even know that your girl is a good person is enough for you to want to fight anyone for her sake. Enough said, you are not ready yet.

I've seen enough to know that a parent's curse is deadly, my girl friend was a testament to that fact, may her soul rest in peace. Op, she was not a mother figure to you and sibs but she birthed you, breastfed you. Whatever she did to you, she's already bearing the consequences, who knows you would have been actually successful than you are currently if you could just learn to forgive her and give her the help she needs since you are capable of doing that. I know she hurts you greatly.

Try to reason it, don't joke with a parent's curse on you. This is not a case of Nigeria and boko haram, honour your father and mother so that it will be well with you and you will live long.

Peace.

They have said it all.
He that has an ear, let him hear.

This virginity thing we keep talking about, I wonder if it is the women themselves that deflower themselves by themselves, or y'all don't think that if women remain virgins automatically men remain virgins as well? The bible doesn't have to spell this out, it's just common sense........ ✌️

I just got a message from them but don't know what exactly they are into....

Go for Tecno camon17 but u might have to add 5/6k cus it's about 75/76k, u won't regret it.

Why should we think for them? They know how they manage their lives. Besides, I can't base my decision on one sided story, let me hear from the woman first.

Lady, I'm quite sure u know what to do but just too afraid to go ahead because u are afraid of what people will say however, be rest assured that u will be more afraid by the time u finally started living together and probably get infected or die of hbp, it's never too late to walk away. A word is enough.

@ictjobber, what's the difference between the op and the babe pls, how's the Op better than the babe?

If u are a woman, confess and Ur relationship is off but a man can confess and the woman that wants to get married by all means will forgive and the marriage will still go on. Who we offend in this life eh����

Since u won't gain anything in marriage, no one is forcing u to marry, remain single pls, it's not by force.

This guy is definitely a leech and I'm sure he met his match, imagine complaining about house chores in a house u don't have a stake and no income to the lady, it's obvious u didn't even like the woman, stop claiming in the name of love, u wanted to feed off her cus u perceived her desperate and u are not, u got what u deserved.

Truth be told no one here has the answer, she's the only one that knows the truth.

It's obvious that both were not even ready for the marriage in the first place, so u should go ur separate ways abeg.

Most of u boys on this page are just bitter human, I actually wonder if u have sisters and daughters and if u do, hope u will be happy when they are raped. I know none of us were there when it all happened and so none knows what really happened, so calling the girls hoes and liars is the reason why most girls keep quiet and don't tell anyone about their rape experiences. If it's true what the girl is saying, that means she could have been the one to be killed cus either she dies or the guy. So keep spewing nonsense as if boys like u are not hoes as well. Ona weldone

Bunch of unserious fellows, may God save us from this type of mindset. He that gives receives more, poverty is the root of stinginess, God deliver us from poor men with poor mentality in Jesus name, Amen. I pray u remain stingy.

Some of Ur comments shows how irresponsible u are, someone visit his would be in-laws empty handed, no bread no fruits and u all are here insulting her mum and making it look like it's poverty mentality? What's wrong with y'all really? That's just courtesy simple, it doesn't have to be every time he visits, however, we don't even know if that was his first time or not cus it wasn't specified, y'all should be respectful. Gifts can be given to by either of the parties involved, it's not a big deal. So u think u can date a rich girl and be completely compliant with her rules or just be taking from her according to some of u here, pls be responsible and stop seeing women as they are here to deprive u of Ur mother's breaks milk when all they is make life sweet and delicious to u. Bye for now.

[Pls I can't see where she mentioned that item wasn't her first time, can u point that out to me pls? Gosh! Bringing bread or even something as small as fruits when u visit, what's wrong with that, or how does poverty come into this? quote author=GayPontiff post=97809727]


No offense o, but be offended all u want.
You and ur mama need deliverance .
me for recommendations.

If the guy marries u, each visit to your mum will now cost him a cow and a new house shebi?
That he even went to greet her which is the highlight that deserves accolades suddenly gets swept under d carpet. U proceeded to hang up call on him.
Now ur seeking justification publicly.

If u want to enjoy ur marriage in d future when u don marry eh babes, no be everything momsi talk u go swallow.


(((According to her it wasn't even his first visit and he did take something along the very first time.
Una don see as person dey open door for wahala?)))[/quote]

Op, u said u all forget some nice ladies u dated just to come home to pick a lady to marry and take to the abroad right? So the nice ladies u dated over there are not women enough to marry right? Or u just come home pick any lady u feel will be subservient to ur rules and regulations as if u were in Nigeria? U don't think those past ladies can pray for u not to have a peaceful marriage since u find them not worthy of ur love but just for the knacking? If u men can try to be less selfish and egomaniacal, u will enjoy more of ur life, becos, u have decided to see the nice ladies as desperados hence, u fall into ur own created misfortunes. Be good and good will come to u, these things have a way of relocating u. Stay watchful, stay blessed. Marriage is a good thing when u find the right partner.

Bro, I know it's not easy o but forgive her if u can, if she's ready to be ur wife again, try to be pay more attention to her since u have now seen that it's not all about money, marriage is much more than u just providing for the family, she's Ur wife take care of her sexual needs and she does urs. God bless u and urs.