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Smartcitizen:
It's a psychological thing my dear and it's coming from your thoughts.

I'm saying this because it has happened to me before too for years.

My advice is simple but you may think it's not possible;


Close your eyes whenever you are banging your wife and imagine that you are banging a woman you so much have sexual affection for and you will see what will happen.


It's common and funny but it has worked for many people ing through the same challenge like you.

Good luck.

Thanks for your suggestion. But that presupposes that I already got an erection and entered into the art with her and now wanted to SUSTAIN the love making art. Then the imagining thing would work. In this case once I come close to her even if I already have an erection it will suddenly die. If by any chance am able to penetrate hoping to use such an imagination tactics to harden and sustain the doing, the thing will ejaculate within 10 to 30 seconds and die, end of story.

Divorce your wife and Marry another woman.

Greatmec:


Thanks for your suggestion. But that presupposes that I already got an erection and entered into the art with her and now wanted to SUSTAIN the love making art. Then the imagining thing would work. In this case once I come close to her even if I already have an erection it will suddenly die. If by any chance am able to penetrate hoping to use such an imagination tactics to harden and sustain the doing, the thing will ejaculate within 10 to 30 seconds and die, end of story.

High chance your ''wife'' is seeing another man who is into juju

There's what is called TÉSÒÓ that is spiritually placed on women to kill the penile erection of any other man who wants to have s£x with them.

ChybuzzDD:


Have you tried using drugs like viagra?

This is an interesting question.
Yes I have used something similar to Viagra . It's called Re-vive from Kedi Healthcare, and the thing actually worked like magic.
I discovered this Re-vive like 2 years ago and we tried it. It worked very well. I was happy that I have found a solution of sorts at least for the mean time until I find a permanent solution. But being that all the cases of men that die in a hotel room after sex rump with a lady always has a sex enhancement pills at the background I was scared. Went to their office and they reassured me that the drug is not toxic. So I relaxed.

Problem started with my wife again. She has to agree for sex before I take the pills. She would only manage to agree once in a month or once in 2 months.

After so much discussion and problem over this issue I finally gave her a financial sanction as I can't be doing everything to make her happy and comfortable while she keeps withholding the one thing that would make me happy.

When the sanctions started bitting her she told me that these pills are not a permanent solution, what if it stopped working. I said it has always worked, let's keep using it till I find a permanent solution.

Curiously 2 days later she said - YES I should take the pills. I was happy and took it. But strangely the pills failed woefully like I didn't take anything. Ah ah I couldn't understand. Next 2 days I took it again, another total failure. She said I told you. Haba . Am now like we are back to square one. But these pills used to work na. I can't understand how all of a sudden it stopped working.

That's my story with sex enhancement drugs oh. What do you make of it ..

Tenshades:


High chance your ''wife'' is seeing another man who is into juju

There's what is called TÉSÒÓ that is spiritually placed on women to kill the penile erection of any other man who wants to have s£x with them.

If not that I know my wife in and out this is the only conclusion that would have made sense.
I believe someone might have placed something like that TESOO on her. But I don't think she has any male lover. Maybe it's a fetish male irer or a wicked girlfriend that vowed to destroy her marriage or something like that.

Now my question is - if something like this TESOO is involved one way or the other how do I destroy this charm on her and or me and be free.

Greatmec:


If not that I know my wife in and out this is the only conclusion that would have made sense.
I believe someone might have placed something like that TESOO on her. But I don't think she has any male lover. Maybe it's a fetish male irer or a wicked girlfriend that vowed to destroy her marriage or something like that.

Now my question is - if something like this TESOO is involved one way or the other how do I destroy this charm on her and or me and be free.

Consult herbal practitioners or spiritualists of your tribe.

Oga; don't underate women, if offended emotionally they can do anything for revenge even if it's going to affect them.

Does your wife knew that you experience this only when you want to have sex with her?
If yes, then it's from your wife.

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying she has charmed you but possibly you've offended her.

