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Failing To Marry A Woman You Deflowered Has Consequences, Pastor Olukoya Warns (23632 Views)

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GUNITGuy: 4:19am On Mar 24
Freka:
any consequence for the women who don’t marry the men they ‘deflower’?
Lol 😅
GUNITGuy: 4:25am On Mar 24
Gboom:
Most of you doubting him should know that he is talking about the consequences of what has happened to some people due to this error.
Mind you, Dr Olukoya is not talking to unbelievers but to believers who may fall into this kind of error and need forgiveness from God.
To those of you doubting, future will remind you later
They're people living their lives without issues but why does this thing applies to only poor christian men...
Prostitutes still progress too even get married to decent men, Elon musk has 4 baby mama's,
Life doesn't have a one fit all formula ...
Most of this are used to keep people from being wayward anyway

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Bluntemperor: 4:26am On Mar 24
Racoon:
Christianity! This is just religiosity because there are many cases out there in the world. However, many married and are having a happy married life, though am not an advocate of pre-marital sex or relationship.

Religion have truly been bastardised by these so called men of god. Meanwhile, why is this MFM only obsessed with devil and demon possession?

Go Rest ,Mr Man,as this is not your Politics of biased LP/ PDP arrangee tango!
You don't talk on what you are not competent on.
This is Spiritual matters,not Political issues that you take with an unserious ambivalence.
You can't understand,for only the deep call to the deep things of the Scripture.
Just rest!

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Dpaulie(m): 4:37am On Mar 24
Mrfeel:


Every female is born a virgin don't say they don't exist, my 18 year old daughter is a virgin
Baba Virgin, Dey play
I trust you married your wife a virgin too
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Chevrolet076(m): 4:49am On Mar 24
Dogalmighty17:
What did he just say? I have transversed the length and breadth of Nigeria. I have mounted different varieties of women. A virgin I have not found. As a corp member serving in a secondary school in Ota, a 13 year old girl was writing me love letter. She later had to drop out from school because she got pregnant for an elderly man and tried aborting it with serious complications resulting.

So where are these virgins Olukoya is talking about? They don't exist. Not to men of my generation.

Needless to say, I don't buy the crap Olukoya is saying. A man will face consequences for disvirgining a woman and not marry her. But what does a woman who collects money from a man constantly without marrying him face?

Let's take this further. If we are to go with the level of strictness the Bible regards this matter, any marriage that the man meets the woman and she is not a virgin, that marriage is of no effect provided of course that the woman is not a widow. But this is a conversation the church isn't ready to have.

A woman who is not a virgin should have no expectation of marriage. She is a who(r)e as far the Bible is concerned. If we want to follow the Bible, let's follow all of it or none of it.

*****#####Word*****

All of it or None of it. No cherry picking. You've said it all my brother. God bless you immensely
APOPTOSIS: 4:55am On Mar 24
Nnamdipapa:
RUBBISH!

You have to be extremely stupid to listen to this fluke.
Honestly
It sounds unprofessional and crazy.
How people sit down to listen to trash in churches and gatherings without pondering & questioning the authenticity and validity of such trash remain a puzzle to me
I will show that Pastor 1 million "perceived idiots" who don't go to church and are not even Christians that God has blessed tremendously.
VaginaAcademic: 5:22am On Mar 24
Another format done show grin
mrksquare: 5:29am On Mar 24
Story story
Nnamdipapa(m): 5:30am On Mar 24
APOPTOSIS:

Honestly
It sounds unprofessional and crazy.
How people sit down to listen to trash in churches and gatherings without pondering & questioning the authenticity and validity of such trash remain a puzzle to me
I will show that Pastor 1 million "perceived idiots" who don't go to church and are not even Christians that God has blessed tremendously.

To think this dofus has a Ph.D. in Microbiology. people like him are a part of the mental rot in that country

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Hellisreal70: 5:44am On Mar 24
Racoon:
Abeg where this epistle dey for the holy Bible?

Deuteronomy 22:28-29

If you are not married you don't have any business sleeping together with a lady. That's fornication, you are to have sex alone when you are married and it must be with your wife.

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sharpwriter(m): 5:53am On Mar 24
Bookhub:
What are the consequences na what if she is the one that left you,Africans and over religiosity,ever since I stopped going to all these churches I get peace of mind
Peace of mind is the goal bro 💯☑️

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Jerchance: 5:55am On Mar 24
Does this happen only in Africa or all over the world? I'm just wondering....
Teymanhenry(f): 5:56am On Mar 24
Lies lies lies. Sexual activity is part and parcel of life and there is a first time for everything. Why do these religious people place so much emphasis on sex as if it is something strange or out of the norm? That emphasis or too much thought about it makes it their greatest undoing
CJStarz: 6:00am On Mar 24
Racoon:
Abeg where this epistle dey for the holy Bible?
The Bible says, they teach as Commandments the Doctr8of men.
So, don't be surprised
planetx: 6:02am On Mar 24
I have never disvirgined a girl before, so that means all the girls wey I don knack and them plenty, the men that disvirgined them are in serious wahala. Even the one that disvirgined my wife that one na extra serious wahala.

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Flexyup: 6:08am On Mar 24
Racoon:
Abeg where this epistle dey for the holy Bible?

Do they have to tell you not to go about deflowering young women?? Even though we might have been involved but you acknowledge your mistake with a contrite heart. Instead of looking for where the bible stated it. It is morally wrong, especially when you have a living conscience.

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elmodee7(m): 6:09am On Mar 24
Story, are you telling me that a rapist must marry the girl he raped . Jokers, did you marry the girl you disvirgined?

