NewStats: 3,265,235 , 8,186,092 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 01:11 AM 23396j

ekt_bear:

Reason why this came up is because my buddy met this girl over the weekend. She is sexy as ffffuuuu. Tall, skinny but thick in the right places, beautiful smile, etc. Only issue is she has a 4 year old daughter.

Thing is, he is a single father too himself, so isn't really concerned. I was just thinking to myself wondering what I'd do in the situation.

So that's y u decided 2 come waste our time and internet subscription on such a trivial matter like this right. Next time when I am thinking of how cold ice-cream is these days I will come start a thread here,

ssemire:

now it adds up. i pray your sanity is restored in time to face the firing squad. have fun and go to bed

thunder fire ur ass,

ssemire:

i find it weird that you have lost touch with your youth soteey it took you about 10 years to recognise your school mate. ignorance is not always bliss and in your case i will think it tends to something else cos even if you have been outside Nigeria for 15 years, there is no way you will not have heard of basket mouth, except you are not a nigerian

I am Nigerian born, but spent a lot of time outside naija in a psychiatric ward and several rehab centers. I hope 2 get back in touch with the real world real soon. By the way I wonder how u came up with all these figures,

This guy looks like Bright Okocha, my classmate from sec. sch. Dont tell me this guy is now a naija celeb,

I have met 2 of my gfs on the internet. We r no longer bf and gf now but still very good friends,

Wonders shall never. But its all good, at least it gives naija house wives and buzzy body girls what 2 talk about at gossip meetings and at the hair dressing saloon. Not 4getting NLanders that r always sitting at their computer waiting 4 the next buzz,

"Our Strength lies in our Diversity"
I think this statement will be put 2 the highest level of test. Let's wait and c how it goes, at this rate naija will crumble very soon,

I am sure this was written 2 9jafetish girl. Looks like the kind of things her future bf can do,

9jafetish:


happy birthday sweety pie

Thanks a lot. Ur a nice girl 2day, just 4 2day. Since 2day is my bd i will play nice la. But I cant vouch 4 2morrow sha.

9jafetish:


me and you will one day become best frds i know that. i will tell you when i am in nigeria.

Small girl. Let's b honest here, we both know fully well that all ur activities on NL have been full of lies just like the lady in question here in the topic being discussed. U earlier said that u pity any girl that comes close 2 me, y do u wanna put urself in those shoes. All girls r liars. All liars r thieves. I hate liars. I hate thieves,

kings33:

Next time you look before you leap, stocking is not only a girl thing or expression of doubt. dont trust girls anymore with their fabricated age', recently I found out that my girl friend was actually [b]33 months older than [/b]I against the one year younger she had claimed.

33 months is 2 years and 9 months [approximately 3 years older]. Just take heart and b courageous. I feel ur pain. But don't loose hope in women completely; good and honest 1s still exists. Though they r very few and hard 2 find,

9jafetish:

akan sounds like a ghanaian boy

I was almost taking u serious b4 i ed that ur the kid with multiple disorders. Fetish naija girl,

ogugua88:

There is no proof as to which gender lies more. So, to you and your type, I will say this: either say that it's a woman's world and men are pawns, or tell yourself and your fellow males to take some self-responsibility. No amount of lying or deception can ever warrant infidelity.

Believe me ladies tell more lies in a relationship. Guys lie only when its necessary just 2 keep the lady happy. Like that my friend i talked about earlier said "Many guys will go 2 hell 4 telling a lady that she is beautiful" Girls lie about big and delicate issues and after they r caught feel no remorse. All they do is say "so what's the big deal?" We shud stop using the line "Let he who is without sin cast the 1st stone" 2 cover up 4 our low moral standards and the low depths ladies r willing 2 delve just 2 get what they want,

The album is just like his name; childish. Most parts of it has a huge resemblance 2 a primary school music assignment,

@Ogugua88

Impressed with ur ability 2 use the bold case function. Thumbs up! But don't go patting urself on the back feeling like a genius.

Both men and women lie quite alright. But ladies r serial liars. Desperate ladies looking 4 a husband by any means necessary r more dangerous and deadly and will lie their way 2 the marriage bed if they have 2 believing that once they get the man hooked there is no way out. Thats y many men r unfaithful these days coz they get pissed off with their wives after they get 2 discover that everything was built on lies.

I am advising the poster 2 go ahead with the marriage coz he wont b the 1st and neither wil he be the last. There r many like him that have fallen in2 that trap of deception, him backing out makes no difference considering that there r over 140 million people in naija,

It surprises me how all the ladies on this forum r saying that he shud go ahead with the marriage. My friend has been telling me 4 years that all ladies r liars and I found it hard 2 believe him, but 2day I confirm it 4 myself. Ladies ing their partner in crime. So this is what desperation has turned the average naija lady in2. Pathetic I must say.

Back 2 the topic of this thread;
@Poster
Since the love was sharking 2 much that u decided 2 rush in2 marriage after few weeks of dating, y do ya wanna back out now. If I had advised u earlier 2 chill u would have thot that I have an ulterior motive 4 saying so. I really wonder how hard it was 2 c that she looks older than she claims 2 b. It means u probably never talked about stuffz like when she was born, began primary school, secondary school, etc. or did she lie about all of that also.

