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Jagaban2012: If Sowore, Deji Adeyanju, David Hundeyin, etc are making loads of money from their bold action of speaking to POWER, why are many Nigerians not doing this? Yes, some international donors their causes but believe me, it is a yeoman job they are doing. 1 Like |
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I understand that today is #InternationalMensDay. Some have encouraged men to talk about their mental health. Let me talk about mine. You can do any psychoanalysis you want. I don’t care. I just want to vent as a man. As a man, I am likely to die before a woman of the same age. I can’t complain though. I think I got a good deal biologically. No bodily changes each month. No need to enhance my hair, eye lashes, eye brows, ears, lips, nails, etc. I can just shower, brush my hair, use a moisturiser and go! I think that my life is a life of sacrifice. I have to protect and provide. I don’t mind that but it can be hard sometimes. I can’t complain though. I think it’s harder having to give birth, nurturing a family, and still be expected to provide as well. And to still have to protect my man from harm, including his inclination for self harm. Sometimes, I don’t want to talk. I would like some time to think and plan. That I am not talking doesn’t mean there is anything wrong. It doesn’t mean there’s any issue between us. I just crave some silence. As a man, I solve problems by thinking, not by talking it over with anyone. That I want some time to myself doesn’t mean I am not blissfully happy in your presence or that I want to be with another woman or to hang with boys. It’s just me and my brain. However, I have been told that that doesn’t work in a relationship. I can’t complain though. After all, it’s not only me. I have to accommodate the fact that my woman may prefer to solve problems by talking them through. I hear that the approach of talking through problems is the better approach. It doesn’t work for me though. I would rather analyse the issue and think through a clear path to a solution BEFORE I talk about it. It is not that I want to exclude my woman. I just want to deal with the issue the best way I know how. I feel that by the time I come to talk about it, I should have a plan. I believe that having a plan will reassure my woman. I don’t want to go into a discussion of the problem without at least the makings of a plan. I actually never feel under-appreciated. I don’t feel the need for any appreciation. I have a duty to do and I just do it. I can’t complain. It’s not a competition. If it were, I would lose every time because her job is harder than mine. However, there is blood flowing through my own veins too. With financial and career success, my needs have actually become very few. Just love, food, alcohol, sex and peace. However, I must accept that my spouse may want more. Like more talk. More romance. More show of affection. I must try harder. I feel incredibly lucky. I can’t imagine changing my surname and taking another person’s surname. Some even take the surname AND first name ( like Mariam Joe-Abah). Why? 🤷🏽♂️ I can’t imagine leaving my church or religion to take on my spouse’s. I won’t do that for anybody. I also won’t have spent all day at work and come back home to cook for anybody. Not even for myself! So, I can’t complain. I know that no one is coming to save me. It’s me against the world. I am expected to always be the bigger person. After all, I must never be caught “behaving like a woman.” However, do not be surprised if I say No sometimes. Don’t be surprised if I am sometimes stubborn just for the sake of it, even when there is no apparent benefit from that stubbornness. Don’t be confused about the fact that I am not afraid of death or scared of any living being. Finally, I am Incredibly lucky to have the love of a good woman. I am a man. That is who I am. Everything I’ve said is not me complaining. I actually feel incredibly privileged and you don’t know how content I am. Still, today is a good day to celebrate me. When I’m dead, it won’t matter to me anymore. Happy #InternationalMensDay to all men out there. End of rant! 😂 https://x.com/DrJoeAbah/status/1858885256075452544?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweet |
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Ebi mpawaooooooooooooooooo!
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This Fayose you see laughing will cry last last!
