NewStats: 3,262,804 , 8,178,200 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 03:57 PM 6n2w3a

delzbaba:
see this guy wey dey debase women on a steady, come dey talk like better person.

He doesn't debased them...they debased themselves due to greed

pansophist:


I did not say a woman should marry a man she does not find attractive, what I said is that attraction should not be where a woman (or a man) draws the line.

Lots of women aint attractive either, and men settle all the time. The average Nigerian woman is short, chubby or chunky, with disproportionate arse, and men marry them all the time. If men can settle, why not women?

I know so many girls in my high schol and even university days that looked like supermodels, but if you see them now, lets me just say that life has happened to them.

Imagine a man that marries such a woman because of attraction then, do you think such a relationship can be sustainable long term?

I like attractive women, but again, I am not blind to the fact that attraction ends in the physical. If I get blind today, I will need a good woman not an attractive one.

Also, most unattractive people can become attractive if they work on it. Most people can ''naturalise'' themselves into attraction If they loose weight, dress well, have a fitting hairstyle etc.

The chase for butterflies has kept lots of young people single.

@ attractive you are probably looking at it just from your own lens, Life doesnt work that way, ever heard

One man's poison is another man's food, that woman you call short n chubby is what some men tag as "SPEC "
You can only speak for yourself, you can't assume for me or any man

A relationship oblivious of attraction dont stand a chance, because attraction is what begat "likeness" that will push us to connect or know the person more

Attraction is like "jamb", you must 1st it even though there are other post jamb to scale before people finalize marriage

a Good woman is not enough just as attraction is not a enough, even love is not enough ... you need a " Fusion" and thats where compatability always comes in

I think i agree with your last paragraph that over time attraction can build But sey you see "attraction" is sancrosanct

About this DELIVERY LIKE HEBREW WOMEN..


But you are a Nigerian Woman.

God creates you the way He created Nigerians.

Why would you now come and want to deliver like the Hebrew women?
Are you created like them?

BluntCrazeMan:
About this DELIVERY LIKE HEBREW WOMEN..


But you are a Nigerian Woman.

God creates you the way He created Nigerians.

Why would you now come and want to deliver like the Hebrew women?
Are you created like them?

Hebrew women where virgins, married early, ate organic food, did not drink or smoke.


It’s like insisting your Toyota runs like a Lamborghini; they are both cars but not built, ran or maintained the same way.


A 19 year old would deliver without complications unlike a 30 year old woman.