Guestmale: 6:10am On Mar 24
immortalcrown:
[sub][/sub]Meaning that deflowering a girl who is not demonic brings positive effects?

All I have to say now is that premarital sex is a sin and every sin has a consequence. I am guilty of premarital sex but I it that it is a sin.

It's good you it it but don't stop there take a step forward confess it to the Lord Jesus ask for His forgiveness surrender your life to Him and make Him your personal Lord and saviour

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APOPTOSIS: 6:10am On Mar 24
Nnamdipapa:


To think this dofus has a Ph.D. in Microbiology. people like him are a part of the mental rot in that country
Honestly.
It's so pathetic.
I weep each time I see scientists and academic juggernauts make unscientific, baseless and unfounded remarks in the name of Religion. Yet these Religious leaders can't answer simple questions like " What Religion is God"
IF God is not a Christian then what will devaint Christians be doing in hell?
Then if God is a Christian that means "Religion is higher than God"
How can a Religion be higher than the God it was originally created to adore
People are born into tribes and not the other way round.
People can't think for themselves again.
Agbegbaorogboye: 6:12am On Mar 24
This is pure superstition with no biblical basis
All these talk of spiritual side to sex is just superstition
Sex is sex
God that instituted sex did not classify it as demonic or non-demonic
Sex is a moral question throughout the bible and not any spiritual bandage or covenant
Anyone that believes this is just a believer in superstition
APOPTOSIS: 6:13am On Mar 24
planetx:
I have never disvirgined a girl before, so that means all the girls wey I don knack and them plenty, the men that disvirgined them are in serious wahala. Even the one that disvirgined my wife that one na extra serious wahala.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Honestly they keep disappointing me. The worst being that most of them are university graduates
oyeb15: 6:16am On Mar 24
Jokers

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albahafs: 6:16am On Mar 24
Please, why is Christianity a religion that s Alcohol use, Pr0sti2tion, adultery and fornication?
You hardly ever hear any christian talks against these sins, infact, they attack you for talking against these animalistic behaviors.
APOPTOSIS: 6:16am On Mar 24
Agbegbaorogboye:
This is pure superstition with no biblical basis
All these talk of spiritual side to sex is just superstition
Sex is sex
God that instituted sex did not classify it as demonic or non-demonic
Sex is a moral question throughout the bible and not any spiritual bandage or covenant
Anyone that believes this is just a believer in superstition
Bible was completely written by humans.
GOD has no iota of hand or imprinting in the Bible. No evidence s that.
If you say God wrote the Bible, then who wrote Quran, who wrote Hindu books?🤣
There are several communities of this world who don't base their logics on the Bible yet they prosper far more than Nigeria. In fact, such communities experience miracles too.

Then your last 4 sentences are perfect.👌🏾👌🏾
sharpwriter(m): 6:19am On Mar 24
Feldie:
Shut up your mouth there. The only thing that concerns you people is sex and seed and tithes. What good have you done to the society? You make millions every month, how many people have you provided with free Healthcare or water or electricity?
If you search for this man on YouTube, you will see how he's been arresting people up and down for trivial and sometimes unproven cases. Very very wicked man angry
Social media is really fighting their empire and exposing them.
Guestmale: 6:22am On Mar 24
elmodee7:
Story, are you telling me that a rapist must marry the girl he raped . Jokers, did you marry the girl you disvirgined?

That's a multiple sins and every sin has consequences (physical and spiritual) therefore such person need to confess his sins to the Lord Jesus and ask for His forgiveness and make Him his personal Lord and Saviour, then go and do restitution to the girl or lady he raped if he can find her.

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LilX2: 6:24am On Mar 24
Tightpussy2024:
First pastor to preach to men


Off course this thread will not reach 3 pages.

He will lose a lot of offering and tithes this month

If you want to make money as a pastor,preach polygamy and reference patriarchs live David, Solomon and your church will flock.


Men that are usually atheistic/agnostic by default will come to church.



Ended up with typing nonsense! Anything to boost your ego 😂
planetx: 6:25am On Mar 24
jayAjoku:
smelling lies , grin grin grin grin how come these consequences are only for africans especially nigerians, these men have used lamba to deceive people.
All this religious mumbo-jumbo seems not to apply to oyinbos especially the whole tithing thing only Africans. Europeans that have turned most of their churches to nightclubs, museums and hotels.

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cedricksly: 6:27am On Mar 24
Racoon:


https://thenationonlineng.net/failing-to-marry-a-woman-you-deflowered-has-consequences-pastor-olukoya-warns/
all these yeye Pastors alway confusing morality with Christianity is always very funny.. So if both the guy and girl him deflow na AS AS, both of them will marry still. Ozuor man
Agbegbaorogboye: 6:27am On Mar 24
APOPTOSIS:

Bible was completely written by humans.
GOD has no iota of hand or imprinting in the Bible. No evidence s that.
If you say God wrote the Bible, then who wrote Quran, who wrote Hindu books?🤣
There are several communities of this world who don't base their logics on the Bible yet they prosper far more than Nigeria. In fact, such communities experience miracles too.

Then your last 4 sentences are perfect.👌🏾👌🏾
That the bible was written by humans does not make it less of a sacred scripture
I don't know whether you expected God to have written it himself to give it a seal of authenticity
Till today, God speaks through people he does not speak by himself

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tete7000(m): 6:29am On Mar 24
And if it wasn't with a virgin, there is no consequence for premarital and extra marital sex?

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