NewStats: 3,263,743 , 8,181,215 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 04:26 PM k1c3n

KingOfTheDamned:


Yes
He was trashed and drawn on thos forum for like 2 weeks. Some ladies paid some simps to get his personal details and to troll him

It was brutal ..

OMG. Can you link me to one of the threads?

KingOfTheDamned:
Before I start let me give kudos to my master "Sir Ubunja" his gospel saved me from simpery . But those ENPs used their mod friends to do him dirty 😡

So as a loyal disciple.i will continue carrying his flag!

Note my threads are causing the ENPs sleepless nights 🤣 they are scavenging Google searching for my details so they can do what they did the Ubunja to me...

Una go tire.

Now to the topic

My fellow comrades . The era of simpery is slowing fading. Men are waking up.

The mistake wasn't made by us but we inherited it. If only our forefathers had asked why!

Three simple letters that can could have saved us so much wahala . Why

If only Adam had asked Eve Why when she told him to bite from the fruit.

If only the very first Nigerian man who went to marry and was told the lady is not a virgin !! If only before paying bride price he asked. Why

We would not have inherited a culture of simping!!

Why should a Nigerian man pay bride price in full for a lady whose kitten 2as been run through by several BBC ?!! Why should we pay full bride price for a lady whose vagina has been battered bruised and shell shocked by massive gbolas over the years ?!
If that our simp forefather has stopped at the last moment before handing those grubby fisted in-laws his hard earned cowries for a used up woman we may have a different future than we have today.

Alsa in a world where feminism, agreed of men and woke NONSENSE seems to be the other of the day we can only slowly and surely encourage each other onto the right path away from the madness.

This thread is merely a guide for you when choosing a life partner .

1. Obey the 6 year rule. Let there be no less than 6 years closeness between your age and thewoman you want to marry. For example if you are 30.years let her be no older than 24, if you are 35 let her be no older than 29 and so on.

2. Do not marry a woman above 25 years of age. Virgins are so scare they are like finding an ENP who doesn't us make up or whose hariline hasn't started disappearing (Goodluck finding that)🙄 . Agree with me or not, you see most wahala couples who are always fighting in your area go and find out they are too close in age. Maybe the man was 25 when he married her and she was 23 or 24. Such low age gaps breeds nonsense. Go and look at men who marry women far younger. Omo paddy it's always easier to manage. Don't let any ENP.guitl trip you , pls go for younger girls . Why should you after all you have struggled and suffered in life now end up with one ENP who will be looking like your mother ina. Short while . women age far faster than us. So if for instance you are 32 and marry one 30 year old, guy in 4 years time she will be looking like your mum and every soon any fine girl who greets you she will have problems . Every smal thing ma fight . She will be suspecting everything you do and every phone call you receive na wahala.

That's no way to live bro. You will die young . See these old women age fast and cecome very insecure that's why they start accusing their husbands and make his life a living hell

Wait o. What happen to ubunja please? Was his identity revealed by these jezebels?

Ubunja!! This thread is still alive after 4yrs. The morning that I came across this thread for the first time probably around November 2019, I was listening to Harris J “let me breathe “ at the back of my veranda while thinking about my life. Right now I’m listening to the same song and the feelings I had that day came back so I thought to check back on this thread and drop this . Ubunja I don’t know where you are, whether you’re Alive or dead, whether you’ve made it big somewhere and living your life, but I know one thing and it is that you shaped my thinking faculty about how some things work. Be bless bro!! Be bless! Live bro!! Live!

CSTRR:
So something as inevitable as height is that important?

Something that you did not work for, and is just a luck of birth.

Damn.

I didn't know it's that important till I got to the West. I had women back in Nigeria who loved me. But I guess in the western world, women care about the little inch, about the small pimples on your face, about how dark you look, the type of cream you use, I mean your body must be game and ridiculously good looking to even game a girl that's not beautiful at all

Aaaaarghmed:
improve your game and outlook.I dey oyibo land too and I don get plenty women.am even tired now.its not hard at all.if you need some tips.Email me,if you want.i have photos as evidence.But why you go dey yankee dey follow black woman.Even if she be Citizen ,its a no no for me.

How many years you don dey abroad?

