NewStats: 3,262,804 , 8,178,200 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 03:58 PM 4m1q3l

Tightpussy2024:

Why can't you people be begging men to take care of their children the way you are begging asake to take care of his father?

If a woman comes to cry online about her baby daddy not providing money for the baby,your response will be "why did you open your legs"

Were you there to know he didn't cater for him?
Mind you, there so many deadbeat fathers around especially those one that are polygamist that cannot meet their family need and still went on to marry more wives they cannot take care of

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Omo you get send die

ufotunang:
.. according to the video..the father abandoned Asake when he was a teenager ..did not care for him when he was a teenager

But he still cared for him till when he reached teenage age what if he wasn't even there for him from his cradle?how much asake go even spend for him papa wey go affect his source of income?the useless whores he lavishes money on how were they there for him?his mum that left him when he was little nko?
Their is no excuse he can give for abandoning his dad even those not half as rich as asake that their parents abandon them still later cared for their parents when they were of age

Whoever advised the man to come online misled him big time. Is it to give him bad image or what? There are better ways to connect to his son

Karleb:
You can't be a deadbeat and expect to reap where you did not sow.

According to what I saw on Instagram, the dad wasn't a deadbeat, it was Asake mother that influenced him badly against his dad, you know how most women can be?

Trending121:


Me sef I weak. With all that money you no fit help your papa ?

He might not be aware of the situation as the video implied, the man abandoned them and there may not be in speaking or . Neway, Asake, if you dey read this. I no say e no say to forgive man wey never believed in you however, look all around you and see faithfulness. You are are doing well irrespective. That same God also want you to do forgive and try help the man, maybe you were raised for a time as this. No matter what, na still your papa, forget Bleep up. God will help you....


my 2 cents

Gboom:

Were you there to know he didn't cater for him?
Mind you, there so many deadbeat fathers around especially those one that are polygamist that cannot meet their family need and still went on to marry more wives they cannot take care of

Okay let's pretend that it was poverty that was his issue (even though we know it is a case of abandonment). Was his mother rich enough to care for him? Why is he helping her?

Things are changing.you guys should better smell the coffee.

For alot of your men walking out on pregnancies and children with the hope that "my child will look for me in future",keep it up

Factcheck0001:
don't b an idiot, go to twitter n see how people dropped evidence that this good man singlehandedly raised Asake as a single father

U people just write rubbish for likes

Interesting. I'm curious to know where it all went wrong.

Mirasteel:
According to what I saw on Instagram, the dad wasn't a deadbeat, it was Asake mother that influenced him badly against his dad, you know how most women can be?

This narrative that you guys have. You think a full grown human can not think for himself?

Why be say na only asake no care for him papa? Why didn't Burna Boy and co neglect their fathers?

You judge a case like this with insta pictures?

Ok o.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

well I really can't say what must have happened, some women raised kids against their fathers owing to one sin or the other,nonetheless you don't pay evil for evil.

The narrative that society unfairly condemns single mothers while forgiving deadbeat fathers is a complex issue. While it's true that single mothers often face significant challenges and stigma, it's essential to acknowledge that:

1. ability is not condemnation: Holding individuals able for their actions, including deadbeat fathers, is not the same as condemning them. It's about recognizing the impact of their actions on others, particularly their children.
2. ing single mothers: Many organizations, communities, and individuals work tirelessly to single mothers, providing resources, emotional , and advocacy.
3. Breaking cycles of abandonment: Encouraging responsible parenting and ing single mothers can help break cycles of abandonment and promote healthier family dynamics.
4. Shared responsibility: Raising children is a shared responsibility between both parents, and it's essential to recognize the importance of both parents' involvement in their children's lives.

Regarding the statement about not forcing children to take care of their fathers who abandoned them, it's essential to acknowledge that:

1. Children's emotional well-being: Children often experience emotional trauma and attachment issues when abandoned by a parent. It's crucial to prioritize their emotional well-being and provide .
2. Reconciliation and healing: In some cases, reconciliation and healing are possible between children and their estranged parents. However, this process should be facilitated with care, respect, and prioritization of the child's emotional well-being.

