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aktolly54(m): 10:35am On Jan 16, 2024
verybouth:
He will go to Saudi Arabia
dont think so.
Not everyone is moved by money, he will still see job for europe
aktolly54(m): 5:58pm On Jan 14, 2024
LexusGs350:
the car is very rare here in Nigeria. And I can’t wait for 6 months to receive car wey i wan dey use go work
6month ke? I think car arrive to Nigeria from USa under 4-6 weeks which one is 6month again.
aktolly54(m): 5:10pm On Jan 14, 2024
LexusGs350:
Abeg make una help me find this Lexus 2015 GS350 F-sport make i buy am rest.. I don tire o

Car seat must be maroon color

Naija or foreign used is welcomed .. thank you
order from USA direct if you no see for Nigeria or is it that hard to find it in nigeria here?
aktolly54(m): 2:51pm On Jan 13, 2024
DrChukki:
I believe TB Joshua is a real man of God.
I might be occultist man of God and still be doing miracles. Doing miracles alone don't only mean you are true son of God
aktolly54(m): 8:50pm On Jan 06, 2024
fergie001:
Debbie and her husband
did she confirm that hes her husband? Did you ask the guy on Twitter the pics they took together before you post it here as husband to Debbie
aktolly54(m): 11:52am On Jan 03, 2024
Elsucre24:
I will be 31 this year. Omo the age is scaring me and I keep feeling like I’m not doing enough. I have a stable job in the private sector with a 400k monthly salary. But I still feel the impact of the economy badly. I keep asking myself, at what point will I start living the good live?
I feel stock sometimes because my job is very demanding and I almost do not have time to do other things, mind you I’m in the medical field and I work Mondays to Sundays most times but occasionally I have some Sundays to myself and sometimes a day off during the week. I can’t seem to be able to start a business as a side hustle cause most of the side hustles I can think will demand my presence at least for the first few months and I don’t really have that.
My girlfriend is pregnant, I really wanna keep it but she’s not ready, I’m not even sure I’m ready. The only way she can keep it is if I’m going to get married to her before the pregnancy starts showing and I’m as confused as hell cos I don’t know if I’m ready. She has always been vocal of her plans to japa.
Now that brings me to the idea of Japa too. I mean, I cannot deny that fact that I’m scared of the whole japa stuff cos I don’t know what to expect. Economy doesn’t even allow you save as much as you should. Everything’s just seems very scattered.

Pls I need adult minds to advise me on what I can do.
1. Do I start a business, what kinda business can I start with at least 2M that will not require my full presence?
2. Do I start to plan my japa through the study route and just face my fears
3. Should I insist on keeping the pregnancy and hope that things start making sense? This means I have to get married tho.

Thank y’all.
so you don't have relatives who is unemployed? Then you employ outsiders then set up business with 2m, tell your GF to keep the pregnancy. Do traditional wedding, go court and finalize the thing while you suspend white wedding because of money then you continue your life till you save more and Japa. To leave country wont be hard for doctors like you so enjoy Nigeria small and save more.

Hope your wife understands the word save? Make she no be like extravagant girl
aktolly54(m): 11:46am On Jan 03, 2024
ufotunang:
.. which 10k.?.....it's 3k they use to buy votes
3k Jesus. And some pastor or Imam praying for this set of people.
aktolly54(m): 10:30am On Jan 03, 2024
So they can manipulate people with one cup of rice and 10k and buy vote again

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aktolly54(m): 9:07pm On Jan 02, 2024
Robinmido:
There is this grace that follows that boy that can't be comprehended
Grace? Make he swear he no dey do jazz then I will believe it's grace
aktolly54(m): 9:05pm On Jan 02, 2024
akube34:
I don’t understand. Should she marry who she is not attracted to? See the first is attraction. Others comes second
Ned not attracted Regina but she went ahead and Bleep old man and with time she love him
aktolly54(m): 7:04pm On Jan 02, 2024
Putinofrussia:

As an Igbo boy,let's give it to the Yorubas.
That Èfó riro is a bombilicious heavenly delicacy.
I mean igbo, Calabar and other south south and SE
aktolly54(m): 5:32pm On Jan 02, 2024
mistacoco2:
Hello guys,

For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.

I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.

Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year.
wrong steps and your life shattered before you. Think and pray before you take a steps. Involved your pastor who can journey with you in getting wife so you won't end up marry idiot as wife who will frustrate you when you finally relocate abroad with her and kids. Enjoy 200k as civil servant for now, try go into farming and watch things grow for you
aktolly54(m): 11:38am On Jan 02, 2024
Putinofrussia:
Yoruba.
Èfó riro will mesmerize and deliciouslize your entire being.
as a Yoruba boy, lets give it to igbo. They are trying. But amala and gbegiri with goat meat still my favorite.

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aktolly54(m): 1:41pm On Dec 30, 2023
emmancipated:
Beating Luton won't be easy for Chelsea.
Yes for Luton home, they are always mad and strong at home
aktolly54(m): 5:21pm On Dec 28, 2023
mariahAngel:
Pic. 2 Efo riro soup
Soup that go with swallow or rice is dope

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aktolly54(m): 11:03pm On Dec 27, 2023
Ireportlive:

sad


All what he has ever wanted. RIP Aketi .. Goodluck Ayedatiwa ..