Chidi2022:
But, must you marry from Canada?

Where else can I get married from?

My story and I choose to share it on an anonymous forum to heal.

Shortly before COVID, I went to Canada on a student Visa for an Ms program. After my degree, I decided to stay. And here is my dating story

From 2019 to 2021, I wasn't in a serious relationship with anyone since I was a student and still trying to get my finances in order. My province, in fact, my school didn't really have Nigerians like that. BC seem to have decent concentration of Nigerians tho. However, within that year, I asked two ladies out who I know were also looking for serious relationship, but rejected me. One was Rwanda, and the other one from Eritrea. They were both working class ladies that time. I just recently only get to know I was rejected base on look and height.

Okay, last year I got a job and I seemed to be doing decently fairly. But I still didn't find a woman yet to date me. I put myself on Tinder, but didn't get match. The only match I got, she ghost me after our second meeting. I wasn't her taste and standard. She was looking for a 6ft ,good looking and heavily built guy.

I tried linking up with few Nigerian guys who introduced me to their circles. Somehow, I got to meet women. I met oyinbo women too. The two I told about love interests also didn't show interest.

Another Nigerian, just got here last year on a student Visa, also couldn't date me.

But the one that really pained me most was an Eritrean lady I got in with recently. She is a citizen already. She ghost me after seeing my pictures 😭.

I'm only a little around 5ft 3in. On the side of big, but not that overweight and I've been going to gym now trying to get a slim body. I'm not where I need to be financially but I'm not doing too bad.

Morrigan008:
I love as you acknowledge that your life is a dustbin and your ugliness, joblessness and loneliness had made you detached from reality
As you are entering inside your dustbin make sure you dump Yourself as well

I'd advise that you enroll into a PhD program as soon as possible. A PhD takes 7yrs highest. And research has shown that people who do well in their PhD often find healthy partner who love them just as soon as they complete their PhD. It's very hard to find a man that'll be so ionate about you without you having a PhD. In fact, having multiple PhD is preferable

I'd advise that you enroll into a PhD program as soon as possible. A PhD takes 7yrs highest. And research has shown that people who do well in their PhD often find healthy partner who love them just as soon as they complete their PhD. It's very hard to find a man that'll be so ionate about you without you having a PhD. In fact, having multiple PhD is preferable

Nothing

ModestGal:

Well, money is not constant, some people are poor that never planned to be poor. Some people could have injuries that could prevent them from so and so. I don't discriminate people due to money, but the first preference from a man is looks, others follow. Because the Children MATTER MOST. A rich man could decide not to give you money again, we've seen such stories, some good men change, some men pretend to be good and later turn stingy, different stories.
But for children, they would always be yours and would always love you and you won't ever be replaceable in their heart and if you are lucky to have a rich guy, then it would be an added advantage

thing is are you beautiful? you girl will want a drop dead gorgeous Man but your looks is always zero. plus the fact that some of u are dumb keep bringing unintelligent children into this world. Maybe u don't know a beautiful woman gives birth to a beautiful kid. if u are not good-looking yourselfm forget about having a fine man

Paxie55:
4m is money to You? You must be a poor church rat.

I'm sure ur dad and ur BF combined don't earn up to 50k

cr7lomo:


What u don't know is that 19yr olds are even the ones that genuinely have and give real love but soon change when that his gf or crush that is his mate 4ks him over by dumping him for an older more comfy guy or a young man from a rich family ... Then he takes the red pill and grows with it ... Then when he makes the money later in life, he treats women like trash and the circle goes on and on .... So in reality , most men that are red pilled are in their mid 20s upwards ...

true

HARDDON:


be careful....


@op,
World over, open secret;
What most people( both genders) really want is fwb.

do ish, yet be free to explore more without bf/gf dramas.

But life isn't ideal, so they lose a lil stake from time to time in the process of satisfying that want.

Harddon boss. how your side

Lol

Agboriotejoye:

Corona ke? Your village people are using you to make pepper soup.

Are you for real?? who could it be among my village people. and it has been long I went there. the reason is because of things like this

please if my body's temperature is 48°C . what does it mean? Corona?