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Reuben Abati, a former media adviser to former President Goodluck Jonathan, has criticised President Bola Tinubu's sons, Seyi and Yinka, for loitering around the Aso Rock Villa like "men without personal purposes in life." https://saharareporters.com/2024/03/06/ex-presidential-aide-reuben-abati-asks-tinubus-sons-seyi-yinka-stop-hanging-around-aso 70 Likes 5 Shares |
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Today, accompanied by the APGA National Chairman, Barr Ezeokenwa Sly Jr, I paid a solidarity visit to my respected predecessor, Chief Willie Obiano, in Abuja. Posted by Anambra state governor, Chukuma Soludo on X (Formerly known as twitter) 8 Likes 3 Shares |
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madridguy: Better itinerary arrangement would have Gov. Sanwo-Olu wait elsewhere than sitting like a slowpoke, looking at worshippers. 11 Likes |
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Jeon: Nobody gave us. We appropriated it based on our oil wealth. Just like many people just wake and appropriate the title of pastor. Well, we are poor now. And so... may be the snail of Africa fits us now ![]() 42 Likes 2 Shares |
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The Office of the First Lady (OFL) is the staff able to the first lady of the United States. The office and its responsibilities, while not constitutionally mandated, have grown as the role of the first lady has grown and formalized through the history of the United States. The Office of the First Lady is an entity of the White House Office, part of the Executive Office of the President. It is located in the East Wing. The first lady has her own staff that totals 11 in number. Though the persona, activities, and initiatives of the first lady have always been significant to the history of the United States, the first first lady to hire federally funded staff was Edith Roosevelt, who hired Belle Hagner as the first White House social secretary on October 2, 1901. Eleanor Roosevelt became the first first lady to expand the office beyond social and istrative secretaries by hiring Malvina Thompson as her personal secretary and Jackie Kennedy was the first to employ a press secretary. Under Rosalynn Carter, the first lady's staff became known as the Office of the First Lady. She organized the office into four major departments: projects and community liaison, press and research, schedule and advance, and social and personal; and was the first to add a chief of staff. She was also the first to move her own work office into the East Wing. Though the role of the office has grown over the years, it primarily s the first lady in promoting the agenda and campaigns of the president. Further to that, it provides for the agenda of the first lady, who chooses causes and initiatives to campaign for during their time at the White House. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Office_of_the_First_Lady_of_the_United_States |
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slivertongue: You slivertongue are so ignorant that I doubt if you have have entered a formal school? |
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Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh, has slammed the General Overseer of the Citadel Global Community Church, Pastor Tunde Bakare, for faulting the lifestyle of the late singer, Mohbad. Mohbad died on September 12, and his death has stirred up controversies on social media, forcing Nigerians to demand justice for him. Bakare, speaking at church event in the United Kingdom on Sunday, however, faulted Mohbad, saying he was “drinking and smoking” and “reaped the reward of his unpleasant lifestyle while alive”. “My wife and I listened to a tape last night on MohBad. How many of you know Mohbad? The Nigerian artiste who died at 27? Mohbad,” Bakare asked. “When he was drinking and smoking and associating with evil men, he did not know that the harvest would come so soon and that he would soon be cut down at the prime of youth. “I am not blaming him, I am just telling you. Is Mohbad a good name? Mohbad.” Reacting to Bakare’s statement, Dikeh, blasted Bakare who had not spoken against the ills of his fellow clergymen in the past but condemned Mohbad’s life. The actress said the late singer was old enough to be the pastor’s last born, but said she would not speak much against him because of the anointing of God upon him. “When your colleagues are caught with their pants down in unholy sexual activities. We never hear your voice, you never speak nor preach about them,” Dikeh said on her Instagram page. “It comes to the death of a boy who is old enough to be your last born and you say “HE REAPED THE REWARD OF HIS ACTIONS. What Actions? “Please please please KEEP THE SAME ENERGY with your corrupted colleagues as you just did today. “It’s the anointing of God upon your head that’s making me not go off on this LOOSE COMMENT OF YOURS. “I have learnt over the years that if you have nothing nice to say, Keep mute (DONT TALK AT ALL). “Preach your gospel and leave Mohbad’s name out of your ministration. I don’t respect old age, I respect the wisdom you exhibit at old age.” https://dailytrust.com/mohbad-keep-quiet-if-you-have-nothing-to-say-tonto-dikeh-blasts-bakare/
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Jagaban has a feminine palm. ![]() |
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aguele: OP are you a learner. Put your source. |
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Creamypie: Yes, immediately opposite Young Shall Grow Park. There is a place there with traders who would willingly clap and drop tears in emotional outburst. You are thinking, bro. 14 Likes |
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pandoragirigory: Eye dey pain you. Peter Obi is there. Check the large group picture. 183 Likes 12 Shares |
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Naked dance in the marketplace. ![]() |
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Nigerians begged and cried for their own hard-earned money under this man as governor of CBN. And where are the new notes printed? |
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MUGU!
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My governor, my governor!
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E be like say na one chance bus we entered like this. ![]() |
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Obi-dients go be like whaaaaaat? ![]() 4 Likes |
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The Anambra State Governor, Prof. Chukwuma Soludo, has advised Anambra businessmen and women in Lagos State that Anambra is ready for business and investing in the state will be in their best interest.https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/come-home-to-invest-soludo-begs-anambra-businessmen-in-lagos/%3famp 47 Likes 4 Shares |
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