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hey folks,i need ur advise.

i met a girl in the early part of 2006 and we started dating ever since until she left the country later that year.the main reason why i need your help is to clear some doubts on me mind.she told me she was 18 yrs old then guess i thot i was two years older than her.the funny part abt the relationship was that she never allowed me kiss her not to talk of sex.i hardly hug her at times.i noticed she became secretive.i read one of her mails, that was before she travelled thats she was 21yrs old but i never asked i thot she was just lieing.i really loved her so much that i never created any room in my heart to doubt her.
when she wanted to travel she told me two hours before her flight.i was really speechless but i cudnt do anything but watch.she never kalled for the next 7 months.she kalled my friend and gave him her no. to give me after unlimited mails i ve sent to her.i did kal her just to clear my mind that i have tried.she gave excuses normally and i boned.shit happens.
she kals once in a while and later never kal again.it just dawn on me that she might be older than i am and she is just toying wit me.i dont need her money all i just want is to talk to her.i have decided to free her finally or wat do you guys think.i cant love any other girl like her.or do i plan a tit 4 tat for her

Walk away

You may think you're dating her but she's clearly not dating you.
You may call her just to let her know that you've woken up and walking away, but from what? you guys never really dated.

I can't see a girlfriend here.

From all indications, she's not even taking you seriously.

I think you should snap out of your day dreams and face reality. She's not into you a bit.

Please my dear poster, you can't "free'' something or someone you never had! Get your senses back. You are getting way too carried away!

solo relationship

iice:

solo relationship

thats a new one!

iice:

solo relationship

[size=13pt]New indeed. iice did you invent this?[/size]

[size=13pt]It sounds as you had a relationship with her while she had none with you. Now the scales are off your eyes, MOVE ON BROTHER. Look for love elsewhere[/size]

iice:

solo relationship

Sure it is. One person believing, the other enjoying.

branded ben,
you are not the brand i know, why call her when she cudnt give you her number directly, are you sure she isnt tripping for your friend? you shouldnt have bothered, afterall she had your number before she left if she was interseted in you she would call or send a mail, you probably made a mistake calling her, you should have told your friend you dont need her number, because it seems to me she is closer to your friend.

walk down the next street, (an)other girl(sssssssssssz) are waiting for you

Man this babe has actually freed you, so advising you to bone her would be a waste of time, just forget you ever met her.Period!

jkpretty:

Sure it is. One person believing, the other enjoying.

thats a classic definition!

Stop assuming u have a girlfriend, find out for sure. You dont even know how old your girlfriend is, that gives me the impression she was just a friend. Life abroad is not usually easy and phone calls can be expensive so she could be justified for not calling.
My advice is for u to call and speak to her, find out what exactly is her plan, be open with her, explain that u will not be mad at her but u really need to know your stance.
She'll tell you, it may not be what u wanna hear so u need to brace yourself. At the end of the call, u can can make sure it is not a hostile end to your friendship or relationship, u can end up remaining friends.

are u sure you did not start falling in love with her the moment you heard she was travelling out?May be the poor girl did not really feel you when she was around, definitely you will love again.Guy,I know your problem, u wan die 4 babe wey dey yankee because u sef go like yankee one day.The girl has known all your tricks;she refuses to be a maga.But if your symptoms persist for more than 3months u fit try juju.

Why is he spelling call with a 'k'?

Quietly walk away bro.

Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans.

Trust me you will forget her and love someone else even more but before you do eh use your head.

Meanwhile, there isn't anything special about her, you were at fault for making her feels she is being special or anything because there isn't really anything special about her trust me.

BlogRabbit:
Quietly walk away bro.

Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans.

Trust me you will forget her and love someone else even more but before you do eh use your head.

Meanwhile, there isn't anything special about her, you were at fault for making her feels she is being special or anything because there isn't really anything special about her trust me.

Ahahahah you're responding to a post that happened more than 12 years ago lol didn't you check the year? They've probably forgotten about each other's existence.

brandedben:
hey folks,i need ur advise.

i met a girl in the early part of 2006 and we started dating ever since until she left the country later that year.the main reason why i need your help is to clear some doubts on me mind.she told me she was 18 yrs old then guess i thot i was two years older than her.the funny part abt the relationship was that she never allowed me kiss her not to talk of sex.i hardly hug her at times.i noticed she became secretive.i read one of her mails, that was before she travelled thats she was 21yrs old but i never asked i thot she was just lieing.i really loved her so much that i never created any room in my heart to doubt her.
when she wanted to travel she told me two hours before her flight.i was really speechless but i cudnt do anything but watch.she never kalled for the next 7 months.she kalled my friend and gave him her no. to give me after unlimited mails i ve sent to her.i did kal her just to clear my mind that i have tried.she gave excuses normally and i boned.shit happens.
she kals once in a while and later never kal again.it just dawn on me that she might be older than i am and she is just toying wit me.i dont need her money all i just want is to talk to her.i have decided to free her finally or wat do you guys think.i cant love any other girl like her.or do i plan a tit 4 tat for her

Oga stop talking nonsense and go back to school,
After reading this trash I developed headache