NewStats: 3,263,158 , 8,179,283 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 09:17 PM 50263n

Electricity all year round, good weather, Salary/Payment as when due.

No Urgent 2k, everyone works for their money.

No park well

Tax Refund (Rebate)

Good environmental and long term sustainability plan.

He should be expelled and the police should investigate the" snails"

Declare a state of emergency and remove the governor. Who could try this with Obasanjo.The Governor lacks yhe emotional capacity

Irresponsible government..a jungle of a country..Officials who can even slap a judge.
DSS INTERVENES in every civil case
nonsense country

the guys father is my family uncle and a very nice man,right from when inwas a kid.
Tha groom is a kind boy too.

Its just an unfortunate incident

front door, side door,rear view...Vip Entarnce,first class,economy...however u wanna enter go and defend yourself.

GlorifiedTunde:
Don't raise your kids to fight, but raise them not to be bullied.

Tell your kids to return a slap if they're slapped, and be in their schools the next morning to defend them before the principal.

Growing up my dad would warn me and my brothers never to return home crying if bullied..and did not revenge..it was eye for an eye. in our days it was eye for an eye..

Without sentiments..the governor is an intellect. sound and very brilliant. I listened to his oratory during Aketi's burial and he did well
He should be given a chance He was my choice anyway.

The IGP launched an anti kidnapping squad weeks back,where are they...

South Africa lacks sportsmanship in everything. They are bad losers in everything. have an entitled mentality that takes them no where

CAF has alot to do. Daniel Amokachi had been a commentator in most Nigerian matches but he was swapped, durin the Angola match.again swapped with an S/A commentator who was so so biased right from
Kick off. I can never congratulate them.Let the DRC WHIP THEM

He dsnt want her simple,he has stepped up and and she's still living the village life..Calling someone Asha**o is so so low.

Not justifying his actions, but she is definitely an unclout and local woman

forget about her and focus on the kids. Even if the marriage ended through other means.

As a man discipline is all u need. Sex,love and attention from a woman can wait. Give yourself a reason to keep the move on.

The N/Army is a dirty place, soldiers who lack morals and integrity. Paedophiles.

The authorities will summon her to DC and dismiss her.

Nothing will come out of it.

IT is the same Nig Army that killed unarmed civilians during end sars,and nothing happened.

Even the Lag gov arrested one recently,it shows how irresponsible the organization is.

The Chief of Army staff,behaves like a clown and doesnt look like someone in charge.

Hav u done a scan for FIBROID

Dagger111:
In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my .

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a ive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

its not your story..this is an old story dating back over 3 years.. Nigerians and plagiarism.Learn to quote the original source.

Relocation
Restoration
Renewal
Revival
Reassurance

All these came to .

it waas the lizard episode that scared the hell out of me.

PPR FOR ME

1st Time Application,self applied saw stories about agents and put in all efforts.

Timeline

Application: 2nd July
Biometrics 11th July
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PPR: 13th July

11 Days!!

I wrote a comprehensive SOP myself,and learnt a lot from the gurus here. i want to thank everyone here,your success story is next.. All Glory to the most High

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KunleAkingbadeh:
There seems to be a perversion in this judgement. It is more or less as if the girl was discharged & acquitted in this very complex murder case.

How can the defense Counsel & the Prosecution Counsel appealed to the court to tender justice with mercy on her own case in their respective Allocutus?

They said that she provided missing links to the hidden facts of the case and she took on a sober posture. How?

Is this not the same receptionist who earns over 100k monthly at her duty post?

Which 3-Star hotel in this part of the world, even in Lagos pays their receptionists over 100k monthly?

There seems to be a twist in her Judgement. All is well!

The prosecution already got a conviction and not a request for a death penalty,being convicted is like a living dead..only the governor or president can grant a pardon..which she may unlikely get.

ShowYoung:


Even 9m will get you into Canada if you strategize on it very well.

Let me give you the analysis;

Tuition fee $18,000 for a one-year course
Living Expenses $10,000/yr.
Miscellaneous Expenses $3000.
TOTAL: $31,000. Using the official CBN rate of $1/345, this is equal to NGN 10,695,000.

Meanwhile, the tuition fee quoted above is one of the most expensive because you can get a one-year course for as little as $10,000+.

The above is not based on theory but practical.

pls how do u calculate this am havin probs wit my Pof analysis

The original occupants of the building since late 80s was SSS now DSS. It was later when Obj created EFCC that they started occupyimg the building.All federal parastatals were to move to Abuja.The fear of 15 Awolowo Rd in those days

ade279:
Hello everyone, please does anyone know how I can pay my tuition fees for university of Manitoba using Form A?

Dnt even try it,just use black market. My school called and said payments from Nigeria gives them issues

12 days to go...e no reach two weeks

Highly irresponsible dude is he the only fela Dynasty.or d first to smoke igbo.

look@femi,imade,yeni and the rest,...Let them jail him.

She already has someone over there..leave her bro you have lost her..telling a woman u need to formalise things is a total turn off.
Find your own path,whats d big deal in Us.

Truly u are not mentally ready for wedding. U both are just on a survival path. u are going to a place where u can't work..even those earning still complain.
Let ur logic speak for you and not emotions. Leave her she's not yours

Am sure shes a nairalander too

A man that can slap a cop in the presence of his wife and kids.

Still living on his father's legacy..you dont have to follow what your parents did to still be recognised.

Can he do that to an american or russian cop. Nigeria may seem lawless but there are some things u dnt try abroad thay we tolerate here.

I salute my country men.

He acknowledged d reporter...its the same journalists that wil condem u if u flip