..
It's what Constitution wanted. If oga is incapacitated then vice supposed take over
aktolly54(m): 10:09pm On Dec 27, 2023
jkpbestseries:

See a doctor for what? Drugs has no effect. Eat well be high minimally.

If you can control the addiction not everyone can maintain and control the addiction that come with cocaine. So it will ruin life more .
aktolly54(m): 9:41pm On Dec 27, 2023
jkpbestseries:
Show medical prove. Let me tell you. Drugs generate alot of revenue second to oil and gas and will be glad to see it legalised



You mean govt should legalize cocaine or weed? Hope you are okay? Check American street for young teenagers who is now something else due to excess intake of cocaine and some went as far as selling their property and homeless just to continue to take cocaine.

You need to see doctor for evaluation please

PS: weed is normal but cocaine is.....
aktolly54(m): 9:28pm On Dec 27, 2023
jkpbestseries:
Mention one person or you better keep quite


Whitney Houston died as a result of cocaine overdose.


https://projectknow.com/blog/15-famous-cocaine-addicts-and-why-they-used/
aktolly54(m): 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2023
jkpbestseries:
How many died of drugs that you know




not died but their life don't remain the same. Those American celebrities like who got addicted to drug end up being something else. Look malnourished and use all their savings to buy the drug
aktolly54(m): 11:08am On Dec 27, 2023
jkpbestseries:
So much money gone
so much life saved

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aktolly54(m): 11:02pm On Dec 26, 2023
FamTomx2:
Awesome souvenir that is better than 2 cups of rice and a half bottle of red oil.
it depends on how much they sell clothes for the party. Some sell 15 or 20k clothes for market for people at 45k or 40k . So sharing something like this is normal

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aktolly54(m): 3:34pm On Dec 25, 2023
DrFunmisticGlow:
Smoked basmati party jollof rice and turkey. Cooked outside with firewood.
Even I am impressed with the taste, now I smell like smoke.
Merry Christmas everyone O
you supposed mix small stew with the turkey. Like roughly grinding pepper stew
aktolly54(m): 8:39am On Dec 18, 2023
ChristianMuslim:
Naira Marley is back.. I miss you bro
fixed

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aktolly54(m): 11:11am On Dec 15, 2023
Righthussle:
Where dem dey buy this kind elder brother abeg?
thats job of mother, you raise children with love before you died.

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aktolly54(m): 11:06am On Dec 15, 2023
Noted

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aktolly54(m): 4:35pm On Dec 12, 2023
ahnie:
Yesterday we were craving beans n pap,I soaked the beans for like 30 minutes before boiling with hot-plate since there was light.

After putting everything,I said let me just rest a little ,that was how I dozed off due to lack of rest and adequate sleep.

Only to be jolted out of my sleep by smoke everywhere ,na so my beans take burn.

I had to save the savable part make I nor do 2 zeros in this teeth biting economy.

Imagine if I had used the gas na so I for take burn the entire house.







Na mistake you do by sleeping, always have friends who can help you monitor food while on fire. Unless you put excess water than normal which means the beans go boil and done while the water go still plenty. Don't do that mistake again please
aktolly54(m): 10:10am On Dec 09, 2023
Jeon:
70s and still acting like this?. Some people will never get sense, even though it's free.




What a life!!
when you are fucking your papa agemate, you think you make sense?

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aktolly54(m): 3:49pm On Dec 08, 2023
Christianoir:
I’ve been writing exam since i haven’t gotten any carryover…Just had one today God cry[u] cry cry I feel disgusted and ashamed.. since I started writing exams since Monday all my grade have been A throughout
It cbt exam once you finish writing you will see your score

I wrote and score 40/100 which is F (carryover)
The course wasn’t that hard..I read it, it was time
60 questions to answer 20min too small.

I don’t know what to do….this is my first
This is my first carryover course since
It breaking me down

I don’t even have to zeal to read for next course again
go kill yourself na idiot, as if you are the first person to get carryover . Proud and arrogant person who think carryover is for certain people. Better brace up and do it again
aktolly54(m): 3:33pm On Dec 07, 2023
yewit37486:


You are clearly talking based on your experience, but this, not everything is black and white, some men are frustrated, they start drinking, and out of frustration resort to beating their wives, even without the woman disrespecting him. Regardless, no one has a right to beat or murder another.
did I say the man has right to kill his wife? Calling cop on her husband is wrong and am sure she must be threatening the man that she(queen) owns UK and can deport the man back to Nigeria. No man will want to take nonsense like that from his wife whether you are the one that finance her travel or not. Man has ego and don't like it be bruise whether he's broke or not
aktolly54(m): 2:57pm On Dec 07, 2023
yewit37486:


You still did not answer the question o. If a woman's husband is beating her, what do YOU advice her to do?
what cause beating should be addressed. Once you respect a man, he won't beat you. Woman should learn to respect a husband. Whether he's broke or not. Okonjo eweala can't disrespect her husband because she is richer than him or more powerful. That's all
aktolly54(m): 2:24pm On Dec 07, 2023
chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people
to do DNA when you born. Take her back if you still love her and if no beyou disvurgun her. Make sure you move her to your location so there won't be room for cheating again but if you can't move her to your location then you better divorce her now because when she is in the mood and can't see you, she will cheat and delete evidence

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