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It an old comment, decided to make it a topic, then decided again to delete it and replace it with this one.

Peace be unto pansophist.

Please sir, can you help me with a step by step process to get to Finland on a school visa. Or Better still can I send a dm sir.

Your time is much appreciated..

pansophist:


If its the west, then Europe.

If in the Ecowas, then Ivory coast.

If in Eurasia, then Russia.

If in Asia, then China.

If in South America, then Panama, but if you like big arse countries, then Brazil.

If within Nigeria, then Abuja.

In Africa, then South Africa.

Thanks bro. I do appreciate your time.

pansophist:


Is money not a problem?

it is boss. Looking at 5-6million

pansophist:


Japa.

If japa boss. What will be your advice on where to??

pansophist:
Riddle me this ladies.

If they show you wigs, one has been worn 69 times by 69 different women, or the one that was worn 69 times by just one woman, which one will you buy?

I guess some advocates of body count doesn't matter will buy the wig that was work by 69 women as better because the wig have experience. Lol

Good morning pansophist.
What will you advice a young struggling Nigerian,not married yet. Between japa and building a business in Nigeria??

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Am just a replica of this your experience. I think I dated her for two years 2019 through 2020. Babe was a 8. Was hot with that Nicky Minaj shape. I was also choosen. Funny has it may be then too. I knew about the redpill, was following ubunja and Martinez then too. Let down my guard, choose to be a man and got burnt. But, my was still fair because of the redpill knowledge I had then. Didn't invested much in the relationship. All in all shall babe started cheating and I decide to walk away.

One thing I make out of that experience. Falling in love or been romantically emotional with woman is not a good trait for men. You are totally out of your masculinity. You become so effeminized. I think this was properly talked about in one of ubunja miseducation.

Never will I be in that state of emotions again! Never!

CAPSLOCKED:


ARE YOU SURE? I'VE FACED THE HIGHEST CRITICISM BY MILES IN THAT REGARD BOTH HERE AND ON OTHER THREADS BY STRANGERS WHO MENTION ME THERE REGARDING THE THINGS I SAY HERE.
WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS TRUE. BUT THE RULES WILL CHANGE HENCEFORTH. ONE SNIDE REMARK TO A PERSON'S PERSONAL ESCAPADE AND WE'LL TREAT THAT PERSON LIKE WE TREAT TROLLS.

MY INBOX IS ALSO OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ANONYMOUSLY SHARE AN ISSUE THAT I'LL PRESENT HERE. THINGS HAVE TO CHANGE AROUND HERE, FOR MORE THAN HALF THE MEN READING THIS ARE SUFFERING AND DYING IN SILENCE WITHOUT KNOWING HOW TO ASK FOR HELP.

I think this should be the hallmark of this thread now. People should share daily experience and situation that get them confuse in their day to day experience with woman. We are humans, we cannot know it all. We are bound to make mistakes. I for once, on several occasions would have love to share my experiences and ask questions. But with the way the thread is fashion lately, this has made me reframe from doing such to avoid orishishi talk.

I hope the dynamism of the thread change thou. To accommodate and enable guys to share their daily experience and seek solutions that will go a long way to educate other peeps if face with the same situation.

Ladyhart:

Gotten one?

not yet oo. Can you help??

pansophist:


Haaa, na competition? I'll give you an example how I broke reach.

If I walk by a bank jejely, the security alarm goes on. I no enter o, I just de . My presence de start alarm. Your situation worse reach like this ?

Do giveaway na, abeg.

if na this level you dey Your own better now. Just small alarm ?? People like us na military armour tank den dey use safeguard the bank if we dey near bank....

Happy Sunday and a fruitful week ahead bro.

pansophist:


Don't envy me abeg. I broke scatter. I need help

lol if you broke then people like us broke, scatter com pieces .

pansophist:



Early early 30's

wow! Wow! This age with so much knowledge... That's Amazing. My thought was late 30's or early 40's. I envy you sir.

pansophist:


There is no conflict between my point and your point, moreover, I agree with everything you said, which i made very clear in my first response to you. I am elaborating on how the world works, even accross species, culture, and time. The dynamics of being a good person in a context of not been used.

Your submission was in the context of romantic relationship, and I agree with what you wrote, but I'm saying something different. But you touched an angle I'm interested in. About why bad things happen to good people. I'll attempt to answer (regardless if you're asking a question).

Good or bad things happens to everyone regardless of their moral uprightness. The chicken we chew every single day did nothing wrong to us, but they die in their billions annually. Meanwhile the mosquitoes that has actually killed more people than covid gets to roam the planet freely. Good or bad (a subset of morality) is a construct of the mind, the universe doesn't care nor operate in that rhythm.

You can be the most wickedest' douchbag on the planet and good things will still happen to you (and/or bad thing of course), while a lifelong vegan than is not only harmless but good may be poor all his life, and his only son killed by a motor accident. The world doesn't care, it operate on its own rhythm. Hence every religious and philosophical books agree on one thing, and it is that life is suffering. Suffering in the context of existential suffering. You just can't run away from it.

So when bad things happen to good people, the question I'll ask them is, "why do you think being good somehow exempt you from the suffering of life"? Instead of saying "why me"? I ask, "why not you"? One does good because its the ideal method to live in the world and be at peace with your neighbours, but it is not a shield from bad things happening to them. Our individual problems are so inconsequential in the grand scheme of things, and for one to think that the universe care because he is suffering has no idea how meaningless life is in the first place.

commenting on nairaland today for a very long time because of your wisdom sir. Just want to ask you a simple and straightforward question.