I think u shud go ahead with the marriage. It will help u learn a lot about life,

Most of these MOG began with a true calling and as faithful servants. But some got blinded by riches and derailed along the way. Reinhard Bonke is the 1 Evangelist I will ever live 2 respect. Can't ever 4get my encounter with Christ during 1 of his crusades in 2000. Reinhard Bonke and Billy Graham r the only 2 Evangelist have had only 1 message throughout their years of ministry [That is the message of salvation]. I keep saying this and ppl keep telling me that diff MOG have diff callings. I want 2 believe that the MOG on TV where called 2 preach the prosperity gospel [if that kind of gospel truly does exist].

Every man 2 his own way abeg, I can't carry the cross of the world. Every1 shud look up 2 Jesus 4 direction on which church 2 attend and which minister 2 listen 2. Preachers these days seem 2 never preach the salvation message, all they do is use 3 minutes after their sermon 2 make an alter-call 4 peeps 2 give their life 2 Christ if the want 2 enjoy all the blessings that were outlined in the message. I think ppl shud b called 2 repentance coz of Jesus and what Jesus did 4 each and every 1 of us and not so that 1 can start enjoying the blessing.

This is an issue that will never have a logical conclusion coz the world is evolving everyday and more fraudsters r emerging and devising more intelligent ways 2 look real,

God's work like Jesus mention in the Great Commission in Matt 28: 19, 20.

"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in† the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."

I believe most of these MOG r doing this,

To assume that all these MOG made their money through church offerings is just a general assumption. We r well aware that rich church member do bless their MOG with items like cars, houses and lands. They also make money through the sales of their books, guest appearances, love offerings, gifts, etc. I ain't saying that they r all clean by the way. But I do believe all this controversies aside, most of these men r really doing God's work,

come here smallie! make a yarn am 4 better naija english. If this thing na play make e stop. If u no get anything 2 do abeg go lick soap. If u wanna b a big joker pls dont drag me in2 it,

9jafetish:

lol how am i scamming ppl what am i scamming from them? i never asked for money i just asked for advice.


and i would love it if you watched me  , and no i am very very smart.

yeah i guess u can say free internet since my parents buy my internet for me.

I don't even wanna go in2 the grammatical/lexical structure of all ur posts especially this 1. U r probably not from an English speaking environment. U cud b an Ivory Coast kid who just arrived Nigeria during the civil unrest in ur country 4 all I care.

But just a word of advice, u cant buy internet. U can pay 4 internet access or subscribe 2 an internet service ok. It's so easy 4 me 2 read u coz u leave lots of clues. U have repeated/over stressed some words in each and every 1 of ur posts,

I can't believe peeps actually fell 4 this scam. I think some1 needs 2 post a topic on "how 2 spot a jobless fool who stumbled on free internet and decided 2 become a nuisance on internet forums".

I will b keeping a close eye 2 spot what 9jafetish's next move on NL will b. I know he/she is dumb and will actually do something stewpid next,

Taking this excerpt 4 examples

"In 2007, Senator Chuck Grassley opened a probe into the finances of six televangelists who preach a "prosperity gospel". The probe investigated reports of lavish lifestyles by televangelists including: fleets of Rolls Royces, palatial mansions, private jets and other expensive items purportedly paid for by television viewers who donate due to the ministries' encouragement of offerings. The six that were investigated are:

Kenneth Copeland and Gloria Copeland. Creflo Dollar and Taffi Dollar. Benny Hinn. Eddie L. Long. Joyce Meyer and David Meyer and Randy White and ex-wife Paula White."

It has already been assumed that these M/WOG use money they collect from TV viewers who r coerced 2 make donations 2 live a lavish lifestyle. Meaning the money is not use 4 the intended purpose of spreading the gospel. This might be true or not. I am just giving an example since u asked 4 1. I have not intentions of starting a new line of argument here.

9jafetish is surely a big scam. Most of his/her post on this and other threads on NL don't correlate. Function of idleness and free internet access I guess. I find it hard 2 believe that this has generated all this buzz. The earlier peep avoid this kind of thread the earlier b4 guys start getting their mindset messed up esp with talk of ppl dying in their 40s and cancer being real,

dare2think:

Akan1,

I agree with your post except for the statement "only God can Judge". 
Nice post though.

Thanks 4 the commendation. But I wud like 2 straighten something out concerning the "Let God Judge" statement. I was actually referring to those being accused of what is yet to be proven as fact. Ppl c a MOG who looks successful and start saying all sorts of evil things about him.