Avoid going around seeking for solution. If not you'll waste your time and money.

If you have elderly women (reliable one) around you, just seek for their advise.

ufy4success:


🤣😂 make I follow you laugh.

Na so we see am🤣😂 but truth dey hard to accept🤣😂

No lady will comfortably do charm on any married man for 8 years so he won't have an erection for his wife..
No lady will do charm on a married man to not have an erection for his wife for 8 years...
And he says his wife is not even bothered about the situation.
My two cent; Op seek therapy, there is no charm here. Or did you cheat on your wife? I still stand that you and your wife don't love each other because your wife would have sought therapy knowing she is not someone that likes sex.
A married woman can not initiate for sex for 20 years and the husband has been the one doing it.
Can't you see something is wrong..
Go seek therapy...

Greatmec,

This is just so weird and fascinating. I really need popcorn for your thread.

Anyhoo, please start reading your YouVersion bible app daily. And then go to MFM Headquarters in Lagos for prayers. Sha know you go confess all your sins, because your heart must be clean for the Lord to be invited in.

(And you've definitely been cheating so... )

Lots of people have done this successfully.

Tenshades:


Consult herbal practitioners or spiritualists of your tribe.

I think this would solve this problem.
Only that I don't know how and where to locate credible herbal practitioners or spiritualists here at Aba - Abia state. Well thanks.

Onegai:
Greatmec,

This is just so weird and fascinating. I really need popcorn for your thread.

Anyhoo, please start reading your YouVersion bible app daily. And then go to MFM Headquarters in Lagos for prayers. Sha know you go confess all your sins, because your heart must be clean for the Lord to be invited in.

(And you've definitely been cheating so... )

Lots of people have done this successfully.

Hahahaha my story is weird and fascinating if you are reading or listening to it. Just that it's better you don't experience it, because if you do, I assure you that it will seize to be fascinating and become life-threatening.

Anyway Lagos is too far for me. I need solutions that could be found here at Aba or in Abia state or it's environs. Thanks.

Greatmec:


Hahahaha my story is weird and fascinating if you are reading or listening to it. Just that it's better you don't experience it, because if you do, I assure you that it will seize to be fascinating and become life-threatening.

Anyway Lagos is too far for me. I need solutions that could be found here at Aba or in Abia state or it's environs. Thanks.

Bro, enter night bus to MFM o.

I don't attend that church but when I went there, solutions started coming into my life. Infact, if I give you my story, you'll be at Ekene DiliChukwu park tonight. As I walked in, the Lord convicted me of my sin. I sat on the floor and wept.

The person that told me to go there, her friend went there and found solution

Please note that it's not the church alone. When my problem had issue, I went to Our Lady of Perpetual Help's altar with my kids and lit candles. Reprieve was given to us in an hour.

God needs to sometimes take you to places where you can hear Him and He can talk to you with sense.

Oya, open YouVersion app. Prepare your heart first.

Greatmec:


Hahahaha my story is weird and fascinating if you are reading or listening to it. Just that it's better you don't experience it, because if you do, I assure you that it will seize to be fascinating and become life-threatening.

Anyway Lagos is too far for me. I need solutions that could be found here at Aba or in Abia state or it's environs. Thanks.

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Hmm .. na WA o

Hmmmmm

*She doesn't like sexx
*You force her to do the do
*You don't get election with her except with enhancement but you're perfectly ok with others.
*You found one enhancer but you had to work with her timetable to use it.
*You read her the riot act about sex availability and suddenly after she had a talk with you regarding sustainable solution, the drug that has been working stopped working
*Now you are back to nothing working again.....hmm


Oga, I hope you've not been spending money on finding solutions....cos madam knows the solution o. Meanwhile, as you knew from start that she doesn't like sexxx, biko no stress her fa. As for your needs.....

It amazes me how men call women fish brain when they are.....