How old are you sir?
You might not want to answer this here ooo. But just a clue of your age bracket will be fine. Thanks

Are you guys still in business?? If yes. What's your rate now??

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Are they removable to another apartment??

Viking007:
Holla,

Having been on Nairaland for almost 7yrs+, I think it's fair I let Nairalanders know even though I'm a very private person.

The wedding is on the 16th January, here in Abuja.

Free rice & chicken for the first 5 comments.

Congratulations bro!! That's a courageous move thou. Wishing you all the best in your marriage.

Btw, your face is contrary to your comment and moniker thou.

Once again have a blissful union.

Evening boss! Please do you also deal in sound?

Let me pitch my tent here and wait for the elders before I comment.

Kingroad:
The OP is a weakling with too many memorized theories from Reddit and YouTube. He is good at bringing the heat and abusing people, but can't bear it when given to him. That is pure beta behavior and his insecurity is obvious.

He thought he knows what others don't when in truth, he just read them from somewhere and paraphrased them without real-life experiences. He even claimed he'll create a YouTube channel and post real day-gaming videos. It's all audio bragging to get people hooked and take them private to scam them.

After some months of taking people private, he will get tired and start trying to charge them money. He wasn't here to help, but to brag about "game" and how he knows it better and how others are betas and he's a real gamer.

Hungry simp who just found "game" during this lockdown (5 months ago) and soon to be a scammer.

I didn't bother reading his childish rants above because he is too emotional to be man.

You guys should take a look at a real man — his name is Amdman in auto section. Abuse him all you like and he won't reply you and if he manages to reply you, he won't abuse you back. That is a real man, not this audio alpha male gamer with too many theories he stole online (5 months ago) from books, Reddit, and YouTube without real experience.

The OP is a hungry gamer with nothing (but memorized theories he crammed online) to offer.

you saw it all bro..that guy has nothing to offer. Just an empty barrel

Rozz:
see comments so far,closing your legs as a lady will go a long way for your own good,dont be deceived by any sweet words from these men,it is their erection speaking and not truly them.

speaking from experience of so many erection I guess

Guy what's wrong with you??

I don vex I no dey talk again self �

Let's wait for the elders

4ckz:


Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

I can boldly tell you that the sex most men get from there wife when they were dating was much more than what they get during marriage. I stand to be corrected thou!

In most case self some boyfriends don Bleep the babe the husband self..wetin I sabi

Silasloaded:
Bro Agp 19 you have given me a word although i know that am handsome but this thing you said is all i need to hear all this while thanks Gee thanks brother you are a genius

bro thats just the truth ooo. Even the extremely fine guys self gals dey use dem shine..so na to just dey your lane dey do your thing. The babes go come I swear.

There's nothing sweet as been woo by a lady is one of the best feeling in the world. They make everything easier for you.

All my life from secondary school till now wey we dey hustle dey work all the gals have dated ask me out.even down to my present girlfriend. But the once wey i woo. hummmm long story, na them go drain your energy las las den no go gree.

So guys no matter how ugly u think you are. Which I know no man is ugly. There is a girl out there crushing on you. just take your time she will come your way. it hurt me when I see guys dey mumu for woman.

Nezzjnr:
Your parents have been married for more than 2 decades now

Yet you still feel Marriage is a scam

I think you guys are going over board on this

yes!! that's true because back in the days individual roles in marriage are well stated and everbody knows his or her own role. No conflict for who holds the control knob.

The woman knows her role for keeping the home, nurturing the kids and providing the man with good sex while the man makes provision for the house hold. So you see they both need eachother

But now feminist and mgtow or what are they call has taking over. The woman feels she can provide for herself and leave life without a man and likewise the man feels he can have kids without been trap by just one woman and have multiple sex partner. You see, that's where we find ourself.

I fear this is just the beginning. The worst is fucking kissing us on our forehead.

And so many other reason!

Nbote:
If he was smart enough to make U fall in luv with him den he's smart enough to b ur boyfriend.. Thing is U've found someone much more sociable dan he is and U are now beginning to see flaws.. If U have lost interest in the relationship jus waka and leave d young man alone

seun abegs allow us to dey double like comment abeg

There are some comment you just wish u could like ten times.

Once you are in a relationship and you are having second thought or an option, that's the end of the relationship, because whatever happened in that relationship no matter how little it is you will make big Mountain out of it even when it can be trash.

To be sincere you got the relationship to that toxic state because you had an option.

tesseract:
You want us to help you convince yourself that you breaking up with him is alright abi?

Ok, please break up with him and let us rest. SMH. Let me get this straight...

You were in a relationship, but you allowed some other dude to toast you very well and slowly you lost your emotional touch with your former boyfriend, so you left him.
You don't seem to know how the mind works.

You had been cheating emotionally and you're finally cheated physically, Now that you are double dating, you feel it's OK to ghost him, maybe he will forget about you.

Finally, you don't want him to leave you but you want to leave him you think you're smart, but all I see here is the most confused person ever. How old are you again?

You already tried your former boyfriend and judged him before us, now you want us to help you do is to validate your decision to mess this other relationship up right? Ok you have done well.

Please do what ever the hell you want to do.

I may have misunderstood your write up, because you are not quite expressive.

best response so far.