In conclusion, while it's essential to acknowledge the challenges faced by single mothers, it's equally important to recognize the complexity of the issue and the need for a nuanced approach that promotes ability, , and shared responsibility.

Tightpussy2024:

Will you maintain this energy when a single mom comes to complain that the father doesn't contribute? Or you will say "why did you open your legs?"

You people have forgiveness for deadbeats but for single mum condemn them a fate of perpetual suffering, scorn and singlehood.

The way you can't force a man to take care of a child he wasn't ready for,or force a man to raise another man kids(step dad) ,should also be the way you shouldn't force kids to take care of their fathers that abandoned them

Tightpussy2024:

Will you maintain this energy when a single mom comes to complain that the father doesn't contribute? Or you will say "why did you open your legs?"

You people have forgiveness for deadbeats but for single mum condemn them a fate of perpetual suffering, scorn and singlehood.

The way you can't force a man to take care of a child he wasn't ready for,or force a man to raise another man kids(step dad) ,should also be the way you shouldn't force kids to take care of their fathers that abandoned them

I see how most men especially the elderly ones always want deadbeat dads to be forgiven. They don't want any form of justice for the actions these sane men took in their right senses.

If a certain autistic fellow could raise a doctor then deadbeats have no excuse whatsoever.

I this kind of neglect. By the time like 1000 deadbeats die a slow and steady preventable death, their colleagues will sit up.

RPG2020:
Now, ain't nobody tell us it was fair
No love for my daddy, 'cause the coward wasn't there
He ed away and I didn't cry
'Cause my anger wouldn't let me feel for a stranger
They say I'm wrong and I'm heartless, but all along
I was lookin' for a father, he was gone
I hung around with the thugs, and even though they sold drugs
They showed a young brother love 😘

They lyrics no longer makes sense, cos we later found out 2pac's father is still alive. His mother lied to him that his father ed away cos she didn't want him to have anything to do with his father.

bea1234567:


are you just realizing how stupeed nijerians are..

So quick to degenerate Nigerians. Tupac and lots of other Western figures did same. You sound like a typical irresponsible father looking to harvest where others have laboured..

Don't get involve in family business

kay29000:


They lyrics no longer makes sense, cos we later found out 2pac's father is still alive. His mother lied to him that his father ed away cos she didn't want him to have anything to do with his father.

Karleb:


Oma K ku ni.

K

Well things dey happen we need to listen to the other story of the guy

God bless you for this...being a father is not just to f**k and bring pikin to this world...play ur fatherly role and be a responsible husband to your wife if you are married...ire oo

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

And Asake is from that tribe that claims that Igbo children wake their parents with bicycle kick.

Which kind of bicycle kick this one?

It's written all over the father that he was a deadbeat but then, Asake wasn't supposed to act that way

You get to a certain point in life where you have to let go of whatever grudges you might be holding against those who were never there for you when the tides were high

Pojomojo:
The narrative that society unfairly condemns single mothers while forgiving deadbeat fathers is a complex issue. While it's true that single mothers often face significant challenges and stigma, it's essential to acknowledge that:

1. ability is not condemnation: Holding individuals able for their actions, including deadbeat fathers, is not the same as condemning them. It's about recognizing the impact of their actions on others, particularly their children.
2. ing single mothers: Many organizations, communities, and individuals work tirelessly to single mothers, providing resources, emotional , and advocacy.
3. Breaking cycles of abandonment: Encouraging responsible parenting and ing single mothers can help break cycles of abandonment and promote healthier family dynamics.
4. Shared responsibility: Raising children is a shared responsibility between both parents, and it's essential to recognize the importance of both parents' involvement in their children's lives.

Regarding the statement about not forcing children to take care of their fathers who abandoned them, it's essential to acknowledge that:

1. Children's emotional well-being: Children often experience emotional trauma and attachment issues when abandoned by a parent. It's crucial to prioritize their emotional well-being and provide .
2. Reconciliation and healing: In some cases, reconciliation and healing are possible between children and their estranged parents. However, this process should be facilitated with care, respect, and prioritization of the child's emotional well-being.