Greatmec:

This is an interesting question.
Yes I have used something similar to Viagra . It's called Re-vive from Kedi Healthcare, and the thing actually worked like magic.
I discovered this Re-vive like 2 years ago and we tried it. It worked very well. I was happy that I have found a solution of sorts at least for the mean time until I find a permanent solution. But being that all the cases of men that die in a hotel room after sex rump with a lady always has a sex enhancement pills at the background I was scared. Went to their office and they reassured me that the drug is not toxic. So I relaxed.
Problem started with my wife again. She has to agree for sex before I take the pills. She would only manage to agree once in a month or once in 2 months.
After so much discussion and problem over this issue I finally gave her a financial sanction as I can't be doing everything to make her happy and comfortable while she keeps withholding the one thing that would make me happy.
When the sanctions started bitting her she told me that these pills are not a permanent solution, what if it stopped working. I said it has always worked, let's keep using it till I find a permanent solution.
Curiously 2 days later she said - YES I should take the pills. I was happy and took it. But strangely the pills failed woefully like I didn't take anything. Ah ah I couldn't understand. Next 2 days I took it again, another total failure. She said I told you. Haba . Am now like we are back to square one. But these pills used to work na. I can't understand how all of a sudden it stopped working.
That's my story with sex enhancement drugs oh. What do you make of it ..

Sorry for what you've gone through so far.
However, Re-vive is quite different from Viagra.
It's a collective of herbal products with some sex enhancement properties, while Viagra is Sildenafil, an orthodox medication with a different and well established mechanism of action and proven efficacy.
I suggest you try it, even temporarily.
For one thing, i might end up proving that juju has no hand in this issue as is being alleged.

Greatmec:


You might be right or wrong. But please I want the emphasis to be more on finding solution to this problem rather than to pin down my wife on it.

She is not circumcised and she has not yet reached menopause.

However even before I married her I knew she had a low sex drive. I thought I could work on that and improve it but unfortunately it has gone the other way round. Now she has close to zero sex drive.

However please am looking for solution to my temporary impotence only before my wife. Thank you.

improving your wife's libido is as simple as getting her Evening Primrose Oil and telling her it's for glowing skin and hair (which it says on the package) but one of the after effects is that it vastly improves female libido. To settle your own part also is a small thing

sisisioge:
Hmmmmm

*She doesn't like sexx
*You force her to do the do
*You don't get election with her except with enhancement but you're perfectly ok with others.
*You found one enhancer but you had to work with her timetable to use it.
*You read her the riot act about sex availability and suddenly after she had a talk with you regarding sustainable solution, the drug that has been working stopped working
*Now you are back to nothing working again.....hmm


Oga, I hope you've not been spending money on finding solutions....cos madam knows the solution o. Meanwhile, as you knew from start that she doesn't like sexxx, biko no stress her fa. As for your needs.....

It amazes me how men call women fish brain when they are.....

I understand your insinuations.
However I can't seem to wrap it up.
Do you really think my wife could be responsible for this?
Does she have extra terrestrial powers to even stop a drug that was formally working from working?
My wife is a good Christian and I know her in and out. To the best of my knowledge she has nothing to do with diabolical things or powers.

So can you elaborate further why you think am an olodo in this case..

ChybuzzDD:


Sorry for what you've gone through so far.
However, Re-vive is quite different from Viagra.
It's a collective of herbal products with some sex enhancement properties, while Viagra is Sildenafil, an orthodox medication with a different and well established mechanism of action and proven efficacy.
I suggest you try it, even temporarily.
For one thing, i might end up proving that juju has no hand in this issue as is being alleged.

Thanks for your suggestion.
That Re-vive has been working almost perfectly well till of resent. And I am kind of comfortable with it since it doesn't seem to have any after effect.

I am close to 50 years. If I start using Viagra by now hmm what will now happen in my seventees. I don't know why that name Viagra scares me a lot ..

KillahPriest:
improving your wife's libido is as simple as getting her Evening Primrose Oil and telling her it's for glowing skin and hair (which it says on the package) but one of the after effects is that it vastly improves female libido. To settle your own part also is a small thing

Evening Primrose oil - well noted.