It's life

Go. Since it is not my pussy that'll suffer am

SOLARPOWER1:

Did you add cover letter or statement of purpose to your application

No I didn't. Maybe that's why I don't used to get invite

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skywalker240:

what you're saying is out of context with what am trying to imply,

yeah ladies are dumped by some guys agreed,

but most struggling guys are dumped everyday by you ladies which is what you are encouraging (and thats what you termed broke)

(i wont use the word broke, cos its almost equevalent to "deadbeat" any girl dating such guys have themselves to blame)

show me a faithfull rich man, and i would show you a 70
years old virgin.

the problem with you ladies is that you're not ready to have a tip of 50/50 situation but ready to swallow the obvious 97/3 obvious edge of the sword laced with honey.

This is my first comment on NL and I'm giving it to you. how can I like a comments 10 times on this forum?

Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. [b]You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

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Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

I'm sorry but I need to correct the bolded. ladies have nothing to offer but sex. Should you need further explanation, me

borngeologist:
My story might be lengthy with a lot of grammatical blunders.. But my elders Abeg help me just manage read am and advice me because am really confused..

I have a boss who actually loves me. He likes me like a son and he always wants me to go out with him. We are actually very close pal.

There was a day he went out with his girklfriend. I was at home when my phone rang. He told me to bring 3k to where he was with his girlfriend. When I got there he told me to sit down and drink and eat dog meat with them. But I don't eat dog so I only drank one bottle. The lady and I later talked and I left them.

She came to our place this Wednesday. I was inside my room, she was just insisting that she wanted to see me. When I got there, she was just telling me my boss drinks a lot which is quite true but he dosent misbehave. That it is too much. As a guy man I covered up for my boss. And I left her and my boss.

Today we went to her shop. My boss ordered for drink for us. We started drinking. Later I went out, she followed me. We sat together and started talking. She started telling me that If she actually saw me first she would have dated me that she loves me that she doesn't like my boss. I was quite shocked and told her that since she is already dating my boss it is not possible. Then my boss and one of my other colleague with a lady came out and ed us. That was how we started gisting again. I had an important call to pick so I later entered her shop because the outside was noisy. That was how this lady came inside and kissed me. I was really shocked I have to run outside.

My boss and I later left her place for a burial where a friend of his (a lady) invited us to a burial. When I got there this lady started saying she really likes me that she wish she meet me earlier that she would have dated me.. That she really likes me a lot. My boss now jokingly asked me that I want to take all his girls from him. Mind you that my boss girlfriend calls me her husband even people close to her shop call me her husband.. And these ladies are way older than Me..

Please all I need from you guys is advice on what to do cause am confused.

There is also a married lady too that told me she wished she met me earlier that she would have dated me. And other older beautiful ladies. In their early and middle thirties and am just 23.

This guy must be very handsome to have been getting attention like this. Girls and fine boys

Omisbrightdf:


Do you know the technology it would take to monitor everyone writing the test?

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Saintimakuh:
I do hope you have a job already because I don't see how a job seeker will be saying questions are laughable.

Opportunity doesn't present it everyday, soon you will be above the age bracket for GT.

Be wise.

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SOLARPOWER1:


Guy's please help me with past questions for this Total scholarship... I having been begging for it here

TOTAL uses SHL type. But I'll advise you get shortlisted for the test first. This is because getting shortlisted for their test isn't a small task.

ExpertNLer:
No updates, I guess because of this COVID19 situation. Let us see if the tests will still hold

Yes

adamx23:

Mine, it was the quantitative reasoning that almost made me go crazy. The questions were not straight forward and there were people shouting in my area. My mind was just all over the place.. The verbal reasoning was fair. I've learnt not to try reading the ages before answering the questions.. I just scan through to get the particular paragraph in the questions.

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teadrake:
Any hope for those still awaiting test invite??

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iLegendd:


Calm down. I don't call people depressed — I call those who abuse me too much depressed. If a person is not depressed, then why stalk abuse and me regularly?

Also, why do you people always use others as examples, but you don't use yourself?

You'll always hear, "There are people who make more than you and they don't make noise."

Of course, we all know people like that exist, but you are not one of them, so allow such people to talk and use themselves as an example.

you're actually right and I agree with you. I'm broke and jobless,in fact you're in every way better than me.