In conclusion, while it's essential to acknowledge the challenges faced by single mothers, it's equally important to recognize the complexity of the issue and the need for a nuanced approach that promotes ability, , and shared responsibility.

More like an AI generated response to obfuscate and deny the fact that deadbeats are sacred cows in Africa.
Let's pretend what single moms face is ability and not condemnation.tell me,when will deadbeats be held "able" just like single moms?

Also which does society or foundations give single moms? Don't mistake widows for single moms

Trending121:


Me sef I weak. With all that money you no fit help your papa ?

A man is 80% what his biological son is.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

May Almighty continue to enrich your wisdom with which you analyzed and give the golden advice.

taiwolomo1:
Well, no one should judge Asake until we hear his own side of the story. I listened to an interview whre someone was talking bout asakae that he suffered throughout is school life. He had no accommodation. If this man had been responsible, how will he not have accommodation of all things oh!

If his biological had abandoned him before and now that the man is been seriously sick, what is there for Asake to help the man who brought him to the world. What will be his gain if his dad kick the bucket without proper care. God has made him. If Asake can't forgive his dad, only God knows how he will forgive those that hide food from him in his university days.

Tightpussy2024:

Okay let's pretend that it was poverty that was his issue (even though we know it is a case of abandonment). Was his mother rich enough to care for him? Why is he helping her?

Things are changing.you guys should better smell the coffee.

For alot of your men walking out on pregnancies and children with the hope that "my child will look for me in future",keep it up

In as much I don't want to be Asake father's advocate, I think Asake needs to stop this shame because people are watching, and future is waiting. Majority of these so-called polygamists are in the same shoes as Asake father. I know 2 people that their fathers ran away when they were small because of inability to play fatherly role but they are made today

gaskiyamagana:

May Almighty continue to enrich your wisdom with which you analyzed and give the golden advice.

Amin. Nagode. 🙏🏾

taiwolomo1:
Well, no one should judge Asake until we hear his own side of the story. I listened to an interview whre someone was talking bout asakae that he suffered throughout is school life. He had no accommodation. If this man had been responsible, how will he not have accommodation of all things oh!

If that’s is Asake’s father,am so ashamed of him.People help strangers that hasn’t contributed a dime to their life talk less of your FATHER. If am his friend I won’t be able associate with him in public.
,it is always fathers that are majorly accused of abandoning their children.Even if he is there 60 percent of the time.Mohbad value is mother more than the father who was there 100 percent of his life
AM ASHAMED OF ASAKE.
Your biological father
I still can’t believe it

Trending121:
Jesus Christ ! This one weak me

Cc : Nlfpmod

E weak you bah,

Like say you dey show your own papa love....

Some men think when they give their ex child , it's the ex who eats it so no need for it, forgetting that their kids, male or females suffer as well.

Children try to figure out if their fathers love their mums whether or not it was IN marriage.

Good to be responsible.. ... God bless all our responsible parents.

zombieHUNTER:


open your mouth

Dumb fellow?

Xisnin:

You need to take your own advice and think before typing.

What bring about a stranger woman here?

Have you ever paid a strange driver for taking you to your destination?
How about paying a strange plumber who fixes your pipes?
Or paying a strange company to watch some video?

Or do you rant to them that since they are strangers and didn't build with
you, they don't deserve anything from you?

There are even people who are sponsoring the education of people they
have never met before.

I don't know Asake's relationships but if he were to have an arrangement
with someone where he agrees to help them grow, I don't see how that
is anybody's problem even if they do nothing in return. After all, it is his money.

As to the father, he is obviously useless to him, hence the abandonment.
He is no special than a random sperm donor.

They both contribute biological material to the child but nothing more after that.
There is this sickening belief by deadbeat father that the child must ask and
search for them when fully grown but that appears to not be true anymore.

If you must reply, make sure you logically explain why a sperm donor deserve special treatment
from the offspring?

We’re you there when he donated the sperm.Even a sperm donor will get better treatment.