You said to settle my own part is a small thing - Biko tell me what to do na ..

Greatmec:


I understand your insinuations.
However I can't seem to wrap it up.
Do you really think my wife could be responsible for this?
Does she have extra terrestrial powers to even stop a drug that was formally working from working?
My wife is a good Christian and I know her in and out. To the best of my knowledge she has nothing to do with diabolical things or powers.

So can you elaborate further why you think am an olodo in this case..

Which extra terrestrial power? Over thinker!

She might have just replaced the meds with similar looking ones. Try to rule that out by getting a fresh batch and compare.

Two, she might have been feeding you low doses of something that lowers libido and suddenly increased it to counter the effect of those pills when they stoped working.

Me sef get wild imagination . I honestly don't think anything spiritual is involved....looks to me like a case of a woman doing something to undermine her partners libido since she wasn't interested.

Try something to see if my imagination is indeed wild....stay off food and drinks at home for a few days then try to do the do again with her. This will eliminate the suspicious of ingesting something unknowingly. It is well fa.

sisisioge:


Which extra terrestrial power? Over thinker!

She might have just replaced the meds with similar looking ones. Try to rule that out by getting a fresh batch and compare.

Two, she might have been feeding you low doses of something that lowers libido and suddenly increased it to counter the effect of those pills when they stoped working.

Me sef get wild imagination . I honestly don't think anything spiritual is involved....looks to me like a case of a woman doing something to undermine her partners libido since she wasn't interested.

Try something to see if my imagination is indeed wild....stay off food and drinks at home for a few days then try to do the do again with her. This will eliminate the suspicious of ingesting something unknowingly. It is well fa.

Haba your imaginations are quite wild. Seems you read James Hardly Chase a lot, hahahaha.

Anyway though your imaginations are wild but I got the drift. Not to rule out anything. I shall put these suggestions into consideration. Thanks dear.

Greatmec:


Please your colleague and inform me how he found a solution to his own case.

I will see him on Monday God's willing.

indoorlove:
I will see him on Monday God's willing.

Did you finally see your colleague yesterday Monday?
Was he able to inform you how he solved his own case which you said was similar to mine?
Please inform.

Greatmec:


You might be right or wrong. But please I want the emphasis to be more on finding solution to this problem rather than to pin down my wife on it.

She is not circumcised and she has not yet reached menopause.

However even before I married her I knew she had a low sex drive. I thought I could work on that and improve it but unfortunately it has gone the other way round. Now she has close to zero sex drive.

However please am looking for solution to my temporary impotence only before my wife. Thank you.

Marry another wife or get a reliable mistress. You have only one life to live, and you can't afford to live it in sorrow and fear. A woman with low libido will only get worse as she is aged.

If you don't want to take my advise, then continue in search of your solution.

Greatmec:


Did you finally see your colleague yesterday Monday?
Was he able to inform you how he solved his own case which you said was similar to mine?
Please inform.

This sounds like teso

Let me give you the yoruba herbal solution

ERO TESO
Eku asin, iseta, ikamudun, ewe oronbo, ao gun po mo ose ao lemo ogiri ao fi abere oporo gun larin ao ma fi we oko lalale,
Leyi na kolore sun ma iyawore, pelu ase oloun yio wole

Get the below
Eku asin,
iseta,
ikamudun
ose dudu
Abere oporo
Ewe oronbo

Pound the above together and mix with local black soap
Paste the soap on a wall

Insert the needle in the middle of the soap like you throw a dart on the dartboard
Leave the soap on the wall with the needle for ten days

Afterwhich you start washing your manhood with the soap every night before you meet your wife

By the special grace of ALMIGHTY GOD, you will achieve your aim

This man is hilarious. Nobody used a charm on you. Go and visit a sex therapist and solve your problems.

sisisioge:


Which extra terrestrial power? Over thinker!