2 illustrate what I really mean. Take 4 instance I do find a MOG molesting 1 of my kids [male or female], believe me I really wud not care who that MOG is, i wont even care if its some1 who professes 2 worship satan. I will definitely b taking whoever that unfortunate guy is 2 "the ghetto university". So I hope u get my point,

The problems with we humans is that most of us were brought up 2 never question religious authority. Ppl of old like Lutheran that question the religious authorities of old were labelled as rebels, tyrants and so on. Some where burnt alive, hanged or exiled. Jesus Christ himself who taught the ppl doctrines contrary 2 wat was the religious norm at that time was Crucified. So it really does not surprise me how sacred peeps choose 2 carry these MOG.

No wonder our own Rev. King was flogging, punishing and burning his .

4 me personally I showed so much reference 4 these MOG earlier. I know many of them r not guilty of what they r being accused of but Bishop Eddie definitely is. I really cant vouch 4 any1 anyway but every1 can't all b part of a deceptive system. Though I still feel 1 shud not castigate or speak evil concerning about a man who professes 2 b a MOG without a legitimate reason 2 do so. We shud all let God be the judge. But there is nothing wrong in helping the lost and helpless c the light.

I think our problem is that most of us are extremist. We all need 2 practice whatever we choose 2 with a certain level of moderation and always keep an open mind. God gave every1 1 brain and the ability 4 it 2 function independent of every other brain. I think we need 2 start making use of it also,

bknight:

an average guy awaits his chances patiently either 4 dat moment wen u'r so lonely/he fakes his own loneliness or awaits your breakup, however way -SEX! a guy reasons we can stil b friends after sex. 4a guy no such thin as 'platonic friends' except u dnt visit each oda n neva in lone places. Yes, i had platonic friends in my 'jew' years in uni.so close we were dt i later figured their bfs must've thot me really harmless. And one finally told me she was attracted to me back then bt i was too blind.one of my peeps had dis platonic girl 4 yrs. She eventually seduced him;-) Was it queen latifah/monique had one for 20ys finally they married:-D So leave adults out of it! U ladies ask 4 too much u cant eat your cake n hv it!!

U might still b a Jew guy 4 all we know

mrghost:

Mmmmm, I have an ebook that could help, reach me here [email protected], hope this helps her.

Mr. Ghost! Chill with that ebook yarns abeg. Do u think ur the only here that has an ebook? Or u think others that have decided 2 respect ourselves and face reality r not wise abi. Kids or shud a say Child Ghosts of nowadays get 2 much wahala,

The honest truth is that it depends on what attracted/brought the 2 ppl together. I know ppl can become friends with no such intentions at 1st but after getting closer and getting fond of each other thots of sex/relationship might come in2 play. But the way I c it is that if what the 2 like about each other has nothing 2 do with being an opposite sex then such things might never come in2 play no matter how sexually attractive the boy/girl might b.

@Poster
Ur not the 1st 2 make a 3rd Class and neither will u b the last. I think ur in a much more better position 2 make it in life because u will realize that success depends on u and what lies inside of u, unlike those with good grades that rely on their certificate and put all their faith and hope in it and make it their point of boasting.

What I will advice u 2 do is 4get all the stories u have heard about life being hard or that u will have 2 work extra hard 2 make it. Every1's story can't be the same because every1's level of enlightenment is not the same. I hope making a 3rd class in school will help u c the light faster. What lies inside of every individual is much greater than any force on earth. U need 2 have a mindset thats built 4 success. Like I said u dont need 2 make any extra effort, all u need is 2 come 2 realization or should I say see the light,

Your place of success might lie where u always knew it wud b or where u least expect,

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Thats y a farmer from a village living in a rich neighbourhood will stil end up attracting a like [mayb market woman or female farmer]. Likewise, a Senator's son is likely 2 get attracted 2 a Legislator's daughter. My point exactly is that she is attracting her kind or shud I say what she thinks about most often. If she constantly thinks of guys running away because of her money [which 2 me is no money at all, i got friends much younger earning 200k/month and above and I feel not intimidated] then that will continue 2 b her lot. Also she has the believe that because she is working in a Bank in Onitsha that its only Traders that r available. That she got wrong also. There r corporate/career men and women everywhere no matter how big or small the town is. After all, how did she herself get there. 2 cut the long story short, the kind of guy she wants is readily available, she needs 2 change her mindset and belief system and also get the Financially Comfortable thing off her mind. She needs 2 feel comfortable with herself and know that she needs not some1 else 2 feel complete. No human being male or female wants 2 b with some1 who feels insecure, inadequate, incomplete, etc,

Comments on this thread plus insults I have had 2 receive has led me 2 do a further research in2 the working of TV Evangelist most especially and the no. of scandals I have come across is really incredible. I seem 2 have seen some aspect of the light concerning these MOG. I even got 2 learn that Dr Albert Odulele is currently serving jail time in London 4 sex crimes. Dr Albert Odulele clearly has the looks of a clean guy. I really wonder what notorious looking Bishop E.L. is actually capable of. The story of these 4 boys might just b the 1st in a series that might go on 4 long except if every1 else will b paid 2 b silence b4 they ever get 2 break the news 2 the public.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_evangelist_scandals

God S.O.Ss, I really don't know what this world is turning in2, All pastors r now preaching about paying of tithe and sowing of seeds if u need a breakthrough,