She might have just replaced the meds with similar looking ones. Try to rule that out by getting a fresh batch and compare.

Two, she might have been feeding you low doses of something that lowers libido and suddenly increased it to counter the effect of those pills when they stoped working.

Me sef get wild imagination . I honestly don't think anything spiritual is involved....looks to me like a case of a woman doing something to undermine her partners libido since she wasn't interested.

Try something to see if my imagination is indeed wild....stay off food and drinks at home for a few days then try to do the do again with her. This will eliminate the suspicious of ingesting something unknowingly. It is well fa.

That his wife has no interest in his libido coming back. As he described, she's not interested in sexual stuff that much hence the reason she didn't raise alarm over it for 8 years. It's crazy!

It's nothing spiritual. The man should probably work more on his psyche, food, lifestyle, etc. Many things could be the cause of his problem.

ufy4success:


🤣😂 make I follow you laugh.

Na so we see am🤣😂 but truth dey hard to accept🤣😂

No lady will comfortably do charm on any married man for 8 years so he won't have an erection for his wife..
No lady will do charm on a married man to not have an erection for his wife for 8 years...
And he says his wife is not even bothered about the situation.
My two cent; Op seek therapy, there is no charm here. Or did you cheat on your wife? I still stand that you and your wife don't love each other because your wife would have sought therapy knowing she is not someone that likes sex.
A married woman can not initiate for sex for 20 years and the husband has been the one doing it.
Can't you see something is wrong..
Go seek therapy...

They were never compatible. And their sex life has never been awesome from his description of the details. It was like the they had a timetable for sex. They were never compatible. The man has cheated several times also. He can't deny it.

fbabs:



This sounds like teso

Let me give you the yoruba herbal solution

ERO TESO
Eku asin, iseta, ikamudun, ewe oronbo, ao gun po mo ose ao lemo ogiri ao fi abere oporo gun larin ao ma fi we oko lalale,
Leyi na kolore sun ma iyawore, pelu ase oloun yio wole

Get the below
Eku asin,
iseta,
ikamudun
ose dudu
Abere oporo
Ewe oronbo

Pound the above together and mix with local black soap
Paste the soap on a wall

Insert the needle in the middle of the soap like you throw a dart on the dartboard
Leave the soap on the wall with the needle for ten days

Afterwhich you start washing your manhood with the soap every night before you meet your wife

By the special grace of ALMIGHTY GOD, you will achieve your aim

Thank you so much for this.

I shall try to translate and gather these items to do exactly as you have informed here.

I hope to give a positive soon.

Greatmec:


Thank you so much for this.

I shall try to translate and gather these items to do exactly as you have informed here.

I hope to give a positive soon.

Do that suggestion sisi told you above first before anything. In fact, travel out of your home for like a week to allow all the effect of anything anti libido thing your wife might be putting in your food to go out of your system.

When you return, don't eat or drink at home. You can even come late well fed outside so that you just go straight to shower and start business with your wife.

Try that and see if there is a difference.

yemmit90:


Marry another wife or get a reliable mistress. You have only one life to live, and you can't afford to live it in sorrow and fear. A woman with low libido will only get worse as she is aged.

If you don't want to take my advise, then continue in search of your solution.

Your advise is actually practical.

Mistresses: For me to have survived this marriage this far it is thanks to mistresses (side chicks). Actually some side chicks have ensured the survival of a lot of marriages, ha ha ha. The problem is that initially most side chicks accept their position, respect your set boundaries and stay on their lane. But over time they want to carry your baby or become second wife. You leave her, get and groom another one, only for the scenario to start repeating itself. Over time I am kind of tired of all that.

Second wife: I am a product of polygamy. So I know the advantages and challenges involved in it. I want a stable home with one wife and many kids. However having and retaining my ideal home has been seriously jeopardized by my wife's attitude to sex or our incompatibility on that angle. However a sort of modernized polygamy is not ruled out. But even if a second wife enters into the picture somehow I still need to be able to get it up for my first wife.